obyrich:


So you mean Regina Daniel did not know Ned Nwoko was married before accepting his proposal?

What about Dabota Lawson and Sunny Aku?

Many ladies deliberately seduce married men. It goes either way. Also many married women seduce young men. I have seen it happen several times.

These ones came with the intention of marrying these ladies. Not deceive them into a relationship and leave them half way. That is what married men do, they would leave as soon as they get tired of the mind games and all.
Imagine you're dating a guy that calls you 24/7 before then suddenly he doesnt call anymore, the reason is because is wife is now around or he couldn't keep up.
Ned nwoko and the other men you mentioned are real African men, tradition permits men to marry more than one wife (these men didnt have to lie about their status), It didnt say you should go about deceiving unsuspecting ladies about your marital status.

Justbehave:
All lies. Talking trash after dem don bang Una.

QuinModah:
It was back then in 2013 while I was still in school. I asked this guy if he was married, he said no but my spirit kept telling me he's married.

So one day, I used my lodge mate's phone number to put a call across to him telling him am mama Ada that I want to speak with his wife that her line isn't reachable and I really need to repay the loan she gave me before I squander the money, on hearing that he started screaming ''Mummy mummy bia onwere Onye na akpo gi'' (mummy mummy come someone is calling u). I quietly switched off the phone . I later asked him if it was worth denying your wife and kids because you want what you may never get, and he couldn't answer.

Lol....u are a bundle of sense.

luminouz:



Uwc!!!

You go understand the in-law part in nine months time

Issorite.
I sure say aso ebi go dey?

Congratulations in advance.

Men are big pretenders o. But karma will deal with all of them liars.

See how some of the men here are shamelessly trying to hijack this thread and place the fault on the women.

Allow these women to share their stories.

extremelygolden:


Issorite.
I sure say aso ebi go dey?

Congratulations in advance.

Lmaoooo....aso ebi go dey...everything go set gan.


I keep having this feeling that you are familiar but just not connecting the dots.

Anyways, have a good one.

luminouz:



Lmaoooo....aso ebi go dey...everything go set gan.


I keep having this feeling that you are familiar but just not connecting the dots.

Anyways, have a good one.

It's only about one hour plus from Eko. So, if Jesus tarries and Covid-19 returns back to where it came from, I'll show for that party gan.

Yeah, we sure are familiar. After all, we are from one very big family - Nairaland.

Lamanii22:
Those married men eehn... They'd be looking so young and cute... They'd spoil you baje...

I am not married Lamanii22

Dobson43:





The guy liked you

Right!

Some men are jst wicked n tym waster

QuinModah:
It was back then in 2013 while I was still in school. I asked this guy if he was married, he said no but my spirit kept telling me he's married.

So one day, I used my lodge mate's phone number to put a call across to him telling him am mama Ada that I want to speak with his wife that her line isn't reachable and I really need to repay the loan she gave me before I squander the money, on hearing that he started screaming ''Mummy mummy bia onwere Onye na akpo gi'' (mummy mummy come someone is calling u). I quietly switched off the phone . I later asked him if it was worth denying your wife and kids because you want what you may never get, and he couldn't answer.

God forbid!u are not destined to be a second wife.Amen

rockstarB:
Bros sent a picture and his wedding ring unknowingly to him showed in the picture
I had to zoom to see whether my eye dey deceive me sef. All the married women shouting up and down. Your husband is single outside the house you dont know.
I met two on nairaland too. Both didnt say they were married. We were only just chatting on WhatsApp.
It didnt take long before ones wife hijacked his phone and started insulting me. I told her I didnt know, she should ask her husband what he is doing on singles forum. The second one I knew from a picture he put in his status, I saw his ring and was like are you married? He said waoh! You get sharp eyes o
Another one, I just knew from his look. This advance looking man cannot be single!

Wetin eye don see, I don begin think say maybe I dey destined to be "second wife" lol

Angelacruz:
God forbid!u are not destined to be a second wife.Amen

Amen. Thanks

Uwc dear

rockstarB:
Amen. Thanks

Nawwoo for some men.Thanks for sharing

Luckygurl:
Yeah!
We met in February at my former ppa. We got talking and he said he likes me and would want us to date. I visited him once. I just found it hard to believe that a handsome comfortable guy like him was single, asked him a couple of times and he insisted he was single.

Just as I was about saying a yes to him, the FBI part of me decided to ask questions and dig deep. My informant told me he was married with two kids abroad. I confronted him and he says he got married to a white for papers during his school days and he has a daughter from the union.

I halted everything at once. Not cos he was once married or had a child but because he kept away that info from me and even when I had to ask he didn't see it as a big deal.

So now! I'm back to the drawing board

rockstarB:

These ones came with the intention of marrying these ladies. Not deceive them into a relationship and leave them half way. That is what married men do, they would leave as soon as they get tired of the mind games and all.
Imagine you're dating a guy that calls you 24/7 before then suddenly he doesnt call anymore, the reason is because is wife is now around or he couldn't keep up.
Ned nwoko and the other men you mentioned are real African men, tradition permits men to marry more than one wife (these men didnt have to lie about their status), It didnt say you should go about deceiving unsuspecting ladies about your marital status.

Please check what I quoted initially. She was asking what a YOUNG girl will do with a married man. I wanted her to understand that some young ladies go after married men deliberately. Some even fight over married men whom they know will never marry them.

obyrich:
Please check what I quoted initially. She was asking what a YOUNG girl will do with a married man. I wanted her to understand that some young ladies go after married men deliberately. Some even fight over married men whom they know will never marry them.

A married man that comes to a YOUNG girl with the intent of lying to her is different from a married man that comes to a YOUNG girl with the intention of marriage, already making it clear he is married and looking for a new wife. It is up to the YOUNG girl to accept the proposal or not.
It's two different scenarios please dont mix them up.
And ladies going after married men deliberately is off topic. You can create your own thread and talk about that.
This thread is for ladies to share their experiences with married men that pretended so well to be single.

rockstarB:

A married man that comes to a YOUNG girl with the intent of lying to her is different from a married man that comes to a YOUNG girl with the intention of marriage, already making it clear he is married and looking for a new wife. It is up to the YOUNG girl to accept the proposal or not.
It's two different scenarios please dont mix them up.
And ladies going after married men deliberately is off topic. You can create your own thread and talk about that.
This thread is for ladies to share their experiences with married men that pretended so well to be single.

Madam, I responded to an OFF TOPIC generalisation. I clearly understand the topic. What I corrected was the claim that A young girl has nothing to gain from a married man.

As for creating topic on Nairaland, Ilamina is already doing that for me.

Ok


I'm listening

Even if i tell them i am married... they still want to die there.. abeg no body fit solve this matter oo lol


But i still find it difficult to believe that there are guys out there who denies their family because of what...

Babe forget o.. if you are worth it i will marry you join jor.. it is not a crime nor a taboo to marry more.

Men love more and morethan one...

Take it!

QuinModah:
It was back then in 2013 while I was still in school. I asked this guy if he was married, he said no but my spirit kept telling me he's married.

So one day, I used my lodge mate's phone number to put a call across to him telling him am mama Ada that I want to speak with his wife that her line isn't reachable and I really need to repay the loan she gave me before I squander the money, on hearing that he started screaming ''Mummy mummy bia onwere Onye na akpo gi'' (mummy mummy come someone is calling u). I quietly switched off the phone . I later asked him if it was worth denying your wife and kids because you want what you may never get, and he couldn't answer.

I so much love this �

yazga:
I saw some signs but he denied and gave me a 100 reasons why he is not married.

My sis fear men! He would follow me to church and everywhere, we do prayers together sef, this guy can call me 10 times a day. He almost followed me to my elder sisters wedding then so he could use the opportunity to introduce himself to my family. It was his friend who was jealous of our relationship that revealed the truth to me. Fear men!

Many years after the damage, this guy still contacted me to tell me he loves me. I told him I don't know him and his name doesn't ring a bell. He sounded very sad and since then never contacted me again....this life!

seems u loved him too

I'm here to read comments.. Where is our ladies in the house..

Please is there a way I can print out my scanned documents from email and have it as the original copies?

It is good sometimes to test one's wooing power.

So, when I marry, I will be wooing once in a while to polish my wooing skills.

This one deep o

yazga:
I saw some signs but he denied and gave me a 100 reasons why he is not married.

My sis fear men! He would follow me to church and everywhere, we do prayers together sef, this guy can call me 10 times a day. He almost followed me to my elder sisters wedding then so he could use the opportunity to introduce himself to my family. It was his friend who was jealous of our relationship that revealed the truth to me. Fear men!

Many years after the damage, this guy still contacted me to tell me he loves me. I told him I don't know him and his name doesn't ring a bell. He sounded very sad and since then never contacted me again....this life!

Wow, the guy really get your mumu pin ooo, did you give him your pomo before you get

Hamachi:
All this while hunky saved my number as blessing tailor, but change it when we were together, the day I saw a lady picture on his WhatsApp I ask who the lady was and he was like my older sister who just married. Well she was older than him no doubt, the love affair continue until I received a call one faithful evening form a woman calling me blessing, me and she talk at length, she send me their wedding pictures and I send it to him.
Till date hunky is speechless....I took my leave ..

well hunky don bang sooooo unto the next one

Only broke men does that....

Pascopele:
Have you ever, almost dated a married man who acted single?
How did you discover?

make una remove this thread pls.i lied to a girl I was single d say she discovered I was in trouble all this while I didn’t know her dad was a strong native dr.I spent over 1m to cure myself from her afflictions.guys pls don’t ever do it

Hamachi:
All this while hunky saved my number as blessing tailor, but change it when we were together, the day I saw a lady picture on his WhatsApp I ask who the lady was and he was like my older sister who just married. Well she was older than him no doubt, the love affair continue until I received a call one faithful evening form a woman calling me blessing, me and she talk at length, she send me their wedding pictures and I send it to him.
Till date hunky is speechless....I took my leave ..

Did he kwansh (f**k) u? Be fore u found out?