Vega100:
no bro... far from it... u rarely hear parents discussing that with their son whether his bride is virgin or not, no one does that.

samtinx:
I believe in all the paternity and the "DNA saga, that men have been falling victims to,off lately have never come from marrying a virgin.

RisenPhoenix:


Lol. After pointing out that Tokunbo is not as good as new, you come advertise your Tokunbo TVs, ACs and soundsystems. Oga you be bad marketer o.

Lamanii22:
Can we say that "virginity" is an added factor coupled with good character...

fullblast:
̷M̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷i̷̷a̷̷g̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷b̷̷o̷̷u̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷r̷̷i̷̷s̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷n̷̷a̷̷g̷̷e̷̷m̷̷e̷̷n̷̷t̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷A̷̷r̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷o̷̷o̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷r̷̷i̷̷s̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷n̷̷a̷̷g̷̷e̷̷r̷̷?̷̷
̷̷T̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷o̷̷u̷̷l̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷p̷̷m̷̷o̷̷s̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷r̷̷e̷̷q̷̷u̷̷i̷̷r̷̷e̷̷m̷̷e̷̷n̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷e̷̷l̷̷v̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷u̷̷c̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷e̷̷r̷̷i̷̷o̷̷u̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷U̷̷n̷̷i̷̷o̷̷n̷̷.̷̷
̷̷V̷̷i̷̷r̷̷g̷̷i̷̷n̷̷i̷̷t̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷o̷̷t̷̷h̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷t̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷t̷̷.̷̷
̷̷J̷̷u̷̷s̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷i̷̷k̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷p̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷I̷̷'̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷o̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷r̷̷o̷̷m̷̷o̷̷t̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷r̷̷o̷̷m̷̷i̷̷s̷̷c̷̷u̷̷i̷̷t̷̷y̷̷.̷̷
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̷̷W̷̷a̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷a̷̷c̷̷k̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷c̷̷h̷̷o̷̷o̷̷l̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷I̷̷ ̷̷k̷̷n̷̷o̷̷w̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷a̷̷d̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷h̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷k̷̷e̷̷p̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷v̷̷i̷̷r̷̷g̷̷i̷̷n̷̷i̷̷t̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷u̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷o̷̷v̷̷e̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷a̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷3̷̷x̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷6̷̷9̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷o̷̷s̷̷i̷̷t̷̷i̷̷o̷̷n̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷I̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷n̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷V̷̷e̷̷e̷̷?̷̷ ̷̷L̷̷o̷̷l̷̷!̷̷ ̷̷B̷̷u̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷S̷̷h̷̷e̷̷'̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷i̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷o̷̷w̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷A̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷e̷̷a̷̷s̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷I̷̷ ̷̷k̷̷n̷̷o̷̷w̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷o̷̷m̷̷e̷̷t̷̷h̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷u̷̷s̷̷b̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷e̷̷v̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷k̷̷n̷̷o̷̷w̷̷.̷̷
̷̷I̷̷ ̷̷j̷̷u̷̷s̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷i̷̷t̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷o̷̷s̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷v̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷e̷̷t̷̷i̷̷s̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷V̷̷e̷̷e̷̷s̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷Y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷a̷̷n̷̷'̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷e̷̷r̷̷t̷̷a̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷t̷̷'̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷e̷̷s̷̷t̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷n̷̷t̷̷e̷̷s̷̷t̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷O̷̷k̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷L̷̷o̷̷l̷̷!̷̷
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̷̷E̷̷x̷̷p̷̷e̷̷r̷̷i̷̷e̷̷n̷̷c̷̷e̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷a̷̷y̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷s̷̷t̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷M̷̷o̷̷s̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷u̷̷t̷̷g̷̷o̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷a̷̷d̷̷i̷̷e̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷p̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷y̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷s̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷u̷̷s̷̷b̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷t̷̷e̷̷r̷̷i̷̷a̷̷l̷̷s̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷R̷̷e̷̷m̷̷e̷̷m̷̷b̷̷e̷̷r̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷I̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷i̷̷d̷̷n̷̷'̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷a̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷A̷̷L̷̷L̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷m̷̷.̷̷
̷̷
̷̷M̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷d̷̷v̷̷i̷̷c̷̷e̷̷:̷̷ ̷̷B̷̷u̷̷i̷̷l̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷p̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷r̷̷s̷̷e̷̷l̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷r̷̷a̷̷m̷̷i̷̷f̷̷i̷̷c̷̷a̷̷t̷̷i̷̷o̷̷n̷̷s̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷D̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷o̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷t̷̷i̷̷c̷̷k̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷o̷̷u̷̷t̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷n̷̷l̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷c̷̷a̷̷u̷̷s̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷i̷̷f̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷j̷̷i̷̷g̷̷-̷̷s̷̷a̷̷w̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷u̷̷z̷̷z̷̷l̷̷e̷̷.̷̷
̷̷P̷̷r̷̷o̷̷v̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷o̷̷s̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷(̷̷D̷̷O̷̷ ̷̷I̷̷T̷̷ ̷̷Y̷̷O̷̷U̷̷R̷̷S̷̷E̷̷L̷̷F̷̷)̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷T̷̷h̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷a̷̷r̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷i̷̷r̷̷s̷̷t̷̷h̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷x̷̷p̷̷e̷̷r̷̷i̷̷e̷̷n̷̷c̷̷e̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷H̷̷e̷̷n̷̷c̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷c̷̷o̷̷m̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷t̷̷t̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷r̷̷i̷̷s̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷M̷̷a̷̷n̷̷a̷̷g̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷E̷̷A̷̷S̷̷I̷̷L̷̷Y̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷v̷̷e̷̷r̷̷c̷̷o̷̷m̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷w̷̷i̷̷s̷̷t̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷n̷̷d̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷i̷̷f̷̷e̷̷.̷

ALABACONNECT:
Thing is Nigerians don't read. I said you can choose to get both and tell the difference. Well, I sell both

SoNature:


You are right

While it is a good thing to marry a virgin, it's a disaster marrying a circumcised irgin. Those ones never enjoy it... never...

Of course, she has never done it before, and she's waiting for Mr. Right to be first guy.

Sure, you will never enjoy sex with her. If you are a guy who enjoys sex, you are so finished. Funnily enough, there are many girls who are like that out there.

olinx:
how many ladies are virgin in this present age sef

samtinx:
But you are rest assured that the seed, she brings into your house is your own, not the seed of a handsome, broke ex

SoNature:


My point is that they both have pros and cons.

BTW, who says a virgin cannot cheat?

Note that every girl is a virgin for a reason... it's now left for you to find out why. The same goes for a non-virgin

For me, I prefer a non-virgin anytime, any day

Vega100:
Disclaimer This thread does not in anyway encourage promiscuity nor does it propergate indecency but rather it underscores some real facts for young ladies to be aware and more mindful of what's ahead.

So a very close friend of mine I happen to know very well married as a virgin, this was about 11 years ago. After about a year of blissful marriage, her marriage turned hell in the ensuing years that followed, she never opened up to me until last week when she did; she is blessed with kids, but her husband has been giving her hell in the marriage, abuses her, both physically, mentally and emotionally, carries various young girls and flaunts them to her face. She is about calling it quite. This is a girl I know very well as we grew up together, and I can vouch for her on many fronts, one thing I know about her is how genuine, cool headed and humble she is, she's someone meek at heart, I am sure she wouldn't create problems for her husband in a home, she was just unfortunate falling into the wrong hands

I also happen to come from a large family with 5 sisters (all married), from all my sisters, the one with the best marriage is the one that lived more of a party life style in school, attended many parties etc, and the one with the worse marriage was the one that married a virgin (actually, she has the kind of personality I wouldn't be surprised might cause problem for her , her husband and husband relatives, as she could be selfish).

My point is, for the Ladies, being chaste and maintaining high morals is something any parent will be proud about and will long for their child to uphold; but do not see that as all you need to portray yourself as suitable enough "wife material". Marriage is something very dynamic and complex, it entails a lot, and has to do with both you working on various facets of your life (of which sexuality is just one) as well as being able to choose an appropriate partner for yourself.

Do not see being a Virgin as the price you have to uphold for your husband, as it doesn't in anyway guarantee a good or perfect marriage (far from it), it is rather more dependent or perhaps a fine and infallible blend of various facets of your life viz a viz personality, charisma, behaviour, sensibility etc. as well as your keen sagaciousness in choosing an appropriate partner who is sensible and will be very well compatible with you..

Just a food for thought sageful minds can ruminate and mull over!!

Thank you very much for your time.

Yours truly

Vega100

Vega100:
Disclaimer
Do not see being a Virgin as the price you have to uphold for your husband, as it doesn't in anyway guarantee a good or perfect marriage (far from it), it is rather more dependent or perhaps a fine and infallible blend of various facets of your life viz a viz personality, charisma, behaviour, sensibility etc. as well as your keen sagaciousness in choosing an appropriate partner who is sensible and will be very well compatible with you..

kellyjc:
For me I can't keep my virginity and marry a non virgin.and besides if you think that virginity is not important in marriage then you are lying.most of the problem we have in marriage today is infidelity.so tell me how one could his or her virginity till marriage and start cheating after marriage.

How old are you?

NextD18:

Bruv, a virgin lady is a virgin because she's decent and morally well trained enough to avoid immoral and premarital sex.

RisenPhoenix:


The implication is obvious. Who doesn't know that the difference between new and Tokunbo is not in favour of Tokunbo?

SoNature:


I have always believed that, but this is FALSE

I have seen an online poll asking girls why they were still virgins.

Their responses were shocking, to say the least

I hope to see it and share it with you

olinx:
how many ladies are virgin in this present age sef

Vega100:
Disclaimer This thread does not in anyway encourage promiscuity nor does it propergate indecency but rather it underscores some real facts for young ladies to be aware and more mindful of what's ahead.

So a very close friend of mine I happen to know very well married as a virgin, this was about 11 years ago. After about a year of blissful marriage, her marriage turned hell in the ensuing years that followed, she never opened up to me until last week when she did; she is blessed with kids, but her husband has been giving her hell in the marriage, abuses her, both physically, mentally and emotionally, carries various young girls and flaunts them to her face. She is about calling it quite. This is a girl I know very well as we grew up together, and I can vouch for her on many fronts, one thing I know about her is how genuine, cool headed and humble she is, she's someone meek at heart, I am sure she wouldn't create problems for her husband in a home, she was just unfortunate falling into the wrong hands

I also happen to come from a large family with 5 sisters (all married), from all my sisters, the one with the best marriage is the one that lived more of a party life style in school, attended many parties etc, and the one with the worse marriage was the one that married a virgin (actually, she has the kind of personality I wouldn't be surprised might cause problem for her , her husband and husband relatives, as she could be selfish).

My point is, for the Ladies, being chaste and maintaining high morals is something any parent will be proud about and will long for their child to uphold; but do not see that as all you need to portray yourself as suitable enough "wife material". Marriage is something very dynamic and complex, it entails a lot, and has to do with both you working on various facets of your life (of which sexuality is just one) as well as being able to choose an appropriate partner for yourself.

Do not see being a Virgin as the price you have to uphold for your husband, as it doesn't in anyway guarantee a good or perfect marriage (far from it), it is rather more dependent or perhaps a fine and infallible blend of various facets of your life viz a viz personality, charisma, behaviour, sensibility etc. as well as your keen sagaciousness in choosing an appropriate partner who is sensible and will be very well compatible with you..

Just a food for thought sageful minds can ruminate and mull over!!

Thank you very much for your time.

Yours truly

Vega100

Onlyonebuhari:


You aren't a Muslim that's why you are talking like this. Muslim women know the punishment for adultery is hell fire so they keep their chastity except a non religious ones. Am in love with two sisters and they are both virgins.

ALABACONNECT:
then it's obvious that you have not directly or indirectly run a purchase on electronics. Many new electronics using television as an example are actually China made and packaged in Nigeria. Oh, I failed to mention that it would be nice of you to favor new spare parts. E go shock you

This is just a conversation and I actually respect that.

I sell UK used electronics. Just a reminder

Korllami007:


I would rather marry virgin with wahala and enjoy my tight pussy than marry a community sperm depot with wahala.

It's a food for thought.

SoNature:


My point is that they both have pros and cons.

BTW, who says a virgin cannot cheat?

Note that every girl is a virgin for a reason... it's now left for you to find out why. The same goes for a non-virgin

For me, I prefer a non-virgin anytime, any day

NextD18:

List any two of their responses.

Korllami007:


Likewise marrying a non virgin girl does not guarantee successful marriage. I no fit carry ocean keep for house and the same ocean will have strong waves that can wreck big ships because I cannot come and go and kill myself.
If you marry a non virgin girl with good character, that's your luck. If I marry a virgin girl with good character, that's my double lucks.