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obicoolnino:
they are mostly single

Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before

Realmenlovetruly:
Back to the OP


Though am lazy to type but will try and give the original keypoint


When we are talking about being Nice, Please to be Nice Man is totally different from to be a Weak Man


Listen if you can not be real you when it comes to woman world then you are a weak man


A bad guy can be nice and also still wicked the wicked part is that the bad guy is always be real when it comes to ladies world


But the weak guy or over-nice guy always try to please the woman, even if what he is going to do is not that comfortable to him


He is always feel scared to says his opinion to the girl,scared of her leaving him


In which the real guy,popularly called Bad guy don't give a Bleep whether she leaves or she stays


He is always real and nice


We cant date for 2 seconds if you dont want me to be real with you


But i can still makes you pee in your pant with my jokes and attitudes

smiliyB:
Lol...pls ladies kindly turn this write up...anywhere you see a male gender put a female gender identity asap...this should be for both party

Sexytincoll:
no woman prefers a trashy man treating her like a trash, it's just your assumptions and conclusions

Godwin2019:
Just Like My Own Case, The Girl I Love So Much, But She Treats Me Like Trash.

Youngjohnosas:
it's a misery, women r just too complex to understand.i dated my ex for 3 years and fell so much in love with her because she was so understanding and nice.i messed things up by becoming too nice to her.Each time we had a disagreement she would always play d victim even when it was obvious she was clearly at fault, sometimes she would boastfully say she doesn't know how to say sorry to a guy.

it started degenerating that most times she did something wrong and I yelled at her,she would block my lines for days that I had to resort to asking my friends and siblings to beg her on my behalf because I felt I was a nice guy.it got into her head and she started misbehaving badly and on some few occasions I broke up with her but I couldn't even stay for two hours without hearing her voice, so each time I felt she was using me and broke up she won't even bother to say sorry because she knew I couldn't stay without talking to her.

I stumbled on a post here on nairaland and a particular comment got hold of me,that the only way to earn a woman's respect is to make her feel worthless and undervalued.the following week she did something outrageous and didn't even bother to apologise she was waiting for me to do the needful by calling her,yeah I did call her but to inform her I wasn't interested in the relationship anymore, she laughed and said ok thank you.

that day I was restless and couldn't eat, the urge to call her was very high but I resisted it and held on for 7days, on the 7th she called and was like so u are this heartless,I posted that I was sick on my WhatsApp status and u didn't even bother to check on me ,I just laughed and she angrily ended d call thinking I was going to call her back but I didn't.

two days later she called again and was like are u like this now, I was just laughing and ever since she has been calling over and over again.the day I mistakenly called her number and quickly ended d call she called me back over 10 times pleading that she wasn't with her phone when I called.

last night she opened up and pleaded and pleaded that I should forgive her and I told her I wasn't interested anymore,at some point she would angrily end d call and later call back to start pleading, this morning her elder sister and brother called me trying to show concern although they didn't mention her name, Right now she has dropped a lot of messages on WhatsApp .I am really surprised although I am never going back to her again.thanks nairaland.

alert01:
OMG. I've always been a doormat for girls with nothing to show for it. they friendzone me and eat my money anyhow. There was this neighbor of mine then. she was a student and she was very beautiful. She manipulated me , always caressing me with breast qnd the mumu me will start acting her biddings. I bought phone for her early last year. Renovated her room and she always eat from my foodstuffs. She barely suffer anything. what pained be is another guy was chopping her. feeding him with my food. Anytime I talk about it, she'll vex and the mumu me will still be begging her. she won't listen until I sent her money and she get the alert. The only perk I gained was touching her breast once. I can't cry

Thinkandwin:
God bless you dear,
You are delivered, go and sin no more.

sotherefore:
is for guys only....any ladies that try to form is not serious
.....by right girls are the ones who supposed to chase us..

PerfectMaster:
Women love guys that treat them like trash because they are over fed with attention and commendations from simps.
Ladies are drawn to that bad guys they think they can fix, they want to overcome that which is proving stubborn to them and they want that man that will correct them without sugar coating it and at the same time they love lies, they level in that imaginary perfect world govern by emotions.

They are broken but dont know and seriously need help not from men but from their maker.

sotherefore:
On my opinion....you don't have to be a jerk......the following are those things that make you a nice guy..

1)...if a girl cross your boundary...you will just overlook which means you don't know what you want......never fail to let a girl know when she has offended you no matter how beautiful she may be...

2)..laughing stupidly when you are around her..am not saying you should be Mr.serious but laff when is absolutely necessary or only when it funny to you.....don't be so happy because you have seen her and start smiling like a child....i mean laughed maturedly

3)being afraid to let a girl go....as a man your self respect is more important than her...if she can't respect you....let her go .

4)not having a life......as a man activists in your life should be the most important.....don't always be too available..she called you to come over...don't just agreed as if you are desperate...tell her that you have to check your schedule if there is Time.........don't cancel important events to hang out with a lady..

5)..don't give her money so easily....she ask you for 3000 and you just give to her like that without making her work for it...

MOST IMPORTANTLY.....Don't always try to make her happy....do only thing that you like whether she likes it or not as Long as you are comfortable with it........e.g....a girl may say you like ignoring her but when you start giving her too much attention...boom ! ...she throw you to the nice guy section because she has change you.....ignoring her was the challenge she was facing
.now she has changed you and no mystery left............IN A SIMPLE EXPLANATION...PLAY HARD TO GET...NEVER BE A CHEAP GUY..

agnes7:
It is true men also love women who are trash.I can say this from my personal experience.

J111333:
They don't love bad guys, they are simply loyal to them.
Just like dogs remain loyal and obedient to tough owners even when they are not fed but attack kind owners for not feeding them on time.

Women love good guys and that's why they hurt them. They believe they can get away with it.

DaddyRochie1642:
I am very sure you Bailed her out

boninho:
Good guys don't finish last.....they don't even start the race

MOnkeyBabe:
I Don't know if you are a ChRiStian. And your OPinion may be BiaSed. Maybe being a Good Guy whose feelinGs have been huRt. But what if God Sent that GooD girl to the BaD Guy on PuRpOSe to change them.

NoSidonLook:
@ your personal text. It's 'throw'...not through
I believe it was an unintentional mistake

Youngjohnosas:
it's a misery, women r just too complex to understand.i dated my ex for 3 years and fell so much in love with her because she was so understanding and nice.i messed things up by becoming too nice to her.Each time we had a disagreement she would always play d victim even when it was obvious she was clearly at fault, sometimes she would boastfully say she doesn't know how to say sorry to a guy.

it started degenerating that most times she did something wrong and I yelled at her,she would block my lines for days that I had to resort to asking my friends and siblings to beg her on my behalf because I felt I was a nice guy.it got into her head and she started misbehaving badly and on some few occasions I broke up with her but I couldn't even stay for two hours without hearing her voice, so each time I felt she was using me and broke up she won't even bother to say sorry because she knew I couldn't stay without talking to her.

I stumbled on a post here on nairaland and a particular comment got hold of me,that the only way to earn a woman's respect is to make her feel worthless and undervalued.the following week she did something outrageous and didn't even bother to apologise she was waiting for me to do the needful by calling her,yeah I did call her but to inform her I wasn't interested in the relationship anymore, she laughed and said ok thank you.

that day I was restless and couldn't eat, the urge to call her was very high but I resisted it and held on for 7days, on the 7th she called and was like so u are this heartless,I posted that I was sick on my WhatsApp status and u didn't even bother to check on me ,I just laughed and she angrily ended d call thinking I was going to call her back but I didn't.

two days later she called again and was like are u like this now, I was just laughing and ever since she has been calling over and over again.the day I mistakenly called her number and quickly ended d call she called me back over 10 times pleading that she wasn't with her phone when I called.

last night she opened up and pleaded and pleaded that I should forgive her and I told her I wasn't interested anymore,at some point she would angrily end d call and later call back to start pleading, this morning her elder sister and brother called me trying to show concern although they didn't mention her name, Right now she has dropped a lot of messages on WhatsApp .I am really surprised although I am never going back to her again.thanks nairaland.

MrMacinterchi1:
o di egwu o. how come she suddenly learn how to apologize to a guy? 8th wonder of the world.

Youngjohnosas:
m surprised, I don't even know if she exists anymore, she has called me over 5 times today, she is now acting like a saint but local man is not doing again.

Youngjohnosas:
m surprised, I don't even know if she exists anymore, she has called me over 5 times today, she is now acting like a saint but local man is not doing again.