hmm e nor easy oo , am in my year 2 now in the university and I will say it's only on social media I can chat very well especially if she is the open minded type but to talk to her for ground na another issue... d one i tried to toast last ended in tears, bro I just gave up it's seems toasting it's not my thing... I can flow with girls oo but to ask them out, that's where the problem lies in me I just tire joor

Not so easy though was standing right in front of her and I was spilling nonsense lol even the girl was like what's wrong with this guy is this your first time or what was embarrassed that day near a barber shop stupid barber too they were all laughing at me till I graduated from school I didn't pass that road again out of disgrace was pressing phone one day and I wasn't looking at where am going to,,mistakenly saw myself in their street I had to turn back lol but one thing am happy for is I wasn't taught how to ask a lady out I know some of my niggas who were taught
But later on zini became a pro although to be sincere I still get a bit scared now especially if the babe is somehow Porsche but not like before whereby even my two ears will be shaking

I remember one girl when I first enter ss1 na so this aiye davido song they rain .As I enter school man no be easy thing oo.Thia girl dey ss2 and them dey hype ss3 seniors back then...Na so I carry courage ask 2go username chai she no give me..laslas I get her 2go username .me wey no get mind after school bus drop us .I can login into 2go tell this girl my love for 2go..Na so she tell me say I don craze ..The next e be like say make I no go school she just dey boarn for me ...tell all her freind my lil secret lol..na till ss2 we settle that fight..Kai...i just type my episode for here..she dey 300 level for lasu now...self..

Bro I'm not shy. I only toast a babe if I'm in the mood and if not then I move but shyness? NEVER.

Prinsola:
My Shyness won't even let me walk up to a girl talk less of toasting her. I'm 26+ now and I'm still battling with that. My life is even becoming boring day by day.

I'm seriously regretting it but wetin I go do when there's no one to help

I think it's fear of rejection. Build your confidence level and improve your self worth. If making money is going to help you, do so, otherwise train your muscles and stay fit. Also keep positive minded people around you at all times... people who encourage you.

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Ore Òfe,wherever u r,I love u....She gave me yellow light, Blue light, love light and every other light u can think of for abt 8yrs,b4 dem later pack comot for my street,but still man no get liver, she was and still my first love till date.
I wish I could see her again.

Actually, this has really posed a problem to me, even till now as I am typing this. Being shy as always being a partner to me, I've tried several times to stop it but to no-avail. So during my year 2, There is this particular girl in a neighbouring department, as in, to me this girl is cute, so I decided to make a move in professing my feelings to her. I wanted to go physical to her, but the shyness no gree me, so I send it virtually, through facebook, even when typing my hands were shaking. After sending her that I love her, bla bla bla, she replied' 'when you're free tomorrow call me' omo, immediately I hear that one, I just kukuma tell her, she shouldn't worry again, I was actually joking, and deep within me I love that girl, na so i take miss that girl o, since then I'vnt made any move to woo any girl because of being shy.

GreaterDC:
Actually, this has really posed a problem to me, even till now as I am typing thing. Being shy as always being a partner me, I've tried several times to stop it but to no-avail. So during my year 2, There is this particular girl in a neighbouring department, as in, to me this girl is cute, so I decided to make a move in professing my feelings to her. I wanted to go physical to her, but the shyness no gree me, so I send it virtually, through facebook, even when typing my hands were shaking. After sending her that I love her, bla bla bla, she replied' 'when you're free tomorrow call me' omo, immediately I hear that one, I just kukuma tell her, she shouldn't worry again, I was actually joking, and deep within me I love that girl, na so i take miss that girl o, since then I'vnt made any move to woo any girl because of being shy.

You own case hard o. She already said yes to you and then you ended it immidiately. I'm speechless

omoburuku:
Ore Òfe,wherever u r,I love u....She gave me yellow light, Blue light, love light and every other light u can think of for abt 8yrs,b4 dem later pack comot for my street,but still man no get liver, she was and still my first love till date.
I wish I could see her again.

T.b.h i also f up like that for one of my neighbor that year o. She nearly rape me for my own room sef but guy man run leave her for house

HazardMan:

T.b.h i also f up like that for one of my neighbor that year o. She nearly rape me for my own room sef but guy man run leave her for house

and u no report

HazardMan:

You own case hard o. She already said yes to you and then you ended it immidiately. I'm speechless

i dey tell u bro, atleast i for gada courage go meet ha. Though i xpectd us mak we start virtual relationshp but e no work

nurain150:
I remember one girl when I first enter ss1 na so this aiye davido song they rain .As I enter school man no be easy thing oo.Thia girl dey ss2 and them dey hype ss3 seniors back then...Na so I carry courage ask 2go username chai she no give me..laslas I get her 2go username .me wey no get mind after school bus drop us .I can login into 2go tell this girl my love for 2go..Na so she tell me say I don craze ..The next e be like say make I no go school she just dey boarn for me ...tell all her freind my lil secret lol..na till ss2 we settle that fight..Kai...i just type my episode for here..she dey 300 level for lasu now...self..

Lasu? What her name and what department

Blackmoran:
My experience with girls through out my life only asked a girl out once and that was when I was in jss3 junior secondary school days and I can remember her name vividly "Mildred". I always have this luck with girls I have this natural instinct to know when a girl Is interested in me and I do play it to my advantage... First of all I don't ask them out but I know they want me probably due to nature I am good looking so I have Providence to thank for..... Till today I can't remember me chasing a girl but one way or the other I have them evading my circle and I can tell which one is a prey to hunt...

I think the word you're looking for here is “invade” => ‘To enter or move into.’

Evade is kind of the opposite.



Will hold my breath and hope you're not one of those that take correction as personal attack!

Liposure:
and u no report 2 police.

I no be woman na. Na them de carry things for head

GreaterDC:
i dey tell u bro, atleast i for gada courage go meet ha. Though i xpectd us mak we start virtual relationshp but e no work

Since the distance no far e no go fit work like that na

sugacoatedmouth:

Lasu? What her name and what department

Will she be the only one with the name in that department?

HazardMan:

T.b.h i also f up like that for one of my neighbor that year o. She nearly rape me for my own room sef but guy man run leave her for house

Swearz,
the thing be say,Ore Ófè na ebony beauty personified, if u see this babe bros,which makes me wonder why she dey fall for Ju boy like me...till date I still dey pray make she never marry till our part cross...

omoburuku:


Swearz,
the thing be say,Ore Ófè na ebony beauty personified, if u see this babe bros,which makes me wonder why she dey fall for Ju boy like me...till date I still dey pray make she never marry till our part cross...

Na so e dey be. Even though the girl was also very beautiful i didn't regret my decision.
I liked her as friend but she no just want know sotey she come begin vex for me o

HazardMan:

I no be woman na. Na them de carry things for head

women and their drama

div111:
;Dmine was embarrassing.
I was in jss3.
There's one beautiful, fair girl that I had a crush on. My friends, who were bad guys just called the girl one day and said that I wanted to tell her something.

I was not prepared although I was shy . My leg begin dey shake I come talk erhhmm,,errhhmmm... Na so my guys begin laugh fall down for ground. Even the girl seff begin laugh. Shame hold mW that day sha. Till today (I'm in my yr 1 sha) I no dey toast girl again.


BTW I'm thinking of taking weed to boost my morale

I offed �

I had called my guy to call the babe, I wasn't bold to even look at her face then, it was after school hours.... everyone had gone home.. Just as I saw her physique my heart began to race. She came to meet me in my class, she sat down... my friends were outside at the window hoping their guy would use the opportunity well. The only thing I remembered saying was Hi, Hi Hi. The girl still waited for some minutes I was just staring at her with no words coming out of my mouth. She stood up, Off the fan and the bulbs and shut the door and went. Come see laugh from the window, she ridiculed me that day. My friends started calling me I, II, iii, iv for like eternity...

I sabi toast online oooo

But face to face 4 I nr fit

Deluxe16:
I had called my guy to call the babe, I wasn't bold to even look at her face then, it was after school hours.... everyone had gone home.. Just as I saw her physique my heart began to race. She came to meet me in my class, she sat down... my friends were outside at the window hoping their guy would use the opportunity well. The only thing I remembered saying was Hi, Hi Hi. The girl still waited for some minutes I was just staring at her with no words coming out of my mouth. She stood up, Off the fan and the bulbs and shut the door and went. Come see laugh from the window, she ridiculed me that day. My friends started calling me I, II, iii, iv for like eternity...

You for just say something na, even if it means going straight to the point

Neimar:
I sabi toast online oooo
But face to face 4 I nr fit

Everybody sabi online toasting

GreaterDC:
Actually, this has really posed a problem to me, even till now as I am typing this. Being shy as always being a partner to me, I've tried several times to stop it but to no-avail. So during my year 2, There is this particular girl in a neighbouring department, as in, to me this girl is cute, so I decided to make a move in professing my feelings to her. I wanted to go physical to her, but the shyness no gree me, so I send it virtually, through facebook, even when typing my hands were shaking. After sending her that I love her, bla bla bla, she replied' 'when you're free tomorrow call me' omo, immediately I hear that one, I just kukuma tell her, she shouldn't worry again, I was actually joking, and deep within me I love that girl, na so i take miss that girl o, since then I'vnt made any move to woo any girl because of being shy.

bro . lol

BOBKIDDA:

I offed �

Felix180:


bro . lol

bro

Deluxe16:
I had called my guy to call the babe, I wasn't bold to even look at her face then, it was after school hours.... everyone had gone home.. Just as I saw her physique my heart began to race. She came to meet me in my class, she sat down... my friends were outside at the window hoping their guy would use the opportunity well. The only thing I remembered saying was Hi, Hi Hi. The girl still waited for some minutes I was just staring at her with no words coming out of my mouth. She stood up, Off the fan and the bulbs and shut the door and went. Come see laugh from the window, she ridiculed me that day. My friends started calling me I, II, iii, iv for like eternity...

Hi Hi Hi ...

In my own case, there is this issue I had back then, it happened to me from my secondary school days all through my university days.

I go block babe for road, start conversation with her, real and interesting conversation oh, when go make the babe de laugh and she go even give me her number, but the problem be say, from when I see the babe and decide to Hustle her, and all through my conversation with the babe, my heart go de beat very fast and my voice go de shake for no reason, even though i de flow with the babe very well, it's crazy, after the whole thing I go de wonder why my heart de beat fast.

My success rate is very high though, even with all those nonsense I experience when I de gist babe.

What still baffles me till today is how those girls gave me their number even though I was sweating and showing some funny symptoms. Who knows, maybe they didn't notice or maybe they were carried away by my sweet mouth.

The amazing thing be say, within the last 3years, I've had about 8 attempt, but I never experience that fast heartbeat nonsense or voice shaking or unnecessary sweating when I de experience in those days.

It's not like I'm now better or more confident or have a better flow, it just stopped. I hope that nonsense doesn't come back BECAUSE I HONESTLY SEE NO REASON WHY A GUY SHOULD BE NERVOUS WHILE TOASTING A GIRL WHEN YOU KNOW THAT THE WORSE SHE CAN DO IS SAY NO.
THE MAN SHOULD BE THE ONE INTIMIDATING THE GIRL AND NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND.

HazardMan:

You own case hard o. She already said yes to you and then you ended it immidiately. I'm speechless

As in his own case is irredeemable. They need to tesele bo for him.



Mine was when I just graduated from sec school. I schooled in a boarding school. So I saw this lady very fine, I told my niggers at home that I like her but everyone was telling me she is older than me with like 4 years I no gree because she short. One day an older cousin came to visit us. So she asked me to follow her to by pampers for her child. On our way back to the house I saw this same lady. I told my cousin I liked her, as per women things she asked me to follow the girl talk. I ginger go meet her, I greeted her she greeted me back. As I looked into her eyes like this omo my mind cut finish. She was very fine oh but she was truly older than me. She was now asking me why I wanted to see her, I was just looking praying in my mind that she should just go even if it's to insult me small let's everything just end. After like 10 minutes as I was not saying anything she left without saying anything. I was relieved. My cousin laugh me die when I told her. I met her again the next day and stopped her, she gave me hope you will not waste my time again look. Then I told her I'm sorry for what happened yesterday. She just smiled and said no problem. Trust me, I had to apologize she really saved me that day by not insulting me thus embarrassing me further.

Deluxe16:
I had called my guy to call the babe, I wasn't bold to even look at her face then, it was after school hours.... everyone had gone home.. Just as I saw her physique my heart began to race. She came to meet me in my class, she sat down... my friends were outside at the window hoping their guy would use the opportunity well. The only thing I remembered saying was Hi, Hi Hi. The girl still waited for some minutes I was just staring at her with no words coming out of my mouth. She stood up, Off the fan and the bulbs and shut the door and went. Come see laugh from the window, she ridiculed me that day. My friends started calling me I, II, iii, iv for like eternity...

Lool. Even me sef dey laugh for here