slyfoxxjoe:
lol as in. How can I get into that profession. Sounds like easy money to me.

Well, as a guy said here, Just open a Cum-pany

Pray for him but keep his secret pls. Don't humiliate him.

freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a [/b]porn video in his laptop[b].

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

daz my favourite!

i just finished wanking.

so it's a crime now shey, pastors boy which village u come from

Masturbation is bad because our Christian faith condemns it.... For me the best solution is not to expose your elder brother but rather discouraged him about it, then couple with prayers I know he will get over it. For the facts he open up to tell you the all truth that means you can assist him in one way or another to stop it. And also know a trust lost can never be genuinely regained.

Why on Earth would some guys be acting as if they are stupid? Even a girl, would be privileged to observe such and take that as a her top secret. It's better ur bro. practise self-sex than engage in romps with Oloshos around that may even disrupt the unity between both of u in that house and probably drain his pocket that should've been for food

Nobody holy pass oh!

freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

Amebo.

Hmm, reporting to your pastor!Do u even know what some of these so called pastors do behind closed doors? Guy,u've had several advise from people, just keep praying for him! His wife will take care of that when he eventually gets married.

Bro. Masturbation is the works of the flesh and no psychological solution could help. The only solution is taking the problem to the cross of Jesus. Let him confess this words of romans 6:6-7 to the Lord.

"For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body ruled by sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves to sin; because anyone who has died has been set free from sin."

Victory is of the Lord..

Mind your business if u cannot then marry and give him.

freeman131:


I never mentioned he's involved in premarital sex even if he's involved I really won't get guilty of what I know nothing of.

I'm only concerned about the one I've seen him do.

But you mentioned in your statement that he has a beautiful girl..Can you pls justify that part

He's even giving u respect by not making the house a chalet; instead getting himself calmed through such way and you're complaining. Better receive sense ooooooo

freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

your mumu surpass the brain when coro affect.

freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

Christian family bt u don’t mind him sleeping with his girlfriend I can see. That’s where the hypocrisy began. In any case it’s just a strong habit nothing spiritual as such and he can stop. If u understand how to break a strong habit.

U no go mind ur business young man. Abi dey swear for u say everything u see u talk . u for no even do like say u see him dat time wey him dey doam . daz hw niggas roll Receive sense jor

freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

ewu misplaced hypocrite. Are you this attention hungry or stupid or both?

HarunaWest:
some people will come here now and say masturbation is a spiritual problem...Mad people

My brother,you don't know what masturbation takes away from you.Spirituality apart,I'm talking about your mental health.In fact you will lose your true self.
It is better to have a girlfriend and have sex with her,but the problem is that when you have sex with someone,be ready to stick to that person,cos in it real sense,SEX IS MARRIAGE!but a lot of people are blind to know the truth.

Even if he has 100 girlfriends a chronic masturbator will still masturbate. That thing no get cure honestly.

donbachi:
him no sabi sey,some nairalanders don already enter "masturbation hall of fame".

Boy...mehn this ur comment had me in stitches. I don laugh tire

Warmaterial:
U no go mind ur business young man. Abi dey swear for u say everything u see u talk . u for no even do like say u see him dat time wey him dey doam . daz hw niggas roll Receive sense jor

OkpaNsukkaisBae:



daz my favourite!

i just finished wanking.

skyhighweb:
so it's a crime now shey, pastors boy which village u come from

see them
Well, for those quoting me and asking how I know that Nairaland is home of masturbators, here we go

freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

Is it your masturbation? MYOB..........

freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

Are u normal @ all??

donbachi:
him no sabi sey,some nairalanders don already enter "masturbation hall of fame".

Nairaland home of veteran masturbators. If they give rank here,na commodore go plenty pass

Babatunde40:
You are living with someone and judging him for masturbating. Have you thought maybe your presence hinders him from bringing girls home. Pack and let him be

Sense will not Lee you

Can you let him do his thing.. All this holier Than Jesus people self..

For him own house again.. He can't have his privacy

You Dey craze. How e concern you?

You won’t go and have your own Place and career

God said he will bless the work of our hands, probably that's why he's into that act

https://www.healthline.com/health/masturbation-side-effects

Masturbation Effects on Your Health: Side Effects and Benefits

Side effects
Sexual sensitivity
Benefits
Prostate cancer
During pregnancy
Takeaway
Overview
Masturbation is a common activity. It’s a natural and safe way to explore your body, feel pleasure, and release built-up sexual tension. It occurs among people of all backgrounds, genders, and races.

Despite the myths, there are actually no physically harmful side effects of masturbation.

However, excessive masturbation can harm your relationships and everyday life. Other than that, masturbation is a fun, normal, and healthy act.

Keep reading to learn more about the side effects and potential health benefits of masturbation.

Side effects of masturbation
Masturbation doesn’t have any harmful side effects. However, some people may feel guilty about masturbating or have issues with chronic masturbation.

Masturbation and guilt
Some people may feel guilty about masturbating because of cultural, spiritual, or religious beliefs.

Masturbation is neither wrong nor immoral, but you may still hear messages that self-pleasure is “dirty” and “shameful.”

If you feel guilty over masturbating, speak with someone you trust about why you feel this way and how you can move past that guilt. Therapists that specialize in sexual health may be a good resource.

Addiction to masturbation
Some people can and do develop an addiction to masturbation. You may be spending too much time masturbating if masturbation causes you to:

skip your chores or daily activities
miss work or school
cancel plans with friends or family
miss important social events
Addiction to masturbation can harm your relationships and other parts of your life. Masturbating too much may interrupt your work or studies, which can lower productivity.

It may also hurt your romantic relationships and friendships, because you don’t spend as much time with your loved ones as you used to, or don’t pay attention to their needs.

If you’re worried you may have an addiction to masturbation, speak with your doctor or a counselor about ways to cut down on masturbating.

Talk therapy can help you manage your addiction. You could also cut down by replacing masturbation with other activities. Next time you have an urge to masturbate, try:

going for a run
writing in a journal
spending time with friends
going for a walk
Does masturbation cause a decrease in sexual sensitivity?
For women who have sexual dysfunction, enhanced stimulation — including masturbation — can help increase sexual desire and sensitivity.

In fact, two 2009 studies found that vibrator use among women and men has been linked to an increase in desire, arousal, and overall sexual function. Women also reported an increase in lubrication, while men reported better erectile function, according to the studies.

Masturbation can affect sensitivity during sex for men because of their technique. Research has shown that too tight of a grip on a penis during masturbation can decrease sensation.

Sexual health experts recommend changing your technique during masturbation to restore sensitivity levels during sex.

Benefits of masturbation
Masturbation is a healthy sexual activity. It has many benefits for your physical and mental health.

There are limited studies on the benefits of masturbation, but there are studies on sexual intercourse and stimulation.

Research and anecdotal reports suggest that sexual stimulation, including stimulation through masturbation, may help you:

relieve built-up stress
sleep better
boost your mood
relax
feel pleasure
relieve cramps
release sexual tension
have better sex
better understand your wants and needs
Couples may also mutually masturbate to explore different desires, as well as avoid pregnancy. Self-pleasuring also helps you prevent sexually transmitted infections (STIs).

Masturbation and prostate cancer
Some research suggests that regular ejaculation may lower the risk of prostate cancer, though doctors aren’t exactly sure why.

A 2016 study found the risk of prostate cancer decreased by about 20 percent in men who ejaculated at least 21 times a month. A 2003 study also discovered a similar link between frequent ejaculation and lower prostate cancer risk.

There’s no evidence, though, that ejaculating regularly protects against advanced prostate cancer.

Masturbation during pregnancy
Hormone changes during pregnancy cause some pregnant women to feel heightened sexual desire. Masturbation is a safe way to release sexual tension during pregnancy.

Self-pleasure may also help ease pregnancy symptoms, such as lower back pain. You may feel mild, irregular cramping, or Braxton-Hicks contractions, during and after orgasm.

They should fade away. If the contractions don’t disappear and become more painful and frequent, contact your doctor right away.

Masturbation may not be safe for women with high-risk pregnancies. This is because orgasm can increase your chances of labor.

Takeaway
Masturbation is a healthy, natural, and safe way to practice self-care and improve your health.

Masturbating may have many benefits for your mind and body. Despite the possibility of addiction, there are no harmful side effects.

Feel free to enjoy self-pleasure without guilt or shame. Speak with a therapist or someone you trust about any negative feelings you have.

Meedon:

They criticize masturbation and abhor pre-marital sex


Sex outside marriage issa sin

This is the problem. What is sex outside marriage? Why do we separate sex and marriage? What really bonds a woman as husband and wife?

Babatunde40:
You are living with someone and judging him for masturbating. Have you thought maybe your presence hinders him from bringing girls home. Pack and let him be

come and join me with this Guinness.

Na so some useless people they carry their problem go disturb another person!

What you should do is #Mind Your Business#...