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ehmmy11:
It's a man's world after all.. See how easy it was for them to switch roles.. Share your own experience





The goodies are just too sweet for them to think straight ..funny how they usually agree to date the married men but will turn down a very single guy ..

waledeji:
So you are a aldy

humilitypays:
no one woman can satisfy the sexual desires and fantasies of a successful man

OBelz:
Hmmm 2years back, when I went to look for a job oo so he called me and said he will pick me cos he like me and want to have a relationship with me, I now ask him what type of relationship do u really want to have with me ,marry me or side chick cos it obvious that his married, the man said , I'm not marry ooo, am single, if you have a good character that will be determined if I will marry you and be the lucky one I said okay but let have a deal
I said any day I know you have wife and children I will kill them all. Omo see the man ooo he started calling me names ashawooo am not doing again, so you are a devil , so you can kill am not doing again, he even said he will go and report me in police station hahahahahhaha













During my undergraduate days Yeah and my God he was handsome, dark , fresh , Rich and Romantic asf... I mean he was 48 and doesn't look a day like it. ( I only found out after we broke up)

He was always sending his driver's to bring me lunch and snacks at work during break time. My folks Adores him. We even created an Instagram page for ourselves to document our daily lives and memorable events. And he was a big spender, he Pampered me lot. I miss that life�.

Sha how did I find out, he told me to block someone on face book and Instagram without giving me a reason. Oh well, I had actually blocked the person but then out of curiosity I decided to check her out only to find out she was his wife , she is a Medical Doctor based in Canada and with three kids . I was so heart broken. Me that I was already seeing mysef as madam of the house.

He has a beautiful house in Magodo and the cook and gateman could not even tell me that my egungun was entering express even when I was nice to them.

bukatyne:
False

The lady committed fornication; yes.
The man committed adultery and deceived the lady that he was single.

JONNYSPUTE:
...It's very normal to get pissed off about it.Just that the way you said it was very funny to me.

The woman came again and she noticed that something was amiss plus hse was holding a red and white cloth dangling in her hand, she asked the woman madam please who are you.
Nah then she knew say that woman nah is guy wife ohhhh.
she begged her, madam he didn't tell me that he is married ohhhh, infact nah Chelsea match we dey go watch we are not dating ohhhh...
I mean dude has 5kids, 2 sets of twins and the last born....

OBelz:
Hmmm 2years back, when I went to look for a job oo so he called me and said he will pick me cos he like me and want to have a relationship with me, I now ask him what type of relationship do u really want to have with me ,marry me or side chick cos it obvious that his married, the man said , I'm not marry ooo, am single, if you have a good character that will be determined if I will marry you and be the lucky one I said okay but let have a deal
I said any day I know you have wife and children I will kill them all. Omo see the man ooo he started calling me names ashawooo am not doing again, so you are a devil , so you can kill am not doing again, he even said he will go and report me in police station hahahahahhaha













During my undergraduate days Yeah and my God he was handsome, dark , fresh , Rich and Romantic asf... I mean he was 48 and doesn't look a day like it. ( I only found out after we broke up)

He was always sending his driver's to bring me lunch and snacks at work during break time. My folks Adores him. We even created an Instagram page for ourselves to document our daily lives and memorable events. And he was a big spender, he Pampered me lot. I miss that life�.

Sha how did I find out, he told me to block someone on face book and Instagram without giving me a reason. Oh well, I had actually blocked the person but then out of curiosity I decided to check her out only to find out she was his wife , she is a Medical Doctor based in Canada and with three kids . I was so heart broken. Me that I was already seeing mysef as madam of the house.

He has a beautiful house in Magodo and the cook and gateman could not even tell me that my egungun was entering express even when I was nice to them.

luminouz:
Egbon wetin na!!!

Dem tell u say I want escort ni?

No spoil my market oh biko

IAMBlesssed:
Yes.. Keep supporting evil and keep turning blind eyes to the truth simply because you feel it doesnt affect you.What goes around, comes around.
The topic is not about runs girls who re dating married men on purpose, it's about innocent ladies who were deceived by irresponsible family men but you chose to change the narrative to suit what you believe.

And I ask again.. What's so special about married men?What can a married man give to a lady that a single guy can't give? Common sense should tell you that no responsible single lady will INTENTIONALLY date a married man. Many of them re victims of circumstances just like most people that commented ve stated..

Hamachi:
All this while hunky saved my number as blessing tailor, but change it when we were together, the day I saw a lady picture on his WhatsApp I ask who the lady was and he was like my older sister who just married. Well she was older than him no doubt, the love affair continue until I received a call one faithful evening form a woman calling me blessing, me and she talk at length, she send me their wedding pictures and I send it to him.
Till date hunky is speechless....I took my leave ..

EgunMogaji2:
Listen, only immature punks would lie about marital status to a chick.

Why? Most don’t care and we’re hunted and very well sought after by the ladies.

With our wedding ring intact we’ll move on you like President Trump would

Note to boyfriends, it’s us married folks taking care of and making your girlfriend look radiant.

Nooil:
That's a lie from the pit of hell. People that hold that belief will not hesitate to sleep with animals.

Funmmyastic:
Mad o.

Hamachi:
All this while hunky saved my number as blessing tailor, but change it when we were together, the day I saw a lady picture on his WhatsApp I ask who the lady was and he was like my older sister who just married. Well she was older than him no doubt, the love affair continue until I received a call one faithful evening form a woman calling me blessing, me and she talk at length, she send me their wedding pictures and I send it to him.
Till date hunky is speechless....I took my leave ..

pocohantas:
It is not even funny. It is creepy. Took me sometime to process the information and understand how bad it is. Imagine looking for a child for years, getting one and naming her after your sidechick? Make that woman no kill am.

IAMBlesssed:
I disagree with ur first and second comment..A lot of single guys posses same qualities too..
Secondly, most ladies who fall victim to these are mostly naive/inexperienced ladies. Most of these married men are either not staying with their families or make sure the relationship is a long distance relationship.And in all sincerity, no one quits a relationship immediately he/she SUSPECTS a thing..
The normal thing is to do proper investigation before drawing conclusions.
My point is that these ladies are victims of circumstance and its easier for a predator to hide than it's for a prey..

Hhansome:
I guess this question is for the ladies but when i grow up sha I'll be acting single while married... That thing dey sweet!

QuinModah:
It was back then in 2013 while I was still in school. I asked this guy if he was married, he said no but my spirit kept telling me he's married.

So one day, I used my lodge mate's phone number to put a call across to him telling him am mama Ada that I want to speak with his wife that her line isn't reachable and I really need to repay the loan she gave me before I squander the money, on hearing that he started screaming ''Mummy mummy bia onwere Onye na akpo gi'' (mummy mummy come someone is calling u). I quietly switched off the phone . I later asked him if it was worth denying your wife and kids because you want what you may never get, and he couldn't answer.

goxydareal:
Wow, you are sooo well spoken and Obviously intelligent!!

pocohantas:
A married man that has been hitting on me just named his newborn child after me.

I guess he wants me to know how much he “loves” me, but I am very concerned and worried about the number of women calling their daughters the name of their husband’s sidechick.

May God help us in this marriage something.

They keep taking this thing to the next level.

Luckygurl:
I believed him at first but after I visited him and saw the splash apartment he lived in, the doubts in me grew, this is someone in his early 30's. For someone of his status, girls no go gree him rest except he's the disciplined type.

Truth is if he had opened up to me on time before I even asked, just maybe I'd have overlooked that afterall he's divorced already (that's after I've done my due diligence and convinced beyond reasonable doubts that he's saying the truth)

One thing he doesn't know is plenty of my gender would agree to date him without him even hiding any of these things

Decimus:
Even the title of the thread should be. Ladies, at what point did you realise you were dating a married man.

Of course sex and even abortion must be involved, but it's not like they will say it here.


The truth is that most of them are aware, but they only back out when they get threatened or get scared.

OBelz:
Hmmm 2years back, when I went to look for a job oo so he called me and said he will pick me cos he like me and want to have a relationship with me, I now ask him what type of relationship do u really want to have with me ,marry me or side chick cos it obvious that his married, the man said , I'm not marry ooo, am single, if you have a good character that will be determined if I will marry you and be the lucky one I said okay but let have a deal
I said any day I know you have wife and children I will kill them all. Omo see the man ooo he started calling me names ashawooo am not doing again, so you are a devil , so you can kill am not doing again, he even said he will go and report me in police station hahahahahhaha













During my undergraduate days Yeah and my God he was handsome, dark , fresh , Rich and Romantic asf... I mean he was 48 and doesn't look a day like it. ( I only found out after we broke up)

He was always sending his driver's to bring me lunch and snacks at work during break time. My folks Adores him. We even created an Instagram page for ourselves to document our daily lives and memorable events. And he was a big spender, he Pampered me lot. I miss that life�.

Sha how did I find out, he told me to block someone on face book and Instagram without giving me a reason. Oh well, I had actually blocked the person but then out of curiosity I decided to check her out only to find out she was his wife , she is a Medical Doctor based in Canada and with three kids . I was so heart broken. Me that I was already seeing mysef as madam of the house.

He has a beautiful house in Magodo and the cook and gateman could not even tell me that my egungun was entering express even when I was nice to them.

paulolee:
as a guy dt i am...let me twist the table in dating a married woman unknowingly last year in a boutique....she lied dt she was once married bt now a single mom, neva allowed me visit, neva allowed me ask about her lifestyle and kids and noticed she created a new f.b and watsap id, started aving mixed feelings when i was having strange dreams, for example seeing a strange angry man's face in my dream each night whenever we had sex.....didn't tell her but i told my keyboard fiend who did some findings and tracked her office and said shes happily married for 5yrs with 2 kids but the husband is the travelling type n thats how my feelings died because am a fan of dating matured woman dt is far older then me and she have that petty size and sharp curves...how it ended?? I jus blanked her after collecting a sizeable amount from her with format dt i want to invest in an upcoming project and after that alert, i texted her my findings n dt i would inform her husband if she calls or visits and dt was it...saw her early dis year in a mall with her kids n she jus smilled n said she really missed me...nt proud of wat i did, my friend adviced me to it and i pls dnt judge me bcoz the woman self no complain after that alert and besides she also broke me emotionally and mentally...allow GOD judge pls..

QuinModah:
It was back then in 2013 while I was still in school. I asked this guy if he was married, he said no but my spirit kept telling me he's married.

So one day, I used my lodge mate's phone number to put a call across to him telling him am mama Ada that I want to speak with his wife that her line isn't reachable and I really need to repay the loan she gave me before I squander the money, on hearing that he started screaming ''Mummy mummy bia onwere Onye na akpo gi'' (mummy mummy come someone is calling u). I quietly switched off the phone . I later asked him if it was worth denying your wife and kids because you want what you may never get, and he couldn't answer.