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I never wanted to believe my now ex girlfriend was a cheat even after receiving numerous advice from nairalanders here sometime ago in my other thread. I allowed the relationship to continued until yesterday due to the love I had for her.
Yesterday, her younger sister broke the news to me that her sister is cheating on me with a guy from her state. Before this happened, I have been seeing the red flags. Few days ago on my birthday, she posted my picture on whatsapp with the caption "friends become bestie". I was startled because I never knew I was my girlfriend's bestie. Damn, some girls are evil hearted. Secondly, she deleted the birthday post before 5pm, another red flag.
I have nothing to do with her anymore, I have officially broke up with her. I'm a free man now. Relationship is overrated, no Naija girl deserves to be trusted

friends turned bestie,some girls cannot make heaven

Trust is mugun . Trust no one even you, yourself . You betrayed yourself because I knew a part of your heart would have been telling you to leave that toxic relationship but the other part that is enjoying the passage of the hairy snail will never want you to leave . That’s life bro but not all Nigerian girls are like that sha . Your girl was just an unstable hole that loves to taste every joystick that comes through

You have no right to break up with her.....How dare you bring up this silly thin an excuse after wasting her time ? it doesn't count except you're trying to win a gun fight with a bunch of knives....I think it's best if you take down this thread you lack evidence

No need to get worked up if your partner leaves you or doesn't want you anymore. As we grow older, our tastes change and we meet people we feel we connect more with.
Dust yourself off and move on.
Relationships go and come but what is most important is to ensure you keep getting better as a person, keep growing and keep progressing, not for others but for yourself.

FAntabulous

Bestie! Hhahahahahaah. It is interesting how she can still say all those sweet things to you after an action that kinda depicts you as a side piece. Good for you that you decided to brace up and face reality.
A lot of people do not deserve trust, men and women. I've been burnt worse than this so stop making it a gender thing.

Freelane33:
Trust is mugun . Trust no one even you, yourself . You betrayed yourself because I knew a part of your heart would have been telling you to leave that toxic relationship but the other part that is enjoying the passage of the hairy snail will never want you to leave . That’s life bro but not all Nigerian girls are like that sha . Your girl was just an unstable hole that loves to taste every joystick that comes through

You need to see how she acts like a saint whenever we are together. You would hardly suspect this girl cheats

Eyaah...pele

zed7:
No need to get worked up if your partner leaves you or doesn't want you anymore. As we grow older, our tastes change and we meet people we feel we connect more with.
Dust yourself off and move on.
Relationships go and come but what is most important is to ensure you give getting better as a person, keep growing and keep progressing, not for others but for yourself.

Thanks for this piece of advice, I have moved on. Better to channel all my energy to building my life goals. No more relationship scam again

She keeps pleading but I'm sure blocking her will be the best option now

Babyforever:
You have no right to break up with her.....How dare you bring up this silly thin an excuse after wasting her time ? it doesn't count except you're trying to win a gun fight with a bunch of knives....I think it's best if you take down this thread you lack evidence

Sisters in crime

AfroMighty:
Sisters in crime

Please give her another chance Victor it's not easy out here especially now that the whole world is crumbling where you want her to run to ? If not your place please consider your decisions and give her a second chance i don't think she's strong enough to handle the trauma this will put her to please victor

Nairalanders, let us bet. This guy will go back to her & in future,the girl will officially breakup with him without looking back.
Bro,stop deceiving yourself, from what I'm seeing,you are going back

Babyforever:
Please give her another chance Victor it's not easy out here especially now that the whole world is crumbling where you want her to run to ? If not your place please consider your decisions and give her a second chance i don't think she's strong enough to handle the trauma this will put her to please victor

It's either you are the girl or someone close to her. But dont worry, Victor looks like a weak man and will go back to her

You a fool

So after all the abuses you still continued until she gutted your heart finish

Then you come here after your eyes have clear and say don't trust Nigerian girls


Don't pour sand sand in some other good girl garri. I know we have good ones out there too.

Arrogantbro:
She keeps pleasing but I'm sure blocking her will be the best option now

Why havent you blocked her. Whats your problem young man?
Move on with your life and get a new chick. No man was born attached to a woman . We all waka come differently.
When you feel you arent loved again,just walkbout. There are many single ladies out there. Dont swallow panadol on top a cheat mehn.
And your GF is a good liar. She keeps begging, that shows she is guilty. If na person when know say she do nothing, she wouldnt even plead.
Am sure you were just her back up plan.

las las you will accept her back. The girl is a charmer with words, You haven't blocked her yet, She will win you over and cheat on you over again, That's girls.

Lalasticlalabos:
It's either you are the girl or someone close to her. But dont worry, Victor looks like a weak man and will go back to her

Yeah i noticed that too. An Efferminate Simp

after reading the conversation I can conclude that she is indeed a cheat . she wants to emotionally control you with those sweet words.

Babyforever:
Please give her another chance Victor it's not easy out here especially now that the whole world is crumbling where you want her to run to ? If not your place please consider your decisions and give her a second chance i don't think she's strong enough to handle the trauma this will put her to please victor

Are you sure you are not related to her ? Would you wish your brother accept such lady ?

When a woman cheat, she will be disowned but when a man cheats, he apologized and he will be accepted back.
Why is it this way?

Radarada

Arrogantbro:
Are you sure you are not related to her ? Would you wish your brother accept such lady ?

She didn't cheat on you Victor don't make this a complex issue i don't think she's finding it funny at the moment please i know you're the man and you're in charge please reconsider those hurtful decisions you made please.......Victor

Cioccolata:
She could be typing all this and be laughing.

You're very wicked

Allsingles:
When a woman cheat, she will be disowned but when a man cheats, he apologized and he will be accepted back.
Why is it this way?

Because it's a man's world.

Arrogantbro:
I never wanted to believe my now ex girlfriend was a cheat even after receiving numerous advice from nairalanders here sometime ago in my other thread. I allowed the relationship to continued until yesterday due to the love I had for her.
Yesterday, her younger sister broke the news to me that her sister is cheating on me with a guy from her state. Before this happened, I have been seeing the red flags. Few days ago on my birthday, she posted my picture on whatsapp with the caption "friends become bestie". I was startled because I never knew I was my girlfriend's bestie. Damn, some girls are evil hearted. Secondly, she deleted the birthday post before 5pm, another red flag.
I have nothing to do with her anymore, I have officially broke up with her. I'm a free man now. Relationship is overrated, no Naija girl deserves to be trusted

I will give u a simple advice bro
sit her down and have a talk with her. Don't just walk away like dat. If u have spent time building a relationship dat is strong, don't just let it go dat way, u may never find love again.

Babyforever:
Please give her another chance Victor it's not easy out here especially now that the whole world is crumbling where you want her to run to ? If not your place please consider your decisions and give her a second chance i don't think she's strong enough to handle the trauma this will put her to please victor

You must be high on lipton, who is victor?

AfroMighty:
You must be high on lipton, who is victor?

That was what she called you in those text message please give her another chance it's not what you think she just wanted to know if you truly care for her and i think you do please reconsider your decisions Victor

Bro you're so weak. I swear this guy can never move on. He loves the girl so much, funny enough she said she never had the thought of her leaving you. Dude you're so going to accept her back and post another weak ass topic here again

zionmde:
I will give u a simple advice bro
sit her down and have a talk with her. Don't just walk away like dat. If u have spent time building a relationship dat is strong, don't just let it go dat way, u may never find love again.

Thank you for this advice i hope he listens




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