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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by Nsiehi: 5:15pm On May 22, 2020
@OP, you are now a new creation in Christ Jesus. The past is gone and do not dwell on it. At the moment, focus on building yourself and keeping good records. Study your Bible and pray fervently. I believe your last 2 children will be returned to you, talk to God about this.

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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by Nsiehi: 5:21pm On May 22, 2020
The children are not safe with her.
She was using drugs while pregnant.
She also fractured her baby's hand .
No sane authority will allow any child within her vicinity.[/quote]

She caused injury to the baby because of the drug influence. Now that she has stopped and a renewed person, I doubt she will cause anymore harm to her children.

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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by Ishilove: 6:12pm On May 22, 2020
Divine89:

My children are in the custody of the french authorities, according to them I will never have custody of them till they reach 18 years old because I am an unfit mother. only God grace can help me to have them back. Thank you
Can you prove to the courts with the help of a competent lawyer that you are now fit to take custody?

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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by deluxin: 6:41pm On May 22, 2020
You need to discuss with a competent lawyer.

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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by GeneralPula: 6:42pm On May 22, 2020
Audio France
Audio 6kids

Nah them, if you know you know!

lipsrsealed

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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by bigstan11787(m): 6:42pm On May 22, 2020
We are listening
Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by Muhylonaire(m): 6:43pm On May 22, 2020
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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by Nobody: 6:44pm On May 22, 2020
grin grin.. UDONMINIT.......

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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by sylve11: 6:44pm On May 22, 2020
@ op, your story is a sad one. You can only make peace with your uncle now that he's alive. Look for anyone close to you, so he or she can follow you to go make peace with your uncle. Telling intentional lies against someone is a very bad thing to do.

That's how a guy was lied against, the guy couldnt bear the shame and pain. He ended up taking his own life. But before he did, he laid a curse. Sad enough, the kids from the man who lied against him are all mentally deranged. cool

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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by KKKWHITE(m): 6:44pm On May 22, 2020
Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by Divine89: 6:45pm On May 22, 2020
Ishilove:

Can you prove to the courts with the help of a competent lawyer that you are now fit to take custody?

I have a lawyer and he is fighting my case trying everything possible to convince the judge that I am a changed person if I could have a second chance with my 2 youngest , but the court refused they think I am an unfit mother and only allowed me supervise contact with my children once a year which is a big step I am very grateful because before I had no contact with them. I believe with God grace one day I will get custody of my 2 youngest. Thank you

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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by sonnie10: 6:46pm On May 22, 2020
Good investment.
Your probability of making it later on in life is high. One of them might become very rich or the father might become very rich. Either way, its a win win for you

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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by KKKWHITE(m): 6:46pm On May 22, 2020
6 kids from 6 men

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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by incogni2o: 6:46pm On May 22, 2020
Divine89:

My children are in the custody of the french authorities, according to them I will never have custody of them till they reach 18 years old because I am an unfit mother. only God grace can help me to have them back. Thank you
pls forgive the pastor, remember forgive us our sins as we forgive those who trespass against us, let go of the hurt, it may even be the one delaying others forgiving you, you never know.

Sooner or Later, I promise you that you will have not just one, but all all your children back.

any child will always want to know his or her mum, it's pure human instinct, just prepare to meet them, they'll come one day. only prepare to be the opposite of what the government and their parents have painted you to be in their mind.

but you have to forget about them for now, focus on God, and Let God mold you. I believe you are broken, and broken people make the best vessels with what I have known with the way God works.

me that I am being patched here and there wished I could just be broken to some extent but every life is different.

I will leave you with this bible verse. Phil 1:6

Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ:

Amen.
Peace.

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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by PoliticallyInco: 6:47pm On May 22, 2020
You did what a child would do.

Many children lie against people a lot. Most kids that do that are usually smart. But deep down they lack something. They have a need to be seen. Heard. They crave attention but get it the wrong way.


Get your life together. It is Karma. You get result for every earthly action you take. No matter how small and mundane.

Be brave. Try to live a quiet life and try to get your kids and be a good parent.

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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by Gkay1(m): 6:47pm On May 22, 2020
God is not mocked and whatsoever u sow, u reap
Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by anayolity: 6:47pm On May 22, 2020
Lies from Nairaland....

Seun you're really doing well with all these people wey you dey pay to give us ridiculous stories

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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by millennialaku2: 6:47pm On May 22, 2020
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come and advice this woman, no be by all those your audio preaching angry angry
Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by Decryptor(m): 6:49pm On May 22, 2020
Divine89:


Then at 14 I went to school and lied to my teacher that my uncle was abusing me.

but my uncle had sworn because I made him lost his children for 1yr 9 months that I will never found happiness in my life and I will never enjoy the fruit of my labour which it is true as I am typing this

I once said and keep on saying it that 98% of the claims ladies and women make about them being sexually abused as children or teens is nothing but LIES TO GAIN SYMPATHY AND SEEK FOR UNDUE ATTENTION!

I was once accused by my late mother's caregiver of raping her because i refused to fall to her acts of seduction on me.

I went outside under the full glare of the moon stark naked and cursed her.

Months later, her 3 year old daughter was fatally abused by a boy of 16 and was admitted in the hospital for severe complications from VVF a year later, her 9 year old son died of a strange ailment and now, i heard she is on ARVs as a result of being positive for HIV.

Guys, if any daughter of Eve accuses you of anything you didn't do, curse her naked. That stuff is potent!

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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by 24kmagic: 6:50pm On May 22, 2020
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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by DropsMic(m): 6:50pm On May 22, 2020
......


The energy you put out into the universe always comes back to hunt you


......

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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by CsRockefeller(m): 6:50pm On May 22, 2020
Millenniumlady:
This is deep but i think those men played you for having kids for them try to get custody of the kids so you can start earning from child support.

Your jaundicism is out of this world.

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Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by money121(m): 6:51pm On May 22, 2020
Ok
Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by PigTormentor: 6:51pm On May 22, 2020
[[s]quote author=Righteousness89 post=89833896]Deep... really Deep.

My Sister, My Bible tells me that " For all have sinned and Come Short of the Glory of GOD"

If there is sin, there is also Mercy!

Praise GOD You are still alive because it's only the Living that can obtain Mercy. Irrespective of all You have done and those who have looked down on you and Disowned you due to your dirty past, There is a Loving FATHER who is Available to Receive you , Purge you ,Clean you up and Make you the most adorable.

HIS Name is JESUS CHRIST..

Man can fail you
Pastor can fail you
Parents can Disown and Fail u
Uncle and aunties can fail u
Your Twin can Fail and Disappoint you
I can Fail and Disappoint you

Only JESUS will never Fail, disown ot Disappoint you. HIs hands are Wide open to Receive and Forgive you.

My Admonishment to you is this;
Put All the Challenges , Events and Troubles away.

Take your Focus to JESUS CHRIST.
Follow HIM with all of your Spirit, Soul and Body.

Let HIS Word be your food.. Let HIM be your FATHER, Mother and Partner. Let HIM be your Pirioty



You will suddenly notice that all the Burdens will be lifted off your shoulders .

I Believe you have a job or some means of income.


Search for a Bible Believing place of Worship or GENUIE Believers of like minds. Don't Focus on the Pastor! Focus on GOD..


As for your kids, Uncle, Aunty , Parents and all who have Abadoned you.. The Master who has The Heart of Everyone in His Hands, He will Restore all of them to you in due Season

Leave all those Worries and Face JESUS CHRIST The Prince of Peace.. Walk with HIM with all your Heart. Love Him with all your Heart


I Pray For you that as you seek GOD ALMIGHTY, you will find HIM.
I Pray For you that as you turn to GOD as your Focus , the Peace that passes all Understanding will envelope you
I Pray For you that as you Completely Surrender to JESUS CHRIST, you will smile again and Everything that you have lost will be Restored to you IN THE NAME OF JESUS.. AMEN


I see you being a Great light of JOY Soonest


[/quote][/s]
Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by Candoit: 6:51pm On May 22, 2020
Some indeed have shoes but no legs, some legs but no shoes. Many of us as children were looking for such an opportunity, u had it and blew it!

Well, come back to Nigeria and have a fresh start. When you've made peace with yourself and family here, then you can either visit your kids occasionally or invite them here.
Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by seunak2016: 6:51pm On May 22, 2020
Divine89:
Hello everybody. I am Nigerian based in France. My English it is not 100% perfect but I will try to make it possible for you to understand me with the help of google french to English translator and my story is also long sorry for that.

When I was 9 years old I joined my uncle, my mum's younger brother in France. He declared me as his daughter. During that time he only had one child, 2 years old. He and the wife were so loving to me. I never lacked anything in their house.

But when I turned 12, I went to secondary school. I met some bad friends there. This is where the problem started.I became a very difficult child. I will go to school come home late. My uncle will beat and beat me but I never listened. I smoked my first cigarette at 12 and had my first sex at 13 and I started running away from home to stay with boyfriends. Sometimes I can go for a week and when uncle reporta me missing, the police will be looking for me, then they will bring me back home.

Then at 14 I went to school and lied to my teacher that my uncle was abusing me. I told them he was beating me with belts, electric wire, they don’t give me foods and I really said a lot of bad things about them doing to me to make my teacher believe my story so they could take me away from them because I wanted freedom and my teacher believed me and reported to the police and child protection, they are people who take away abused children from their parents. They took custody of me and my uncle three children, the youngest was 6 months old to their care and they gave us to this white lady to care for us and my uncle and wife were arrested for child abuse and the police were doing some investigation.

After spending 1yr 9 months in care of the white lady I dropped out school. They found out that I was a difficult child that I lied to get freedom so they have decided to give my uncle his children back to him while I stayed in care of white people but my uncle had sworn because I made him lost his children for 1yr 9 months that I will never found happiness in my life and I will never enjoy the fruit of my labour which it is true as I am typing this.

I have given birth to 6 children by 6 men and none of the children is living with me. The first one was taken away from me at 2 months old because I beat her up and fractured her hands and I also tested positive for heroinn (drugs), so that did not stop me from giving birth second child was removed from my care 4 hours after birth she also tested positive for heroin the same way my other children were removed at birth too so I carry on with my lifestyles. I did not care about my children at that time all I care about was sex, alcohol and drugs this is what I wanted and I have been to prison several times for selling drugs and fraudsters. The longest I have spent in prison was 2 years then after i left prison, I met with this sister who introduced me to this church she attended so I went along with her, the pastor told me to confess my sin to him and promised it will be a secret between I, him and God which I did repented and accepted Jesus as my saviour. To be honest, my life did changed a lot, I fell the peace in my heart , enjoyed going to church every Sunday but this pastor went tell his wife my life story and the wife told everyone in church my life story and started using it against me so it made me so angry that I left the church in November 2017 without looking back. I have decided not to attend any church again. I have stopped alcohol, taking drugs and sleeping with men I no longer do it. I prayed at home, read my bible and behaving good and it's almost 2 years I havnt slept with a man and i went to look for my uncle asking him for forgiveness but he has refused and I send him many text messages begging him to forgive and I still no heard anything from him or the wife even their children I have tried to ask them forgiveness they have blocked me and they all want nothing to do with me even my own parents and siblings in Africa they have rejected me, none of them want to talk to me, my parents said i am dead to them, it is so painful I cry everyday in my prayers, as for my children 4 of them are adopted with new family. I can't see them again maybe until they are 18 years old If they want to know me if they don't want I will have no choice to accept it and my 2 youngest children i am only allowed to see them once a year in a children play centre with someone supervise because they don't let me to be alone with them and soon I will stop visiting them because they are planning to adopt them to a new family too that will mean I will have nobody on this earth.

I regret my mistake so bad I wish I could change it but it will no be impossible. I can't have more children because they will be removed from me like the others and I am only 31years old. I don't know if my repentance was genius because my family has refused to forgive me and my question goes like this if they never forgive me will I ever found happiness again or I will just have to accept it until I died?

Please, advise me in a Christian way maybe if there's more I can do and also prayed for me so my family will be able to forgive me and also pray for my two children that nobody will adopt them so I can get custody of them and i promised to be a good mother to them, please I am begging you in the name of God.
u deserved everything happening to you now, when you reach 35 or 40years then you can have peace and get everything back
Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by NaijaOlosho(f): 6:52pm On May 22, 2020
grin
Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by sylve11: 6:52pm On May 22, 2020
Millenniumlady:
Go let them know you're a change person so you can get you children back......Child support is not something to joke about you can build/buy a house from the check you'll be receiving from their dad's annually


They will still not give the children to her. cool

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