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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by XhosaNostra(f): 1:48pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
ubunja: Gotcha. |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 1:49pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Hold up! Do we have Gaybriel on this thread? all that rebuttal cant be out of 'live and let live' but 'dont hate me for who I am' . Nah! That was too emotional! #justthinking |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 1:53pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:He rejected me he wasn't interested he only saw me as a friend in his word "a younger sister" that was 3 years ago.Immediately he told me that I automatically went back to my senses.I am happy I did because after that I started thinking straight around him I was happy I got it off my chest. when I told him. I have no problem approaching a man I like or love and making the first move. I am not a traditionalist or believe in relationship stereotypes.I prefer the modern day kind of relationships. 16 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 1:54pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:But you give greenlights right? Well I don't ask men out,I don't support it either. Men aren't fools they know what they want and when to go for it. So asking a guy out is a total No.. However, I give greenlight, yellow light, even purple light very well. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Martinez39s(m): 1:57pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
ubunja:If they apply your tips by chance and it works, they wouldn't admit it. They will use mental gymnastics and intellectual acrobatics to explain it away. They will live in denial. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Casalindal(f): 2:01pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
By insulting you in public and coming to inbox to send Dick pic |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 2:06pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:E pain am 7 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 2:06pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ladyhippolyta88:You really tried.... I don't just know how to say it. Like last year I set up a meeting with a guy I've been into for years (2years) When he arrived, we talked asked him if he is in a relationship which he answered No to, then when it was time for me to let out the cat, I couldn't. Just went into mute mode, words didn't come ,after several attempt I decided to just enjoy his presence see me sulking in all of his perfume . If I were to draw him I would make an exact sketch of him with my eyes closed that day. like the sulking and focus wasn't from here. Lol. When he said he was leaving, I told him same here I didn't want to be left alone there. Honestly that thing isn't easy ooo I couldn't just pull it off. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 2:35pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ariza:Hmm not easy for some but quite easy for me.Maybe it was because I am not scared of rejection and I damned the consequences and had to let it out of my mind.I just felt happy that I made my intentions known because if I did not my mind would trouble me for seeing what I like and not going for it.After the rejection I felt better than feeling like a scaredy cat if I did not tell him 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by czarr(m): 2:39pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:To each his own... I just hope all this traditional talk is not just to mask your fear rejection? just as you are not a coward for your traditional outlook on approach, so also he is not a sissy for his own approach. you'll both find people who will bend to your rules. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by XhosaNostra(f): 2:50pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
HenryDion: You wish. |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by XhosaNostra(f): 2:56pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Oh, I see. Well, that's where the difference lies. I'm too much of a traditionalist. Also, early on in a relationship I'm not emotionally attached in any way, so there's no reason for me to approach a guy for anything. Liking someone is different from love & not enough motivation for me to start chasing. I can always brush that shìt off & move on to someone with similar views. So yeah, it's interesting how we all differ in one way or another. |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Kennedyiheme02: 2:56pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
ozodigboo:if you're alfa you wouldn't even give a fxck if they called or not, even opening threads on NL to ask... as alfa you move on, forget the stupid suituation, there are pussies everywere, why should that one bother you 8 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by XhosaNostra(f): 2:58pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
czarr: He's a sissy to me. He's welcome to call me whatever he likes. |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Kennedyiheme02: 2:58pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Paxie55:men dont wither.. sorry 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 3:14pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Lol it's not the fear of rejection as a matter of fact that would have given me a reality check and snapped me out of delusions. But It's because of my principles.In as much as I try to ignore, my inner voice will keep asking if it's the right thing to do. Lol. A friend of mine asked her guy out herself and it's working fine for her. I don't criticize those who do it, it's just something I may never do. |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Palehair: 3:36pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
allandutch:Wish I could like this a billion times. Couldn't have said it better. "Alpha", damn!! I hate that word. As a man, you define your masculinity, that is the first rule of being a man 1 Like |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by GreatResearcher: 3:46pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Martinez39s:Did u and ubunja attend the same school? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by heartbraker(m): 4:06pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 4:09pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:No problem 1 Like |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 4:11pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ariza:No problem.Thanks for sharing nice read.we are all principled in different ways. |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 4:14pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
czarr:My thoughts exactly. I find her "not getting emotionally attached in the early stages of the relationship" implausible too. That xhosanostra moniker must have seen many toxic relationships in the past, for her to be so cold bent. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Toseenlove: 4:17pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Shugavee: Lol why are you this pained and bittered.....Things can pain you females sha. Is It your Singleness lol......No go Vex jam Corona Ooooh..... 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Hello, who's the author of the wisdom on your profile? Sorry for going off topic. |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by pansophist(m): 4:18pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
ozodigboo: Since I operate on the idea that women are the chooser, I'll only shoot my shot to the demography of women who have already chosen and found me attractive to begin with. The typical protocol of approaching a girl, such as, trying to "prove oneself", woeing, taking her out, and all those loops jumping is not for me. I'll never do that. So as a rule, I am always self-improving, to maximise the number of women that will find me attractive, and the number of men that will respect me base on my personality. It is from that pool that I'll pick my friends, and also a potential partner. My current relationship is almost five years, I got her through this method, and I have never for once doubted her love towards me. When I was about 15 years old or so, my mum told me that she has already loved my dad before he approached her, but had to shakara a bit (playing hard to get), to give my dad the false illusion that he worked for her. It is of no surprise that over 35 years and counting, my mum still love my dad deeply, because it was something she desired from the beginning, and she adviced me and my brothers to only go where we are appreciated romantically. So its green light before approach. 52 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Toseenlove: 4:24pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ariza: de chicken, small time now, You sef will doing like beta human being. If they are calling out beta people, u sef would wanna show face. Ordinary shot, u no fit shoot. Your supposed to bury your head In the Mud, Weakling Anuofia**** 3 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Toseenlove: 4:37pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
kongolo: Hmmm see person wey sabi...... 2 Likes
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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Toseenlove: 4:44pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
seanwilliam: Exactly what I was about to post, I was really disappointed when I saw her recent posts. But In as much as you are right, I still believe she Is still quite Intelligent and different from the Foools hungry glutton witches we have here In Nigeria. I know say na dem wan pollute her with their filthy body odour. But e no go work.... |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Toseenlove: 4:48pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Reality11: You actually mean "Him refusing to collect her number when she wanted to give Op" |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Toseenlove: 4:54pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Jaqenhghar: Lol Your assertion Is Incoherent, Doesn't even correlate with the Initial argument. You are obviously a confused fellow.... 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Toseenlove: 4:55pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
XhosaNostra: Ohoo.....Are men not greater than women before? 3 matured females equals an Infant male lol.... 5 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Jaqenhghar: 4:56pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Toseenlove:Its incoherent and confusing to an inconsequential dumbass. The person I was addressing understood and that's all that matters. Who cares what you think? 1 Like |
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