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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Elevation(m): 7:57am On May 02
OP pray to God, HE is the only perfect match-maker. Do not marry blindly odikwa risky, ole gan o o.

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by kalufelix(m): 8:04am On May 02
This one na hyper reality Nigerian movie... Op just free that girl if you really want to be happily in love ... Na overused sugar zazzy go marry her when the time is right.. Please think about your d!ck and have some dignity ...your lovely wife is waiting for you somewhere.. I'm not saying you can't marry her but in life everybody no dey play the same league.

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by kalufelix(m): 8:07am On May 02
bigpriik:
All I can say is Bleep love it doesn't exist material things comes first before it.

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by instinct57vm(m): 8:17am On May 02
Bros you’re mean o lolsssssssssss
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by kalufelix(m): 8:24am On May 02
And when she eventually marries her "standard" a huge ego bigger than Jupiter becomes a problem for the two... Then we start seeing multiple threads on nairaland and the cycle continues...lol cheesy inside life!!

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by lereinter(m): 8:51am On May 02
Liar

rooster and bull story

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by NLReposter: 9:01am On May 02
Go and hustle.

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by deewhydoski(m): 9:26am On May 02
Op, I can see that some people are saying you should go and make money to impress your babe family, like say money is easy to make especially in this Niger. Op dont go and do pass yourself
Leave the girl, it is obvious that her father don't want you. Upgrade yourself and look for someone else.
Ladies full for town

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Midex88(m): 10:04am On May 02
chubinwa:
This is purely a social class rift. considering the circumstances around poly graduates, it is certain that the man will not accept you. the only thing that can suit his pride now is money. make more money. I don't mean saving your little salary to accumulate it. I mean make money on bases, this is the only solution.

Especially for polytechnic graduates discrimination from big multi national companies when it comes to choice jobs

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by bonnyhope: 10:16am On May 02
stuffs4me:


Read what the OP typed in his story and you'll find out that he is just a factory worker with HND while the girl has first degree and a masters and works in a big organisation in Lagos.

Habba! The two of them no be mate na. If not NYSC, they would never have met at that kind of social level.

The OP sounds to me like a gold digger. that wants to use the girl to escape poverty and the lady's dad was wise to his conny tricks

It baffles me the way you hyped paid job like she is already a CEO of her dad s coy.

Guy, paid job can be terminated at any time.

Agreed that she is higher than the guy in terms of academic but who knows where the guy can be 2moro.

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Jokerman(m): 10:22am On May 02
Polytechnic na school?? Mtcheeeew embarassed

Someone like me that graduated from sokoto state poly wants to marry an IUO girl.. lol cheesy

Bsc- Babcock
Msc- Covenant

grin

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Keemsleek005(m): 10:22am On May 02
Ningen:
Are you implying he rather gives his blessings to a poor and jobless degree holder than to a rich and successful school dropout?

You are totally naive to believe it's all about your educational background, its your Bank Account!



Your options —

1. She can find her voice and convince her dad that you are success and marriage material.

2. You can go back to school for a degree. grin

3. Elope together without his blessing.

4. Get rich quick, google 'Robbin Banks' for tips.

5. Quit and move on. ( Preferred option!!)



Why do you people talk like these, what is wrong going to a polythenic? If you want to advice him pls do how can you call someone poor and jobless degree holder. He should not allow anybody put him down because be went to s poly and he can improve himself not because he wants to pls someone but because he wants to be better.

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Keemsleek005(m): 10:23am On May 02
tidalstorm:
I can see where her parents are coming from. Every parent wants a better life for his/her kid. The expenses they spent on school sef no go be small money.
With your qualifications, you will might be good enough for there daughter. Just leave the girl, work harder and try to further your education to avoid family wahala.
I think it is a social class problem, them dey feel say you no reach their class based on money.


God bless you sir beautiful advice.

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Keemsleek005(m): 10:25am On May 02
deewhydoski:
Op, I can see that some people are saying you should go and make money to impress your babe family, like say money is easy to make especially in this Niger. Op dont go and do pass yourself
Leave the girl, it is obvious that her father don't want you. Upgrade yourself and look for someone else.
Ladies full for town

Bless you.

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Jokerman(m): 10:25am On May 02
yungz:
he's looking for a suitor that will worth the money he spent on his girl's head and op you are certainly not the person.

At op assume say na range or benz you pull up with for in house the man no go fit talk that rubbish wey in tell you.

Seems like the man has measured you already and it happens to b u came with only leggedis benz cheesy na why in throw you format.

Op i will advise you to hustle hard, make money and visit the man again, i'm sure this time around he will accept you as his son-inlaw before you even propose marriage.

Before he huZle finish, the girl don marry another guy... Sending a girl to a school like Babcock is no joke... #700k per semester mani, then you bring one guy from one poly in osun village... Lol grin grin

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Alberta123: 10:26am On May 02
Stop trying to paint your in law bad.

I am also a polytechnic graduate and my fiancee studied abroad(UK).

I'm a software Developer in a top company in lagos and her parent liked me the moment they saw me.


The problem is not that you went to polytechnic.

The problem is you work as a factory worker.

The dad is right be worried. Can you give her the kind of life she's used to.

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by benzion72(m): 10:44am On May 02
They are two siblings, bros such family are always overprotective of their few children. leave everything open, but have a plan B. But dont let it be said that you are the one that let her down. You must also use the snag to succeed in life

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by YorubaPrince: 10:53am On May 02
vibbb:
The lady in question is the determinant, if she rilli loves you no one can stop her. Though her parents may influence her decision but then she has the final say.
Be confident and be a man, don't allow anyone to make you feel less a man.

#Goodluck.

God bless you, Sir! cool

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by BadLuckonmyGame: 10:55am On May 02
landmark86:
I graduated from Osun State Polytechnic,Iree.
She also graduated from Babcock University.
We both met in 2015 during our NYSC at River State. We serve in the same PPA.
She is good, lovely and caring. And to crown it all she beautiful. I mean so beautiful.
It all started with friendship which later leads to relationship. We share so many things together during our time in River State as per what the future hold.
After our NYSC we both went back to our various base. She based in Lagos while I reside in Osun.
Immediate I finished my NYSC, I got a job with a private organisation as a factory supervisor.
But she went further for her Masters in Covenant University, Otta. Despite the distance we still communicate time to time and at times I do find time to check on her in Otta, while she also do check on me in Osogbo.
After her M.sc, her dad got her a job with a big company in Lagos.
Last year December she came to Osogbo as usual to check on me but fortunately she met my parents and my siblings at my place. They all love and accept her. When she was leaving the next day she told me that her parents told her that they want to meet her fiancé.
12th January, 2020 I travelled down to Lagos to meet her parents. When getting there I met her parents with her only sister. Her dad ask of my parents, state, my qualification and what I do for a living.
I told him and immediately he stood up and told me he will never allow daughter to marry an HND holder.
He said he can't send his daughter to a university & end up marry an HND holder. Never!!! Though my gal is not in support of that, even ever since that time till now she's not her self in that house.
I truly love her and I know she truly love me too. But her parents is the major concern.
Should I call it quit?

Please your advise is needed, what should I do?
your writing skill is so poor. I'm sure your spoken English is the same. I don't blame the parents. Your types are the ones giving OND and HND graduates problems.

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by suaveBrother(m): 10:57am On May 02
... the relationship is heading for a downfall ...

... going to see your fiancee's parent is just like an interview. I think you did not do well ...

... if she really wants it she would fight for it ...

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Biglittlelois(f): 11:06am On May 02
meetme01:
Op, to be sincere, if you don't upgrade before you get married to that lady if eventually things is sorted. You would have issues in your home.

See, it's not a curse. Married folks can attest to this.

Her standard is much higher academically, financially etc than yours. You have been seen as a gold digger. She would want to reside in Lagos due to her job. Not mainland Lagos but on the island. Can you afford accommodation in Lekki or or VI.? She would have much say in the home because her income is much higher and her parents would be supportive. If you're not careful, your home would be dictated by her parents. Before you know, you would turn to their houseboy. At the long run, a hit or foul language on the lady will end the marriage.

Please, yoruba would say, ile ola niyonu. Another says, iyawo burku se fe, ano buruku o se ni (You can mange a bad wife but the in-law should not be harboured).

If you like yourself, make her your best friend and remain best of friends. She would love it that way and any request for support or assistance, she would be glad.

Marriage is not only about love o.


Well said.

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by baralatie(m): 11:27am On May 02
stuffs4me:
OP. even you have discriminated against polytechnics people because I'm very sure you have met countless poly girls but chose to go for a university graduate with masters sef.

No poly guy or girl wants to marry a polytechnic leaver yet you guys are the first people who complain about discrimination. Same discrimination you poly leavers are guilty of

My advice to the OP is to look for a fellow polytechnic girl and date as that girl he is chasing is way beyond his level in all ramifications.
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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by alphaNomega: 11:29am On May 02
chilet4cici:
My little advice don’t marry a girl if at least one of the parent is not in support of the marriage... Thank me later

Landmark86, I hope you read this
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by alphaNomega: 11:29am On May 02
silento:
Wetin happen to ur dick give her belle and relax they will call u to sort out things

I know two people that would totally agree to what you posted disguy and justwise
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by baralatie(m): 11:29am On May 02
Alberta123:
Stop trying to paint your in law bad.

I am also a polytechnic graduate and my fiancee studied abroad(UK).

I'm a software Developer in a top company in lagos and her parent liked me the moment they saw me.


The problem is not that you went to polytechnic.

The problem is you work as a factory worker.


The dad is right be worried. Can you give her the kind of life she's used to.
point

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by stuffs4me(m): 11:34am On May 02
duduade:
Be shouting you truly love her upandan


Gold digger oshi... Third mainland bridge is in Lagos... Whey you will come to Lagos and jump inside

Don't go and look for someone or your status

So that no one/inlaw will be looking down on you

True talk bro.. The OP is a gold digger and the lady's dad saw his conny tricks from a mile away. Ordinary factory worker with a diploma wants to marry a lady with B.Sc and masters that works in a big company in Lagos.

The OP should go and eat his mumu love.

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Omoboricash(m): 11:36am On May 02
gaius01:


Some parents sef Na Ogun go locate them, leave him to marry her Na, but Sir you caught your coat beyond your size, a girl with MSc, you must admit she has class, and her parents will be ready to see some one above thier daughter. Well I will advice, if her dad really meant what he said tell her it her dad that is making you leave her
As for me I can't and will never marry a lady above me, in school, I can't kawai
Complex. Why would u say u can't marry a lady that's above u academucally . If I may ask, can u marry a lady that her salary far better than urs..?
Most important thing in marriage is
Love
Respect
Understanding
Submission and above all fear of God

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by BigJoe19: 11:39am On May 02
stuffs4me:


Read what the OP typed in his story and you'll find out that he is just a factory worker with HND while the girl has first degree and a masters and works in a big organisation in Lagos.

Habba! The two of them no be mate na. If not for NYSC, they would never have met at that kind of social level.

The OP sounds to me like a gold digger. that wants to use the girl to escape poverty and the lady's dad was wise to his conny tricks
Do you know that some people's parents that are in polytechnic are richer than those in private University?

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by baralatie(m): 11:43am On May 02
I also remember going with a friend of mine to see his gf/fianc and then in came the brothers/sister and parents.
hian! see people wan oppress this guy becoz at one time it was known that he finished at yabatech.
it was the mother that revealed to all that the person they were showing off to has 2 masters degrees.
That was were the father changed the topic.
Next topic place of employment. my guy got pissed becoz of it.he just signaled to me(I understood).

summary some families are not receptive to some type of people.

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by baralatie(m): 11:50am On May 02
Omoboricash:

Complex. Why would u say u can't marry a lady that's above u academucally . If I may ask, can u marry a lady that her salary far better than urs..?
Most important thing in marriage is
Love
Respect
Understanding

Submission and above all fear of God
a woman earns #1500000/ month she lives in victoria island the guy earns #180000/month and lives at ilasa mushin.

how do you want the bold to work?

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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by seniormallam(m): 11:53am On May 02
The problem is that you don't have a good job, the school thing is just a easy way out for the Dad.
I'm also an HND holder, if not for genotype issue, my fiancée then has Msc. And she's a daughter of one LASU acting HOD then.
My uncle has HND, working with first bank, he earns above #300k monthly on his grade level, I'm sure the Dad won't say NO with such salary.
Adekunle Gold finished from Lagos state polytechnic while Simi his wife graduated from covenant university...... Will the Dad had said NO too.
You don't have a good job, yet you didn't say your Dad too is one chief or a politician....... Hustle Bro.

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