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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Mobi47(m): 8:18pm On May 05, 2020
is it a real estate job?
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Victoronah1: 8:23pm On May 05, 2020
Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.
I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.
I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us.I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God,I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do. She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me, I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...
PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless
so she left you cause you aim 45k, do you know how much she earns now? Why are you comparing yourself to another person? She is a woman and you are a man. You don't have to open thread for this. But me and you know, it's just for fun, yeah I do it sometimes.

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Rickmann: 8:25pm On May 05, 2020
Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.
I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.
I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us.I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God,I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do. She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me, I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...
PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless



Patience is a virtue lacking in most Nigerian ladies today, pressuring them into unhealthy relationships and marriages..its a damn shame. Congrats bro

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by 2cul2care: 8:55pm On May 05, 2020
As for me, if u no hustle with me when things are tough, u do not deserve to ride with me when things are good. PERIOD

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by 2cul2care: 8:58pm On May 05, 2020
Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.
I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.
I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us.I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God,I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do. She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me, I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...
PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless



Some Ladies will never understand that life is step by step, if u no get today u go get tommorow, enjoy ur new income bro.

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Nobody: 9:04pm On May 05, 2020
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Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.
I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.
I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us.I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God,I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do. She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me, I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...
PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless

Oya bless others as God has uplifted you. Do give away, my food don finish
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Michelle55: 9:28pm On May 05, 2020
She no try jare but talking about it seems like you ain't over her yet..

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Brunicekid(m): 9:29pm On May 05, 2020
Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.
I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.
I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us.I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God,I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do. She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me, I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...
PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless
WONDERFUL! Moral lesson: Be patient enough, No condition is permanent.

The girl could have reaped the fruit of patience!!!

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Futurejoy(f): 9:39pm On May 05, 2020
Bluntintrovert1:
Ladies like that are the reasons why men sees ladies as skank. Anyways God will continue to uplifts you and make sure you get yourself a more deserving lady. I pray you find genuine love someday.
grin

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Bahamas95(m): 9:55pm On May 05, 2020
xendra:
That's not the real reason she left you. Be honest

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by mank1234(m): 9:59pm On May 05, 2020
That relationship was wrong from day one.

You shouldn't ever ever take care of a girl who is not your wife. Rather dash guys money, at least those ones don't have entitlement mentality.
You can give gift but even at that it should be rare and voluntary. They'll take you for granted.

You can fall into this trap with the next girl. Money is not what keeps them. When you're done upgrading her, she'll leave you for that she believes is hard to get.

She needs you as bragging right in front of her friends and not you needing her.
Approach her like a lion, sweep her off her feat; then retract like a snail into a shell and watch her look for you everywhere. Human beings always want attention and only value that which is scarce.


Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.
I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.
I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us.I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God,I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do. She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me, I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...
PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Bahamas95(m): 10:00pm On May 05, 2020
Michelle55:
She no try jare but talking about it seems like you ain't over her yet..
Aunty is that so?

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by mank1234(m): 10:03pm On May 05, 2020
xendra:
That's not the real reason she left you. Be honest

I feel so too.
Share your own reason for leaving your last bf.

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by mank1234(m): 10:06pm On May 05, 2020
Michelle55:
She no try jare but talking about it seems like you ain't over her yet..

Oil dey ur head.

The guy should even thank the girl for spurring him to succeed.

Men dey give women power sha.

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by pizzzy(m): 10:11pm On May 05, 2020
My brother thank God say she leave you because if to say that leech still dey u for no fit reason say you supposed use ur pali(certificate) to upgrade financially or by now all that 360 tawa(thousand) na for head u go dey spend am

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Okoroawusa: 11:00pm On May 05, 2020
A woman that will leave you will leave you. Not necessarily because of your paycheck. There are several reasons a woman will leave a man

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by drmikeadams(m): 11:20pm On May 05, 2020
mank1234:
That relationship was wrong from day one.

You shouldn't ever ever take care of a girl who is not your wife. Rather dash guys money, at least those ones don't have entitlement mentality.
You can give gift but even at that it should be rare and voluntary. They'll take you for granted.

You can fall into this trap with the next girl. Money is not what keeps them. When you're done upgrading her, she'll leave you for that she believes is hard to get.

She needs you as bragging right in front of her friends and not you needing her.
Approach her like a lion, sweep her off her feat; then retract like a snail into a shell and watch her look for you everywhere. Human beings always want attention and only value that which is scarce.


u be boss

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by empire02: 11:29pm On May 05, 2020
*my only anger is you mentioning her family graduates*

It's show's you're still painned.

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Sixfeetbelle: 11:58pm On May 05, 2020
xendra:
That's not the real reason she left you. Be honest

Thank you to putting down a thought that crossed my mind this evening.

Once a lady leaves a man, an average Nigerian guy only has two reasons why.
1) He's broke
2) His gbola is short

Asides, he can never be too egotistical, or narcissistic or controlling or arrogant or any of the other vices that actual people have. Nope, he's an angel and she's a greedy hoe cheesy

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Nobody: 12:09am On May 06, 2020
What I just see is that,...you guys are not meant for each other and you don't deserve her...shalom

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by HolyTitus(m): 12:18am On May 06, 2020
That was how all of them left one after the other whenever my Uncle decided to be open to them that he worked as a security officer at the state government ministry where they normally come to see him; not knowing that dude is a certified accountant except one of them that decided to stick with him - reason(s) best known to her. It wasn't up to 4 months later, he got converted from being a security officer. He now heads a department in a government ministry. The sad news is that if not more than 90% of those ladies haven't gotten married till date.

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Kenturkey048(m): 12:42am On May 06, 2020
helinues:


Funniest part, the guy might be a chronic cheater
ontop 45k

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Samfloxin(m): 12:56am On May 06, 2020
I wonder how somebody's salary will be upwardly reviewed precipitately within this short period of time

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by DaddyRochie1642: 1:05am On May 06, 2020
It's Always when the so called Girlfriend Leaves.. that's when the Baba will become Rich grin grin

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Freighthost: 1:39am On May 06, 2020
Most of d single ladies nowadays are searching for already made man dere fada didnt work for

Wat they do nw is go on instagram status and whats app every second to update n update dance on video
Lick lips
Pull out tongues
Cleavages
Twerks hard like competition
Shakes ass n boobs and all

I ve been longing to ask
Whats d meaning of dose video status


And some go n mit most richest admirer dat dm dem n end up jumpin frm one to anoda n call it slaying bt i cal it prostitution

Fake life is reli bad for single ladies
Designers clothes
Iphones
Notin to offer but sex at d end

This lady is a gold digger and am sure someone she is dating nw wil b nacking her free of charges
With maximum maltreatments with no kobo to spend


Ladies are never contented
Jus few and hard to find

Imagine one bastard married to d richest guy in dose days sell pure water nw on d str of lagos

Irony of life

Build ur life wit a man that ve prospects and focus






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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by gfon(m): 2:00am On May 06, 2020
[quote author=Dantepet3000 post=89222635]First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.
I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.
I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us.I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God,I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for ussalary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do. She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. Good riddance.I dnt know if op would show me love of 5k from the 360k as thanksgiving offering sha. Make i try my luck
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Acme45: 2:41am On May 06, 2020
Sailorsoldier1:
it was...you will u date a guy earning 50k?..Even ur name sounds as if ur hair alone costs 45k
does the hair even make them beautiful?

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Acme45: 2:42am On May 06, 2020
xendra:
women date rich men and collect their money to spend on a poor boy. ...money alone cannot be the reason a woman leaves, but if there were other issues that's when she will consider that there isn't even enough money worth the trouble.
how old are you?

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Nobody: 3:09am On May 06, 2020
helinues:
Are you pained just cos someone moved on?

How are you sure she left you cos of the salary voucher she saw?

High or low salary, someone that will leave you will still do. So?


Fact is that op is yet to move on. He's still longing for her, wishing she could make a turn and swim into his arms.

He's having sleepless nights, so much that it urged him to make a thread about this. He might earn more now, but he lost a piece he will never regain.

Now his plan is to feel sane again, by making nairalanders curse on a being that broked him.. As they insult her, he would feel a little joy for the pain she caused him.

I feel almost pity for him at the moment. I hope he gets better.

Such is life!

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by DoctorK2020: 3:20am On May 06, 2020
Hello guys? My apartment is empty due to financial constraints. If you have any household appliances or items you're not in need of, please kindly reach out to me asap. I'm seriously in need and I'll be so grateful if you can help out. Thanks and God bless!

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