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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by deltateam: 7:02am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Morale of the Story: I learnt that we should be content with what we have while striving to be better. I also learnt to pick my calls and return calls because you never know if your 'Hello' could save a life. I also learnt to save for a rainy day and not to be extravagant. I also learnt to persevere because if op had taken his life, he wouldn't have been the MVP at the moment! 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by SenecaTheYonger: 7:02am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Kingarthur21: I always see people like you in this thread. The ones that want to brag that their own suffering was worse than the other person. It's hilariously sad 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by rossychik(f): 7:03am On Apr 09, 2020 |
[quote author=Tankunland post=88217845] thank you bro for the prayer. I have been sad all through the week and just decided to write this so maybe someone could learn a thing or 2 from it[/quotooh we really leant more than two. Btw u will make a very good writer. |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Frankcallys(m): 7:03am On Apr 09, 2020 |
DonHummer: Isn't it obvious that she dated yahoo plus guys. She loves money more than this dude that went to hell and back just to love her and the kids. Even in the pit of hell, he refused to use her for the ritual. But just like the grasshopper the horn bird killed (Ukpana okpoko gburu) she later end up with yahoo plus guys and they used her to garnish their ritual stew. I'm just happy for the guy cos he's one hell of a fighter!!! 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by olumidedvd(m): 7:05am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Hmm... Good story. My story is coming soon. And it might take couple of weeks for to finish it. It is my true life story. Please watch out. 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by GIDIBANKZ(m): 7:07am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Stan2396: Better o bcose with all dis story wen i read so......dat girl line-aqe na kardashians.... Dem dey reck any man |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by deltateam: 7:09am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Kevsmart88: Dude, Your last few sentences shows you didn't understand. No human: man or woman can give you peace. Its only God that gives peace. 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by SenecaTheYonger: 7:17am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Zeinymira: This is the only moral of the story that matters in this thread. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Adebowalay(m): 7:18am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Veryfoolishboy:.. very foolish boy indeed 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Primenet(m): 7:18am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Guy, really inspired by your story. You will surely make it. Don't worry, there is light at the end of the tunnel. Bleep XXXXPXXXX XXXXPXXXX XXXXPXXXX MY SIDE HUSTLING BUSINESS THIS IS NOT A JOKE!
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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by deltateam: 7:20am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Tankunland: To shorten the process of paternity or should the other dude prove stubborn or if it seems the process will take time; Simply do a DNA test on your son and have a lawyer copy him a legal warning. That should settle it. |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ProtectMyMoney: 7:22am On Apr 09, 2020 |
heniford2: I clearly understand depression, but i think social media has played a part in making people wallow in self pity as they easily consume make believe life and use it to compare their situation, thus feeling inadequate. I truly understand a humble situation. I was once in those shoes and mine was in those days when there was no mobile phones. |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by azukaegopeter(m): 7:24am On Apr 09, 2020 |
This is the best piece i have ever read here. |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Papasmal(m): 7:25am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Vavevivo: You will survive my brother.. That your unborn child will bring you loads of futune...be hopeful you will have a turnaround. |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Eray(f): 7:25am On Apr 09, 2020 |
bobogii2008:I can understand, sometime the pressure is so much. But I will be strong, I promise 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by smudge2079(m): 7:27am On Apr 09, 2020 |
This is a very sad story. I wish you well bro. |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 7:31am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Eray: Its just a matter of time, keep on praying for Godly intervention. Encourage your spouse dont ever belittle his efforts. I knew how much we suffered then. What is he (your spouse) in to? |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Passionate1(m): 7:34am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Jeffy1206: Even if na ur wife. .you've got to be wise to live in this time. .women by nature are opportunistic Be very careful ! 1 Like
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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by einsteine(m): 7:36am On Apr 09, 2020 |
I really don't think the OP has learnt anything. Even after her death, she's still deceiving you. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Eray(f): 7:37am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Eco2580:oh thank you, he worked with a transport company that transport wheat and flour products but lost his job July last year. 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by amaks: 7:38am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Tankunland: Thank God for your life. Thanks for this inspirational testimony. You have touched people here on nairaland. Remain strong, remain blessed. Please what exactly do you see in those Yahoo boy's rooms at the hotel when you go to clean it? Please educate the rest of us so whenever we see such anywhere, whether in people's home or public places or anywhere, we should know. This knowledge can save a life someday. Some people might appear innocent and religious and all but you never know the evil they're into. We shouldn't be naive of the ways of the enemy. Thanks. I'm guessing you're from Taraba state. Wishing you more of God's blessings in life and beyond. 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Felincous(m): 7:39am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Tankunland:Bro u can send me mail: felincous@gmail.com Let's make movie ND novel from this. |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Jimmyubah2: 7:41am On Apr 09, 2020 |
buzorcharles:Abi? He went to a sound secondary school then. And as his social interactions with people may also contribute. |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by SenecaTheYonger: 7:41am On Apr 09, 2020 |
The little experience I had with a Nigerian single mother changed my life. I can't believe I dated one. I still curse myself till today. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by chronique(m): 7:45am On Apr 09, 2020 |
einsteine: this one off me. Women are very good manipilators especially when a child is involved. It's never very easy to deal with them especially when you are the very nice type. Most of the time, they'd be using your head but you would be feeling you are in love until the day you would eventually have sense. This doesn't mean women are bad o. Only God knows why he gave them that skill. Honestly, your late gf was just for the highest bidder and people like that who can only love when money is involved, are not for struggling guys. That's a lesson you should learn going forward. Wish you well in your endeavors. By the way, how much would it cost to mount CCTV with 8 cameras round a building? 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ordainbuzz(m): 7:45am On Apr 09, 2020 |
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:have been laughing althrough, just check his moniker, very foolish boy 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Kenneth10110(m): 7:45am On Apr 09, 2020 |
[quote author=Martinez39s post=88220810][/quote] I support you in marking the never have a girlfriend in 20's wrong. If you can get a true girl for you and she's not the demanding type i mean you should know the girl that truly loves you and don't use impression of money to toast or woo a lady. Starting to date at 30 is not advisable to me cus at least 25-30 you should know who to settle with already and planning to get married not when pressure of marriage comes you will rush any girl and marry the wrong person. I think OP should change to early 20's. Nice story |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by goldiam(f): 7:45am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Makschinchin: He quoted you because you are part of the problem we have.Remember the Internet never forget. Thank God you are alive to witness his testimony. |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Vivjoe(f): 7:46am On Apr 09, 2020 |
[quote author=Tankunland post=88215811] When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again. Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head. I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine. I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine. Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you. and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things. To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one. I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming. To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go. And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you. I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE[/ Wow, I am deeply touched. I pray for God's blessings upon your life. I have learnt a great deal from you. Thanks. |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by HenryThegreat1(m): 7:47am On Apr 09, 2020 |
The fornication, adultery, abomination u guys committed caused ur suffering and even her untimely death. Sleeping with different men at d same time even in pregnancy? It's an abomination where I comes from. Even bible made it clear to us that wages of sin is death. 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by qtx(m): 7:48am On Apr 09, 2020 |
Tankunland:Very touching story. Meanwhile, you didnt say how your new-found career on CCTV is doing? I must also say you perhaps dont know you have a gift of writing? You may also look into that. You sound like a gentleman with a lot of emotions. Intriguing story after all with great advice and moral lessons at the end. Please do your best for Samuel. Wishing you the very best in the remaining part of your life |
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