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If I write what on my mind , am sure , I will be ban for life with this moniker.
Let me just be reading comments.

Don't know how a grown up man can be acting childish? This is a lady you have not even pay her bride price.
Anyways, maybe you like having High blood pressure.

funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

I am actually a lady and I must say this is very bad on your gf part, shouting on your mother in public at that and everyone is calming her is the height of it ,I can't stand my bf insulting my sibling let alone my mother... I feel she really needs to go 4 anger management classes ,its not her fault, she grew up in an abusive home. And you scolding ur mom is wrong, even if she is d worst illiterate on earth, don't not to talk of u did it because of a girl. But if she is not willing to see a therapist ,work on her anger, u are in a risky relationship I hope u rem the story of Maryam who stabbed her husband in a rage. Take care.

You are so spot on. How could a man be thinking of what to do in this case? A right thinking man will know that the Lady is a ticking time bomb that will consume n shorten his life

Ningen:
You didn't scold your girlfriend; the one with the terrible anger issues but scolded your mother??

Chei! Your ancestors must be whirling in pain.

Keep tolerating her “anger”.

She'll put it to good use oneday and strike sense into your head, then you'll know it's time to RUN.

It'll end in tears.

I advice you be man enough if you want to stay with her. Dont be soft for her if not she wont stop the anger issue. Tell her you love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her but if she continues to behave like she is not mannered that you cant deal with that. That girl will break your head if you dont manage the whole thing now. Tell her to know how to control her anger and response. Better anytime she is angry she should keep quiet no matter how angry she is she shouldnt utter a word.
If she feels there are other men out there tell her to her face no one will accept her with bad anger issue tell her to go and try it. Some men will beat her black and purple . Tell her straight . Make all your point to her and keep quiet. No matter what she says dont say anything after you have made your point. If she doesnt change please tell her you need a break. Stay away from her for two three month. Give her time to change and work on herself

Angelacruz:
D guy is not normal from d look of things

You are very correct

I pity the poor woman who gave birth to weak son. It would have been better if she is still looking for fruit of the womb because this journey you embarked upon hardly end well.

this guy must be really ugly and dating a fine girl. and to him he has won a trophy. the girl doesn't like him but only managing him. no matter what anyone say here it will never change anything. his investment on the said girl is the problem that will keep him attached for life. when you invest massively on a her. she start to misbehave because she has nothing to lose but gains. but whereas the guy who invest will be thinking about all the investment.

SHEAU:
Let the elders come and advice you, girl wey u never marry Dey behave like this, I swear if u marry her forget about your family..

I've always said that many men are the cause of their own problems.

If ur marriage is not based on the standard of the word of God, please don't go into it. Marriage is a life time engagement, look for someone that has fear of God in truth and in spirit to marry , if u don't, u will endure it for the rest of your life, instead of to enjoy it. Ask those of us that are married.

I don’t pray to have someone like you as a son scolding your mum for a girl that lack home training from her mama house. Pls leave the girl , the girl has shown you the type of person or wife she will become after marriage. She will beat your mama one day and destroy your property. Let her go and manage her temper with her family or the people that she called toasters. It’s like you are the one controlling your mama too if not why will your mother apologize to you. Come and do it in my house. Bring the girl to my house I will use amala turning stick to reset your brain before resetting your girl brain.

Bros run, as in Don't even look left talkless of back. As far as it's anger issues that can't be carefully corrected or changed just leave her.

Please consider Break up too cause your life and emotional health is at risk, don't tolerate nonsense please so you won't say" had I known" latee

Op is so irritating, I couldn't even finish reading the nonsense he wrote. A girl insults your mother and all you could do was scold your mother? To say you're an slowpoke is understatement.

Those advising him are just wasting their time. This one is lost, he's so weak and that's why the so-called girlfriend had the impetus to call out his mother in his presence.

Agi may your soul rest in peace. God knows that despite my easy going personality, no woman or man can insult my late mother and go scout free.

This Op irritates me so much, i feel like giving you very dirty slap.

funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

I can't see the wife material you are bragin about there ooo.she is an idiot she has no right to get angry as such ,no matter what your mom told her ,a well trained girl would we keep her cool and call you aside if she can't wait till you get home and tell you her anger..you better run now this kind girl with anger issue one day will kill you with excuse of she's angry .

Is it that ppl on Nairaland these days r dumb or what, every time 25 years, paying for another girls school fees,paying rent for girlfriend etc, all these fake stories r getting too much on this forum, the worst is even d ppl killing themselves to b answering them and giving solutions,mtcheeewwww!

funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

What do u enjoy creating thread of this nature....

Guy... U r not serious... U r very weak... Ur heart and brain are disconnected...

My brother wise up. I don't know if you want a crystal ball gazer to tell you she is not for keep. This is red flag staring at you and you are here saying break up is not in the card. It will end in regrets. I have been the chairman of comments readers association but this your thread has forced me to comment. Nwanne gbara ogwu gi nyuo ooo

I FEEL LIKE SPANKING YOU 24 LASHES.

THEN YOU GO AND WASH ALL THE PUBLIC TOILET IN ALL BUILDING IN AJEGUNLE

YOU CHOSE YOUR GIRL OVER YOUR MOTHER...YOUR SOLE MOTHER...FOER GIRLFRIENDS..THERE MANY FISHES IN THE OCEAN

funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

that babe is damaged and from an abusive home ,,I was one’s like that. It take time n life lessons to change such behavior. It’s pain in her heart , she’s very bitter about a lot of things she bottled up

funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

She's got real anger issues. Reminds me of the Hollywood movies where the girlfriend, picks up a gun and blows up the guy's head.
Then starts crying when the cops arrive. Tears dont bring back a dead body.

Well-done on your decision to marry someone with obvious, help-requiring, prayer-requiring anger issues. You are a modern-day mumu boy Super Hero.
Let us know how it goes when you guys are married.

Choosing a girl you are not married to over your mother. What has become of men in today's world?

Where are you from? And how old are you?

You are a very WEAK and FOOLISH boy.
I can't call you a man because you are not mature in reasoning and action wise.

You are also a money miss road boy.

What happened to the general resetting slap you lied to us about?

A girl you feed, pay school fees and even pay house rent for, shouted at your precious Mother and you are here written without missing any details.

Let that girl go now.
It still very early.

A girl that doesn't listen to anyone whenever she is angry?

There are lots of decent and respectful girls out there.

This her attitude contaminants every other good attributes she has.

Put an end to this relationship today.

So who come carry d mango at last? You need to answer this question o.


As for dat ur gf, well! Make she try n as for u op, something must be wrong with u

That's a fake story, this amount of mumuness is unnatural, it's only possible in fictions

"He scolded his mom because of his angry disrespectful girlfriend"

How in God’s name do boys get into relationships?
So in your mind now you’re man enough because you have money. My brother you are very weak. How can you open your mouth to talk to your mother? Oh I get you send them money so you think she is now your mate for a girlfriend issue? You lack upbringing and you don’t know how to be the man in a relationship. Listen to me many women are worse than your girlfriend but guess what they channel that anger to outsiders and respect their bf/husband and relatives. This girl has no respect for you and imagine talking like that to your mother. Next time she will slap your mother and you will still scold your mother. Point is even more violent women respect their husbands and those who can’t are single quoting all men are useless. What this anger will do to you wait and see. You better go home and kneel down and apologize to your mother bcz the curse you attracted shaming the woman who was gifting you mango after breastfeeding you. And this isn’t just about this babe you have problem and you need to figure it out yourself as you see this life never let life teach you the hard way. Even if my wife is angry over anything she has to wait and call me aside or get home to say it that’s maturity. Anger dey look face my brother and in this case this girl doesn’t see you at all

ur are unwise. ( a big fool ) .!!!!!!!

Seriously, you scold your mom over a girlfriend who lack manners & proper parental upbringing.

What for? Sex. I'm sure that is d only thing in your brain now.

Boy, grow up. Better go and apologize to your mom & let that stupid girl off your life.

My broda.
You're about to introduce an anger- infested generation into yours.
Run for your life before it gets late.
Nobody tries that with my mum.
Not been for the fleshy tablets of stone underneath.

First of all, you don't live with a woman you have not married.

Secondly, she's not a good woman. How could your mother packaged fruits for you guyz to go home with, instead of appreciating and thanked her she picked offence?

Finally, holy book says that it's better to live on top of the roof than to live with angry woman.

A lot of times, God reveals peoples' behaviors to the so-called husbands or wives to be, so that they can run away, but due to what people will say or how much they've invested in the relationship they'll ignore it. Tomorrow they will come to NL to disturb us with their failed marriages.

GreatChizzy:
Like seriously you "scolded" your MOTHER?
You scolded your mother for a "girl friend" whom you had already knew had anger management issues? I hope your mother has other sons besides you; because you are a shame and a reproach to that woman you call your mother.

May God not give us Sons that would scold their mothers because of girl friends.

The guy na really Kpekus

I can't believe what I just read. I pray I don't give birth to a son as stupid as you.

Hmmmmm, speechless...
I can never manifest half of ur stupidity @OP.
Before u even ask us for advise, av u asked urself these questions??

1) Who trained n suffered for me to get to where I am today?
2) If I couldn't provide for her, would she still love me?? I'm not talking of her helping u wen u r broke oo, cos she knows its only temporary n u will do 100times of dat once u av cash..
3) If everyone in my life should reject me, who among my galfriend n mother would stand by me still love me??
4) Who on earth can love me more dan my mother??

Let me stop dere n visit her anger management issues, y r u trying to justify her anger management, is she d only one dat has such issues, my guy any1 born in Nigeria has a major problem o, we try not to make our problems define us,, wat I av experienced, ur babe av not seen half of it oo, yet I'm simple n calm.. Cos I no its d right thing to do..

My brother, I rather marry a dumb, dwarf, ugly n name it,, than marry a beautiful woman with anger management issues... Those news u read on nairaland here saying woman stabbed man to death,, woman burnt man, wife poisoned husband n all dat,, wat sort of women do u think are capable of doing all dat?? Even if ur mum is wrong, ur babe is supoz to obey as a decent gal in presence of everyone, den later inform u DAT she isn't happy with wat ur mum said, n dat u should talk to her.. I av a lot to say, but lemme stop here.. And finally OP, ask urself, if reverse was d case, would u av done same to her parents

Men, no manners at all, considering d age difference , God forbid, I will dump dat bitch a million times over again.. So d day both of u will quarrel.. If u decide to go ahead with marriage, d day both of u will quarrel,,myadvise is,, my guy nor sleep hux ooo...