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Op, you got played SIMP, but not to worry you still have your mental faculties intact and can go forward with your life in a successful manner & with a lesson well learnt under your belt.

Many guys including myself have gone down that road.

Super Kudos to whomever on NL posted dis artwork below

Chi59:
Gbam. They have no minds of their own. They can't go against their families for love. Even among the educated and well travelled, the same mindset runs through them. How I wish I knew then what I know now.

Association of bitter exes of Anambra rich boys gather here. Food is ready!

Bro in life there is lost and gain take it as your lost and find your profit which will be more better than her

Nor ever force love.
The girl dey show you affection b4 bc you be her ATM problem solver.
Now she don dey free,so she wan exit.
Never beg anybody for love.Show love if you nor get the receipt,move on.You go later happy for your decision.
God even help you say this wahala show before anything bc if you marry her, no peace.
Waka bo, love full everywhere yagayaga.Go find am.

missimelda01:
It could be that her parents influenced her decision, she wouldn't mention marriage in the first place if she didn't see a future with you or maybe she got bored of the relationship and found someone else...things like this happen, it's sad.

I already told you to move on, life happens.

RUBBISH... SHE DIDN'T 'GET BORED'. SHE WAS JUST CALCULATIVE AND MANIPULATIVE ALL ALONG... LIKE MOST FEMALES.

I suffered the same fate last year .

I counted my losses and moved on with my life. Two weeks after that ,she uploaded the picture of her new boyfriend on her WhatsApp status.
I was flabbergasted, immediately I deleted her number and vowed never to contact her again even though I haven't met anyone since then.

Brace up bro... You don fvck up for this one

Giwoni:
My Love Experience

Good day NLanders

I'm a medical student, and gf ( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).

It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her. Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents.

Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.

Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket. It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day (for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.

In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.

I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.

She's has known this for all her life, but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.

In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...

This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022 (which supposed to be 2021 but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.

This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.

Before, she travelled (this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.

Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.

In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.

Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, (I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.

thanks

In this 21st century you still dey jonz like this as a guy, chai!

This girl must be from Anambra.

Omo the point and kill fish cos oo 9 tawa. Just move on g, u just got served bro.

The lack of attempt to stand up for you speaks volume.

brightalo1010:
oga once an Anambra babe open her mouth and say her mother advised her not to marry from Ebonyi state, Abia or Imo state,just forget it.

In this case the girl is already on her mother's side which means the op don't stand any chance unless he's son of current Ebonyi state governor.

Op just clean yourself up and move on.

Taa them no born Anambra well to reject Imo marriage proposal. Imo boys hardly even marry outside Imo state because of the beauty of their women but so many people from Anambra marry from Imo, E-money for example, even my uncle married an Anambra lady, infact my uncle never wanted to marry her but she tied my uncle down with pregnancy that year.

Giwoni:
My Love Experience

Good day NLanders

I'm a medical student, and gf ( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).

It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her. Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents.

Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.

Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket. It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day (for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.

In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.

I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.

She's has known this for all her life, but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.

In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...

This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022 (which supposed to be 2021 but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.

This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.

Before, she travelled (this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.

Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.

In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.

Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, (I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.

thanks

Please diversify your options. Let the money you have spent be like Charity towards a stranger. Don't beat yourself, you have a long way to go. Trust me, you are better off without her.

You are a sucker bro! She don manipulate u totally! Forget her! You should be thinking of how to get her out of ur mind.
D feelings no dey mutual. . shift ur focus away from her.
When you travel out , her story go change.
Make a wise decision. .Don't waste ur time on her !
You can't have a better tomorrow if u are thinking about yesterday all d time.

Guys never learn.

You deserve flogging.

They used Ebonyi man as good excuse,

She will Marry another Ebonyi man if the man gets what she need.

You fvcked up.

Giwoni, ... Let me Advise you and If You have any Sense and If you are Smart enough, .. you will follow this my Advise to you.

I want you to go to YouTube and search for the name of this man called "Donovan Sharpe" ... and yes you heard me Clearly, ... Go to YouTube, search for that name "Donovan Sharpe" and Listen very carefully and very attentively to all that man is Saying and you will learn a lot about the Deep and Evil nature of Women.


You were manipulated all along bro, ... Do what I told you to do inorder to avoid a Repetition next time ... A word is enough for the wise

MARX77:
Permit me to list out a few things

1. From the beginning of the relationship, you have probably given this girl d mindset that if she leaves u, u r done for.

2. Bro, if u use money take open relationship, ready to dey drop money... So all this your expenses here and there na u cos am. Never use money as a means to hold down a woman, they're always in need, and most of them will go for the highest bidder.

3. I don't know who needs to hear this, except the girl na ur wife, never ever let a lady influence decisions that u know can make your life better. NEVER DO THAT. Make decisions to better ur life, Bleep whatever she thinks.

4. Boss, any girl when dey look for consent to marry you don go already. Forget her...

5. You're lucky you passed your exam, you for know afa

6. I can bet my left ass that your lady has someone already promising her the moon and the stars. SHE'S GONE BRO.

MY ADVICE: Brace yourself, retrace your steps and before she drops the bombshell on you,
Break up with her in a very dope way, like stars do, no fight, no insults.

YOUR FUTURE IS BRIGHT MAN, take it from me, ON GOD.

*Drops mic*

Louderrrrrrrrrr

FatherBona:
Op your mumu part 2 go dey am abi?!?
Fresh Doctor to be like you dey allow woman use your head since 200lvl



Moderators please move to FP ..........nairalanders let's drop the insult as its hot on the OP.
Maybe he will come to his senses.



Please give this man one plate of Dog meat

i swear... My guy deserves more than that

The fact that you listed all you've done for her including amounts spent is very annoying. You shouldn't be talking marriage with this mentality

Giwoni:
My Love Experience

Good day NLanders

I'm a medical student, and gf ( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).

It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her. Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents.

Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.

Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket. It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day (for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.

In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.

I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.

She's has known this for all her life, but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.

In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...

This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022 (which supposed to be 2021 but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.

This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.

Before, she travelled (this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.

Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.

In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.

Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, (I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.

thanks

She got you. Just take the L and keep it moving. By the time you meet the next fish in the sea, you will be wiser and not pay a woman's lifestyle and family pension until she becomes your wife or has a baby for you.....

you are welcome

This is serious though but it's not new to me

Chi59:
Not just ebonyi, add Imo and abia.

Shatap Anambra dont do that shiit with Imolites. Remove Imo staate. We even reject them in Imo because of what we hear they do to their first wives based on money ritual levels.
Imo men dont marry outside Imo state too.

MARX77:
Permit me to list out a few things

1. From the beginning of the relationship, you have probably given this girl d mindset that if she leaves u, u r done for.

2. Bro, if u use money take open relationship, ready to dey drop money... So all this your expenses here and there na u cos am. Never use money as a means to hold down a woman, they're always in need, and most of them will go for the highest bidder.

3. I don't know who needs to hear this, except the girl na ur wife, never ever let a lady influence decisions that u know can make your life better. NEVER DO THAT. Make decisions to better ur life, Bleep whatever she thinks.

4. Boss, any girl when dey look for consent to marry you don go already. Forget her...

5. You're lucky you passed your exam, you for know afa

6. I can bet my left ass that your lady has someone already promising her the moon and the stars. SHE'S GONE BRO.

MY ADVICE: Brace yourself, retrace your steps and before she drops the bombshell on you,
Break up with her in a very dope way, like stars do, no fight, no insults.

YOUR FUTURE IS BRIGHT MAN, take it from me, ON GOD.

*Drops mic*

Boss I too feel you

And your signature dope nice words

bro, the shot has already happened ,she has someone else she is dating, it's just that you are blinded by love, just move on and forget about her, she already gain what she wanted from you

Young man. Do not worry yourself. Leave the girl and move on. Besides, she doesn't have you in mind for marriage. The signs has been there, but inexperience pushed you on.

My dear, that u sponsored a girl in school does not guarantee that she will marry u. For me, u are a very kind person and Its only God that can reward u. I must be blunt with u, the chances that the girl from Anambra will marry ebonyi man is very slim, don’t be fooled becos of the perception all other eastern part of the country have about them. Being archaic, not up to standard, cultural differences even language. My guy I no lie u, u can hardly hear what ebonyi people are saying. Their own Igbo is totally different. I am saying all these becos I am from Anambra. Just move on with ur life. Do not force her becos it’s not gonna work. I am sure that God will provide for u a lady that will cherish and love u. More so, it’s only somebody that really loved u will forget about the ebonyi perception and go ahead to convince her parents to marry u.
Focused on ur career and grow. May God bless u with that lady that will gladden ur heart, amen.

Giwoni:
My Love Experience

Good day NLanders

I'm a medical student, and gf ( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).

It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her. Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents.

Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.

Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket. It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day (for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.

In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.

I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.

She's has known this for all her life, but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.

In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...

This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022 (which supposed to be 2021 but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.

This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.

Before, she travelled (this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.

Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.

In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.

Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, (I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.

thanks

Don't you know how to tell a lady" bitch fvck off "?
You should have told her that when she gave you conditions before your second MBBS examinations.
You have a dick ?
she has a pussy?
If she doesn't see a dick the only sane option is to masturbate.
Guy, you don fvck up big time 4 you to carry a bitch matter for head like that.You suppose don dispose her and find a correct bitch wey go dey loyal then you propose to the loyal one not to waste your time with a maggot like her.
Anyway as long as there is life there is hope .Move on with life but don't give a bitch a second chance to fvck with your feelings.
Once she fvcks up you tell her to fvck off.

Bro,that's ladies for you...she has someone already that's why she did all that and gave you flimsy excuses concerning your state..move on good girls are still around the corner...

Giwoni:
My Love Experience

Good day NLanders

I'm a medical student, and gf ( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).

It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her. Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents.

Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.

Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket. It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day (for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.

In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.

I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.

She's has known this for all her life, but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.

In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...

This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022 (which supposed to be 2021 but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.

This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.

Before, she travelled (this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.

Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.

In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.

Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, (I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.

thanks

Take the option your brother gave you. Leave the country, study abroad. Earn a good living wage. Even if she marries, she will eventually regret her decision (she might never tell you that)

But don't wait for her. She isn't waiting for you. Its not worth it. Most girls are shortsighted. They don't think of tomorrow.

she grew up in your pocket,she is from poor background, seems you are from rich background, she loves you because of your money,if she loves you, she will convinced her mother, she just sight another rich Igbo man.

valnd:
Ebonyi is worst, they see them as bush people and you won't blame them because a lot them full Anambra and the way most of them behaves. Hmm....

Imo and Abia is not really a problem for Anambra.

Imo people even reject Anambra suitors based on their money ritual history, it is believed that they use their first wives to make money.
I know how my uncle was so adamant on allowing her daughter get married to her Anambra boyfriend until the girl took in and as a Catholic Knight the man hurriedly agreed so as not to bring reproach on his name, e nearly cursed his daughter but our family intervened. Another uncle of mine married anambra lady too who held him down with pregnancy too.

Amumaigwe:
Association of bitter exes of Anambra rich boys gather here. Food is ready!

Clap for yasef