aliyuabbaashiru:
Thi na real see finish

The kind see finish wear Brazier come tie wrapper join.

stevmatt15:


I have lots of things to pray for, since I was born I never include woman or wife in my prayers. no be by force to marry. I have lots of cousins to train to brighter future, why then will I waste my time prayer for a woman WO-MAN?
NOOOOOOOOO
I am not marrying.

It is your choice bro
Enjoy
But don't fornicate o

Sometimes guys learn to control your feelings/love

This is why Africans remain poor , instead if borrowin 3 million to set up a business u borrowed it to do a useless marriage

edoman2016:

How can you reason like this? Can't you read the man is a banker and not jobless. The man committed suicide because the wife simply has bad attitude and not a wife material.

And most importantly, he had #3m debt to settle, let's not lie to ourselves.

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fuckingAyaya:
My wedding reception Address no time for rice no reach us

ojun50:

Forget make Yoruba people no knw the address

Ah swear ;

Gone too soon. He opted for the easy way out after living by the standard of societal weddings

I am not this world to impress anyone.

IGBO person committed suicide?
I thought they worship money and will do anything to stay around until they can't fight nature!

yomi007k:
I think what happened here is that the lady comes from a rich family and the guy tried to keep up by getting a loan.

He was hoping to eat his cake and have it but the lady turned him to a house boy.

Fake Love
Fake Life.

#personal opinion.

Yea sure ,,only a rich family will gift their daughter a car gift for her wedding ....poor man go carry enough pots and basin ..lol....that's why I don't date rich women

When you know u don't have money, u are taking loan of 3m for wedding that's foolishness

GamalNasser:
This is why Africans remain poor , instead if borrowin 3 million to set up a business u borrowed it to do a useless marriage

Is it only Africans that borrow money to do weddings

Sometimes you people act /talk as if there are no poor or senseless people in America ...

cococandy:


That makes more sense than killing himself for a wife that he already broke up with. It’s not like she left. He initiated the break up

I actually believe that the guy was so calculative and wanting to use that babe as a climbing stone but yet his ego could not allow him completely play along to the end. He borrowed money just to seal the marriage like a deal towards a better end and recoup of multifold of his investment both financially and emotionally (he must have been taking some nonsense from the babe initially just to get married to her).
His pride let him down; investment went down the drains after marriage crash also...
Mission became impossible so he gave up all hopes and ended it all!

Please can someone remind me what loan is used for.
Some people can be so foolish.
Imagine if dangote uses the loan he collects for throwing parties.

I suspect the banker to be a gold digger �

farem:


https://www.westafricareporters.com/banker-takes-n3-million-loan-for-wedding-commits-suicide-two-months-marriage-crashed/

This is one of the reasons why I don't advise for men to marry for money. "She pulled him out of the car." Just 'cause it was her dad that bought the car as a wedding gift to them. Imagine the disrespect?
Men should always marry for Love and see a lady's money or her family's money as a bonus.
The truth is, no matter how much a woman professes her love for you as a man, if you don't have a stable source of income to match her own or not from a similar background as hers, pls don't wife her.

Why? Because she is going to frequently compare you to her dad and with the life she's used to, growing up. This will lead to gratifyingly apocalyptic bust-ups between the husband and the wife. The young man is going to be distressed and stressed out 'cause of the financial pressure (sometimes subtle) the lady would subject him to.


To the young men out there...
Pls NEVER take a loan from the bank or anyone to marry a lady. If you are not financially buoyant, you can delay the wedding ceremony until you have the financial capacity to host a grand ceremony. I'd suggest for intending couples that are not financially strong to host simple and modest wedding ceremonies.
You don't need to break the bank for you to make your wedding ceremony an eventful and memorable one.

Do you know that you can plan and host an event such as wedding ceremony (white or traditional) for less than a million naira and it would be unique, special and memorable at the end of the day?

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[quote author=CsRockefeller post=89374207]I really feel sorry for him, I am sure he didn't see this coming, he must have loved her enough to take that loan then BOOM!! It came down crashing.

I am beginning to think being single might be better than being married. [/quott

True but don't think that.
Marriage is fun when u/she marries for love .
Love conquers

bonnyhope:


It is your choice bro
Enjoy
But don't fornicate o

In as much I never done that before as I'm clocking 26
I still fear that I might be tempted and succumb
But, God is my strength, let Him do what seems pleasing to Him.

Divorce rate/suicide rate based on marriage and relationship will reduce when society stop putting pressure on people to marry at a certain age. Also people shouldn't allow societal pressure get to them it is not worth it
My opinion though

FGonline:
threats over what exactly?

Threats to continue with the marriage. Remember he abandoned the marriage at a point.

ojun50:

Forget make Yoruba people no knw the address

is not a lie!

bukatyne:
If the deceased knew that the marriage/wife/relationship was so important to him, why didn't he seek a compromise rather than a divorce?

God be with his parents and everyone who would be affected by this loss.

nothing important,na folishness worry him!

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yomi007k:
I think what happened here is that the lady comes from a rich family and the guy tried to keep up by getting a loan.

He was hoping to eat his cake and have it but the lady turned him to a house boy.

Fake Love
Fake Life.


#personal opinion.

This is spot on..he was hoping to escape the rat race by plugging into the wife's family wealth..but alas..na spoilt brat him marry..and wasnt ready to lose his head of the house privilege which she has converted to house boy own..death seemed his only reprive when he saw his master plan collapse before his very eyes.
But he couldn't have killed him self over a 3million loan which he could repay over time..or did he lose his job join?hope foul play didn't happen and was made to look suicidal

gaby:
People wey dey live their lives to impress the world or seek their validation.

One would begin to ask if they ever dated at all, and how the woman come take see the poor guy finish within such a shortie.

You never see anything . There are women that will angels when they are dating and turn to tiger after marriage. Just pray you don't meet them in life

His spirit will haunt and kill the woman. WITCHES

i will never waste my money on weding. i have bleeped a bride a day before she went to tie the knot. i even came in her mouth. and this same girl will kiss the guy with same mouth. the worst part is that this guy sent close to 10million on the fucking wedding.

ollypass:

This is spot on..he was hoping to escape the rat race by plugging into the wife's family wealth..but alas..na spoilt brat him marry..and wasnt ready to lose his head of the house privilege which she has converted to house boy own..death seemed his only reprive when he saw his master plan collapse before his very eyes.
But he couldn't have killed him self over a 3million loan which he could repay over time..or did he lose his job join?hope foul play didn't happen and was made to look suicidal

Brother 3 million naira on 23% intereste rate no be beans o.

When you add other basic fake life expenses. He would have rented an apartment in high brow area and spend heavily to furnish it. Clubbing and excessive show off nko?

After 3 years the N3 million go don turn N5million.

Most probably

Mac2016:

I actually believe that the guy was so calculative and wanting to use that babe as a climbing stone but yet his ego could not allow him completely play along to the end. He borrowed money just to seal the marriage like a deal towards a better end and recoup of multifold of his investment both financially and emotionally (he must have been taking some nonsense from the babe initially just to get married to her).
His pride let him down; investment went down the drains after marriage crash also...
Mission became impossible so he gave up all hopes and ended it all!

yomi007k:


Brother 3 million naira on 23% intereste rate no be beans o.

When you add other basic fake life expenses. He would have rented an apartment in high brow area and spend heavily to furnish it. Clubbing and excessive show off nko?

After 3 years the N3 million go don turn N5million.

Ok thanks for shedding light on the loan terms but as an insider..do banks also give Thier staff such rates..even then,Paying back that loan wasn't such a mission impossible task to warrant suicide.marriage or not ..he took it so he knew he was going to pay any way..and if love was the motive he killed him self..then the love should av kept him in the marriage in the first place.