sesan85:
Sounds like the culture of the inhabitants of a certain erosion-ravaged, landlocked, padlocked, jampacked, mudland hellhole who infest and constitute nuisances in other people's homelands like mendicant gypsies and homeless refugees. Useless people!

black lives matter. I'm sure you don't hate the devil the way you just showed you hate the above described people. What have they personally done to you brother, or is this learned hatred? Have they killed your kinsmen? Are they the reason Nigeria is not moving forward?

May our creator have mercy on us, especially you!�

If I am entitled to pay contribute that money to marry for him, that means am also entitled to fvck the wife. No qualms.

Well, I will not trade blame but I will say your husband is not obligated to do any of those demands of your family.

My advice, protect your husband and by extention, protect your immediate family.

Side to it: if your husband who earns 70k monthly could cough out such huge amount of money for your bride price while you are not working, I salute him, he loves you. I cannot do it.

Think about this: is your brother not a man, is he not suppose to look for money to marry or did he also contribute to your wedding. Even if he did, you are the one that should contribute and not your husband. He may willingly do that as an in-law.


Conclusion: Protect your husband.

Mstick:
What kind of shameless family is this? Since your brother doesn't have money to sponsor his own wedding isn't it obvious that he shouldn't be getting married?!

Calling your husband irresponsible because he refused to bear your brother's responsibility shows that the entitled mentality of your family is hereditary.

Whoever is behind this handle deserves one cold beer and pepper soup....

Managing 70K in today Nigeria setting the guy is Superman n over stretched just 35k on himself include transportation, clothing, communication, feeding etc. A wise n lovely wife should have shedded him from family responsibility.
U won't understand until u are collecting far more than that n u are still struggling how to meet up

If your husband actually paid N580,000 as dowry, you ought to know that he is your parents' client.
He can only assist in your brother's wedding on the basis of CSR (Community Social Responsibility).

xxxtedyxxx:
don't ever take twitter posts serious.

most are written for cheap clout.

Honestly you are making sense, the write up sounds so stupid.

He has no reason to sponsor ur brothers wedding. It's has to be at his free will not ur parents that were so wicked to him to tell him how much he must bring.

Mindlog:
If the story is true and not one of those twitter tales then it is a messed up family, why should the husband be sending money to the in-laws on a monthly basis what is their son doing with his own money? If am the husband, I will not contribute even one naira to the traditional wedding, maybe they will also expect him to contribute in paying hospital bills when the brother-in-law's wife gives birth. Such entitlement!

it's not a true story. It was written to drive traffic to nairaland

Think9ja:
But what's with Nairaland and fake/cooked up stories? I'm just so tired of reading fake stories on front page. It's very ok to bring such stories to nairaland BUT NOT FRONT PAGE.

Someone somewhere with his masters degree believes this rubbish.

My dear, you will be shocked the horrible things people go through in the name of marriage. You go fear fear

Wait, is ur husband d first born of ur father bcoz ayam not understanding. How is sending money to ur parents every month n sponsoring ur brothers wedding his responsibilities? Abeg if marriage don taya u just returned him money n bounce.

Why must he contribute to d wedding? Will your husband have a share in sleeping with your brother's wife?

Jeffrey12:
Nairalanders, What's your take on this?
What would have been your reaction towards this matter, If you were the husband?

https://twitter.com/SmartAtuadi/status/1272275117280759810?s=19

The igbo marriage culture is just a poverty alleviating scheme in disguise.

fineboynl:
any man that need compulsory contribution to get married he is simply not yet ready to get married.

don't force it, when it's time to get married everything will be so easy. no stress or running around.

it's only burial that people can be obligated to render help

In your own view, to seek for money to do burial is better than money for wedding? Wedding in a way is an investment in disguise. Have you ever think of this biblical saying that 'two are better than one'? There are some achievements and breakthrough that is attached to you being married. For instance, there are some job position of great responsibilities that companies give to only married people and even political positions and traditional tittle. The position I occupied today in the company I currently work with is because I am married and with kids. Imagine I did not manage to borrow to what I have 4 years ago when I want to marry. You can borrow to do anything that will make you happy and fulfilled but not beyond what you are capable of paying back easily.

Mstick:
What kind of shameless family is this? Since your brother doesn't have money to sponsor his own wedding isn't it obvious that he shouldn't be getting married?!

Calling your husband irresponsible because he refused to bear your brother's responsibility shows that the entitled mentality of your family is hereditary.

this comments just made my day, May God Never allow us meet someone from such family, they're not just poor they wicked, they don't have conscience

Your family Nah winch (witch)

Oloriburuku lobinrin eleyi oooo

At first it's not a Tru story cos from her name Elohor, she's from the urhobo speaking part of delta state. Urhobo marraige is not that expensive. Traditional rights and every other things u need to buy no matter how much is roughly around 150, 160k. And her father sharing money to her husband for her younger brothers marraige is not our culture. They only do that when the father inlaw or mother inlaw is dead. And it's not even the man they share the money to. It's the daughter although the man is expected to pay it. So everything about this story looks fake and fabricated

Just imagine.....i hope feminists are seeing this

the Bible says when a man get married he should live his father and mother, and stay along, what is all these.the Bible says when a man get married he should live his father and mother, and stay along, what is all these.the Bible says when a man get married he should live his father and mother, and stay along, what is all these.

DominusPrime:



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thanks am in

Nonsense talk

I saw this post on twitter yesterday night and I was lmao with the sarcastic replies. Let me see if I can see a screenshot .... From Twitter's king of sarcasm

70k and he don marry.

See me over 100k and i no fit save.

Aye mi o. I need counseling

Aunty don't complain @ all....
Your parents forgot something,that there's life after marriage..... How e b u n ur parents now?
Just a question!

I pray never to have anything to do with such a useless highly dependent family.

fredoooooo:
Dem swear for the family ni ?
Well sebi dey want to be unfortunate in life i go help them , my little advice is for that guy to just use their pikin for money ritual... chikena

Jeffrey12:
Nairalanders, What's your take on this?
What would have been your reaction towards this matter, If you were the husband?

https://twitter.com/SmartAtuadi/status/1272275117280759810?s=19

Na the matter we dey settle

All i can say is that your family are leeches.

After paying 480k u are still expecting some fucking money...E be like say they cause all of una

Madam,u n ur family members are wicked n cruel,no conscience n u don't v brain,idiot.

Your husband is not under any obligation to send any financial assistance to anybody please. Safe your marriage!