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learner007:
Girl from a rich home:

She was well taken care of by her parents and has seen it all. The things people do ocassionally to treat themselves right are her weekly experience. She is chauffer driven and shops like normal life. She has seen real love and learnt how to give it freely. Her problem is now how to get someone who would love her and treat her right

Girl from a poor home:

She has been deprived of so much. Now she wants to visit places and get things that only exist in her fantasy. She wants AC, nice room, plenty outings and shopping, because she only saw those things on TV or perhaps experienced them scantily.

I like ur extreme bt accurate description. It made me laugh and cry at same time.

Gracejeri:
Because we have seen it all, we now understand that money doesn't buy happiness and its all but vanity.

Love this

pansophist:
From experience, a male criminal can change, he can retract his steps, stop criminalizing and live a honorable life, but it doesnt work in the same way with women. A woman that has slipped into the cult of parasitism can never be satisfied, redeemed or retract her steps. She can only be satisfied as long as the money is there, and will be extremely bitter when it doesn't go her way. Her standards has been aimed so high that it can only go higher, not lower, using men as an utility.

Your relative is lucky, I stan him. In my uncle case, he is not. He is a good man, a genuinely noble man that is not only wealthy but handsome. With women chasing him even though he is married. He never lacks women, but he made the wrong mistake choosing one. Think of Ramson Noah, he looks just like that. He has specifically warned me and my brothers not to go for looks, and gladly, we never did. We both have partners and they have supported us when we are down. The current breed of naija women do not support men and if it happens that I become single tomorrow, I'll hardly go into a relationship with what I'm seeing.

Hmmmmmmmm

Man u get oil 4head, seriously poor fellows are the worst people to show love in this world unless u wan get heart attack, wetin dey sabi as love na wetin u get to offer apart from dat nothing, dia reasoning dey below average

Thank you OP for posting this and those who took their time to comment on this thread. I'm 20 and I've really learned a lot that will influence my decision of choosing my future partner.

Samakus:
If there's one thing I regret in life so far, it's missing out on Cynthia due to my complex issues then! Babe was a damsel from a stinkingly rich Anambra family and I, new employee in a federal school, was fidgeting about taking her on even when it was so clear that she was practically 'wetting for me'!

When I eventually mustered the courage to ask for a date. She smiled and said, ' I thought you're never gonna ask again! And on a date we went!

On that fateful day for our first date, she called me around 3pm and told me that she was at Chitis restaurant, that I should meet her up when I'm ready. Imagine your date choosing a venue for you (because you didn't tell her anyone you had in mind) and being there on time before you?

To cut it short, I wore my nice cloth, and went to Chitis. Babe was already giving herself a nice treat. Fried rice and salad with a big Chicken, plenty fried plantains and of course, a nice wine to complement! I had 2k in my pocket, and hell yes, my mind skipped when I saw what was on the table . I stepped in and she offered me a seat! I smiled sheepishly, but deep down, I was wondering where I will get extra money to complete the payment for what she ordered which obviously was more than 2k already. Need I remind that she got a big EVA bottle water too

Looking at her was difficult as this girl was a mermaid in human form! She has this cuteness about her and will make any man's heart skip a bit. Next thing I heard was, WHAT DO I GET FOR YOU? I knew that the question was for me but feigned deafness . She asked again with a smile, Hey Handsome, WHAT'S YOUR ORDER?

I looked at her in bewilderment but summoned courage to mutter, "Just rice and chicken! She asked me again: 'won't you like a drink or should I get you a wine? . I just said, no thanks, water will be good. Besides, she had a wine on the table already and i didn't see the need for another wine. She steeped to the counter, paid for my order and brought it to me.

We talked about so many things. But most of our discussions centered on our visions and plans for growth. Babe was giving me tips on businesses I can open within the campus when I get settled. For her, once she's done with school ( she's already in her finals), she will fly out to Canada for her Masters and then come back when she's done to head HR in her dad's company. I suggested to her to get her CIPM certification before doing her Masters since she had passion for Human Resources. Not ever hearing of CIPM, her likeness for me doubled.

We had a nice time and we left. She called her taxi guy to come drop her while I left for the shuttle park . She continued calling me after that and continued talking but I have already harboured the fear that her class was too high for me. Poor, naive me!! . I never took the next step with her. And she left after her graduation and became incommunicado as I never called her after our date

Looking back now, I feel like beating myself. She had everything I wanted in a woman physically. And had the right goals and penchant for success like I now do! I have seen a lot of ladies and can now appreciate what a gift, a lady with visions, plans and the right frame of mind, is for young man hustling to reach his dreams. Which girl will start discussing your visions and plans for a better life on your first date these days?

I missed Cynthia due to inferiority complex and naivity! I was young and stupid! I was 25 and just got a job in the school after finishing NYSC, when i met her. I pray I find a goal oriented Lady like Cynthia again! Because, they're very hard to come by these days!

UNN?

yanabasee:
True....


Girls from poor homes often live with high expectations. They have a believe that their body is what they can offer and they will often act like they've given so much from their body... They don't have courtesy attitude....

Your source of inspiration is divine

OmoAlakija:
I did and its still causing me headaches till now bro , she has a crazy sense of entitlement, she knows to many rich men, loyalty from her is like a mission impossible, and sometimes rubs it at my face that there are many people out there that can help her better then I am, well I'm currently still fcking and and using her to a while away time till I'm totally done with her .

Good!!! I like ur moves.
Jst follow that my simple first rule and see urself progressing in life.

djon78:
My elder cousin(son of my dad's elder brother) God so much blessed him in marriage.
In fact we were discussing concerning marriage recently and he told me that God saved him. He dated 3 girls not the same time. It was in the first one that my dad his uncle gave him clue on how to spot the right woman because his dad was then late.
The first two were entitled, no vision, not resourceful kind of women. But they were drop dead gorgeous. The advice guided him. He now met his wife not as gorgeous as the first two.

In his word he told me if he had married one of those first two ladies he would have been dead by now.

After marriage, he was comfortable. By the time his first child was coming, he lost everything, rock bottom, couldn't even afford house rent or feeding. But his woman was there for him, supported him.

Things began to turn small, today 4 kids, very rich, has a big factory that employs over 80 people. The guy is a huge multi millionaire. If you see how this woman runs her home and kids. Dude bought her a mad high range SUV last year.

He told me that he would have been dead if he was married to those entitled ones. During that his trying moment.
He doesn't play with his wife. Doesn't even womanize with all his money.

love this

chukzyfcbb:
with the way most of the comments here are describing girls from poor homes, you will think they are ballers and really from well boxed up homes.

The things we read online Sha, everyone can claim king, lool.
we will be alright Las las

it is just the truth,the plain truth.
The same way hardworking ladies are looking for honesty and hardworking guys. Some of us here have been there and we don't want to make the mistake the second time.

tommyken:
Since I entered the dating world I have been in relationship with girls from both rich homes and poor homes and I have observe something that intrigue me not only in my relationship both also those of my friends.

The ladies I have dated from rich home tend to be very grateful when you get them even a little gift or help them with a little favour. They tends to appreciate such favour with a very sincere heart and are very grateful to you.

Now this seems the opposite with girls from poor or simply lower income homes, I observe that girls from such poor and average home tend to be very entilted, selfish, insatiable and very ungrateful when you do things for them and they are the first to dump you when you begin to experience financial difficulties.

If you have come across this observation feel free to say your opinion and discuss the reason why its so. As for me, with what I have gone through in the hands of girls from poor home I have decided to marry a lady from a rich or at least a high income well to do home.

fact, babes from well to do homes no dey give stress, I've never come across any that demanded a dime, the little thing done for them they're so happy you sef go dey reason whether why she dey happy sef, like my guy said never date a babe that her dad is not well to do or they stay in face me I face you if you no ready to start paying bills for her cos your tolerance level will be tested 24/7, gbam.

yanabasee:
True....


Girls from poor homes often live with high expectations. They have a believe that their body is what they can offer and they will often act like they've given so much from their body... They don't have courtesy attitude....

Spot on

faithugo64:
If you have not been in a relationship with at least 100 women, then your assumption is wrong.

I do not mean you should date 100 women, I'm only trying to say that it is wrong to judge other women because of your bitter experience with very few women. Everyone is not the same

that was his hypothesis snd this now is the study, from the responses of others he can now see wether it is true.

This is true..I have dated a poor lady and realised that she only want to satisfy through sex and food but when you do a little thing to her she tends to expect more from you and begins to pull out arrogant altitude
But it might not be the same for some poor babes... conditions make crayfish bend and the country it's far from getting better..just choose wisely

tobby20:
Una do soon break up no worry

see envy

tommyken:
Since I entered the dating world I have been in relationship with girls from both rich homes and poor homes and I have observe something that intrigue me not only in my relationship both also those of my friends.

The ladies I have dated from rich home tend to be very grateful when you get them even a little gift or help them with a little favour. They tends to appreciate such favour with a very sincere heart and are very grateful to you.

Now this seems the opposite with girls from poor or simply lower income homes, I observe that girls from such poor and average home tend to be very entilted, selfish, insatiable and very ungrateful when you do things for them and they are the first to dump you when you begin to experience financial difficulties.

If you have come across this observation feel free to say your opinion and discuss the reason why its so. As for me, with what I have gone through in the hands of girls from poor home I have decided to marry a lady from a rich or at least a high income well to do home.

That's true but hasty generalisation

Glistinin:
UNN?

Monitoring spirit

nanceeleecious:
Hope your spouse doesn't see this shaa.

She's not savvy. She only take photos and put em on Facebook with her phone.

pansophist:
My uncle (a very wealthy guy) married a poor but stunningly beautiful woman. Let me just say that if it's not because he had three kids with her, he will divorce her straight up. Surprisingly, his mother (my grandma) saw through the girl from day one and hated her, but beauty and a need for a trophy wife led him to such leech of a woman.

Infact her family are living off him, and every attempt he made to make her financially independent was refused. She will rather watch reality tv and expect him to bring money for every single thing. It's a sad tale.

To know if your gf is a leech, ask other women, they are skilled at seeing through themselves. Stay away from broke ladies, they are time bomb awaiting explosion.

It's very painful, I'm just like that your uncle.
Beauty and bigass led me to this state.
She's always home playing and watching dstv.
I will go out and work 12 hours a day to cater for everyone.
How I wished I married a working class like myself.
May God help me

I think it is all about upbringing and not necessarily the fact they are from rich home or poor homes. The Bible says When you bring up a child the way he should go, he will not depart from it. There are several children from rich homes that are well brought up

AfroKnight:
Dating broke entitled girls is a chore. I have been lucky to avoid them. Well, any guy would spot them right from the beginning. You guys are still in the talking stage and she’s always running out of airtime. Well, she can either buy her own airtime or stay away and stop telling me about it. It won’t ever go beyond that stage for me.

A fairly comfortable working woman (or even a rich babe) is the goal especially if she takes pride in spoiling herself with her own money.

You see these brokeàss greedy babes here? There is nothing you can do rehabilitate them. It reminds me of those beggars on the road who would return to begging the next day, even if you gave them 100K cash at once. Why?

Cos they believe such fortune would come again soon.

That’s how these broke babes think. Once they land a guy who spends on them, they think their chances are getting better. They stay on the lookout for a richer, more generous guy to latch on to. Loyalty doesn’t exist in their dictionary. This is probably because poverty has affected them so bad, they never want to smell it even from afar. That’s cool. But a transactional relationship is not the only way out of poverty.

Guys, if you are not one who thinks to trap a woman with your money, then avoid broke and entitled women. They add no value. You’d check your life after 6 months and find out that all you enjoy in the relationship is sex which you have to pay for anyway. That’s a loss. No motivation. No support. You can’t even ask for her opinion on issues cos she’s not interested in anything that isn’t money or gifts.

Go for a woman who works for her money and doesn’t bother you for mundane things like money for hair and shopping. Go for a woman whose financial plan doesn’t depend on the man she will date or marry.

Go for a woman whose lifestyle is supported by her own money. She will add value to your life.

Gbasgbos! You killed it bro.

yusufu16:
Its not only girls.

Generally poor people are rude, arrogant and ungrateful.

God bless you, when poor people see rich people, they easily tag them as proud cos they are not on the same level. They preach to them to be ‘humble’. However, poor people treat poorer people with disgust. They hate them and are very arrogant and intolerant of them.

Samakus:
If there's one thing I regret in life so far, it's missing out on Cynthia due to my complex issues then! Babe was a damsel from a stinkingly rich Anambra family and I, new employee in a federal school, was fidgeting about taking her on even when it was so clear that she was practically 'wetting for me'!

When I eventually mustered the courage to ask for a date. She smiled and said, ' I thought you're never gonna ask again! And on a date we went!

On that fateful day for our first date, she called me around 3pm and told me that she was at Chitis restaurant, that I should meet her up when I'm ready. Imagine your date choosing a venue for you (because you didn't tell her anyone you had in mind) and being there on time before you?

To cut it short, I wore my nice cloth, and went to Chitis. Babe was already giving herself a nice treat. Fried rice and salad with a big Chicken, plenty fried plantains and of course, a nice wine to complement! I had 2k in my pocket, and hell yes, my mind skipped when I saw what was on the table . I stepped in and she offered me a seat! I smiled sheepishly, but deep down, I was wondering where I will get extra money to complete the payment for what she ordered which obviously was more than 2k already. Need I remind that she got a big EVA bottle water too

Looking at her was difficult as this girl was a mermaid in human form! She has this cuteness about her and will make any man's heart skip a bit. Next thing I heard was, WHAT DO I GET FOR YOU? I knew that the question was for me but feigned deafness . She asked again with a smile, Hey Handsome, WHAT'S YOUR ORDER?

I looked at her in bewilderment but summoned courage to mutter, "Just rice and chicken! She asked me again: 'won't you like a drink or should I get you a wine? . I just said, no thanks, water will be good. Besides, she had a wine on the table already and i didn't see the need for another wine. She steeped to the counter, paid for my order and brought it to me.

We talked about so many things. But most of our discussions centered on our visions and plans for growth. Babe was giving me tips on businesses I can open within the campus when I get settled. For her, once she's done with school ( she's already in her finals), she will fly out to Canada for her Masters and then come back when she's done to head HR in her dad's company. I suggested to her to get her CIPM certification before doing her Masters since she had passion for Human Resources. Not ever hearing of CIPM, her likeness for me doubled.

We had a nice time and we left. She called her taxi guy to come drop her while I left for the shuttle park . She continued calling me after that and continued talking but I have already harboured the fear that her class was too high for me. Poor, naive me!! . I never took the next step with her. And she left after her graduation and became incommunicado as I never called her after our date

Looking back now, I feel like beating myself. She had everything I wanted in a woman physically. And had the right goals and penchant for success like I now do! I have seen a lot of ladies and can now appreciate what a gift, a lady with visions, plans and the right frame of mind, is for young man hustling to reach his dreams. Which girl will start discussing your visions and plans for a better life on your first date these days?

I missed Cynthia due to inferiority complex and naivity! I was young and stupid! I was 25 and just got a job in the school after finishing NYSC, when i met her. I pray I find a goal oriented Lady like Cynthia again! Because, they're very hard to come by these days!

Hmm.

Ryan03:
if you say "all guys are dogs", I will feel attacked cause I am a guy. Same way saying all poor girls are glutton is a direct attack on any poor girl who reads that comment. Let's be conscious of our statements

I have not seen a poor girl who is not hungry am talking of the greater general perception there might some exception few ones but the majority of them are glutton not just that less appreciative because they looking for more like Oliver twist

blackmarket:
rembrd my x fiancée, wen I was trying to woe her bk , told her to select a phone bwn 25-30k as of 2016 Mk i buy for her, was surprised wen she told me dat d level of phone she wants to use is bwn 52-70k.
babe wey her parents d find am difficult to pay her sch fees nd feeding. jus thanked my stars that she waka on her own. had bout 100+ count on her kitty kat.

I think 100+ count is a consolation prize. However, Girls love bang like guys. We guys should stop seeing it as an achievement, but as a consolation prize, since oftentimes we derive nothing from them apart from that.

You re wrong if u think so.

Kobicove:
That's cos girls from poor homes tend to have entitlement mentality

Confirm

Ihatefeminist:
big fat lie! Nah them worse pass! Rich girls always rub the fact that their father have money on your face! I once dated one; Gloria. that girl was a reck! I pity the unfortunate fool wey go marry am. Her papa money don enter her head.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4WrurdNU4AE

It your own opinion and view!

AfroKnight:
Dating broke entitled girls is a chore. I have been lucky to avoid them. Well, any guy would spot them right from the beginning. You guys are still in the talking stage and she’s always running out of airtime. Well, she can either buy her own airtime or stay away and stop telling me about it. It won’t ever go beyond that stage for me.

A fairly comfortable working woman (or even a rich babe) is the goal especially if she takes pride in spoiling herself with her own money.

You see these brokeàss greedy babes here? There is nothing you can do rehabilitate them. It reminds me of those beggars on the road who would return to begging the next day, even if you gave them 100K cash at once. Why?

Cos they believe such fortune would come again soon.

That’s how these broke babes think. Once they land a guy who spends on them, they think their chances are getting better. They stay on the lookout for a richer, more generous guy to latch on to. Loyalty doesn’t exist in their dictionary. This is probably because poverty has affected them so bad, they never want to smell it even from afar. That’s cool. But a transactional relationship is not the only way out of poverty.

Guys, if you are not one who thinks to trap a woman with your money, then avoid broke and entitled women. They add no value. You’d check your life after 6 months and find out that all you enjoy in the relationship is sex which you have to pay for anyway. That’s a loss. No motivation. No support. You can’t even ask for her opinion on issues cos she’s not interested in anything that isn’t money or gifts.

Go for a woman who works for her money and doesn’t bother you for mundane things like money for hair and shopping. Go for a woman whose financial plan doesn’t depend on the man she will date or marry.

Go for a woman whose lifestyle is supported by her own money. She will add value to your life.

The rich knew de worth of money,bt d poor only knw de effect of money