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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by michlins(m): 5:38pm On May 14, 2020
Oga ni. Kindly support my hustle with few funds you have to spare instead
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Papadoh(m): 6:00pm On May 14, 2020
If you were a close friend of mine... aargh!
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Icechillz(m): 6:33pm On May 14, 2020
Stacyomolola:

Dont wanna sound insultive but please stop mailing me and keep me off ur mentions, continue living in your fantasy world.
Hahahahaha he's looking for who to bang. cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by FromZeroToHero(m): 6:36pm On May 14, 2020
Please just finish what you started. How could you allow 500k go just like that because of ordinary bed. It's like buying a range rover envogue and abandon it just because one of the side mirror is broken.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by WisdomHunter(m): 6:46pm On May 14, 2020
davosea:
grin thruth be told man,you need a sledge hammer on your skull

Hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha a

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by jericco1(m): 9:58pm On May 14, 2020
You need to make up your mind if you want to continue with such relationship or you'd like to move on
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Wiifesnatcher(m): 9:58pm On May 14, 2020
God bless all Biitches that's teaching this dumb men lesson. I was telling someone that there are Maye in Nigeria but he's denying that Nigerians are smart. how I wish he can come and read the imbecilic post of this modern f00l

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Reference(m): 9:59pm On May 14, 2020
Here we go again...

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by meobizy(f): 10:00pm On May 14, 2020
Creative writer alert.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by DoubleEngine007: 10:00pm On May 14, 2020
Op your brain ,na garri full am.. WTF is this boy saying? Have you given your mom 200k once?

Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by elantraceey(f): 10:00pm On May 14, 2020
You are a mumu man.

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by WHITELIGHTER: 10:00pm On May 14, 2020
In the bottle
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by tamdun: 10:01pm On May 14, 2020
Mumu lover boy, someone cheated on you a d u still have her 400k angry
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by simplepee(f): 10:01pm On May 14, 2020
I wonder why I no dey meet all these mugu money spenderundecided undecided.

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by friendl: 10:01pm On May 14, 2020
Never pay accommodation for a lady and never buy a lady a phone , ..instead give her money ,...lady size up who they date ,...the lady fit don put you inside bottle
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by eleko1: 10:01pm On May 14, 2020
sad playing Ebenezer Obey Evergreen music Mase gbera l’obinrin ooooo

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Nobody: 10:02pm On May 14, 2020
The strangest of things can be moved to front page but mine won't cry

Mods please help

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Abasilim: 10:02pm On May 14, 2020
This guy, you're a stupid idiot o. See as I de vex de read this ur story.. I've even lost my appetite..he's even asking whether he should buy bed and finish what he started. Oga after the bed make sure you buy air con and TV too.. Onye ala
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by clericuzzio(m): 10:02pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

Money dat if I ask of you even if 1/10th of that you wouldn't give. Yet you gave someone who has shown you all the character inside out. Would have been better if you're even lashing her for 10k per night she spends in your place
It's better you stop at this point and don't spend a dime on her again. Cos you're definitely going to regret later.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Arthur2021: 10:03pm On May 14, 2020
There are still people who hold on the stereotype of men being the perpetrators (they don't call this stereotype,they only call "women are naturally more emotional than logical" a stereotype grin)

This people abuse traditional people as archaic, they don't realise the mantra they keep chanting of women being oppressed are archaic themselves

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by naturefellow(m): 10:03pm On May 14, 2020
Officialgarri:

Yes pay up and do it fast fast...
nice pun!

But where she dey sleep before gan gan?
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Zyzxx10: 10:04pm On May 14, 2020
Wow this finally reached fp.That gal must be put in her place.Dont give her anything again and leave her before you fall in her fake love traps and extracts your live savings from you.Just my two cents.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Berankis: 10:05pm On May 14, 2020
I am sure it men like you who cannot help their family members or friends that spend like a mad man on women!
The girl is a punishment upon you, continue to spend or you don't want to reap the fruit of your labour?
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Antichristus: 10:06pm On May 14, 2020
Fake news or senseless guy.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by KingAzari: 10:06pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

You're sick. That girl will kill you finally.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by knowhowk: 10:06pm On May 14, 2020
Date ,Go to Lady Parent, Make it Official.Marry her .There are Businesses to Invest On .Guys should stop Wasting time,Money on a long Relationship that hits the rock .Don't listen to a Lady excuses to Delay Marriage ,School ,Give me sometimes Shit .Stop proving to a Lady you love her by spending money on her .
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by miqos02(m): 10:07pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

MUMU

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by tuoky: 10:07pm On May 14, 2020
I feel like giving you a good dirty slap .. All the same, no one is above making mistake's . Try and end that relationship Asap.. That girl will ruin your destiny if care not taken
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Nobody: 10:08pm On May 14, 2020
grin grin grin Brother has eaten toi toi.... E no dey think straight again. I know this thing called love could be crazy at times,especially when someone has your mumu button,but for your mumu button to be at full bar when you know she is cheating on you beats my imagination.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by DaddyGngeess(m): 10:08pm On May 14, 2020
No need calling you names see you as a fool or mumu because you said that all yourself, the truth is that this your relationship is not going anywhere, so is better you quit now, bit if you enjoying all this then you can go ahead and enjoy it.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Nobody: 10:09pm On May 14, 2020
YOU ARE A BIG F...
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Caleb17: 10:10pm On May 14, 2020
Mumu boy. She poisoned your food with love portion knowing that you are rich. Now you are misbehaving. I don't have any advise for you.

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