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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by rhymz(m): 4:37pm On Apr 09, 2020
Nairaland has become trash walahi.... a lot of jobless guys here who think they are in competition with women.... The lady just put down her thoughts in response to the first thread that alleges that Nigerian women are lonely in Canada, instead of a honest conversation.... dudes are just busy writing like maniacs that have no females in their lives..... many of the guys writing this nonsense obviously can't keep a conversation with a woman.... lol self esteem is very evident in the way many are replying the ladies like loonies..... very disappointed in the men here..... Nairaland has gone to the dogs.... where are the real adult males that use to be here....

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by macho44(m): 4:37pm On Apr 09, 2020
pocohantas:


Hmmm. “Foreign women rush Naija men”
Tell am, she don't know nothing. Fyne , Tall, Macho, Eloquent boys like "US", Dem no want us to REST. Every 25 seconds my phone dey beep, if no be voice notes from my women, na text messages from my girls [color=#990000][/color] grin
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by bukatyne2: 4:37pm On Apr 09, 2020
whizqueen:

1. A commenter advises that ladies should rather focus on getting married before a career. I beg to differ that perspective is just lame to me.
2. It depends on what they want for themselves. If you want a family then find a partner, if you want just a child get a donor or adopt one
3. I don’t like d1ldos grin

1. So I take it that you rather focus on your career first?

2. Truth is, if everyone did what they 'wanted', the society will be choatic.

3. Hahahahahaaha! Fair enough.

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by katyamizotta: 4:38pm On Apr 09, 2020
shogsman:
If you're in Rome you might as well behave like a roman,I personally don't advice any Nigerian in diaspora to marry a Nigerian girl,I do not care about green cards cos migration is not my problem but I think girls there are better suited and more reasonable than Nigerian girls.this is coming from someone who dated 6 Nigerian girls and later got married to an American,the distance between the affection and attention to details is explicitly different.

I do not advice any Nigerian person to marry any Nigerian. Its not about the gender. Nigerian men should marry foreigners and Nigerian women should marry foreigners. Except for a few exceptions, Nigerian gender seems toxic to each other.

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by NgwalandAbia(m): 4:38pm On Apr 09, 2020
whizqueen:
My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.

I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.


Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.


Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.


I personally feel attacked cry grin I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me


What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear


If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.


Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally[b] just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress[/b]. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.


Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.


White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili
On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. undecided The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department shocked

In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.

Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.

All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.

Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.

There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.

A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.

I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today grin

Link to Original thread https://www.nairaland.com/5782313/chai-nigerian-girls-canada-lonely

I think that Op made lot of sense because from the video, it seems that you guys over there are not cool, very fugly if I might say and full of some shiit...JUST IMAGINE GETTING SPERM...HOPE IT's your father's sperm you will buy, why can't you manufacture your own sperm from the almighty Canadian drug companies...What is in Canada self...Corona Virus they can't manage...shitthole lonely white apes land.

Continue ranting there till you clock 50 by then you will know what's up.

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by nelsonebby(m): 4:38pm On Apr 09, 2020
I knew you were going to reply that thread grin
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Awe4luv(m): 4:38pm On Apr 09, 2020
macho44:
Giving money to agents for travelling is a very risky venture. Bros shine ur eye, make person no run u street ooo
you really dont have to tell me this coz am not dumb, but if u have someone that has done it for someone you know before so y not, no matter the risk am so certain it will work as the same company has done it for someone close not more than a year plus ago.......
make your research well, yea people get scammed but there are still legit organisations that will help u out....
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by bluefilm: 4:39pm On Apr 09, 2020
Jesus Christ!!!

This one is really really ugly o!

Tufiakwa!!! sad sad sad sad

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 4:39pm On Apr 09, 2020
Ebonygirl1:


You always exaggerate things. Its not even funny, just ridiculous

The guy is so annoying with that his unprovoked laughter.

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Sultty(m): 4:39pm On Apr 09, 2020
whizqueen:
If you want you can check out my YouTube Channel, I make videos on Life in Canada and immigrating to Canada, the process, the cost and available pathways

Wetin dey occurate for Canada? R there sharing long life there? Abeg swerve

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 4:39pm On Apr 09, 2020
ibkayee:

Lmao I'm British-Nigerian and the only reason I specifically go for Naija men is because culturally, they're just convenient. I've met some great ones in my life but as a collelctive, you aren't that special tongue
I'm on Lipstickalley forum and all the black British women there say the same, cautioning against marrying British black men, including Nigerians. It's no wonder many female British Youtubers end up dating or marrying white men.


dreamwords:
Nigerian ladies have a particular mindset which makes it difficult for Nigerian men over there to marry them, because those men have seen better options
Which mindset is that? Have they met every Nigerian woman here?

Besides, many Nigerian men here are divorcees (after marrying white women for papers) or single fathers with a kid or two and they will still be doing shakara

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by cyprus000: 4:41pm On Apr 09, 2020
Ayinke93:
You should know Nigerian men to overestimate their importance in the lives of women. See them wanking over the thought of their absence being the reason for the loneliness of someone who just started a new life a in far away country.some of them on that thread are even advicing the women to drop their imigration plans so as to be someone's wives.

They all sound very threatened at the thought of not being able to control a fellow human being. I really do not blame y'all, I blame the society that made you so entitled in the fist place. For the gender that claims to be superior, they worry too much about women and there choices and the thought of not being the center of a woman's life give them headaches.

If there's any woman here nursing the thought of travelling abroad, if that is was you solely desire, face it squarely and build yourself. When you are complete on your own, you'll find love on the way.

@whizqueen, you are doing an amazing job and I admire you alot. Working on starting my immigration process already, sadly everything had to wait for know. All the best to you in Canada.
The problem with Nigerian men being aversive about Nigerian women having rights outside the country is not out of feeling intimidated or having a manic crave for servility(though there's infinitesimal exception just like every other thing have got it own exception).

Nigerian women get overly inebriated by it that subsequently bring out a toxic edge which simply turn them to predators or DRAGONS as some choose to call them. then they plunge the marriage into an unhealthy competition(or dick measuring) with an antagonistic fervor, leaving men bewildered whether they're still dealing with their once loving angel or a rare specimen of human demon. That is why they go for foreign women who have the mental posture to handle such rights without getting inebriated by it.

Just recently a bossom friend of mine visited me in Nigeria to muster his life together. He fought in biafran war as a kid soldier, and manage to go through thick and thin of life to find himself in the US, though little advanced in age then, he came back to marry one Nigerian lady, only for her to turn into a black mamba and displace him from his own house just when he retired as an old professor suffering chronic stroke. I'm not even talking about what it cost him financially apart from the house; a handicap at that. His only saving grace is that I helped him invest here in Nigeria before the debacle.

The situation have culminated to bareface venality and unapologetic greediness. I can't remotely diagnose the cause, but that's what it is.

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Dollabiz: 4:41pm On Apr 09, 2020
They are lonely but won’t want to date Naija guys especially the ones in Naija

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by CYBERWEAVER(m): 4:41pm On Apr 09, 2020
tyup:
Reading some few lines i knew the whole message would be senseless n really when that guy said 9ja babes in Canada 're less attractive n not good looking dang i now believe

mehnn Op wor wor ehn Tuueh

Besides only a lonely lady would have such time to reply breaking in messages just like you've done
sad
hahahah

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 4:41pm On Apr 09, 2020
sisisioge:



Tellllll him! grin grin



there's nothing here.

She just exposed herself , the guy in the other thread was not lying.

She's ugly.

She has a youtube channel (matchmaking purpose)

From her looks , i can tell you she's above 30.

She ought to be asking questions , learn one or two things from the comments in that thread.

But as usual she still has in her possession the NIGERIAN PRIDE.

she don turn am 2 male vs female ish.


make no mistake , for me marriage is overrated. will never sign up for that sh!t

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by okwusdidi: 4:41pm On Apr 09, 2020
I think the problem here is finding the right partner for marriage as this institution is seriously under attack.There are many dysfunctional people out there for instance the clingy and emotionally needed woman,the selfish man or woman,the gold digger,the selfish the jealous man e.t.c.I just feel that people should go for pyscological eveluation before getting married but getting a good woman like that mentioned in proverb is very hard these days.But if you do find one like the OP said.You are lucky and should not take them for granted.What i don't agree with is that a woman should not pursue her dreams because of a man.

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by iammiracle1(m): 4:41pm On Apr 09, 2020
Burgcudi:
Coming to Canada for hustle has always been my dream but no funds to process the whole thing is too expensive for me to handle.


If you are serious and have a degree and work experience, look out for a lady that is interested in traveling, hook up and run the package together, better you guys genuinely like each other though, it beats wishful thinking and hoping for a woman to miraculously carry you to the abroad.
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Farki: 4:41pm On Apr 09, 2020
Mstick:
Anybody with a brain knows that thread was created to massage the ego of Nigerian men.

Nigerian men like to praise themselves and make it look like women from other continents are falling over themselves to date them but believe me it's 100% false.

Black men are just the worst honestly, you see them opening threads upon threads insulting and humiliating black women but you would NEVER see men from other races do that. Are their women perfect? NO! but they respect and protect them anyway.

The reason why most of this black men go after white women is because of the standard the white men set for their own women, they built a country and environment where there women can thrive meanwhile our own men are still here debating if we're allowed to serve them garri with one meat.



This write up is seriously off. grin
Asian men especially in the West get very upset at Asian women going after white guys.

Black men go after white women mainly because of looks and similar interests also because white women take care of themselves. Whatever idea you have was simply made up in your head.

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by melodyogonna(m): 4:41pm On Apr 09, 2020
lefulefu:
nigerian girls in nigeria are not lonely ooo
anyone in naija tellin u she is lonely is not being honest with u
an average naija girl will get 850 misscalls from guys
470 unread messages from whatsap
700 unread messages from facebook
1800 likes on instagram
6000 likes on facebook
and u say dat one is lonely?
lonely how? cheesy
She don't know. Unless the girl is ugly, like really ugly

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by alphaNomega: 4:42pm On Apr 09, 2020
whizqueen:
My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.

I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.


Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.


Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.


I personally feel attacked cry grin I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me


What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear


If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.


Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.


Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.


White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili
On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. undecided The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department shocked

In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.

Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.

All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.

Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.

There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.

A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.

I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today grin

Link to Original thread https://www.nairaland.com/5782313/chai-nigerian-girls-canada-lonely

Since you've been to Canada, how many times have you gotten laid?

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by IdioticNLmods: 4:42pm On Apr 09, 2020
Liposure:
baba,which nationality dey ur mind 4 marriage
Any nationality not Nigerian or behaves like Nigerian..

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by cotzywitzy(m): 4:43pm On Apr 09, 2020
whizqueen:
My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.

I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.


Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.


Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.


I personally feel attacked cry grin I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me


What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear


If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.


Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.


Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.


White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili
On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. undecided The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department shocked

In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.

Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.

All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.

Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.

There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.

A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.

I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today grin

Link to Original thread https://www.nairaland.com/5782313/chai-nigerian-girls-canada-lonely
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Well written. A question for you. What’s the best way to get to Canada?
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by macho44(m): 4:43pm On Apr 09, 2020
Awe4luv:

you really dont have to tell me this coz am not dumb, but if u have someone that has done it for someone you know before so y not, no matter the risk am so certain it will work as the same company has done it for someone close not more than a year plus ago.......
make your research well, yea people get scammed but there are still legit organisations that will help u out....
Ok sir. No vex.
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Ebonygirl1(f): 4:43pm On Apr 09, 2020
lefulefu:
exergerate ke cheesy..u ARE a lady so u will know i am not lying cheesy
of ALL those guys who call u on phone at least 150 of them are serious minded cheesy

You're a clown mehn. No lady(except celebrities maybe) has 150 guys calling her undecided

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by mentored: 4:44pm On Apr 09, 2020
whizqueen:
If you want you can check out my YouTube Channel, I make videos on Life in Canada and immigrating to Canada, the process, the cost and available pathways


This is my interest
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by bukatyne2: 4:44pm On Apr 09, 2020
MizMyColi:
This is one reason I dislike putting my life out there.
Too much negative energy.

Some people just project their negative lives to you. They are so desperate for it to become your reality as well.

However, the less they know about you, the easier you can live your life and be truly happy.

I get that privacy and publicity has its perks, however, I'd favor a private life any and every time.

Madame, where have you been? kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss
Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by madridsta007(m): 4:44pm On Apr 09, 2020
princealexndre:
well I see why he said You people are lonely, Someone that is not lonely cannot type all this story

grin grin

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by whizqueen(f): 4:45pm On Apr 09, 2020
HappyCanadian:

Please what do you mean by the bolded, kinda scared as I intend to go home and marry a clean Nigerian girl not so exposed.. I no want the ones wey don tear eyes finish
Things become different once they arrive in Canada. It has worked for some people tho. You can just ask your family to help you investigate the babe well and pray for God’s guidance as well.

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by KingAzari: 4:45pm On Apr 09, 2020
whizqueen:

Nigerian women in Canada are not good looking

You completely justified the OP's earlier bolded assertion.

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by pocohantas(f): 4:45pm On Apr 09, 2020
OkpaNsukkaisBae:

there's nothing here. She just exposed herself , the guy in the other thread was not lying.

She's ugly.She has a youtube channel (matchmaking purpose)
From her looks , i can tell you she's above 30.
She ought to be asking questions , learn one or two things from the comments in that thread.
But as usual she still has in her possession the NIGERIAN PRIDE.

she don turn am 2 male vs female ish. make no mistake , for me marriage is overrated. will never sign up for that sh!t

Oga, shut up your mouth.

That chick is well in her 20s, a graduate and chartered accountant.

What have you done for yourself?

All these wimps all around NL, looking for women to denigrate.

Marriage is overrated, but you won’t let “lonely single women” be. Bunch of modafuckeen negros.

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Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by adaksbullet: 4:45pm On Apr 09, 2020
lefulefu:
nigerian girls in nigeria are not lonely ooo
anyone in naija tellin u she is lonely is not being honest with u
an average naija girl will get 850 misscalls from guys
470 unread messages from whatsap
700 unread messages from facebook
1800 likes on instagram
6000 likes on facebook
and u say dat one is lonely?
lonely how? cheesy
bus cheesy cheesy grin grin


Alagbere grin grin

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