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Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by fotadmowmend(m): 7:40am On Jun 16, 2020
PrecioussB:
I am young and beautiful but when it comes to dating maybe because of some failed relationships, I rather stay on my own.

I remember even on valentine's day since i had broken up with my bf, i just decided to chill by myself. Ealking to the store, met some guys you know how they toast now, telling me why a beautiful girl like me is not on a date? and i jokingly replied i have one or just joke along.

Now I'm thinking, i might be wasting my beauty and youth because i have not been dating for long, have the zeal and will but don't have the strength.

Shouldn't I enjoy all those things now before I start looking old? My last relationship really exhausted me.
How old are you and how far are you on your career
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by millionboi(m): 7:40am On Jun 16, 2020
PrecioussB:
Somewhere in Calabar
cala what

My armpit
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by Votukpa(m): 7:42am On Jun 16, 2020
oshaosha2014:
Take this little advice. This is the best time of your life to choose a worthy man if marriage is part of the things you want to dabble into. This is not the time to be sleeping around with different guys so that you’ll know the one you are compatible with. Just date as many guys without any sexual encounters to get to choose the one you’ll spend the rest of your life with. Yeah you may want career, you want to work, but don’t let that stop you from looking out for the guy that’s best for you for a long term relationship and eventually marriage. You are young, you are pretty, you won’t be like that forever, use this time to choose wisely as men are rushing you from right, left and centre. Choose wisely. Lastly, stay away from fuckboys. Get you a man that has real plans for the future and for you.
Very sound. I am in agreement with you.

One thing though...

You cannot put fire on your laps and it won't burn you. in other words you cannot circumvent natural law and order without reaping the concomitant consequences. Specifically, she cannot date several men platonically and not get swept away by one of them emotionally. This is a woman we are talking about here. This is why they are weaker than men. Emotions and their sway over them. Dating will lead to sex as surely as the sun rises and sets daily. This is why women used to be given into marriage back then, by her father or an elder. Once she has sex (outside holy matrimony) she changes forever. This will begin an unending cycle of sluttery which will not only wipe away her youth and beauty but lead her to marrying/choosing stupidly...that is if ever at all she marries.

Dating wastes girls' youth and beauty and young men's resources to get started in life.

Men should desire to work and get started in life early. Women should desire marriage early and enlist their elders and betters to help them choose wisley.
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by oshaosha2014(m): 7:43am On Jun 16, 2020
True. I was going to say she should be on the lookout for much older guys.

flokii:
I don't want to imagine what goes on in the female mind and thoughts.. all the insecurities, make ups, unnecessary competition with peers, attention seeking etc.

@OP when a lady is approaching 30 yrs, it's men in their 40s' and 50s' that find them appealing whereas guys in their 30s' look out for younger ladies in their early 20s'.

Tik tok tik.. the clock is ticking, use your head.
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by Mypeople2(m): 7:45am On Jun 16, 2020
PrecioussB:
I am young and beautiful but when it comes to dating maybe because of some failed relationships, I rather stay on my own.

I remember even on valentine's day since i had broken up with my bf, i just decided to chill by myself. Ealking to the store, met some guys you know how they toast now, telling me why a beautiful girl like me is not on a date? and i jokingly replied i have one or just joke along.

Now I'm thinking, i might be wasting my beauty and youth because i have not been dating for long, have the zeal and will but don't have the strength.

Shouldn't I enjoy all those things now before I start looking old? My last relationship really exhausted me.
My dear, I know how it feels .But you can still find love if you try. Forget about what the last guy did to you .There are so many good guys out there ,the ones who will pamper you with love and care. Open your heart to love when you know he is very serious about you .For now,get yourself busy doing something useful while waiting .Remember,time is of the essence
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by nicedaddy(m): 7:47am On Jun 16, 2020
Good morning precious, Can you chat me via whatsapp and let me discuss something with you privately. Here is my whatsapp 08149922488. Please do chat me its very important thanks



PrecioussB:
I am young and beautiful but when it comes to dating maybe because of some failed relationships, I rather stay on my own.

I remember even on valentine's day since i had broken up with my bf, i just decided to chill by myself. Ealking to the store, met some guys you know how they toast now, telling me why a beautiful girl like me is not on a date? and i jokingly replied i have one or just joke along.

Now I'm thinking, i might be wasting my beauty and youth because i have not been dating for long, have the zeal and will but don't have the strength.

Shouldn't I enjoy all those things now before I start looking old? My last relationship really exhausted me.
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by oshaosha2014(m): 7:51am On Jun 16, 2020
The last paragraph doesn’t happen anymore. Girls nowadays want to mess around with all the bad boys in town before settling for one good guy they are not attracted sexually but he is ready to wife them up. Bring all their emotional baggage into the marriage and making their husband’s life a living hell.

On guys level, job don’t come easily like that. Besides, ladies are working also so that jobs won’t go round as it used to be when it was only the man required to have started working before marriage. Therefore, most men get to their late 20s or 30s before they are ready for marriage.
Votukpa:
Very sound. I am in agreement with you.

One thing though...

You cannot put fire on your laps and it won't burn you. in other words you cannot circumvent natural law and order without reaping the concomitant consequences. Specifically, she cannot date several men platonically and not get swept away by one of them emotionally. This is a woman we are talking about here. This is why they are weaker than men. Emotions and their sway over them. Dating will lead to sex as surely as the sun rises and sets daily. This is why women used to be given into marriage back then, by her father or an elder. Once she has sex (outside holy matrimony) she changes forever. This will begin an unending cycle of sluttery which will not only wipe away her youth and beauty but lead her to marrying/choosing stupidly...that is if ever at all she marries.

Dating wastes girls' youth and beauty and young men's resources to get started in life.

Men should desire to work and get started in life early. Women should desire marriage early and enlist their elders and betters to help them choose wisley.
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by sunnydike1(m): 7:54am On Jun 16, 2020
where is ur picture
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by yahmohy27: 8:06am On Jun 16, 2020
iTroll:
So what exactly do you want from us?

There is a reason why people like therapists and psychologists exist.

Go and see either one of them and stop wasting e-space while chasing clout.

Hell, a hairy gorilla might even behind this account.
Thank you,I guess she's trying to catch a "maga" online .I beg go and work lady/guy
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by Dminister(m): 8:10am On Jun 16, 2020
Hi,

I just sent you PM, if you don't have pride reply me let's create enough time to know ourselves through chatting and phone calls. Through this we can know ourselves better and what we both want in a partner. I'm a very serious person.
Your beautiful has nothing to do with having someone very serious as a partner. It's all depends on your character.

You know what you want, so you have to be loyal to get what you want. You just have to open your heart for through love. It's dangerous to know you are single and keep turning the right suitor's down. Brace up!
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by yahmohy27: 8:11am On Jun 16, 2020
PrecioussB:
After going through your profile and realising you created your account 3 days back to Troll on people I have no words for you. You could have easily avoided this post.
Abeg get loss Jor .Rubbish talk she wants to be hearing and saying.And Satan will always follow you about .
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by DavidEsq(m): 8:24am On Jun 16, 2020
iTroll:
So what exactly do you want from us?

There is a reason why people like therapists and psychologists exist.

Go and see either one of them and stop wasting e-space while chasing clout.

Hell, a hairy gorilla might even behind this account.
So u have a hairless gorrilla before, ba grin grin

Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by noisy45(m):
PrecioussB:
I am young and beautiful but when it comes to dating maybe because of some failed relationships, I rather stay on my own.

I remember even on valentine's day since i had broken up with my bf, i just decided to chill by myself. Ealking to the store, met some guys you know how they toast now, telling me why a beautiful girl like me is not on a date? and i jokingly replied i have one or just joke along.

Now I'm thinking, i might be wasting my beauty and youth because i have not been dating for long, have the zeal and will but don't have the strength.

Shouldn't I enjoy all those things now before I start looking old? My last relationship really exhausted me.
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by Pweetyccee(f): 8:32am On Jun 16, 2020
Drizzy5001:
She's okay, for her mind now she go think say na only her I dey date. grin I play my game well.
Haa Oga u r wicked
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by Maobichek: 8:34am On Jun 16, 2020
PrecioussB:
I am young and beautiful but when it comes to dating maybe because of some failed relationships, I rather stay on my own.

I remember even on valentine's day since i had broken up with my bf, i just decided to chill by myself. Ealking to the store, met some guys you know how they toast now, telling me why a beautiful girl like me is not on a date? and i jokingly replied i have one or just joke along.

Now I'm thinking, i might be wasting my beauty and youth because i have not been dating for long, have the zeal and will but don't have the strength.

Shouldn't I enjoy all those things now before I start looking old? My last relationship really exhausted me.
. I must tell you the truth, time heals all wounds, more especially when it comes to relationship. Please try and let go of the past, I have been in your shoes so I'm talking from experience. I'm happy and bold today though it wasn't easy but I overcame by not hating my ex but focus on things that I like. My ex walked out on me after our introduction so you can see from where I'm coming from. These two things will help you: let go of your past and don't hate him also do things that makes you happy and fulfilled on your own, you will be fine with time, thank you.
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by boyjo: 8:37am On Jun 16, 2020
iTroll:
Hell, a hairy gorilla might even behind this account.
Might?

Is.
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by Maobichek: 8:42am On Jun 16, 2020
PrecioussB:
After going through your profile and realising you created your account 3 days back to Troll on people I have no words for you. You could have easily avoided this post.
Easy dear, this is a matter of the heart and soul and some people"must certainly" be childish on it, your response is matured and concise. Try and concentrate on what strength and do away with your weakness.
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by cray91(m): 8:43am On Jun 16, 2020
so do send me the pics on WhatsApp to confirm anyway!
PrecioussB:
lol
Hahaha if I don't you'll call me fake lol
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by Maobichek: 8:51am On Jun 16, 2020
PrecioussB:
Thank you.
. This is the third reply I'm send on this thread, if you don't mind, this is my mail address: maobichek@yahoo.com. We can talk better on this, thank you.
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by umarshehu58(m): 8:54am On Jun 16, 2020
Imagine someone claiming to be wasting her beauty. Please Op share picture of you so that we will attest if you are really beautiful. Thank you
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by pyro62(m): 9:07am On Jun 16, 2020
PrecioussB:
I am young and beautiful but when it comes to dating maybe because of some failed relationships, I rather stay on my own.

I remember even on valentine's day since i had broken up with my bf, i just decided to chill by myself. Ealking to the store, met some guys you know how they toast now, telling me why a beautiful girl like me is not on a date? and i jokingly replied i have one or just joke along.

Now I'm thinking, i might be wasting my beauty and youth because i have not been dating for long, have the zeal and will but don't have the strength.

Shouldn't I enjoy all those things now before I start looking old? My last relationship really exhausted me.
That's what we have in common. So come on let's not waste our beauty and youth. Let's try together. You only live once
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by CrownWale93(m): 9:12am On Jun 16, 2020
My own be say anytime I see girl wey I like, I will just approach her and tell her I will like to see you at your own convenient time and the girl will say OK. After that day I will just be passing without talking to the girl again
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by CrownWale93(m): 9:16am On Jun 16, 2020
PrecioussB:
I am young and beautiful but when it comes to dating maybe because of some failed relationships, I rather stay on my own.

I remember even on valentine's day since i had broken up with my bf, i just decided to chill by myself. Ealking to the store, met some guys you know how they toast now, telling me why a beautiful girl like me is not on a date? and i jokingly replied i have one or just joke along.

Now I'm thinking, i might be wasting my beauty and youth because i have not been dating for long, have the zeal and will but don't have the strength.

Shouldn't I enjoy all those things now before I start looking old? My last relationship really exhausted me.
My own be say anytime I see girl wey I like, I will just approach her and tell her I will like to see you at your own convenient time and the girl will say OK. After that day I will just be passing without talking to the girl again
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by sexdoll: 9:19am On Jun 16, 2020
umarshehu58:
Imagine someone claiming to be wasting her beauty. Please Op share picture of you so that we will attest if you are really beautiful. Thank you
check out her profile pix on nairaland.

can't you see she is the undisputed most beautiful girl in the world? cheesy
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by MarioKizito1(m): 9:37am On Jun 16, 2020
Enjoy ur youth, bt be wise and reasonable.
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by Nobody: 9:38am On Jun 16, 2020
PrecioussB:
This is why your posts never makes FP. The only thing that comes out of your mouth is rubbish
Shatap ur mouth small childgringrin


You better Goan invest in yourself!!!

You are the reason most Naija Ladies are not Productive!!!...

Na beauty person go chophuh Goan develop yourself intellectually because from what you created, u lack it.....
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by sparko1(m): 9:42am On Jun 16, 2020
PrecioussB:
I am young and beautiful but when it comes to dating maybe because of some failed relationships, I rather stay on my own.

I remember even on valentine's day since i had broken up with my bf, i just decided to chill by myself. Ealking to the store, met some guys you know how they toast now, telling me why a beautiful girl like me is not on a date? and i jokingly replied i have one or just joke along.

Now I'm thinking, i might be wasting my beauty and youth because i have not been dating for long, have the zeal and will but don't have the strength.

Shouldn't I enjoy all those things now before I start looking old? My last relationship really exhausted me.
Honestly, It all depends on what you call waste, you need to set your priority, do you want to play around or you want to get married? No body can decide for you, what you want is more important, if you want to get married, then, making the right choice is very important, and the best way is to be meticulous about it, study and understand true intentions of guys.
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by siromot(m): 10:06am On Jun 16, 2020
Are you sure you are beautiful Both inner and outer..check yourself well.. beautiful body only suffer from dick
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by bukxy: 10:21am On Jun 16, 2020
PrecioussB:
Keep checking on here probably we'll get help on this.
same as well
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by consultancy: 10:46am On Jun 16, 2020
legionISproteus:
Just checked your profile to see that you can't even use your real photo angry

Keep lying to yourself
don't mind d attention seeker. She says she 27, but the girl on her DP is not older than 22. REAL "Hairy balls nigga" like the guy ahead of me wrote grin grin
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by rapid101(m): 10:50am On Jun 16, 2020
PrecioussB:
I am young and beautiful but when it comes to dating maybe because of some failed relationships, I rather stay on my own.

I remember even on valentine's day since i had broken up with my bf, i just decided to chill by myself. Ealking to the store, met some guys you know how they toast now, telling me why a beautiful girl like me is not on a date? and i jokingly replied i have one or just joke along.

Now I'm thinking, i might be wasting my beauty and youth because i have not been dating for long, have the zeal and will but don't have the strength.

Shouldn't I enjoy all those things now before I start looking old? My last relationship really exhausted me.
plz send me an email femiregha@gmail.com let go out for a date, if u don't mind but if not interested just quote me here
thx
Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by Amtrak: 10:55am On Jun 16, 2020
Nice advert... you're really beautiful though
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