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Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
I am 22 years old and i am homosexual. I am trying To remember how all these started To create a correlation in understanding this lifestyle and possibly finding a solution. I remember acting effeminate at home from 6 year old till 11, but in school i was not effeminate, just normal. And from JSS, i was like every boy. I dont do sports but hang around people that do it. Even till date. I cant kick the ball In pornography, i started with heterosexual pornography as every normal boy, heterosexual sex games and heterosexual thought while masturbation for a year, until i saw gay porn six years ago and never went back. But i am now trying To stop porn all together Why am i like this. I am not looking for your pity or disdain just answers if you have any |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by SouthNigerian: 3:31pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
I'm glad you already identified the genesis of your problem. The leading cause of your addiction was your exposure to pornography + your high sex drive mixed with an adventrous mindset. Another thing that got you sticked to the act was due to the company of friends you were surrounded with... I believe they played a vital role in your addiction. Way Out? *First step out is to disassociate yourself from friends who shares the same addiction with you. *Steer clear of groups and associates that initiate homosexual discussions. *Learn to live a solo life. *Practice Introspection. *Don't try hard to change at once. *Highlight your bad habit and embrace a timeline for breaking habits one after the other. Just some miles away, you'll break the addiction. 6 Likes |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Nobody: 3:39pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
SouthNigerian:ok thanks. So you dont think there is a biological component ? |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by SouthNigerian: 3:42pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
Durentt: Kindly expantiate what you mean by biological component. |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Nobody: 3:49pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
SouthNigerian:childhood effeminacy and adult homosexuality ? Its expatiate not expantiate. Not trying To be rude 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by SweetBuns(f): 3:54pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
Faqqots disgust me 3 Likes |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Onuhgabriel(m): 3:54pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
Show me your friends and i'll tell you who you're. Mr. Man u're the cause of all the addiction and is better to be late than never. Pls they're ladies outside there find one and get ur self off this act because; the way am seeing this, u're already been entangle in this act but sha sha may God help u out. but u must be willing b4 God to intervain Or else u'll rost in hell. 1 Like |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Nobody: 4:02pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
Onuhgabriel: |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Nobody: 4:04pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
SweetBuns:but i am not a faqqot, i dont engage in anal sex so? |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by sylve11: 4:06pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
@ op, you need women in your life. 2 Likes |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by SouthNigerian: 4:07pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
Durentt: There's certainly a bridge between your childhood effeminacy and adult homosexuality, but doesn't mean the former was solely responsible for the later. Many homosexuals today dint effeminate during their childhood stages. Like I once stated, you got exposed to homosexuality through addiction to pornography. Thank you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by sylve11: 4:08pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
Durentt: Is it the other guys' nose you insert your deek into? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
SouthNigerian:ok thanks |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by ThothHermes: 4:36pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
Durentt:No. Just a demonic one. |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Nobody: 5:57pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
ThothHermes:ok |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Palehair: 7:21pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
SouthNigerian:No offense but you know nothing about human sexuality. You are quite smart and learned though. You just need to broaden your mind. Google and ebooks are on said subject are free 4 Likes |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Ekemeze: 8:27pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
. 3 Likes |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by rosy1992(f): 10:45pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Homosexuality is immoral. |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by JackHoff: 12:37am On Jun 06, 2020 |
No one is born gay,same way no one is born straight.. Yes,check your upbringing. 4 Likes |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Nobody: 6:11am On Jun 06, 2020 |
sylve11:the thing sef shock me! |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by SouthNigerian: 3:39pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Palehair: Honestly, I appreciate this call... man can only get better 1 Like |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Elxandre(m): 2:01pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Durentt: Possibly so. The mind is complex. You probably got hooked on the idea of homosexual sex. I mean you once found heterosexual sex a turn on. How about now, do you still find heterosexual sex a turn on? |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Nobody: 6:29pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Elxandre:I started with heterosexual porn like every normal man, but homosexual porn was just it. Like a plant waiting To be germinated with the right stimulus 1 Like |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Millennialaku(m): 6:45pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
mehnn 1 Like
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Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by Elxandre(m): 7:07pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Durentt:You did not answer the rest of my questions. |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 7:24pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
SouthNigerian: Lmao... Welcome to Nigeria where ignorant heterosexuals give homosexual advices. All these steps you've listed which of them have you done for yourself as a hetero? 2 Likes |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 7:24pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
SweetBuns: Who cares? Who asked?? 4 Likes |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 7:26pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Onuhgabriel: Blah blah blah... God will always roast gay people but straight liars, porn addicts, misogynists and toxic masculinity will go to heaven.... Hallelujah!!! 6 Likes |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 7:28pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Ekemeze: It's good that you acknowledged the community bro.....Stop giving advices to what you have zero experience about! Just be proudly homophobic and stop trying to hide behind wrong sex education facade. 2 Likes |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 7:32pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Durentt: Nigga you were always gay...Stop being apologetic to these heterosexuals....this is 2020! Being gay comes in different spices and effeminacy is one of them. I started out similar like you, but i was always GAY, even before the advent of porn. Dumb illiterate heterosexual Nigerians still can't differentiate between sex and sexuality in the 21st century, cos they all see women as their sex object! 10 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 7:34pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
sylve11: That's all the know! Seeing women as sex objects and their footstools! He needs women in his life, same way you need men in ur life 2 Likes |
Re: Was My Childhood Effeminacy The Reason For My Homosexuality by HuntSon(m): 7:35pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
rosy1992: Heterosexuality is immoral. 1 Like |
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