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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by leonard509(m): 6:26am On Jun 16, 2020 |
sesan85:black lives matter. I'm sure you don't hate the devil the way you just showed you hate the above described people. What have they personally done to you brother, or is this learned hatred? Have they killed your kinsmen? Are they the reason Nigeria is not moving forward? May our creator have mercy on us, especially you!� 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Kingkamba(m): 6:28am On Jun 16, 2020 |
If I am entitled to pay contribute that money to marry for him, that means am also entitled to fvck the wife. No qualms. |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Bianda24: 6:32am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Well, I will not trade blame but I will say your husband is not obligated to do any of those demands of your family. My advice, protect your husband and by extention, protect your immediate family. Side to it: if your husband who earns 70k monthly could cough out such huge amount of money for your bride price while you are not working, I salute him, he loves you. I cannot do it. Think about this: is your brother not a man, is he not suppose to look for money to marry or did he also contribute to your wedding. Even if he did, you are the one that should contribute and not your husband. He may willingly do that as an in-law. Conclusion: Protect your husband. 2 Likes |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Realkingrex(m): 6:33am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Mstick: Whoever is behind this handle deserves one cold beer and pepper soup.... |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by shugabasbn: 6:34am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Managing 70K in today Nigeria setting the guy is Superman n over stretched just 35k on himself include transportation, clothing, communication, feeding etc. A wise n lovely wife should have shedded him from family responsibility. U won't understand until u are collecting far more than that n u are still struggling how to meet up |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by awoluyi(m): 6:37am On Jun 16, 2020 |
If your husband actually paid N580,000 as dowry, you ought to know that he is your parents' client. He can only assist in your brother's wedding on the basis of CSR (Community Social Responsibility). |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by EdiskyHarry: 6:40am On Jun 16, 2020 |
xxxtedyxxx:Honestly you are making sense, the write up sounds so stupid. |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Fuckgovt: 6:41am On Jun 16, 2020 |
He has no reason to sponsor ur brothers wedding. It's has to be at his free will not ur parents that were so wicked to him to tell him how much he must bring. |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by legionISproteus: 6:42am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Mindlog:it's not a true story. It was written to drive traffic to nairaland |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by BlongTrendies(f): 6:43am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Think9ja:My dear, you will be shocked the horrible things people go through in the name of marriage. You go fear fear |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Sebgajere(m): 6:44am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Wait, is ur husband d first born of ur father bcoz ayam not understanding. How is sending money to ur parents every month n sponsoring ur brothers wedding his responsibilities? Abeg if marriage don taya u just returned him money n bounce. |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by wizod(m): 6:45am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Why must he contribute to d wedding?
Will your husband have a share in sleeping with your brother's wife? |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Myer(m): 6:46am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Jeffrey12: The igbo marriage culture is just a poverty alleviating scheme in disguise. |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Slurity(m): 6:48am On Jun 16, 2020 |
fineboynl:In your own view, to seek for money to do burial is better than money for wedding? Wedding in a way is an investment in disguise. Have you ever think of this biblical saying that 'two are better than one'? There are some achievements and breakthrough that is attached to you being married. For instance, there are some job position of great responsibilities that companies give to only married people and even political positions and traditional tittle. The position I occupied today in the company I currently work with is because I am married and with kids. Imagine I did not manage to borrow to what I have 4 years ago when I want to marry. You can borrow to do anything that will make you happy and fulfilled but not beyond what you are capable of paying back easily. |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Nackzy: 6:48am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Mstick:this comments just made my day, May God Never allow us meet someone from such family, they're not just poor they wicked, they don't have conscience |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by 21million(m): 6:48am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Your family Nah winch (witch) |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Sensitivity: 6:50am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Oloriburuku lobinrin eleyi oooo |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Facidio: 6:51am On Jun 16, 2020 |
At first it's not a Tru story cos from her name Elohor, she's from the urhobo speaking part of delta state. Urhobo marraige is not that expensive. Traditional rights and every other things u need to buy no matter how much is roughly around 150, 160k. And her father sharing money to her husband for her younger brothers marraige is not our culture. They only do that when the father inlaw or mother inlaw is dead. And it's not even the man they share the money to. It's the daughter although the man is expected to pay it. So everything about this story looks fake and fabricated 1 Like |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Renegade23: 6:51am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Just imagine.....i hope feminists are seeing this |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Davidbakas(m): 6:51am On Jun 16, 2020 |
the Bible says when a man get married he should live his father and mother, and stay along, what is all these.the Bible says when a man get married he should live his father and mother, and stay along, what is all these.the Bible says when a man get married he should live his father and mother, and stay along, what is all these. |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Fundango: 6:52am On Jun 16, 2020 |
DominusPrime: thanks am in |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Iceyjayz: 6:54am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Nonsense talk |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Goalnaldo(m): 6:54am On Jun 16, 2020 |
I saw this post on twitter yesterday night and I was lmao with the sarcastic replies. Let me see if I can see a screenshot .... From Twitter's king of sarcasm
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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by EmekaBlue(m): 6:57am On Jun 16, 2020 |
70k and he don marry. See me over 100k and i no fit save. Aye mi o. I need counseling |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by fefenoble88: 6:57am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Aunty don't complain @ all.... Your parents forgot something,that there's life after marriage..... How e b u n ur parents now? Just a question! |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by OROSUNBOLB(m): 6:57am On Jun 16, 2020 |
I pray never to have anything to do with such a useless highly dependent family. |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by MrBONE2(m): 7:00am On Jun 16, 2020 |
fredoooooo:
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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Biafranguy1(m): 7:01am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Jeffrey12:Na the matter we dey settle |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Dpsychologist: 7:01am On Jun 16, 2020 |
All i can say is that your family are leeches. |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by YUSTECH3(m): 7:01am On Jun 16, 2020 |
After paying 480k u are still expecting some fucking money...E be like say they cause all of una |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by dansito: 7:02am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Madam,u n ur family members are wicked n cruel,no conscience n u don't v brain,idiot. |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by aigbokiejohnson(m): 7:09am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Your husband is not under any obligation to send any financial assistance to anybody please. Safe your marriage! |
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