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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by kenrish2(m): 10:38pm On Mar 18, 2020

Lawgod247:
Well, in matters like this, I usually don't fail to say my mind without fear nor favor. Now, without mincing words and without any atom of partiality, I wish to contribute in a way that no one will feel that I am being too emotional about this topics. The truth is that I have completely forgotten what I wanted to say. Anyways, for CAC Company or Business Name registration, Foundation, Schools, Church, NGO, Trademark, TIN, SCUMI, NAFDAC number etc, talk to us at www. Lawlab. Com. ng. Thank you.

I undastand

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by newdawn77(m): 10:41pm On Mar 18, 2020

Nawa, jealousy.

Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Nobody: 10:41pm On Mar 18, 2020

miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

Don't tell me this lady you so crave her attention works at Wema bank, Abuja ?

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Osesedney: 10:42pm On Mar 18, 2020

What makes a man matured is the ability to know what he wants and be able to stand by his words, discipline and focus., if you like undermine the girl u are with right now for someone who wants you only because another person has you.....
I smell pity around you if u play into her hand...

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by jimcaddy(m): 10:43pm On Mar 18, 2020

It is her that doesn't know what she wants.

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Sluacoast(m): 10:43pm On Mar 18, 2020

byrron:
Betting with her was very childish and as a matured mind which I presume you are, all you need to start doing henceforth is to be very diplomatic with her and keep everything that has to do with her on a very professional level.

Your love life should be your private business and henceforth, keep it away from the office.

Do not argue with her on anything rather keep it strictly professional and keep your space and now know your boundaries and eventually she will recognize that the days of playing is over and it is time for everyone to respect their various old age and move on with their private lives while still maintaining a professional relationship.

More knowledge to that your brain. Well script. Op, ensure you're able to pick one or two things from this comment. We need more people like this on these platform.

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by darediamond(m): 10:44pm On Mar 18, 2020

Lawgod247:
Well, in matters like this, I usually don't fail to say my mind without fear nor favor. Now, without mincing words and without any atom of partiality, I wish to contribute in a way that no one will feel that I am being too emotional about this topic. The truth is that I have completely forgotten what I wanted to say. Anyways, for CAC Company or Business Name registration, Foundation, Schools, Church, NGO, Trademark, TIN, SCUMI, NAFDAC number etc, talk to us at www. Lawlab. Com. ng. Thank you.

High
Haaa, see your life!!
Enh?

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by wisdomkid: 10:45pm On Mar 18, 2020

miclef86:
Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

It's a crazy world.. You truly love her?

Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Wallyguy(m): 10:46pm On Mar 18, 2020

woman nature

Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Lawgod247: 10:47pm On Mar 18, 2020

darediamond:
High
Haaa, see your life!!
Enh?

Lol. I can't see myself jaree grin

Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by fredoooooo: 10:48pm On Mar 18, 2020*

Egungun be careful na express you dey go.
Alaye you want to leave a girl that care about you and go for the one wey already get who she wan marry?
Chop ponmo i agree ,leave her to marry her bobo and you marry the one wey care about you.

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Munzy14(m): 10:48pm On Mar 18, 2020

cRobo:
Na their life be that
She is dying for you but because of pride she won't accept
I won't say a word

Nigerian mom will talk for one hour and end it with I wont say a word... grin

U just typed more than 12words...

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Nobody: 10:49pm On Mar 18, 2020

U both are Grown ass teenagers.. She only wants you if another has claimed you.. Break up with the new girl and watch her give you the cold shoulder. Don't be that pathetic guy..

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Olamyde001: 10:49pm On Mar 18, 2020

Best caption ever, leave her to maintain your dignity and high level of respect towards her

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Tapout(m): 10:49pm On Mar 18, 2020

miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

after she commanded you to come to her house, you went , she called you a confused human being....n u still love her ?? She done jazz u up abi u r really a confused human being ??

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by ogbevireo(m): 10:51pm On Mar 18, 2020

miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

Why are you only trying to date females from your office bros?

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Starz825(m): 10:54pm On Mar 18, 2020

misreal:
The trouble is not that she wants to marry you, the trouble is that women loves it when a man gives them attention.you gave her attention and withdrew it, now wants it back.she wants the attention till the day she gets married oh.
If i were you, i will just ignore her and move on with my life.

U serve a living God indeed ....ur head dey there...

Op, no be say the girl in question like you that much...she only enjoys the attention u were initially giving of which you have withdrawn...but the good news is with this..she can begin to like you as much as you continue to deny her the attention she craves for....
One dey ma office naw...wey I give 100% attention to at first..she was responding... infact every body for office think say wey dey together but I messed up by telling her *I am beginning to like her* na hin she withdraw o...
Me self come vex man up....I withdrew my attention...could u believe If i walk past this lady and didn't say hi...she would scream my name like something else...even me self go fear.... She can't just stand me trying to avoid her....so as at now ...I don't talk to her first...na she dey always dey talk to me and most times come to me and hug me....I go hug am back wetin concern me..

Some girls aren't worth it jaree...most are overrated

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by GreenDee(f): 10:55pm On Mar 18, 2020

Guy just let her be, She turned u down remembr, so u are nt d one with the ego problm.

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by robotix: 10:56pm On Mar 18, 2020

miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

Take this from me, do not let her into your life... go on and date someone else. I had a bad experience with an idiot from nairaland and it was same thing. Thankfully, I had backup. Just move on because she will end up wasting your time.

A girl who wants will NEVER waste your time.

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Halo22: 10:56pm On Mar 18, 2020

Ladies and their confused lifestyle. So after saying she already had a guy in place, she is still trying to play along. Anyways, the ball z in ur court, but I suggest you front her to know exactly what she wants you to be doing before taking u serious. I have such colleague who will always ask me about my dates and she will still tell me to take her out, calls me more than I call her and equally checks me in my office everyday. Me I know how she wants to come in, but I have been employing smartness cos I actually don't want to go in with her.

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Budline1(m): 10:57pm On Mar 18, 2020*

With due respect to all the comments above from wise men, let me add this.
I think I know what is happening here. This lady probably has a more beautiful face or more banging body than your current girl and you're still lusting over her, she's your real spec in terms of physical appearance but sadly she's playing you. She's jealous and she doesn't want another girl to have your attention.

Ignore her and focus on your main girl or date someone who's your spec combined with a good attitude, you'll sure find one. Don't settle for less man.

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Isoduwa(m): 10:57pm On Mar 18, 2020

She will destroy your life

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by DabuIIIT: 10:58pm On Mar 18, 2020

miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

What kinda childish play are you guys playing?
Be serious,call her and tell her straight and stop this childish play. If she still refuses you then call it quits and move on.

Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by ceeceeuwa: 11:07pm On Mar 18, 2020

Must you always go after the ladies in your place of work? I pity the owner of that establishment! You guys want to run the establishment down...

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by franconian: 11:07pm On Mar 18, 2020*

miclef86:
Wow! I agree with you to some extent.
I think she really want to see the seriousness in me because her best friend have talked to me about her. That if I'm really serious that I will have her. But that's killing me...what kind of seriousness again...I have tried

She and her best friend are all playing you bro. She sent her to you. She's the one chasing you here but they are both tryna make you do the chasing, if you keep going after her you gonna
end up in friend zone and you'll wondering how you got there. If she succeeds in friend zoning you, you will lose your reputation with the other girls, they are all watching you.

Did you investigate her claim of having a fiance? It may be a lie or she just want to get down with you before she finally marry.
I think she wants you but if you don't act right, you are well on your way to friend zone. Keep doing the things she hates about you i.e having other females around you because this is what is attracting her to you and never give her the attention she's yearning for. Can't you see the less attention you give her the more she's attracted to you? (that increased hostility is increased attraction).

Stop letting her know you love her both in words and in action, I mean friend zone her before she friend zones you. Just stay calm and watch how she'll be chasing you.

Note: if your plan is Bleep and go, make sure you have another job ready because when you leave her she wouldn't mind getting you or the both of you sacked just to pay you back...girls could be crazy.

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by WATCHOVER(m): 11:08pm On Mar 18, 2020

Op guess by now you should understand that women are not direct.
Most of the time when you hear say 'I have a boyfriend' just know she doesn't have. Women are good at putting a man to test she is trying to understand your level of work i.e your charisma and maturity, dey love someone who makes them feel girlish or have that feelings that they are female.

Why Men act in opposite.

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by frozen70(f): 11:08pm On Mar 18, 2020

miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

If you love her, try again

You may be lucky this time

But watch out if the relationship will go far or not to avoid issues

Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by PropertyBuying(f): 11:09pm On Mar 18, 2020

DabuIIIT:
What kinda childish play are you guys playing?
Be serious,call her and tell her straight and stop this childish play. If she still refuses you then call it quits and move on.

Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Meena77(f): 11:09pm On Mar 18, 2020

konkonbilo:
The gal no lie at all, you're REALLY CONFUSED

Hahaha

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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Unrated900(m): 11:10pm On Mar 18, 2020

Op is one of them

Na them

Them

Them

Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Nobody: 11:11pm On Mar 18, 2020*

More of like the Nigerian girl mentality make I chop this boy money b4 you know it she has turned into an olosho .

It is not as if she has any interest in you she just wants to show you what she’s still capable of since you like her and asked her out

That Innate characteristic of being like I have the keys to his heart just because you liked her and asked her out but she declined because of pride or let’s just say she didn’t really like you ...move on with your life I bet you she will come back to you but don’t give her the chance for you guys to date or anything ,with that aside you have to be more responsible and sincere to your new girl so as to take the relationship to the next level

This is the same way our politicians steal and amass even what they completely have no need for out of sheer wickedness

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