Lamanii22:
Those married men eehn... They'd be looking so young and cute... They'd spoil you baje...

Hehehe... Sometimes we don't look it...

Pascopele:
Have you ever, almost dated a married man who acted single?
How did you discover?

Babes matter tire me.Someone is driving a Sienna car and you are saying you didn't know he is married.Is Sienna car not a family car ?

paulolee:
as a guy dt i am...let me twist the table in dating a married woman unknowingly last year in a boutique....she lied dt she was once married bt now a single mom, neva allowed me visit, neva allowed me ask about her lifestyle and kids and noticed she created a new f.b and watsap id, started aving mixed feelings when i was having strange dreams, for example seeing a strange angry man's face in my dream each night whenever we had sex.....didn't tell her but i told my keyboard fiend who did some findings and tracked her office and said shes happily married for 5yrs with 2 kids but the husband is the travelling type n thats how my feelings died because am a fan of dating matured woman dt is far older then me and she have that petty size and sharp curves...how it ended?? I jus blanked her after collecting a sizeable amount from her with format dt i want to invest in an upcoming project and after that alert, i texted her my findings n dt i would inform her husband if she calls or visits and dt was it...saw her early dis year in a mall with her kids n she jus smilled n said she really missed me...nt proud of wat i did, my friend adviced me to it and i pls dnt judge me bcoz the woman self no complain after that alert and besides she also broke me emotionally and mentally...allow GOD judge pls..

Tah I go judge you, you scam her...
Scam na scam
Your matter never end .

I'm coming

obyrich:


So you mean Regina Daniel did not know Ned Nwoko was married before accepting his proposal?

What about Dabota Lawson and Sunny Aku?

Many ladies deliberately seduce married men. It goes either way. Also many married women seduce young men. I have seen it happen several times.

You are hundred percent right.

OriOko88:
The real gists was only on first and second thread. Nairaland ladies no dey drop comments, but dey sabi read guy's comments and laugh. Go learn from your SA ladies

Abeg what's the name of their own forum?

PrimadonnaO:
A very simple word of advice to young girls.

If you’re not at a marriageable age, forget about dating way older guys. Most of them are only looking to catch fun, and already have a serious relationship going on somewhere.

Generally, avoid guys who are too old to be single. They are either married... or deeply involved in a relationship. If they are absolutely single, chances that something’s inherently wrong with them. Let them just remain single forever.

But of course, with every rule, there’s an exception. Just be very discerning.

That's not true. Men don't want drama, obligations, they bullshits most women come with. They also might not want to be committed to anyone, absolutely nothing wrong with it.

They want to be ready, spiritually, emotionally, psychologically, financially before they commit to someone they spend rest of their lives together. Marriages these days are full of bullshits. So you have to take time to choose who you end up with.

berrystunn:


Tah I go judge you, you scam her...
Scam na scam
Your matter never end .

I'm coming

jezz....berrystun ma kpa mi na...d mentions i don receive for this post don too much na....dm jus de insult me n odas de swear for me...kum de regret Y i post am...nairalanders jus too sabi tackle person....abeg e don do naa

Hmm..have been going through some comments since yesterday all I can say is..what if the so called married men some of you ladies met are really willing to marry you as second wife? Why not move on with them so they can take care of you unlike thinking and waiting for we young guys whereas we aren't ready at all to tie the knot and some singles doesn't want to marry cos of the way they see marriage this days. My point is not all ladies here making comment will end up with a man, there are some that life itself want them tied to a man who has a wife already or two though its by choice too but I think destiny do determine too. My prayer is that you all find your choice and live happily forever

Alexaonfleek:
excuse me.
I was talking about not being able to settle for less,for a guy that cannot feed himself,and suddenly,I have an entitlement mentality.
Yes,leave it like that,lemme feel entitled.
It is better to be tagged entitled than to settle with a guy that cannot feed himself,and that is clearly not financially ready to settle down.

Eeem.... Sister/Aunty, you see Matrimony is not only about the Man. It as well about the WOMAN too.

Therefore what you want in your man must be IN YOU FIRST.

A RESPOSIBLE MAN who keep dating and later marries a girl/lady/woman that can not "Feed herself and and himself comfortably especially during courtship is TOTALY AND HORRIBLY IRRESPONSIBLE.

A RESPONSIBLE MAN who date and marries a girl/lady/woman "that is clearly not financially ready to settle down" is an IRRESPONSIBLE MAN AS WELL.

A RESPONSIBLE MAN -who date and marries a girl/lady/woman that is clearly financially ready to settle down but LACKS OTHER WIFEY CHARMING QUALITIES ESPECIALLY IN CHARACTER - is an IRRESPONSIBLE MAN TOTALLY BECAUSE meaningful families makes a meaningful COMMUNITY. And meaningful COMMUNITIES makes a Meaningful TOWN etc.

Hmmm...Mine was a bit weird. I met this man along the road and we exchanged number. We started communicating and I realised he is always happy to call or chat when he is at work and till he is on his way back home. Whenever h enters home it's another story, either no network or no light.
We have met like 3 times and invited him to come and meet my elder sister I was staying with, if truly he was interested in relationship cos he look like a decent christian and also a choir leader in his church.
He met my sister like 2 times and we started the relationship, one day he invited me to his work and I said I won't make it . So later on, he invited me to his house and on getting there he entertained me at the sitting room, I realised he was very tensed, not just himself and we started talking about life in general. I just asked that I wanted to pee, he asked me to wait and quickly went to park somethings out of the bathroom not knowing it was his wife underwear, I didn't even know anything. I saw the house was more organized as a married than a single guy, but I kept quiet. After everything, as I was about to leave, I just said let me peep at your bedroom... OMG!! I saw things ... his wife wrapper, pants, underwear, bra, high heel, ladies skirts, etc. I kept calm and asked him about it, he told me it was his younger sister that was living with him ever since their mom died and her sister also lost her husband, she was disturbed so he asked her to be staying with him. He went further to joke that other 2 brothers of his were living with him, so I just said okay.

I got home and my spirit was disturbed, I told my sister about it and she was like not possible for someone to even come and meet her, introduce himself to her . So I started social media search and I realised he was on facebook... I saw his wedding pictures , his wife picture and recent picture they even took together. I was mad but kept quiet. As usual, another day came and he came to see me again, after some minutes of discussion I asked if he was married again and he said no... I was just smilling and brought out my phone to show him his wedding pictures, he was dumbfounded and left immediately. He blocked my contact immediately. Although I copied his wife contact details from facebook and told her about everything that happened and how her husband brought me home on a particular day and was telling me all sort of lies. I said I was very disappointed in the man, she asked if I didnt see any wedding pictures hung in the sitting room, I said no...she said the husband must have hid it then, The woman was very angry and that was my last communication with him or her.

Fear man...Fear men... Fear them ... always do your research well before going further with them

But some men are still very good and loyal

paulolee:

jezz....berrystun ma kpa mi na...d mentions i don receive for this post don too much na....dm jus de insult me n odas de swear for me...kum de regret Y i post am...nairalanders jus too sabi tackle person....abeg e don do naa

Call her and return the money back .

I see big blessings coming your way , if only you can just return the money back and forgive her and she will forgive you too.

If not... Noting will work oh , she have link with water if you understand what I mean.

paulolee:

jezz....berrystun ma kpa mi na...d mentions i don receive for this post don too much na....dm jus de insult me n odas de swear for me...kum de regret Y i post am...nairalanders jus too sabi tackle person....abeg e don do naa

Because you acted all very weak and was apologising to everyone, on your own post. Why dude? You are a man and the deed was done. You think if a girl posted this,she would be blamed? Nope, some of these SIMPS attacking you will be supporting her action. That woman lied to you and traumatised you. Getting some money out of her(that she never minded) was revenge enough for me.

Those niggas attacking you are SIMPs. They never blamed the woman for anything but are jealous about you enough to be ranting like a konjified he-goat. You made it easy by apologising to them too, for what? Na dem get the story or na you? Hypocrisy don kill these niggas die na. This is nairaland, the weak is eaten while the strong rule. Own your shiiit and move on.

Naira235:
Hmmm...Mine was a bit weird. I met this man along the road and we exchanged number. We started communicating and I realised he is always happy to call or chat when he is at work and till he is on his way back home. Whenever h enters home it's another story, either no network or no light.
We have met like 3 times and invited him to come and meet my elder sister I was staying with, if truly he was interested in relationship cos he look like a decent christian and also a choir leader in his church.
He met my sister like 2 times and we started the relationship, one day he invited me to his work and I said I won't make it . So later on, he invited me to his house and on getting there he entertained me at the sitting room, I realised he was very tensed, not just himself and we started talking about life in general. I just asked that I wanted to pee, he asked me to wait and quickly went to park somethings out of the bathroom not knowing it was his wife underwear, I didn't even know anything. I saw the house was more organized as a married than a single guy, but I kept quiet. After everything, as I was about to leave, I just said let me peep at your bedroom... OMG!! I saw things ... his wife wrapper, pants, underwear, bra, high heel, ladies skirts, etc. I kept calm and asked him about it, he told me it was his younger sister that was living with him ever since their mom died and her sister also lost her husband, she was disturbed so he asked her to be staying with him. He went further to joke that other 2 brothers of his were living with him, so I just said okay.

I got home and my spirit was disturbed, I told my sister about it and she was like not possible for someone to even come and meet her, introduce himself to her . So I started social media search and I realised he was on facebook... I saw his wedding pictures , his wife picture and recent picture they even took together. I was mad but kept quiet. As usual, another day came and he came to see me again, after some minutes of discussion I asked if he was married again and he said no... I was just smilling and brought out my phone to show him his wedding pictures, he was dumbfounded and left immediately. He blocked my contact immediately. Although I copied his wife contact details from facebook and told her about everything that happened and how her husband brought me home on a particular day and was telling me all sort of lies. I said I was very disappointed in the man, she asked if I didnt see any wedding pictures hung in the sitting room, I said no...she said the husband must have hid it then, The woman was very angry and that was my last communication with him or her.

Fear man...Fear men... Fear them ... always do your research well before going further with them

But some men are still very good and loyal

Lies...you created this moniker TODAY!!!

berrystunn:




Call her and return the money back .

I see big blessings coming your way , if only you can just return the money back and forgive her and she will forgive you too.

If not... Noting will work oh , she have link with water if you understand what I mean.

Alaye,can you even hear yourself? Make he call a woman who cheated on her husband and returned her money back...his mental state and trauma suffered nko? Can she heal that? Who told you she was angry at all? A woman who still wants him back only if he is willing. And what's the bullshit about water spirits? Are you high on something smokey?

The thread is not about money so why you so pained berrymouse or whatever you call yourself

The way you lots give advice bore dafuq outta me. No logical reasoning capabilities at all.

uthlaw:
that how your husband will spoil another lady baje....

God forbid! I reject it In Jesus' name... I've never collected any goodies from a married man so therefore my husband would not do the same....

luminouz:


Lies...you created this moniker TODAY!!!

Yes..I created it to write up this comment...do you need his facebook Id and his wife Facebook id to confirm the story ?

luminouz:


Because you acted all very weak and was apologising to everyone, on your own post. Why dude? You are a man and the deed was done. You think if a girl posted this,she would be blamed? Nope, some of these SIMPS attacking you will be supporting her action. That woman lied to you and traumatised you. Getting some money out of her(that she never minded) was revenge enough for me.

Those niggas attacking you are SIMPs. They never blamed the woman for anything but are jealous about you enough to be ranting like a konjified he-goat. You made it easy by apologising to them too, for what? Na dem get the story or na you? Hypocrisy don kill these niggas die na. This is nairaland, the weak is eaten while the strong rule. Own your shiiit and move on.

yes ma gee....learned alot from this post...u are right...i really made it easy for them...because almost all the mentions i received criticized me....tanks alot man

luminouz:


Lol.....

Pele babe

Thank you jare

berrystunn:




Call her and return the money back .

I see big blessings coming your way , if only you can just return the money back and forgive her and she will forgive you too.

If not... Noting will work oh , she have link with water if you understand what I mean.

dts no fcking possible..call her and send almost a million dt she doesnt need back to her?? abi u go send me the money or mk i gv u her aza mk u send to her urself?? can't do dt even if i have the money because she doesn't need it

Nawa oh.. My eyes don see my ears

yazga:
I saw some signs but he denied and gave me a 100 reasons why he is not married.

My sis fear men! He would follow me to church and everywhere, we do prayers together sef, this guy can call me 10 times a day. He almost followed me to my elder sisters wedding then so he could use the opportunity to introduce himself to my family. It was his friend who was jealous of our relationship that revealed the truth to me. Fear men!

Many years after the damage, this guy still contacted me to tell me he loves me. I told him I don't know him and his name doesn't ring a bell. He sounded very sad and since then never contacted me again....this life!

Don't fear men only...fear all human beings!!

Naira235:
Yes..I created it to write up this comment...do you need his facebook Id and his wife Facebook id to confirm the story ?

Nope, I need yours!!!

Blackdeewhy:
mine was in school 2010. we meet in school, things were so hard for me that I could still remember how my stomach was grumbling for minutes in the exam all ( it was that bad). Well I got an hotel job so from school to work, work home. He helped me out with my assignment and one thing led to another we had sex.
Long story short, I went for my 1year industrial training when I realized I was three months gone. I called him to notify him and he told me he was married, he has two kids. He gave me options of dropping the baby for her mother in the village or be his second wife.
I was just 24 then, I have no friend, no guardian or good parent.
In all I went with option C which was to take care of my self and my child. And till today HE NEVER ASKED, CARE OR TRY TO LOOK BACK.
She will be nine on Monday, few months time I will be through with my masters and give Canada a shot. And Settle down someday!!!!

he never looked back?such a man. God that has strengthen you this far, will continue to uphold you and that child will be greater than you in 100 folds.

femmyapson:

martyns303
osazsky
Okoroawusa

I know you ve lied somewhere but all the same I will like to satisfy my curiosity if you would answer my question. At a time here you wrote that you love dating older men and u gave ur reason for saying that; and at d end of d sentence u said dat u re 20..Wit d tins u wrote up here that means u graduated from uni at age 14 which is not possible. You ve posted job vacancy for people to apply on this forum more than 6 times and u are saying u dont have a job with ur first class certificate. .. is it that u re dating this older men while with ur fiancee or what.I saw a thread where u said ur fiancee mum told u dat u can't marry his son..
Since u re not shy bou ur runs work, why do u ve to lie bou some stuff here. a faceless forum for dat mara

Firstly, it's a faceless forum
Secondly, Yes I have posted jobs on this forum
Thirdly, Yes I am an Escort and it none of your business
Finally, I choose to write what ai like and how I feel

OBelz:

Firstly, it's a faceless forum
Secondly, Yes I have posted jobs on this forum
Thirdly, Yes I am an Escort and it none of your business
Finally, I choose to write what ai like and how I feel

Babe just let this matter go okay?

osazsky:
everyone has a story..u have no biz beign here.cuz u wouldn't care if ur client were married..u cant get rich by selling ur body..the moneys u will get is just to keep u floating.. and this too hinders marriage..my advise pray for forgiveness.learn a trade and start from there.pls be carefull so many diseases out there worst than HIV example staph

Thank you for kind words. You have the impression with what other people think about Escort Business are lowlife and amount to nothing.

I am very careful of HIV/STD's. Just so you know. I have my own place built by me.

Okoroawusa:

Wow...I love your boldness. Men behave like the customers of escorts came from the moon.

I am a realist I hate pretending and hypocrite which we are in Nigeria

yazga:
I saw some signs but he denied and gave me a 100 reasons why he is not married.

My sis fear men! He would follow me to church and everywhere, we do prayers together sef, this guy can call me 10 times a day. He almost followed me to my elder sisters wedding then so he could use the opportunity to introduce himself to my family. It was his friend who was jealous of our relationship that revealed the truth to me. Fear men!

Many years after the damage, this guy still contacted me to tell me he loves me. I told him I don't know him and his name doesn't ring a bell. He sounded very sad and since then never contacted me again....this life!

Hope he no kpansh you before the truth was reveal to you

OBelz:

Firstly, it's a faceless forum
Secondly, Yes I have posted jobs on this forum
Thirdly, Yes I am an Escort and it none of your business
Finally, I choose to write what ai like and how I feel

martyns303
osazsky
Okoroawusa
mubrix
Karleb

See dis one, wetin concern me wit ur olosho work? I didnt even write about that nor asked questions concerning that. So u don't need to include dat ur "thirdly" thing.
I only wanted to know how a first class biochemistry graduate can't find a job for 6years. And I have just figured out that its a lie judging from ur previous posts and what u wrote above
So bit*h, face ur d**king career and stop painting Nigeria as hell on earth..
Kilode first class biochem graduate turned olosho cos of unemployment....Anty said she graduated from uni at age 14
Lies from the pit of hell..
oniro oshi

QuinModah:
It was back then in 2013 while I was still in school. I asked this guy if he was married, he said no but my spirit kept telling me he's married.

So one day, I used my lodge mate's phone number to put a call across to him telling him am mama Ada that I want to speak with his wife that her line isn't reachable and I really need to repay the loan she gave me before I squander the money, on hearing that he started screaming ''Mummy mummy bia onwere Onye na akpo gi'' (mummy mummy come someone is calling u). I quietly switched off the phone . I later asked him if it was worth denying your wife and kids because you want what you may never get, and he couldn't answer.

wow �

tolu328:
It should be more fun if we put up pictures of this married men acting single online.
Naming and shaming them should be allowed.

The emotional pains this comes with can't be compared for some of us, there are many ladies out there that would sleep with married men regardless of their marriage status but they choose to lie to unsuspecting single women that they perceive as vulnerable. It's really unfair, I've been a victim sharing intimate moment with one of these men and I can't stop hating myself for it. I will share the picture of the man and the story later

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I hope your lawyers are on speed dial.
Goodluck.

otomatic:
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I hope your lawyers are on speed dial.
Goodluck.

He wouldnt even dare trying to go legal. He already has a case with me. I believe promising marriage and defaulting is an offence according to our law. I have too many evidences to nail him on that alone.