Munzy14:

The worst is those meeting through match making...It always end in tears.

at least those who do through family hook up is a little face but not hundred percent safe cos at least the family members can investigate the girl thoroughly..but through social media dat one na scam

gargoylern:

The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average working customer service after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!

3.5K in Canada is actually small, especially if you live in cities like Vancouver, Montréal or Toronto. Her 120K in Nigeria can do much more than the 3.5K$ in Canada.

lefulefu:
divorce settlements and govt will give ur house and property to ur divorced wife is probably d reason

It is not only in Canada or America bro, Sweden and many other western block and divorce settlements is the main reason. Except prenuptial agreement before marriage which many of them don't like to sign your hard earned properties will be shared 50-50 even if she bang another man on your matrimonial bed.

Am single and searching dear,you can whatapp me on 07061677265,am graduate of computer science,will love to meet you and get acquainted with you if you don’t mind dear.

safarigirl:


I did not grow up in this manner you are describing. Not all of us knocked on neighbors doors or even have neighbors to knock on their doors.

I have always been a loner. I have acquaintances, not so much friends.

I don't ask strangers for things, in fact, I don't like to ask my own family for things.

Naija guys don't like me, I don't fit the profile of the kind of girls they prefer, I have given up on them. Dora Akunyili's daughter found a sound oyibo guy in this same Canada. You will tell me it is because she has name and a career or whatever, but she found someone. She could have waited for a Sound Naija guy, but maybe like me, Nigerian men did not fancy her because she did not fit the profile of what they wanted

People have different destinies, this doom and gloom some of you preach, there are so many others that will have a different story. My sister has planned two weddings within the last year, with Nigerian brides living in Canada, her ex recently got married in Canada, to a Nigerian woman based there.

I don't have a good story in Nigeria, it cannot get worse in Canada.

bukatyne2:


A single guy is better off migrating alone than a single lady.

Most people I know migrated married or started processing when they had a partner in mind and relocated shortly after (some did as quickly as a month) while others just settled and came back home to marry and pick their spouses.

How and why is a single guy better off migrating than a single lady?

generationz:


Is it the NIGERIAN woman or the system because the last time I checked, white women also take full custody and child support.

You people just want to insult your Naija sisters at every given opportunity.

The problem is Nigeria men are not expecting our ladies to behave like the white women. That's why they are complaining.
You saw a white woman but decided not to marry her because of this divorce issue only to marry a Nigeria woman and face exactly what you were avoiding.

joelag:


Did you see my last line?

Lol. That's not a problem nah. I am equal to the task

oluwableskay:
This is my Whatapp nom 07061677265,am looking forward for it baba,am sure the girl will appreciate you for connecting us together at the end and I will also reward you baba.

The hustle is real

EVILFOREST:

GUYS SUCH IS REAL and SERIOUS.
I specifically found a Lady for my Uncle based in the US too.
We kept track of this Lady and I paid those who fed me with information and Facebook Pictures.
My MOM also Kept track, including my Sisters in
Nigeria.
Could you believe that my MOM saw the telltale signs of her being terrible. She called my UNCLE here and warned him but my uncle replied my MOM that, the Nigerian Lady will never be worse than the ones he had already met in the US.
My MOM wept and closed her mouth.

He visited Naija and made papers for her.
Could you believe that this NIGERIAN LADY who has never visited the US before landed in the US Airport of Washington Dulles where my uncle had already gone to pick her, connected with another Guy and left without my Uncle's notice.

My UNCLE got to the Airport with the hope that she will be waiting and needed directions not knowing that the JEZEBEL had linked up with a BF GUY.

My UNCLE waited for days, only to visit her FACEBOOK PAGE to see that she had uploaded a lot of pictures about her trip.

RIGHT there, he called DHS and USCIS and explained to them that he had brought in a JEZEBEL into the US..
Till today he vowed never to marry again.
Such a wealthy man.

This is scary.

Veryfoolishboy:
Why dem no con dey find you bro?

work hard and smart enough then u will know

Drinksarena:
This truth is dat lonely women are everywhere especially the working class and career ladies, alot of Dem here in my estate already in[b][/b] their late 30s[b][/b]

Wahala dey o.

lefulefu:
at least those who do through family hook up is a little face but not hundred percent safe cos at least the family members can investigate the girl thoroughly..but through social media dat one na scam

All na scam.

THUNDER4real:
MARRY A LADY THAT LOVES YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE HER......Good advice so far....

This is one of the most underrated rel advise.

lefulefu:
if its a rented apartment then she will take his car and money.i have heard a case where a woman even took the man"s dog during a divorce proceeding

IH boy that kind of woman is deadlier than coronavirus ooo. Taking her man's dog as part of property benefitted is terrible.

Albertone:
Whizqueen is it true? Lol

Here’s my response https://www.nairaland.com/5783504/reply-chai-nigerian-girls-canada

GeneralPula:
Not just CA but USA inclusive. My bro baby mama is a Latina. They both live in Tx with 2kids..

When I asked him why not having a Naija girl as Baby mama;
He said Man.. Naija girls are not so hot lol. You won’t even feel like dicking them when you have fresh and cute Latina’s around everywhere..

LaHot

Interesting thread. I’ve been considering relocating to either US or Canada to further my education and acquire more job experience. Now I’m beginning to have a second thought.

Cvesta:


I think that marriage did not break especially because because Jay-Z had a prenuptial agreement with her, so it was not in her interest in any way to end the marriage

This has to be the most lamest reason for not divorcing Jay. Go and look at how much Bey is worth. Jay better be doing thanksgiving that Bey didn't divorce him. He should thank his stars

gargoylern:
I visit Canada and the US from time to time, but on this my last trip I could not but observe just how extremely lonely Nigerian girls are there. Why did they immigrate in the first place? What did they expect what waiting for them on the other side? A man gift wrapped in iced sugar?

They all have Youtube channels now, or Instagram channels and release video or vlogs every other day. I guess it is the easiest way to stop themselves from going crazy over the dreary loneliness.

But the problem doesn't even stop there. Normally, I would have been interested sef. But many of them are actually not so good-looking or resourceful. Too bad!

If you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada, make sure you consider it hard and deep. You could end up being just as lonely and dejected. Am not kidding when I say this. If you aren't there, you have no idea how tough it can get.

BOREDOM IS REAL FOR NIGERIANS ABROAD.

flyingdutchman:
Lemme break it down for Australia: White women first LGBTQs and Other women Second Children, Dogs and Cats Third (yes, same category) White Men Fourth Asian Men Fifth Africans and Aborigines Sixth

where do you stay in Aussie

Hmm.

Aboguede:


You are not in USA or Canada nor any western world so u will not understand and these things will look complicated to you!

no there is nothing complicated, i have lived in europe and asia and i can tell u all this write up is rubbish. these girls are not lonely as claimed. they actually dont lack guys to Bleep them as claimed. yes they do prostitution for the money.
the issue here is that an average nigeria abroad wants to really make it before considering marriage. the average girl also wants to make it too. for this reason, they both dont want to get distracted by relationships and stuffs like that. a fine girl in nigeria is a fine girl anywhere in the world. lets stop misinforming people here

hAlexandro:
I Concur yeah. I've had 2 various offers. One lives in Manitoba rich young banker. She needs a guy from 9ja here in the other is from Edmonton also busty girl of Nigeria descent

Baba I'm available, link me to one

Nwachi22:
Interesting thread. I’ve been considering relocating to either US or Canada to further my education and acquire more job experience. Now I’m beginning to have a second thought.

Lol... Having a second thought because someone on the internet said women are bored without men? Like you'll drop your ambitions so you can be someone's wife? Wow!

You've missed the point bro.

He's talking about Naija guys and babes in particular.

Living private lives in Naija are mostly for the rich. The rich won't run to Canada for greener pasture, only the hustlers do.

Minxie:
Maybe, just maybe, they're not lonely and they are actually enjoying their lives...

In most countries, it's normal to be focused on your career as a woman. It doesn't mean you're lonely. So maybe these girls just adjusted to their surroundings and maybe they're finally happy because they live in a society where people don't expect them to get married at 25.

Just because you don't understand or agree with a culture or ideology doesn't mean that it's wrong. So just because you don't understand why they are single and career driven, doesnt mean you are right in labelling them as lonely.

If that's your logic, you can label me lonely too. I'll proudly accept

This thread isn't for the rich but the hustlers that travel abroad to make money thinking everything is money.

Our culture is to notice and be noticed. You can't change that. If paradventure you find yourself in a different land you will miss being real you.

You get that?

LordShiva97:


How and why is a single guy better off migrating than a single lady?

Because ideally, a man finds a woman to wife.

So if a single guy goes (a lesser of two evils because I won't advocate single mature people migrating if they want marriage) and can choose. A single girl has to be chosen.

If single people want to migrate, it is best they do so for school, then they are integrate into the system better.

Focusmind:
This is why I don't encourage single girls/ladies to enter this PR express entry. What the OP said is true. A lady that left us more than 6 years ago when we were in the banking sector told me that she was always feeling bored and intended coming back but have not been able to secure something decent in Nigeria.

She said the place is too boring for her without any family member even though she tries to socialize with people but at the end you still go back home to your loneliness and misses the usual TGIF we do on Fridays, weekend weddings and other social events.

Most important to her now is to get married as the chances of her getting hooked in Canada is too remote and fast approaching 33 years.

Nigeria may have its own problems but as a single lady, if you are doing well in Nigeria, abeg maintain here o

.

Nwachi22:
Interesting thread. I’ve been considering relocating to either US or Canada to further my education and acquire more job experience. Now I’m beginning to have a second thought.

Why?

What's your current family structure?

Age bracket? (20s, 30s) etc.

GloShare:
I'm in canada, and I will tell you for real.

The only excitement a man may get is having sex with a woman or friends with benefits.

The moment you nut in her and she gets pregnant, or the moment you put a ring on it and marry her legally, she immediately has power over you.

Power intoxicates, and because African women have not tasted such power, it gets in their head.

There are a lot of good ones though.

In canada,
Children come first,
Seniors (old people) come second
Women come third
Animals come fourth.
Men come last.

your order of preference lol

BarrElChapo:


Mikel is far poorer than his partner's father. Don't always rush to conclude every thing in the man's favour plus he can always sign a prenup

You think its that easy?

You think their parent's wealth prevent them from sending you to the streets or did those that shared their divorced spouse wealth tell you that their parents were poor?

lefulefu:
at least those who do through family hook up is a little face but not hundred percent safe cos at least the family members can investigate the girl thoroughly..but through social media dat one na scam

Family or no family, all na scam bro.


Time have gone when people find wife or husband for another person.

Its time to turn bestie to wife....

gargoylern:

The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average working customer service after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!

On top wetin? Money? Money that we can't even enjoy right now! Money that we will eventually leave behind even if it doesn't leave us! It's good to work for money to have a comfortable life but not to the detriment of one's health in the name of greed