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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by narit: 9:27pm On Apr 06, 2020

CsRockefeller:

Anon: My girl was chatting with a guy on watsapp.
Nairalanders: Dump her she's a hoe, she's a slut, simp like u, idiot!!

Anon: My wife has stopped cooking for me what can I do?
Nairalanders: She's cheating, getting a good dick outside, divorce her!!

Anon: I want to marry a single mother, I love her, what do u think?
Nairalanders: You're a beta male, shes a hoe with a wide p***y, her body count is up to 20, she can never forget her baby daddy.

Anon: I met a man, I like him but he doesn't spend on me.
Nairalanders: Olosho, go work, what do u offer except ur p***y, anyway dump him, he doesnt love u, you are rhe side chick.

Men bless the day I discovered this site. People here crack me up everyday.

Lol.......you have no idea.

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by Ademine1(m): 9:46pm On Apr 06, 2020

[quote author=goodman41 post=88162638]bro inbox mk we tlk

Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by 4reala(m): 10:33pm On Apr 06, 2020

goodman41:
we even had sex before going out when we came back we did have sex again

No wander u spent the 4k angry

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by goodman41(op): 10:59pm On Apr 06, 2020

evil1:
That girl obviously likes u even before you asked her to visit you.
Oga stop wasting that girls time.
Calling everyday builds a relationship more stronger and keeps communication level in check.
There is nothing wrong dating an undergraduate butvif its marriage it's the wrong option.
But I can notice from your writeup that your a stingy guy hiding under pretence of conservation.

so you want me to parck all my money and give her without knowing her aim towards me

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by Rukkydelta(f): 11:25pm On Apr 06, 2020

After you don chop her you wan no if she dey use you? undecided

Oga from your narrative you are the one using her

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by Mekenz(m): 11:44pm On Apr 06, 2020

you started weighing her mission towards you, because she gave herself so cheap to you, had it been she withstood and say no to your demand that very night, I'm sure you won't be coming here to seek for advice so early in the relationship, anyways I blame her, but what have happen has happen though.

perhaps from your narrative I can deduce that she a needy type that doesn't have some self worth, she believes in pay as you go relationship, so far you keep dropping the money,she will always willing to drop pant.

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by Akinbahm(m): 11:48pm On Apr 06, 2020

CsRockefeller:

Anon: My girl was chatting with a guy on watsapp.
Nairalanders: Dump her she's a hoe, she's a slut, simp like u, idiot!!

Anon: My wife has stopped cooking for me what can I do?
Nairalanders: She's cheating, getting a good dick outside, divorce her!!

Anon: I want to marry a single mother, I love her, what do u think?
Nairalanders: You're a beta male, shes a hoe with a wide p***y, her body count is up to 20, she can never forget her baby daddy.

Anon: I met a man, I like him but he doesn't spend on me.
Nairalanders: Olosho, go work, what do u offer except ur p***y, anyway dump him, he doesnt love u, you are rhe side chick.

Men bless the day I discovered this site. People here crack me up everyday.

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by Akinbahm(m): 11:55pm On Apr 06, 2020

Nwodosis:
Any relationship no one knows who is actually using who untill the relationship ends!

This one is very glaring we already knows who's using who...

I stopped reading the post when the girl later called him she has borrowed some cash from her roommate...

If you aren't a Bleep boy u can't enjoy dating undergraduate girls...

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by Nobody: 12:03am On Apr 07, 2020

CsRockefeller:

Anon: My girl was chatting with a guy on watsapp.
Nairalanders: Dump her she's a hoe, she's a slut, simp like u, idiot!!

Anon: My wife has stopped cooking for me what can I do?
Nairalanders: She's cheating, getting a good dick outside, divorce her!!

Anon: I want to marry a single mother, I love her, what do u think?
Nairalanders: You're a beta male, shes a hoe with a wide p***y, her body count is up to 20, she can never forget her baby daddy.

Anon: I met a man, I like him but he doesn't spend on me.
Nairalanders: Olosho, go work, what do u offer except ur p***y, anyway dump him, he doesnt love u, you are rhe side chick.

Men bless the day I discovered this site. People here crack me up everyday.

You're not alone lol

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by kzubyar(m): 12:31am On Apr 07, 2020

goodman41:
I met her when she came for her IT at my place of work, one day I collected her number but I didn't call her till she finished her IT and went back to school.
One day I called to inform her that I will like us to go into a relationship which she accepted, i told her that l' m not looking for a girlfriend but a wife I asked her if she has a boyfriend but she said yes but she will never marry the guy because there are some things she will consider in terms of marriage.
I called her to visit me but she was doing promise and failed, I told her that I'm not inviting her for sex that sex is nothing for me she say okay I should send transport money, I tried using my phone transfer 2k for her but it was not going, so told her that it was not going she said I should go and use ATM but i told her that I don't have that time that she should borrow from her roommate and come or she should forget about coming until when I will be able to use my phone to do the transfer. So that evening she called that she will come the next day been Sunday that she borrowed money from her roommate.
When she came on Sunday I put movie for her and kept my self buy with my laptop, she started feeling sleepy which I told her to go and sleep on the bed which she went, after I was through with my laptop I asked her if I can join her she said yes, I now joined her in the bed before we know it we started kissing and romancing each other and we had sex. After the sex she said that but you told me you don't like sex I told her I like sex but I don't take it serious she said okay I understand. I now took her out spent like 3k, the following morning I gave her 4k for her transport and she was happy.
After one week she called that I should send her airtime I told her that am not sending she said okay without being angry, when she visited for the second time she asked why did I refuse to send her card I told her that I don't like sending card to people she said okay ,so am seeing her as people, i told her don't worry any time I feel like I will send to her, but she said if i send it that she will send it back to me, i asked her about her boyfriend she said that she has ended the friendship but my mind is telling she is lying, she cleaned my house and cooked for me before going back to school that she doesn't want me to be eating outside, she asked me to give her money to do hair which I gave her 3k for both her transport and the hair, she said the money is small but she Will add her own so she collected it without any issue.
Am not the type that use to call every day but she asking me to be calling her every day to make our relationship grow stronger, she was telling me the other day that she will visit me oneday without telling me to see if I have another girl. Please is this girl really serious with this relationship or she just want to use me?

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by kzubyar(m): 12:33am On Apr 07, 2020

[quote author=Harshreality post=88163457]Do you really think that this woman is wife material?
Like really?

You're using your korokor eyes to see fire and you still want to enter it.

Someone that is dating someone she can't marry is the one you want to wife.

You'll just use your hand to purvwchase problems very soon you come here they ask us she is pregnant you need our advice

Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by bigpriik: 1:42am On Apr 07, 2020

Masonkaycares:
If that 41 on your monkier is actually your age , Bros you've wasted your life. I cry for you .Am 18 BTW

let's see how yours turns out.

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by Kranediggy(m): 2:15am On Apr 07, 2020

Her telling you to call every day shows that she's probably single and is hiding nothing from anyone, because she can't have a guy and be risking receiving your call anytime. Honestly you made the sex part happen, I mean its 100% your fault. No guest room for your invitee check that (same bed). She's down for you, its left for you to not misuse this opportunity and use her. From now till September can send her wrong message, then you'll come here and be complaining to us that she has someone else. Body no be firewood o! The ball is in your court.

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by Nobody: 2:23am On Apr 07, 2020

bigpriik:
let's see how yours turns out.

Nah I'll never end up like that. It's all about determination

Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by DaddyRochie1642: 2:35am On Apr 07, 2020

goodman41:
I met her when she came for her IT at my place of work, one day I collected her number but I didn't call her till she finished her IT and went back to school.
One day I called to inform her that I will like us to go into a relationship which she accepted, i told her that l' m not looking for a girlfriend but a wife I asked her if she has a boyfriend but she said yes but she will never marry the guy because there are some things she will consider in terms of marriage.
I called her to visit me but she was doing promise and failed, I told her that I'm not inviting her for sex that sex is nothing for me she say okay I should send transport money, I tried using my phone transfer 2k for her but it was not going, so told her that it was not going she said I should go and use ATM but i told her that I don't have that time that she should borrow from her roommate and come or she should forget about coming until when I will be able to use my phone to do the transfer. So that evening she called that she will come the next day been Sunday that she borrowed money from her roommate.
When she came on Sunday I put movie for her and kept my self buy with my laptop, she started feeling sleepy which I told her to go and sleep on the bed which she went, after I was through with my laptop I asked her if I can join her she said yes, I now joined her in the bed before we know it we started kissing and romancing each other and we had sex. After the sex she said that but you told me you don't like sex I told her I like sex but I don't take it serious she said okay I understand. I now took her out spent like 3k, the following morning I gave her 4k for her transport and she was happy.
After one week she called that I should send her airtime I told her that am not sending she said okay without being angry, when she visited for the second time she asked why did I refuse to send her card I told her that I don't like sending card to people she said okay ,so am seeing her as people, i told her don't worry any time I feel like I will send to her, but she said if i send it that she will send it back to me, i asked her about her boyfriend she said that she has ended the friendship but my mind is telling she is lying, she cleaned my house and cooked for me before going back to school that she doesn't want me to be eating outside, she asked me to give her money to do hair which I gave her 3k for both her transport and the hair, she said the money is small but she Will add her own so she collected it without any issue.
Am not the type that use to call every day but she asking me to be calling her every day to make our relationship grow stronger, she was telling me the other day that she will visit me oneday without telling me to see if I have another girl. Please is this girl really serious with this relationship or she just want to use me?

I didn't even finish reading this trash, .... You need to be Flogged And Given several Hot Slaps because you're the definition of a Weakling.

Spits In Disgust.

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by Emagha(m): 2:37am On Apr 07, 2020

i might know her... is her name precious or ivy? and does she attend delta State university ?

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by goodman41(op): 6:58am On Apr 07, 2020

[quote author=Kranediggy post=88174442]Her telling you to call every day shows that she's probably single and is hiding nothing from anyone, because she can't have a guy and be risking receiving your call anytime. Honestly you made the sex part happen, I mean its 100% your fault. No guest room for your invitee check that (same bed). She's down for you, its left for you to not misuse this opportunity and use her. From now till September can send her wrong message, then you'll come here and be complaining to us that she has someone else. Body no be firewood o! The ball is in your court. [/quote you I should go for introduction before September

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by schumastic(m): 7:36am On Apr 07, 2020

Am only concern about the part were you said you gave her 3k for both hair(1k) and transport(2k), and she collected it. Please stick with this one cus she doesn’t have wahala.

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by schumastic(m): 7:40am On Apr 07, 2020

evil1:
That girl obviously likes u even before you asked her to visit you.
Oga stop wasting that girls time.
Calling everyday builds a relationship more stronger and keeps communication level in check.
There is nothing wrong dating an undergraduate butvif its marriage it's the wrong option.
But I can notice from your writeup that your a stingy guy hiding under pretence of conservation.

I swear down, is better if he had just given her the 3k for her transport alone without including hair, attachment alone is 800-1,500 that’s the least and some ladies will use two, not to talk more of making the hair. I don’t want to believe the op meant what he said.

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by royallord1(m): 9:02am On Apr 07, 2020

goodman41:
I met her when she came for her IT at my place of work, one day I collected her number but I didn't call her till she finished her IT and went back to school.
One day I called to inform her that I will like us to go into a relationship which she accepted, i told her that l' m not looking for a girlfriend but a wife I asked her if she has a boyfriend but she said yes but she will never marry the guy because there are some things she will consider in terms of marriage.
I called her to visit me but she was doing promise and failed, I told her that I'm not inviting her for sex that sex is nothing for me she say okay I should send transport money, I tried using my phone transfer 2k for her but it was not going, so told her that it was not going she said I should go and use ATM but i told her that I don't have that time that she should borrow from her roommate and come or she should forget about coming until when I will be able to use my phone to do the transfer. So that evening she called that she will come the next day been Sunday that she borrowed money from her roommate.
When she came on Sunday I put movie for her and kept my self buy with my laptop, she started feeling sleepy which I told her to go and sleep on the bed which she went, after I was through with my laptop I asked her if I can join her she said yes, I now joined her in the bed before we know it we started kissing and romancing each other and we had sex. After the sex she said that but you told me you don't like sex I told her I like sex but I don't take it serious she said okay I understand. I now took her out spent like 3k, the following morning I gave her 4k for her transport and she was happy.
After one week she called that I should send her airtime I told her that am not sending she said okay without being angry, when she visited for the second time she asked why did I refuse to send her card I told her that I don't like sending card to people she said okay ,so am seeing her as people, i told her don't worry any time I feel like I will send to her, but she said if i send it that she will send it back to me, i asked her about her boyfriend she said that she has ended the friendship but my mind is telling she is lying, she cleaned my house and cooked for me before going back to school that she doesn't want me to be eating outside, she asked me to give her money to do hair which I gave her 3k for both her transport and the hair, she said the money is small but she Will add her own so she collected it without any issue.
Am not the type that use to call every day but she asking me to be calling her every day to make our relationship grow stronger, she was telling me the other day that she will visit me oneday without telling me to see if I have another girl. Please is this girl really serious with this relationship or she just want to use me?

No jokes guy.. you are just a fvçk boy..
Who has lured an innocent girl into opening her legs in the name of I wan marry you...

From what you have written you have no clue what it means to love a woman.. no plans on how to do that.. she was on her own .. you called and promised to make her your wife.. is that how you are going to be treating your wife?..
For petty things she is asking?
Have you ever bought her gifts?
Surprised her at her school too...
All I see is a guy that sees dating this girl as a privilege to her and she should be grateful about that

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by bammo: 11:00am On Apr 07, 2020

CsRockefeller:

Anon: My girl was chatting with a guy on watsapp.
Nairalanders: Dump her she's a hoe, she's a slut, simp like u, idiot!!

Anon: My wife has stopped cooking for me what can I do?
Nairalanders: She's cheating, getting a good dick outside, divorce her!!

Anon: I want to marry a single mother, I love her, what do u think?
Nairalanders: You're a beta male, shes a hoe with a wide p***y, her body count is up to 20, she can never forget her baby daddy.

Anon: I met a man, I like him but he doesn't spend on me.
Nairalanders: Olosho, go work, what do u offer except ur p***y, anyway dump him, he doesnt love u, you are rhe side chick.

Men bless the day I discovered this site. People here crack me up everyday.

I'm telling you bro

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by goodman41(op): 11:54am On Apr 07, 2020

schumastic:
Am only concern about the part were you said you gave her 3k for both hair(1k) and transport(2k), and she collected it. Please stick with this one cus she doesn’t have wahala.

she is nice girl if she ask and I didn't give she will not be angry she will just be cool with it

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by goodman41(op): 11:57am On Apr 07, 2020

schumastic:
I swear down, is better if he had just given her the 3k for her transport alone without including hair, attachment alone is 800-1,500 that’s the least and some ladies will use two, not to talk more of making the hair. I don’t want to believe the op meant what he said.

please am not lying she is a nice girl

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by lereinter(m): 1:24pm On Apr 07, 2020

I enjoyed the tale.

Who's stopping you from marrying her, impregnate her and finish.

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by fkj950ax(m): 2:16pm On Apr 07, 2020

goodman41:
I met relationship or she just want to use me?

Sorry o.

I think you are the one using yourself. The girl has got nothing on you. You are the one who is just uncertain of what you want.

She went to lay on the bed. You joined her and expected her to lead praise and worship abi?

She should borrow from a friend before coming, you smashed her and gave her 4k and 2k and nonsense.

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by Stephenmoka4(m): 3:23pm On Apr 07, 2020

All these money and bedding relationship. Just hope someone is not doing the same to your sister or future woman

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by Stephenmoka4(m): 3:27pm On Apr 07, 2020

[quote author=goodman41 post=88176368][/quote]one of them could sleep on the couch, another is they're sharing the same bed why don't treat her like his sister. Well if this story is true, it has happened it has happened

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by akimbomimer: 4:22pm On Apr 07, 2020

CsRockefeller:

Anon: My girl was chatting with a guy on watsapp.
Nairalanders: Dump her she's a hoe, she's a slut, simp like u, idiot!!

Anon: My wife has stopped cooking for me what can I do?
Nairalanders: She's cheating, getting a good dick outside, divorce her!!

Anon: I want to marry a single mother, I love her, what do u think?
Nairalanders: You're a beta male, shes a hoe with a wide p***y, her body count is up to 20, she can never forget her baby daddy.

Anon: I met a man, I like him but he doesn't spend on me.
Nairalanders: Olosho, go work, what do u offer except ur p***y, anyway dump him, he doesnt love u, you are rhe side chick.

Men bless the day I discovered this site. People here crack me up everyday.

Same here bro

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by mechanics(m): 4:25pm On Apr 07, 2020

Hmmmm, for you to sleep with a lady on a first night, means the lady is cheap, but since you have already slept with her, you have no choice than to continue what you have started, because if you leave the lady now, she will feel that you only used and dumped her.

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Re: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by Nat404: 4:40pm On Apr 07, 2020

OP, she likes you. Do your best to marry her if you could.

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