phelonrays:

Thanks for your insightful answer....


But it still left me more perplexed than before

My observations are....... @the emboldened

Can't we function with the ''Normal'' while letting go of the '' present generation' toxicity??

BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.

BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.

Psalmspsalms:

Galatian 6:1
1st Corinthians 6 vs 18-19

Xavfra:



Your useless religion from the same men who raped your ancestors is what you want to obey....
Who cares.....please go and marry oohhh....then 2moro you'll come back to nairaland and say that your wife is sleeping with your gateman ......

Avoidsexxx:
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right number!
The only and real reason why God created sex is for is to make children cus Adam and eve were created to multiply through sex.

saintpadrepio:
get behind me satan,

FGonline:
but u do commit other sin?

Are u without sin?

Xavfra:



Your useless religion from the same men who raped your ancestors is what you want to obey....
Who cares.....please go and marry oohhh....then 2moro you'll come back to nairaland and say that your wife is sleeping with your gateman ......

Psalmspsalms:

A fool says in his heart '' there is no God''. Even if fools are mixed with grains and pounded in a mortal with pistol, their foolishness will never depart from them. Sorry bro, your foolishness is from birth.

Xavfra:



Haba!!!!
I didn't talk about your birth....



You claim to be a Christian but you call me a fool and insult my birth.....


KA AMADIOHA NA AGBARA NA OGUIGWE NA CHI NIILE MAGBUEKWEGI NA NDU GI
..
ONYE ARA.......

tell your God to have sense....

Avoidsexxx:

animals do not have spirit(they are not in GOD'S Image) so they don't unify...(in sex u get the total mixture of two to form one, e.g red juice mix with yellow juice forms one colour juice - orange. i.e why they 1+1=1) hope u are learning...right, it is better to learn
NB: I say the truth with facts, i do no logic.

Psalmspsalms:

Lol, I didn't insult your birth. I only told you the fact based on what u wrote. Moreover the first paragraph is from the bible.

Tallesty1:
What the poster is saying in essence is that all the married people who had sex before marriage are all happy in their marriage while those who waited till after marriage either divorce before their first anniversary or live unhappily in the marriage till they die.

Blackmann001:
..its not a bad idea so long as the lady involved is a virgin....av been in about 3.No- sex relationships... And all lasted over minimum 2years......

Don't tink they ran away cuz dey didn't..I was too far from getting married..and they got straight to marriage. They are the best..

Currently with a very wonderful No-sex till marriage lady. Also a virgin and am enjoying it !

BobbyHammar:


You can try and it can work for you. But whereby it doesn't work for you if you function with the "Normal" and your partner does not, then be ready to carry your cross. Prevention they say is better than cure. My point is ensure you go for sex before marriage to be sure of the sexual aspect of your marriage. Every other major ingredients of marriage might be very good and rosy but trust me, if they are but only the sexual aspect is terrible, the wall is already cracked and it must surely fall apart sooner or later.

If you have watched the movie "kingdom of heaven" there was a part before the way when the dying king and his sister the princess wanted a young man to marry the princess so he could become king and they will kill her husband because they knew he will bring war upon them if he is crowned king. The young man refused because he didn't want the princess's husbands blood on his hands. Then the queen told him something very simple "one day you will wish you did a little evil just to ensure a greater good".

What am I trying to say, it is better you test the water before marriage (do a little evil if you call it sin or bad) in other to strive for a life long marriage (to ensure a greater good).

lanray475:


You are likely a self-servicer..go Bleep a pussy already man and stop wasting vaseline

Okoroawusa:

What about people that are not Christians? People whose culture it's not to marry as virgins? ( a tribe in Malawi practice that. Google is your friend)

Which God will they be sinning against?

And your talk about marrying a porn.star n it ending in divorce is contradictory. There are well known pastors who are divorced today. Did they marry porns.tars? Infact they are people who married as virgins but today they are no more together. Whose fault it is?
Are u aware that they are men married to former prostitutes n they proudly tell you that it was their best decisions marrying that woman because they are having a wonderful marriage?
Are you also aware that they are woman married as virgins n they cheat on their husbands? Those women end up as bad cooks,nags, troublesome,gossips, quarrelsome n making the marriage a living hell for the man?

Igbos say, "Ebe ima nkea ima nke ozo?". Meaning "If you know one thing do you know the other?"

arthorjnr:


I understand where you're coming from.

But I'm against a true christian justifying sin.

Different religions and atheist that approve the act are of no concern to me, I have no problem with them.

It becomes troublesome when fellow Christians justify it.

you make a sound point but for Christians, its a sin.

BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.