Its like you are jobless, why would you waste time on a girl, even if she says yes, in a typical naija setting, na u go make sacrifice upon sacrifice. Better please yourself by moving on. To suffer is ok but how can you beg to suffer..

What if the woman was doing shakara but the guy is shy naturally? should the woman help the guy out if she like him? I have seen many situations like this. The guy was too shy to ask her out and the lady shakara does not help to an extend. Some guys say the babe is forming too much, some ladies say the guy lack confidence to approach her. Too much shakara is not good and too much shyness is not good

Admissionclass:
When a girl you like starts playing hard to get, what should you do especially when she is showing subtle signs she likes you, leaving you confused.

Should one continue to chase her till she accepts or move on?

My friend, get/download 48 laws of power...
Law 3- Conceal your intentions will educate you how to go about it..precisely read about Ninon de Lenclos and tap from her wisdom... cheers

I neva understand dat hard to get.i just take it u not feeling me.i'm on to d next one

If she's playing hard to get for you she will definetly be playing soft for one other guy like that...

So my guy as a man don't stoop low for crumbs you deserve better...

Solution: focus more on yourself, spend money on yourself... Love yourself.

Do some lite workout for a Start, you need your mind to start processing new information in your body

Eat well, just enjoy every moment....the right kind if woman is not far from you if start practising this steps.

Move on with your life, there are many fishes in the river.

Same issue I've got with a babe I'm wooing, i tried for one whole month, she was still forming. I just left her to herself,and she's been bombarding me with calls since the day before yesterday (I did not pick). I'll speak with her tomorrow sha.

Ellipsoid:
Sometimes it's not playing hard to get, a girl may just not be that into you.

So if she is into you, Forbes will start listing him ahead of Dangote, abi?

Women and grand delusions...

Move on bro, so many fishes in the river!

ibkayee:

Hiohiohio you'd be surprised

Jokes aside, yeah you're probably right

Lol... I did that with a nairaland chic but I can't say I was foolish cos I had another chick I was furking and when she no gree, I switched. I cant be so concentrated on a girl that plays hard to get not to have back up... that would have been utter foolishness

Benzgang:
Start asking her about her friend and put more interest towards the said friend,while acting like you don't care no more about her.
She'll start to wonder what the friend has that she lacks and will want to come closer to find out.
There and then my friend,you've got the chicken at your disposal.
They always lose their minds when you do this.
I call my ex all the time to ask after her friend whenever I'm bored and feel like making someone angry

enemy of someone's else happiness,God is watching you bros

Acidosis:


No guy will consistently chase a girl for 2 years dear. The common thing is for guys to chase more than one girl with the hope that one or more will succumb to the pressure. Of course, these girls would assume they've got no 'competitors.' What guys do is to chase a girl, leave her for a while and then fall back later when they're done with some other girls.

hahaha.. i just replied her with what I did lol... yeah, exactly as you described.

Had this nairaland chic playing hard to get, had a backup... furked other girls, came back to try again and it was still same thing until I had to leave after a heated quarrel. i did let her know I was dating someone else already so she does not feel she won.

[i][/i]There is just one advice to this, let her see you with another lady

She would feel something close to jealousy

You can play with that

Acidosis:


No guy will consistently chase a girl for 2 years dear. The common thing is for guys to chase more than one girl with the hope that one or more will succumb to the pressure. Of course, these girls would assume they've got no 'competitors.' What guys do is to chase a girl, leave her for a while and then fall back later when they're done with some other girls.

This is it. If a girl believes a guy will chase only her for years then it shows how naive she is.

Make money.

Look good.

She will be the one chasing you no sooner than you ignore her.

not the lady's fault....blame it on our culture that sees a lady as a cheat if she quickly agree to date a man....... playing hard is part of our culture.....dating is seen as sleeping with him. .... girls are taught to supress their urges .. even until wedding day,
if you toast a woman to day and she agrees today ....you will call her olosho...no self respect .. too cheap...not wife material....when it cld be that she fell madly in love with you the moment she saw you..... most girls play hard to save face and be seen as wife material.

Jus leave and pursue money

She will come begging

MikArib:
Free her.... She will come back begging!

Come back begging? Not always..She might not and you know it, especially when he's not having what she's looking for.. We all know naija gels now haba..He should just free her.

Admissionclass:
When a girl you like starts playing hard to get, what should you do especially when she is showing subtle signs she likes you, leaving you confused.

Should one continue to chase her till she accepts or move on?

LEAVE HER ALONE, I REPEAT LEAVE HER ALONE. YOU NO WORRY YOURSELF , JUST THANK GOD THAT LIABILITY IS DOING SHAKARA TO YOU... bro most of them nowadays girls are liabilities. hardly u see anyone who understands the essence of relationship.

part of the leave her alone is also to stop all the caring efforts you may or have been showing her. guy girls plenty yakpa no come let one liability dey use u catch cruise. I pity most girls , Isaiah 4 Vs 1 is either already happening or will soon start to happen .

I pray the girl meet some as ugly poor shameless as I am.. I will direct her to her right bf

mkoabiola:
Jus leave and pursue money

She will come begging

Y'all should stop saying 'she'll come begging'.. she might not, he should just move on, simple.

comshots:

She doesn't pick his calls.
She doesn't reply his text.
She barely replay with k or emojis.
She shout at him on the phone.
She turns his date down.

That is rejection not hard to get lol . He should move on.

Admissionclass:
When a girl you like starts playing hard to get, what should you do especially when she is showing subtle signs she likes you, leaving you confused.

Should one continue to chase her till she accepts or move on?

Just move on... Focus on being the right person and the right one will tag alongside

luwiizy:
If she's playing hard to get for you she will definetly be playing soft for one other guy like that...

So my guy as a man don't stoop low for crumbs you deserve better...

Solution: focus more on yourself, spend money on yourself... Love yourself.

Do some lite workout for a Start, you need your mind to start processing new information in your body

Eat well, just enjoy every moment....the right kind if woman is not far from you if start practising this steps.

#Jahblessyou era of girls doing excessive shakara don pass for person like me o

Admissionclass:
When a girl you like starts playing hard to get, what should you do especially when she is showing subtle signs she likes you, leaving you confused.

Should one continue to chase her till she accepts or move on?

chase money bro.

Mrmezico:
Evrybody wish 2 be rich bt nt all re rich, we all wish 4 good things to come our ways bt somehow we do meet bad thing. nd its nt evrytin dat we want dat we have, so its nt evry girl dat u lov must lov u aswel. when she plays hard 2 get, just asume she's nt into u nd move on wit ur lyf. if she comes back gud nd if she didnt come, still gud

Exactly. This is 100 percent accurate to me. This is my philosophy about dating too..Sadly many guys are too emotional and sunk in lust. They don't know when to get off a woman's back. I delete girls' number almost everyday without looking back coz when I notice a negative vibe from any of them, that's all. Not ready for any heartache..A girl that is yours will always be yours, there is nothing like hard to get to me... The less u invest in these girls, the better you are..

Budline1:


Y'all should stop saying 'she'll come begging'.. she might not, he should just move on, simple.

make money and see her crawl back.

IYANGBALI:
Girl playing hard to get in this Nigeria? Wetin den dey take dead body do for graveyard?

Abi. A girl forming hard to get for someone dey gree for another within 2 days.. I pity guys wey dey chase them o.

If guys know Naija girls wella, u won't chase them. Get what she needs and that's all o, even if na to flash am..

Don’t waste your time, anything after 1month she isn’t interested no matter the shakara. There are many other pussies out there, don’t waste all your time for a girl that will still not agree.

GreatResearcher1:
make money and see her crawl back.

We're saying the same thing but trust me girls chok.. U don't even need to wait till she crawls back.. I'm only trying to say is that u don't have to give a damn about most of them that much..

too many fish (decent/fine babes) in the sea to be wasting time on b.s.

old school yankee song on the topic.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VvYIpa1Ulvw