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Jokerman:
Cheat. Supporter of evil

zaksman1960:
Please guys don't mind any mistake I will make .am not So good in writing

Have been married for two years now ,meet my wife through a friend .we got along and did married say one year after we meet.during our courtship I never for once had any reason to doubt her loyalty as everything was nearly perfect.as she told about her past life and relationship though not so good but not too bad either.
Before I forget to mention she was done with her OND at the time I meet her .and was eager to complete her HND this was not a problem for me as i was ready and capable of assisting her to complete the program.she have birth to our first child during her final year though not easy for her combining education with baby .but she was able to complete the program though with an extra semester. To cut the story short my people she was mobilized for NYSC for batch A 2020,though she could not complete the 3 weeks camp due to the Corona virus pandemic.as their camp was cut short .
before I forget I do have access to her phone as I know the password to it ..am not that kind of guy who possess trust issue beside I trusted her wholeheartedly so I had no reason to suspect her. most times I just check news on her phone and atymes play game ..
So I was push one day to check her whatapp .I observe a chat with a guy,her fellow corper the guy asking her how she copes with lockdown .how she is enjoying my di...k and if she does enjoy it ..I was shocked. For her to be chatting with a guy asking her such question .I didn't ask her about it I just ignore it. I began to follow up with her chat with this guy , I observe she does delete all her chat with this guy but as a fast guy atymes I manage to read her chat before she deletes them ..after that scene she was chatting the guy complaining that she does not see his calls ..the guy replied that it's because he knows am around because of lockdown that why he doesn't call. Then just yesterday night the guy was asking when she is coming over. though she slept off thats why she could not reply him .this morning I observed as usual the chat was deleted.

I need ur advice my people .sorry for the long write up. I have not confronted her yet cause am not sure if she is really cheating or about to.and also I think I don't have enough evidence too.

Why does she deletes her chat if nothing is fishing

emmaodet:
And that @ bolded is the Killer word - MAY and not Should or Would.
Let me ask you, if you are to invest you money, time, emotions and everything into a business and you were told you MAY get a profit and not Will get a profit. Will you still invest in it? Don't you think it is too Risky to give such resources and attention?
That is exactly what the guy wrote there.
If marriage won't guarantee Loyalty, then there is no point entering one in the first place.
The pillar and foundation of marriage is Loyalty/Faithfulness and if we remove that from marriage, then there shouldn't be one in the first place.

Cc SeverusSnape

TalkTalkTwins:
There are other ways of hacking her WhatsApp other than the web, anyone that has a good knowledge of phones should be able to know you're reading her chats via web

emkz:
She is cheating albeit emotionally which is a precursor to physical cheating.

You cannot act based on the scanty information you currently have. Take her phone, dowload whatsapp web on your computer, scan her phone on it and monitor her chats in real time or back up her chats in dropbox every 30 seconds. Alternatively, pretend you are not suspecting her and live normally with her until the day she would be off her guard (like forgetting to delete the chat or introducing new unconventional sexual positions like reverse cowboy, reverse doggy, reverse well digger, head-over-heels, ladder, squat-and-kiss-while-bonking, etc).

Before a man can discuss phallus matters with a woman including that of her husband, he must have become too comfortable with her, either having been intimate with her or he has bonked her.

If you are suspecting she's cheating, she probably already is. Goodluck.

emkz:
TalkTalkTwins, anyone with a good knowledge of anything would not engage in behaviour that questions their integrity. If they must cheat, they would be sensible enough to tell their concubines never to call their phones or send messages or emails or get into personal conversations with them about their families on any platform. If they see each other in public, they should even act like they don't know each other. One mistake married cheaters (women) make is letting their kids know the person they are sleeping with. These sames kids would tell their dad that Uncle Johnny came to the house while mummy was preparing lunch and mummy asked them to go and play with their friends while they were hungry.

Like I explained in another post related to this subject, people who cheat cannot compartmentalize and one silly mistake, like forgetting to logout the chats, emails or exchanging nudes and deleting them from whatsapp but not from the image folder, receiving phone calls in the toilet and being irritated by their partners are tell-tale signs. A smart guy does not need a phone to catch a public utility company.

TalkTalkTwins:
There are other ways of hacking her WhatsApp other than the web, anyone that has a good knowledge of phones should be able to know you're reading her chats via web

wrose:
Lol, infidel is different from infidelity

emmaodet:

Pastor crackkhaus, i know you will be here

SweetCunt97:
It's probably nothing. Sometimes people need attention from the usual one they getting. Doesn't mean there's any emotional attachment there.

dajoaneke:
let me read then update

UPDATE:
This is a messy situation! my advice for you is to get his full name and information, track his house and when she plans to go out with a flimsy excuse, get to his neighborhood when she's taking her bath and wait for her to enter his house, then you go knock on the door.


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BabbanBura:
Guy, shit is going down or about to go down. Install watzup tracker on her phone and watch that chat from your phone so you can screen grab evidence before she deletes them.

Your wife is in a slippery ground into the mudpid where that guys is, if she is not there yet.

Never confront her yet without unarguably evidence as she will deny it and play the trust card on you.

Note that I have being there several times, I lost on the previous occasions because I thought it was enough to just confront without evidence but believe me ladies will so turn the table on you if you dont present a concrete prove. The last one did same, you will think that i dey excuse the innocent lass out of wickedness to the extent she was asking me to prove it, she was so vehement that nothing happens, I was bewildered. When I brought out evidences, within seconds the defence turn to cry with heavy tears begging for forgiveness saying she didnt know what came over her. Ofcourse ladies no dey know whst came over them once dem see evidence to prove their infidelities.

So get concrete evidence otherwise na u go carry the cross lass lass

emkz:
She is cheating albeit emotionally which is a precursor to physical cheating.

You cannot act based on the scanty information you currently have. Take her phone, dowload whatsapp web on your computer, scan her phone on it and monitor her chats in real time or back up her chats in dropbox every 30 seconds. Alternatively, pretend you are not suspecting her and live normally with her until the day she would be off her guard (like forgetting to delete the chat or introducing new unconventional sexual positions like reverse cowboy, reverse doggy, reverse well digger, head-over-heels, ladder, squat-and-kiss-while-bonking, etc).

Before a man can discuss phallus matters with a woman including that of her husband, he must have become too comfortable with her, either having been intimate with her or he has bonked her.

If you are suspecting she's cheating, she probably already is. Goodluck.

NNEWIsuper:
Bros let tell u what to do.. listen carefully.

When your wife is sleeping and u know the guy will be online, take the phone and ask the guy(of course pretending to be your wife)..How did you enjoy the last sex we had and the mouth action? and note what the guy will say, save it , that's were u will definitely know,but sure will work

Make sure you save the conversation ooo

Good luck, I will be waiting for your testimony

zaksman1960:
I am not delusional.its a guy I confirmed it from one of their chat ....asking him about his daughter .seems the guy has a daughter out of wedlock...I also I read of of his audio msg telling her how she can come over to island during this Corona lock down

SweetCunt97:
It's probably nothing. Sometimes people need attention from the usual one they getting. Doesn't mean there's any emotional attachment there.

emkz:
It is better he prepares for the worst and confront the worse than to prepare for the worse and be forced to confront the worst. He doesn't need to wait for the woman to be bonked three ways from Sunday before detaching himself emotionally from the charade he thinks is his marriage. I suspected an ex was cheating and started detaching myself emotionally from the relationship. My suspicions were confirmed when during a steaming sex session, she dragged me by my phallus from the bed to the couch in the living room; she put one of her legs on the arm-rest and the other one on the floor, then held the window frame with one hand and asked me to bonk from behind. Is my name Rico Strong or Lexington Steele?

Thank goodness, she's no longer in my life.

Another friend I was having interest in told me she had reached orgasm six times in one sex session. I refused to bonk her before she go talk say I no measure up. If you hear this kain thing, you go come go overdo until overskill kill monkey. I can manage a thief as a girlfriend, but a sexually-depraved woman? That is the worst punishment any man can face.

crackkhaus:
Lol, your share brought me.

DateMynd44:
gbam and if there was no sex between them, the guy will be like haba since when did we have sex na? You'll now say sorry u wanted sending it to your husband

SweetCunt97:
Good. Men should know that. You can't b eating from d side your mouth and expect the other not to. They'll later catch on.

zaksman1960:
Please guys don't mind any mistake I will make .am not So good in writing

Have been married for two years now ,meet my wife through a friend .we got along and did married say one year after we meet.during our courtship I never for once had any reason to doubt her loyalty as everything was nearly perfect.as she told about her past life and relationship though not so good but not too bad either.
Before I forget to mention she was done with her OND at the time I meet her .and was eager to complete her HND this was not a problem for me as i was ready and capable of assisting her to complete the program.she have birth to our first child during her final year though not easy for her combining education with baby .but she was able to complete the program though with an extra semester. To cut the story short my people she was mobilized for NYSC for batch A 2020,though she could not complete the 3 weeks camp due to the Corona virus pandemic.as their camp was cut short .
before I forget I do have access to her phone as I know the password to it ..am not that kind of guy who possess trust issue beside I trusted her wholeheartedly so I had no reason to suspect her. most times I just check news on her phone and atymes play game ..
So I was push one day to check her whatapp .I observe a chat with a guy,her fellow corper the guy asking her how she copes with lockdown .how she is enjoying my di...k and if she does enjoy it ..I was shocked. For her to be chatting with a guy asking her such question .I didn't ask her about it I just ignore it. I began to follow up with her chat with this guy , I observe she does delete all her chat with this guy but as a fast guy atymes I manage to read her chat before she deletes them ..after that scene she was chatting the guy complaining that she does not see his calls ..the guy replied that it's because he knows am around because of lockdown that why he doesn't call. Then just yesterday night the guy was asking when she is coming over. though she slept off thats why she could not reply him .this morning I observed as usual the chat was deleted.

I need ur advice my people .sorry for the long write up. I have not confronted her yet cause am not sure if she is really cheating or about to.and also I think I don't have enough evidence too.

Why does she deletes her chat if nothing is fishing