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Stacyomolola:

how r u hope u r in good mood?

Let me say this 2 things

1. When it comes to relationship, please always try to date at your level. If u wanna go low, please dont go many steps low. Your lady is on survival mode, any high bidder is allowed to chop her

2. In case your dick is playing games on you, then you can go for this kind of gals strictly for sex. Enjoy her body, make little sacrifices that dont have much impact and when her demands become too much or you get tired, let her go.

You cant find love at that level you are going to, you will only find gals trying to survive and thus willing to use you. Use your head when dealing, no carry useless bill...f...k and dump

Stacyomolola:

Why the long face ma'am?

My guy my guy my guy, how time's I don call you, OK oh, listen relationship is not by force or by fire and storm, it supposed to be a thing of mutual benefit and sex ought to have be the least of the benefits, to be honest with you, you have bleeped up big time, just imagine if this say girl end up taking in for you? My guy how you go do, hahaha, use your brain, is time to call it quit, forget about the facial look, when she is getting older those things we fade, move on and count your lose.

xxxtedyxxx:
Forget about sex, nothing better pass money.

No matter how much he bleeps her, he can never get his money's worth. Even after he breaks up, his head will always be filled up with a thousand things he could have done with the money he wasted on her.

She may even enjoy the sex better than him

Weak fool.

Ritualist will nt see this wasted girl and quickly use her before its too late rather than chasing the innocent ones.

When I read stories like this, I wonder if the word sense and man are now obsolete

Firstly how old are you by the way and spending that kind of money on a lady you are not married or have kids with is unbelievable stupid. You dont sound like someone who works for a living. She almost broke your work laptop according to you. Mr man you are into fraud, come clean and good things of life would surely come to you.

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you...look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.
From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of...Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I

oga re you sO MUMU AS SHE JUMP ON YOU, YOU CANNOT GIVE HER BETTER SLAP THAT WILL RESET HER DESTINY SMH

chase her out of the rented apartment

You need a strong mind to be able to move on... Since you acknowledged that you were a mumu man for her case, break up and move on nowwwwwww....
A wise man once said so.....

Pass the girl...Let's see if she's really yours.

Any relationship expenses wey don pass 30k, don turn marriage expenses

When you guys see chics with good character, but not too fine you will say noooo na slay mama i want,i like flashy girls with big big things everywhere,now you have gotten it. Hehehe enjoy it while it lasts. But on a serious note,i am so sorry bro,just let her go but stylishly,this kinda girl can stab you so please be careful. Bad girls keep getting gentle guys that are soft hmmm....It is well.

Somebody hold me before I blast pellets into this OP's cranium, with my Awka made gun.

This O.P mumu na grade level 15 step 2

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Ndi asi abiago ozo.

Kingsteve:
Somebody hold me before I blast pellets into this OP's cranium, with my locally made Awka made gun.

Jesus!! my brother, I'm from awka ooo...wow...I know say I done Bleep up...this morning she is calling me asking for the bed and gas money...nawa oo.....even though it seems like I just threw my money away, in quieter moments in the relationship, we truly shared love...and understanding....I really needed someone to rely on, as I'm not a womaniser...I can only be with one woman at a time...I have a demanding job that requires total focus....I have never truly felt so much love for a woman before...even though I have dated girls from Lagos to London.....hmmm nawa

ken711:
"That was one smart decision I made, I did it in my name"

Congratulations bro! Sack her, rent out the house and recover part of your loss at least.

ken711:
Jesus!! my brother, I'm from awka ooo...wow...I know say I done Bleep up...this morning she is calling me asking for the bed and gas money...nawa oo.....even though it seems like I just threw my money away, in quieter moments in the relationship, we truly shared love...and understanding....I really needed someone to rely on, as I'm not a womaniser...I can only be with one woman at a time...I have a demanding job that requires total focus....I have never truly felt so much love for a woman before...even though I have dated girls from Lagos to London.....hmmm nawa

What a coincidence you're from Awka, and it's the same Awka made-pistol I intend using to blast some sense into your brain.

Bro, I understand how you feel about the whole love thing, but it mustn't be to your detriment.
Grow some balls of steel, and do the needful.
That's all!

Lol

END. IT. NOW. I was watching Love and Hiphop yesterday night and I was telling myself how dysfunctional most AA women are. How can you leave them, come to Naija and still end up with an even more dysfunctional girl? Write off the 500k as a bad loan and take off. Else, she will make you lose much more than you’ve ever imagined. If not your life.

Cindy222:
When you guys see chics with good character, but not too fine you will say noooo na slay mama i want,i like flashy girls with big big things everywhere,now you have gotten it. Hehehe enjoy it while it lasts. But on a serious note,i am so sorry bro,just let her go but stylishly,this kinda girl can stab you so please be careful. Bad girls keep getting gentle guys that are soft hmmm....It is well.

Put yourself in their shoes. Would you go for a guy with good character but doesn't slay and do bling bling? Let him enjoy his trophy pretty babe.

He's even asking if to buy the rest of what she's demanding. I don't believe love can make anyone be this stvpid.

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you...look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.
From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of...Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. my spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......she even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her.....She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.


The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k....Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me.. ....would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k.....she even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user...my only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...please help!

Beauty is vain, charm is deceitful, but a woman who fears the Lord shall be praised. Stop going after the wrong women, go after God's children.
My question: Are you a God's child? if you are truly a child of God, God will give you a woman that will give you peace, joy, happiness and add to your prosperity and not suck you dry.
Give your life to Jesus Christ and you will have good experiences. Trust me.

You studied abroad , no wonder that you are so daft to know that average Nigerian ladies are whores. Anyways, You have not reach the stage to learn your lesson . At least you still some money to subscribe your phone

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you...look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.
From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of...Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. my spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......she even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her.....She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.


The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k....Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me.. ....would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k.....she even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user...my only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...please help!

dont pay for anything again, dont pick her calls either

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you...look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.
From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of...Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. my spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......she even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her.....She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.


The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k....Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me.. ....would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k.....she even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user...my only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...please help!

you are a bastard for doing and posting all this shit....dont u ever call urself a man again, dindinrin

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you...look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.
From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of...Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. my spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......she even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her.....She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.


The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k....Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me.. ....would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k.....she even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user...my only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...please help!

Reminds me of one Ochanya babe I was piping cuz she had wanted an iPhone 11. Got her the phone, her fiance whom she lived with asked her to return it, that he'd buy her another one, Auntie refused and kept spending nights at my house cuz they were always fighting cuz of the phone. One day Auntie comes and says she wanted her own apartment cuz she was having second thoughts about her fiance and she needed her own space and asked for a loan of 1m, after plenty tears, I formed playing maga, I asked for a small collateral, she legit stole her boyfriends land docs to come drop as collateral, I had given her the money but I kept wondering if her story of him giving her permission to drop the docs were legit, I couldn't call homeboy cuz I didnt know how to reach him, so I asked Auntie to refund the bar and come get the docs, that I'd refer her to someone else for the loan... Babe refused oh, said a bunch and apologized later, I found out she still had around 970k of the funds in her acct and asked her to come over, we shagged and shagged, finally told Auntie that she should borrow me 900k till the weekend that I'd give her back with interest... Babe negotiated interest oh with my own money, sent me 900k and left back to her fiance's house, this is after she told me she had gotten her own apartment with the loan. I sha sent the land docs back to the boyfriend at the address I had for his office, he must have confronted her, never followed up since I got most of my funds back...

Women are scum bro, turns out this her fiance was paying her bills the whole time and helping her financially, she just wanted more