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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by EmekaBlue(m): 1:46am On May 07, 2020
laslas

money di importanta
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Majesty33(m): 1:46am On May 07, 2020
Kcitytv:
Hmm. No one knows tomorrow
This your comment on this thread is non sequitor!
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by idonhammer: 2:02am On May 07, 2020
Show your pretty face joor...

Bluntintrovert1:
Ladies like that are the reasons why men sees ladies as skank. Anyways God will continue to uplifts you and make sure you get yourself a more deserving lady. I pray you find genuine love someday.

Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Nobody: 2:05am On May 07, 2020
idonhammer:
Show your pretty face joor...


Lols�....

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Nobody: 2:10am On May 07, 2020
Congratulations my guy, but the story sound unbelieving to me. The way you first started earning and you had a high qualification which you didn't use and when she left you, you went and upgrade your qualification........ until your earning got to 360. Hmmmmmmmm, I smell cook up story from here just to spice up our day. Any way carry go
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Nweike190(m): 2:16am On May 07, 2020
helinues:


Funniest part, the guy might be a chronic cheater

....chronic cheat...... Cheaterh..is a wild � cat... angry

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by DexterousOne(m): 2:18am On May 07, 2020
Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.

I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.

I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us. I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God, I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do.

She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me.

I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...

PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless

God save you
You no know


If to say you enter that hole cheesy
Sorry would have been your case

Now you have been given a second chance
You have made amends and spending on the females that are related to u by blood cool

You learnt your lesson
Bless up

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by 9icekenpat: 2:19am On May 07, 2020
Well I dont see the reason why you are sharing this story other than for us to see her in a bad light. Obviously you are still angry because you tried so hard to make fake impression by providing for her above your means to make a statement of who you are really not. On your part you weren't honest to her and didn't not trust her enough to tell her the truth until she discover it by herself this could be the reason she left you. You got to let go and bless God for his blessings upon you and always see the brighter side of things no matter how bad they may seem.

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by enemyofprogress: 2:20am On May 07, 2020
I don't know why Bola146 name keeps coming to my mind after reading this thread
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Icon79(m): 2:31am On May 07, 2020
First of all, I don't believe your story. So your salary went from N45k to N360k in a space of less than 1 year? Doesn't sound plausible. Did you move from a gate man or a company driver to a manager within that time?

Anyway, congrats, if true. And by the way, if your story is true, contact me because I might have a real wifey material for ya.


O pari

Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.

I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.

I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us. I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God, I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do.

She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me.

I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...

PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Hottdawgg: 2:34am On May 07, 2020
Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.

I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.

I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us. I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God, I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do.

She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me.

I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...

PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless
Okay now that she has seen your new status on NL, she might come back
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by apexc4435: 2:44am On May 07, 2020
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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by ATTemi: 3:36am On May 07, 2020
Bring items for thanksgiving. Ur mama prayer don reach heaven!
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by alfajohn: 3:46am On May 07, 2020
All man to himself. OP if you found out that she has primary school leaving certificate will you marry her?

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Ceejay8: 3:48am On May 07, 2020
GF WEY CALM DOWN GO ENJOY
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by valx2: 4:08am On May 07, 2020
Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.

I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.

I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us. I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God, I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do.

She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me.

I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...

PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless
Thank God she left you, coz such witches usually stick around to make sure you even lost everything you have including your 45k job and render u useless before they finally dump you.. I'm sure wherever she is now, she'll be chewing her fingers.
Congrats bro
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Adakintroy2: 4:09am On May 07, 2020
I still don't get why they said "behind every successful man" there is a woman.

I mean I don't have a girl( topic)

I mean honestly. Not " behind most" or "behind few" or "behind some... rather " "every"..seriousely?.. " every"

To think that it's a common quote is what I don't get.
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by richmindx: 4:18am On May 07, 2020
THANK GOD SHE LEFT YOU. SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN A CANKERWORM


Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.

I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.

I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us. I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God, I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do.

She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me.

I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...

PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Nobody: 4:25am On May 07, 2020
Xclusiveme:
Hahaha op you think that's was the reason? Lol it was definitely not

Shebi you were the third party in the relationship ?
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by xperiencelove(m): 4:28am On May 07, 2020
I love success stories. Success and testimonies will never cease to exist from us by His Grace.
Just like me, as at March 2017, I was like a church rat but within July 2017 and today, I have bought 4 good cars; building house; buying lands; send my 3 siblings to higher institutions; and my girlfriend now fiancee who stood by me, feed me every morning and evening for 5-7months from the token she was earning as an auxiliary nurse, is now in University 200L doing one of the best course in Nigeria and I will sponsor her to PhD.
I cannot be tired of reading success stories. Everyone on Nairaland will succeed in his/her endeavors by God's Grace. Amen.

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by ReeLoaDead(m): 4:35am On May 07, 2020
This is a very sweet story by the OP.
So he was holding back his qualifications from his management and then the moment he disclosed it to them, they just decided to give him a 200% increase in salary just ike that?? Chai!! A sweet story tailor made for FP and NL drama section!

Here is another sweet story/thread by him grin
https://www.nairaland.com/5541240/he-stole-me-got-revenge#84225098

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by soundmind4ree: 4:46am On May 07, 2020
Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.

I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.

I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us. I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God, I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do.

She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me.

I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earwhat I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...

PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless


WOW.. This your testimony inspired my soul! Congratulations.

As for her, she will comeback begging! She still loves you. infact you people are still in love����
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Ebenezer2021(m): 4:48am On May 07, 2020
Nmezor:
Good for you OP....@ DateMynd44 don't mention me in your comments and FYI I don't talk n insult ppl any how here there must be a reason bfr I dare do so...BTW Ebenezar2020/ 2021 you have been noticed
who is this slow-poke quoting me and disturbing my mentions and even sending me threatening messages on WhatsApp.
Who the hell are you and how did you get my number?
Please if u have issues with those guys kindly deal with it and stop involving me in what doesn't concerns me.
Don't disturb my mentions again or else I'll ban you. Shey u know as e dey be na
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by wany(f): 4:52am On May 07, 2020
DateMynd44:
is that the reason you should insult his mum when he didn't insult yours?
Go ask your fellow girls (e.g Ladylite Nmezor) how they've learnt to be civil in their comments after being placed on lengthy bans cos they talk and insult anyhow.
For now sit back and enjoy your ban as you'll be gagged for a while and I trust when the ban expires you might have learnt how to be civil.
Mynd44 Lalasticlala Dominique Seun.
Thanks
Go and sitt your ass down biko When guys derogate and debase woman ,you look the other way,but when is a female you act voltron.nairaland my foot.

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by zedman1(m): 4:57am On May 07, 2020
helinues:
Are you pained just cos someone moved on?

How are you sure she left you cos of the salary voucher she saw?

High or low salary, someone that will leave you will still do. So?

Be grateful you've never dated a broke beautiful girl. I can relate to what the OP wrote here, it happened to me too. They make you a foo.l for love. All they need is money, money and money and all you do is provide hoping they'd be grateful and cool off a bit but the more you give, the more they ask. They always come up with one problem they want you to solve or another and like you've been cast by a spell you'd find every possible way to meet their needs. I want to believe the OP did nothing wrong besides what he said was the reason. Most guys who go through such relationships are very good guys -Yeah, I was a very very good guy then too, never remembered a day I offended her(I'm serious), we broke up for the same reason as the OP, and that was exactly my pay then in 2014 (45k). Ordinarily this story should be in the past because I'm married now, but it's because you expressed doubts about the OP's reason. For the fact you've never been a foo.l for love doesn't mean it doesn't happen to people. I was a foo.l.

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by dingbang(m): 5:10am On May 07, 2020
Gandollar:
His type is scared of women who earn well. Inferiority complex would deter him.
lol i don't get scared, infact I am looking for one to marry.

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