MartinsD12:

Based on experience

Then your experience is invalid to conclude that every poor girl is a glutton. Address your dissatisfaction towards the lady you encountered and leave innocent poor girls out of it.


Stop the stereotype pls. I am poor and not a glutton. I am contented with the little I have.
There is something y'all are missing out here which is proper upbringing. So many poor girls you are to encounter are raised to be independent. For the fact you didn't meet them doesn't make them insignificant.

Na him =>linda ikeji<= no gree date you?

me i think it ballz down to CONTENTMENT

Ihatefeminist:
big fat lie! Nah them worse pass! Rich girls always rub the fact that their father have money on your face! I once dated one; Gloria. that girl was a reck! I pity the unfortunate fool wey go marry am. Her papa money don enter her head.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4WrurdNU4AE

Carry the babe give me naw

LedRock:
Guy you fvcked up big time, as I read your story I felt like crying. You didn't reciprocate her love for you, you were too afraid.

i understand the guy,I was in his shoes when I was young.....

Eberechi24:

Then your experience is invalid to conclude that every poor girl is a glutton. Address your dissatisfaction towards the lady you encountered and leave innocent poor girls out of it.


Stop the stereotype pls. I am poor and not a glutton. I am contented with the little I have.

My opinion was not directed at you, who asked if you are poor here am stating the obvious truth here which some guys can concur to you must not quote me but if you do don't take it personal or unreasonable because my opinion is not directed or in any related to you.

My dear

Marriage is a complete car

Attitude is synthetic oil (without it your car engine will Knock)

Love is fuel that makes your car move.

You see, you can have fuel and your car won't move if there's no engine or gear oil, else it will knock....

Coolant / Radiator is the tolerance your marriage needs.

All in all, Engine oil is very important!!!

PotatoSalad:
Doesn't have to be girls from rich homes. It's synonymous with rich people. They give out but hardly receive, so they appreciate the smallest gesture.

Sorry, we, not they. Sad life

very good point

hachan:


..........proud..........

Now edit your post.

You have a long way to go. I won't blame you anyway — English is not your first language. Both are correct. Kindly purchase and read my book below to improve and become wiser.

Thank you and kindly edit yours now to avoid embarrassing the person who paid for your education.

They are both adjectives and the usage are both correct.

Abeg, I no get strength to talk too much today.

Escodeb:
I think it because of the moral standard of those you have dated or have something with.


One thing I appreciate about the rich parents is they mostly teach their children the importance of being appreciative to whatever help rendered to them and whatever is given to them.

So true.

My dad made me believe to be successful, a man must make many sacrifices with his time and time is wealth .

Also if one appreciates the Lil things given . It paves way for greater things in the future.
And so far such phylosophy is working for me so well.
And lastly nobody is a f.o.o.l except they decide to place a blind eye to what u r doing ..

kushme:


This is a fact. They build their relationship around food... When they come to your house, they try to eat everything they see. That's why they are poor. Eating all in one day or moment.

Living like goats, just to eat now and not thinking of tomorrow or the future, believing that, the men in their pussies will always handle that.
Give us food now or we leave for the next available guy who would be ready feed us in exchange for our live holes.

Na true.

AfroKnight:
Dating broke entitled girls is a chore. I have been lucky to avoid them. Well, any guy would spot them right from the beginning. You guys are still in the talking stage and she’s always running out of airtime. Well, she can either buy her own airtime or stay away and stop telling me about it. It won’t ever go beyond that stage for me.

A fairly comfortable working woman (or even a rich babe) is the goal especially if she takes pride in spoiling herself with her own money.

You see these brokeàss greedy babes here? There is nothing you can do rehabilitate them. It reminds me of those beggars on the road who would return to begging the next day, even if you gave them 100K cash at once. Why?

Cos they believe such fortune would come again soon.

That’s how these broke babes think. Once they land a guy who spends on them, they think their chances are getting better. They stay on the lookout for a richer, more generous guy to latch on to. Loyalty doesn’t exist in their dictionary. This is probably because poverty has affected them so bad, they never want to smell it even from afar. That’s cool. But a transactional relationship is not the only way out of poverty.

Guys, if you are not one who thinks to trap a woman with your money, then avoid broke and entitled women. They add no value. You’d check your life after 6 months and find out that all you enjoy in the relationship is sex which you have to pay for anyway. That’s a loss. No motivation. No support. You can’t even ask for her opinion on issues cos she’s not interested in anything that isn’t money or gifts.

Go for a woman who works for her money and doesn’t bother you for mundane things like money for hair and shopping. Go for a woman whose financial plan doesn’t depend on the man she will date or marry.

Go for a woman whose lifestyle is supported by her own money. She will add value to your life.

I think this writeup was directed to me. Mehn! Bless up bro. You're the kind of person I like associating with, this has always been my perception and I'm ain't changing it for nothing. Bless up man...

MartinsD12:

My opinion was not directed at you, who asked if you are poor here am stating the obvious truth here which some guys can concur to you must not quote me but if you do don't take it personal or unreasonable because my opinion is not directed or in any related to you.

you indirectly linked me into your statistics when you didn't employ "Some poor girls" in your analysis. That's why I took it personally.

I do hope you understand my point. Good day.

LandMann:
The answer lies in the upbringing and moral uprightness of the girl.

If you meet a poor girl with low morals, she's going to be unappreciative. If you meet a poor girl with good morals and proper upbringing, she will be appreciative.

Same thing applies to girls who are rich or are from rich homes. The question is how morally upright is the girl?

You can't be dating a girl with low morality and expect her to be appreciative.

Or can you squeeze water out of stone?

Sense Pill:
it is not about the size of daddy's pocket but the content of characters

MartinsD12:

Thank God you saw what I saw too, I pity anybody dating a poor girl

I see through it bro. They are always hungry,selfish and wasteful, they live just to eat. No vision, no nothing. Only give me food they know how to say in different ways. No need to pity anybody(thirsty men) dating/ fucking a poor girl for a short time cos you know the game and the little money to put into it.

However, i only pity those unfortunate anybody who would eventually marry them. .
They are going to feed them for the rest of their lives while they(poor girls to women) grow fat and become land whales.

yourstruly5:


Your voice is loud ooo�
How did u know?
Monitoring spirit �

kushme:


This is a fact. They build their relationship around food... When they come to your house, they try to eat everything they see. That's why they are poor. Eating all in one day or moment.

Living like goats, just to eat now and not thinking of tomorrow or the future, believing that, the men in their pussies will always handle that.
Give us food now or we leave for the next available guy who would be ready feed us in exchange for our live holes.

This One na Heavy Point.
They EAT a lot and DRAG friends and Family members to a DATE...
That's their TRADEMARK.
But Bros, poverty no easy oooo.
We really need to assist shaaa, although some families get burden ooo

with the way most of the comments here are describing girls from poor homes, you will think they are ballers and really from well boxed up homes.

The things we read online Sha, everyone can claim king, lool.
we will be alright Las las

desmond2pk:
I once paid for my girl friend's visa, tickets, bta and everything i bought for her like cloths, hairs and shoes.
She came from the poorest of the pours. Her dad was an old blind man.
When she got to the u s , relationship was smooth until she started work and got herself a boy friend. She told me off. Insulted me like nobody has ever done and will ever do.
She was the most humble girl i have ever met before then.
I learned my lesson the hard way. There is no good girl from a poor family. Not even a single girl.
What humbles then is poverty . As soon as you let them shine, they show you their characters.
The poorer the evil

bro seriously that girl did that to u oh men that sad

if na me I go do everything to bring her down I swear with my life

You Got it, You Just Hit The nail On the Head

Humanoid01:

I think there are many factors that contribute to this, it's not about coming from a poor home. There are unappreciative girls both from poor and wealthy homes.

This is true. I agree with you 100 �

AfroKnight:
Dating broke entitled girls is a chore. I have been lucky to avoid them. Well, any guy would spot them right from the beginning. You guys are still in the talking stage and she’s always running out of airtime. Well, she can either buy her own airtime or stay away and stop telling me about it. It won’t ever go beyond that stage for me.

A fairly comfortable working woman (or even a rich babe) is the goal especially if she takes pride in spoiling herself with her own money.

You see these brokeàss greedy babes here? There is nothing you can do rehabilitate them. It reminds me of those beggars on the road who would return to begging the next day, even if you gave them 100K cash at once. Why?

Cos they believe such fortune would come again soon.

That’s how these broke babes think. Once they land a guy who spends on them, they think their chances are getting better. They stay on the lookout for a richer, more generous guy to latch on to. Loyalty doesn’t exist in their dictionary. This is probably because poverty has affected them so bad, they never want to smell it even from afar. That’s cool. But a transactional relationship is not the only way out of poverty.

Guys, if you are not one who thinks to trap a woman with your money, then avoid broke and entitled women. They add no value. You’d check your life after 6 months and find out that all you enjoy in the relationship is sex which you have to pay for anyway. That’s a loss. No motivation. No support. You can’t even ask for her opinion on issues cos she’s not interested in anything that isn’t money or gifts.

Go for a woman who works for her money and doesn’t bother you for mundane things like money for hair and shopping. Go for a woman whose financial plan doesn’t depend on the man she will date or marry.

Go for a woman whose lifestyle is supported by her own money. She will add value to your life.

Well said...
Guys should avoid broke girls with expensive taste..she will wreck you and cheat on you Las Las as you end up looking like a fool in the end.

Very true. U just said my mind and what I'm going through right now. I hv been waiting for this thread

Eberechi24:


you indirectly linked me into your statistics when you didn't employ "Some poor girls" in your analysis. That's why I took it personally.

I do hope you understand my point. Good day.

Don't quote me if it's not sensible enough, that doesn't take away the fact that poor girls are gullible gluttons

kushme:


I see through it bro. They are always hungry,selfish and wasteful, they live just to eat. No vision, no nothing. Only give me food they know how to say in different ways. No need to pity anybody(thirsty men) dating/ fucking a poor girl for a short time cos you know the game and the little money to put into it.

However, i only pity those unfortunate anybody who would eventually marry them. .
They are going to feed them for the rest of their lives while they(poor girls to women) grow fat and become land whales.

They are the ones that turn house wives and I pity any man marrying a poor girl na die be that, the man go suffer, everything for the man head, soteh e go die

Your title should have been very clear if you are comparing exposed girls vs unexposed girls in a dating sense

desiregold:
Your comment, both with your signature on your profile.., shows you are a wise person.

I'm flattered, but I believe I'm standing on the experiences of the authors and books I've read.

desmond2pk:
I once paid for my girl friend's visa, tickets, bta and everything i bought for her like cloths, hairs and shoes.
She came from the poorest of the pours. Her dad was an old blind man.
When she got to the u s , relationship was smooth until she started work and got herself a boy friend. She told me off. Insulted me like nobody has ever done and will ever do.
She was the most humble girl i have ever met before then.
I learned my lesson the hard way. There is no good girl from a poor family. Not even a single girl.
What humbles then is poverty . As soon as you let them shine, they show you their characters.
The poorer the evil

SORRY BROTHER.
Which state you dey..?
NEVER BRING a POOR LADY to the US.
I have warned people and I will keep warning people.
My FAMILY don suffer for their hands.
Better relocate a STABLE NIGERIAN LADY to the US, than a Pauper.

Never bring a devil to the US.
PLEASE, MEN are suffering here
I dey there, we dey see what NIGERIAN MEN dey suffer

EVILFOREST:

MY FRIEND, just know now that EVERY LADY insults.
If only Pastors can tell you how their wives insult them.
Even a Lady with zero account can rubbish you at any slightest opportunity.
I have seen Nigerian Ladies who do nothing to generate revenue, insult their BOYFRIENDS who work hard to make ends meet.
Every LADY wants to control her man.
If possible covert him to HAND SANITIZER.

MEMORY VERSE:
Since BOTH Classes of LADY can insult you at any time.
It's better to be insulted by a HARDWORKING LADY who got ideas, if possible from a wealthy home.
I have said my Own.

You funny

yanabasee:
True....


Girls from poor homes often live with high expectations. They have a believe that their body is what they can offer and they will often act like they've given so much from their body... They don't have courtesy attitude....

On point

Cognitive dissonance and practical intelligence in play... Poor people are mostly in the first level of Maslow hierarchy of needs and as such tend to appreciate attempt at esteem and belongoness way less when in a relationship..

sonnie10:
After reading all the post, I am even more confused than I was starting.

In conclusion, just do your best and be your self. Let someone else be themselves.

My Brother, if u follow Nairaland and their philosophies, u go lost o!

Follow your instinct always, it never fails.