humilitypays:
They are glorified secondary schools.


You didn't even mention MIT, Harvard, London school of Economics, Cambridge, Sandford University, Oxford, ordinary Babcock and Covenant they enter with poor JAMB result, Nigerian youths are truly dumb

kalufelix:
I already got the airline ticket.. Any other thing?

openmine:

You assumed that op was poor hence cannot afford to marry a MSC lady because of his type of certificate!
You also assumed he can't afford to take his kids to a very good school simply because you opinionated that his certificate is only good enough to land his a job as a clerical officer in a struggling company!
You then assumed that he is a poor man hence he can't get married...!
You have been assuming all this while!
You don't give an opinion based on postulations or assumptions!

slyfoxxjoe:
which one be Barcelona university ogbeni?

slyfoxxjoe:
which one be Barcelona university ogbeni?

Ybaby:

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Exodora:

During my NYSC I met this guy , a poly graduate .He is cool but my problem with him is that , he so much believed that as a degree holder( A graduate of German Language) in near time I will secure a good job and then I will buy him a car and then fly him out of the country because of my education qualification.
That was how I started hating him. That if I buy a car he will be in cahrge and other nonsense .
I told him that psychologically I can't put up with his attitude and have to call it a quit.

Ybaby:


Let me explain something. Men donot menstruate or get pregnant... in a family setting what men bring is finance - the woman brings the rest. So it is natural for men to pull a woman up because she like mother nature will return is seed with harvest. She has a womb (soil) within her to carry his lineage to earth. She will trade her beauty, memory, hair, brain, body and much more to achieve this for him. Give her a seed she will give you harvest.

2. The girl is not his mother or father and any man waiting for a woman to encourage him is lazy. Women encourage men but it is not by force. Through her actions of bettering her self or her parents action of bettering her , a hardworking man would have been doing copy and paste.

2b. I did not see him encouraging the girl or talking about his plans only love as if Jesus love is not sufficient for us all.

3. Now that the girl did not encourage him and he did not encourage himself who has been rejected .....?

In life you push yourself... help comes from God.

Anyone who does not menstruate or have menstral pain waiting for helper instead of entering market to do baranda is a joke.

stuffs4me:


Read what the OP typed in his story and you'll find out that he is just a factory worker with HND while the girl has first degree and a masters and works in a big organisation in Lagos.

Habba! The two of them no be mate na. If not for NYSC, they would never have met at that kind of social level.

The OP sounds to me like a gold digger. that wants to use the girl to escape poverty and the lady's dad was wise to his conny tricks

LastSamurai:

I'm a poly graduate looking for a sweet young Bsc holder to be in a relationship with and I promise not to be in charge. Just spoil me small with money and I'm all yours

landmark86:
I graduated from Osun State Polytechnic, Iree.
She also graduated from Babcock University.

We both met in 2015 during our NYSC at River State. We serve in the same PPA. She is good, lovely and caring. And to crown it all she is beautiful. I mean so beautiful.

It all started with friendship which later led to relationship. We share so many things together during our time in River State as per what the future holds.

After our NYSC, we both went back to our various base. She is based in Lagos while I reside in Osun. Immediate I finished my NYSC, I got a job with a private organisation as a factory supervisor. But she went further for her Masters in Covenant University, Otta. Despite the distance we still communicate from time to time and at times I do find time to check on her in Otta, while she also do check on me in Osogbo.

After her M.sc, her dad got her a job with a big company in Lagos.

Last year December she came to Osogbo as usual to check on me but fortunately she met my parents and my siblings at my place. They all love and accept her. When she was leaving the next day she told me that her parents told her that they want to meet her fiancé.

12th January, 2020 I travelled down to Lagos to meet her parents. When getting there I met her parents with her only sister. Her dad ask of my parents, state, my qualification and what I do for a living. I told him and immediately he stood up and told me he will never allow his daughter to marry an HND holder.

He said he can't send his daughter to a university & end up marry an HND holder. Never!!! Though my gal is not in support of that, even ever since that time till now she's not her self in that house.
I truly love her and I know she truly love me too. But her parents is the major concern.
Should I call it quit?

Please your advise is needed, what should I do?

Kobicove:


OP, answer this question honestly...

If you marry this lady will you be able to provide her with the level of comfort she is already used to since she was born?

Love alone is not enough to sustain a marriage these days, money is the main ingredient required!

OriOko88:

I forgot you went with him for you to be so sure his spoken English gave him away. At least he tried making up with an elite girl. How many well to do ladies have u guys dated in your lives.

humilitypays:
lecturers are broke people if you don't know lol. How much are they paid 180k - 250k lol.

I know most of you commenting are young graduates without experience and undergraduates still seeing lecturers as demigods, they are broke, without being prideful, I can pay 2 lecturers comfortably every month, that is to tell you how broke they are and how vital your PhD is

The only thing that make them seem comfortable is sorting money they collect from students after exam to pass or upgrade them, without those dark money they make through sorting and forcing students to buy poorly written handouts, they are broke. For your info, some of my course mates are now lecturers, so I speak with facts.

A HND holder working with NLNG or Mobil or shell will pay 3 lecturers, so get that into your head Lilian

Robisky001:
LOL.. Op, the house has harmoniously agreed you settle for your likes to avoid being called a gold digger or an opportunist.

ghettochild4u:
White people no get time for this nonsense o

Exodora:

Is not funny at all. It baffles how someone more especialy a graduate at that will have such mindset .

Alberta123:
Stop trying to paint your in law bad.

I am also a polytechnic graduate and my fiancee studied abroad(UK).

I'm a software Developer in a top company in lagos and her parent liked me the moment they saw me.


The problem is not that you went to polytechnic.

The problem is you work as a factory worker.

The dad is right be worried. Can you give her the kind of life she's used to.

KunleyY19:


Baba lecturer pass lecturer ooo.... I know one that travels abroad almost every 3 month to deliver lectures in top universities outside. He uses a Benz sef. As a very young Civil Engineering lecturer sef he still owns his own company and he his getting contracts from state government sef. It just depends on packaging jare and how the individual can maximize his potential. Even little UG girls are dying for the man. He his a star lecturer.

RedBororo:

Really Guy hustle make you no teeth they open drink for everybody for family meeting

Tumbulum:
fucccck. How can you know one has a bright future?Everyone has a bright future but that may never come to frutition if one does not work hard.

Thiwalade:


Why do you judge success in life on money? Young man, footballers can pay lecturers or researchers in many fold but that doesn't mean they aren't successful. If academia should choose to chase money, many of you will not have anything to build on. The phone you're using is a product of research of some people. That you can pay my salary doesn't mean you're more successful than I am. If success is based on money, Jesus Christ and many other people we still hear about today will not be heard of. In your own eyes, dangote is more successful than wole soyinka right? Nobody goes into academics with the aim of making millions. We chose it because we love knowledge and wish to improve human life. Look at you all running into your houses while these same researchers are finding cure for the virus. Why can't your money buy you the cure? Get real education and know we are all special in our different ways. You're probably just jealous.

Note# there's always going to be the richest man in every generation but those with influence live long in human hearts through history.

humilitypays:
lol, when it comes to lifestyle, Nigerian lecturers live the most stupid and dirty lifestyle; they collect bribe from students as sorting to pass them or upgrade their exam result grade.


They sleep with female students to pass them or upgrade them.

They sell poorly written copy and paste handouts and nonsense textbook at outrageous price to meet up with their dream financial life they thought lecturing would provide for them.


They join small boys in foolish school cult and also do jazz to protect themselves from students they maltreat, fail and sleep with.


So what nonsense lifestyle are you talking about here Lilian


Lecturing in Nigeria is a yeye work, Teachers are more respected and dignified than lecturers, so you better aspire to become a teacher than a lecturer if you want to live a modest life.


Go back and read my edited comment you quoted, I have friends and course mates who are now lecturers, so I know

baralatie:

a woman earns #1500000/ month she lives in victoria island the guy earns #180000/month and lives at ilasa mushin.

how do you want the bold to work?

OJEEMAH:
Hmmmmm.......Op, its actually because of your social status. Even with you HND, her dad would not have declined if you were Otedola's son rather he will be curious to know why you opted for HND instead of a degree. meanwhile,her dad may have acted irrational but truth is, her dad actually knows, how difficult it is to succeed as an HND holder in this country.

A friend with HND cert got a job recently with FIRS(GL 09).
Do you think her dad would turn my friend proposal to marry his daughter down? I bet you, he won't do that cos he has HND except for other reasons.

He should be more concern about his daughter's happiness. if her dad wants a better life for his daughter, he should help you get a better job to start with.


If you no fit move on easily, turn her to baby mama he will be force to.

Saintinoo:

Look how you are judging your fellow guy... I hope you already have a house and company of your own.

humilitypays:
The man in question judged the op based on money. If you like gather the whole degree and qualification, if you don't have money you are a joke


Research without money is babalawo work


Someone must fund the research with his money.


In all your doing, get money brother.


I cannot remember anybody anywhere asking me which school I finished from or the course I studied for years now, and I never heard any father in-law asked any of my successful friends the school they finished from or whatever because their appearance alone changes situation, so go and get money

Thiwalade:



Speak for yourself young man, maybe you went to a substandard University in Nigeria. There are bad eggs, yes but there are many great people lecturing.