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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by omoseth(m): 6:14pm On Jun 20, 2020
@Op collecting the phone back will make you look very childish and immature. Next time,let your head do the thinking not your third leg.Some of the ladies we have around are terrible with entitlement mentality. Just like one that asked that i help renew her monthly data subscription which i declined cz of her arrogance. The babe vex cut call and hasn't called for a month.Na laff i just dey laff anytime i remember cz me nor see trailer talk more of the driver. Boiz need to wise up!.Shout out to all the good,responsible& hardworking ladies,na una b d right MVP.

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by manuelreports: 6:14pm On Jun 20, 2020
You self na talkative
What if she is here in Nairaland reading ur plans?

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by heendrix(m): 6:15pm On Jun 20, 2020
callmeRichie:



I sooo much hate it when ppu try to play smart on me! It's a stupid thing to do when you pick on people's intelligence. For this babe's mind now, she's smart and don get mugu.

Bro what to do?? Just call her and make sure you have a privacy, how I wish you are good with using words to lash people! Let her know you were aware of all she was trying using u and u just decide to play along. Fvck her head with words! Let her hate herself, let her cry her eyes out till she starts begging!!

If you feel you are bigger than the phone you can let go, otherwise collect it at the spot abeg, and see if she won't come back sober later and mind you, please DUMB DUMP HER ASS!
Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by humilitypays(m): 6:17pm On Jun 20, 2020
Johnsown1:


It is not all about writing this epistle bro. Just go and collect ur phone forcefully chikina
No girl can try such nonsense with me anyway, mere look at me or my personality won't allow her dare such cos if by mistake devil enter her and she tries it, I must collect it. I can even arrest her parents and family members in a framed up allegation of robbery and lock them up in Police cell for weeks and still collect my phone or car or any gift.



Girls only do that nonsense to broke boys, its a pity sha, let her try it with some guys, she won't live to use the phone self angry


Remember some men are armed robbers, kidnappers, ritualists, assassins, drug barons, smugglers, etc....u think every man is like u


Girls de take risk sha

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by Fidelismaria: 6:19pm On Jun 20, 2020

it has been 3days


Update us

What did you do?





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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by mascot345: 6:20pm On Jun 20, 2020
Your mumu too much. You met an unknown babe within 1 month u give am phone. U get count your losses.
Collecting that phone from her might cause you More harm than good if she is real smart babe.

But if she is olodo. You can collect it like a boss. U go use her shine.

Be warned maga done pay.


Smart babe use format for you.
Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by SATANNIST: 6:21pm On Jun 20, 2020
MASTERCHIEF0847:
If you have deep freezer in your house place her on top and fvck her real good before you collect the phone, if no deep freezer find a desk or table but make sure it doesn't have a large surface, she has to be struggling with taking the D and and not falling off the freezer/table simultaneously
Good luck.
guy u dey kolo cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by rimijoshua(m): 6:24pm On Jun 20, 2020
You are crazy,I am very sure your mum doesn't have a good phone. Collect the phone from the bastard and give it to your mum. she dey craz.

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by SATANNIST: 6:26pm On Jun 20, 2020
if u no collect am back. u be bastard.

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by arsenalman(m): 6:26pm On Jun 20, 2020
Tell her you want to use the phone for something, put it a bucket of water or smash the screen. End of story.
Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by ayamAgenius: 6:27pm On Jun 20, 2020
Send me your account number let me refund your money and save the girl of your pettiness and humiliation. I mean send me a PM!
Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by Samanza89: 6:28pm On Jun 20, 2020
Texti65:
Bro..
Like you said invite her over and collect your phone, use force if possible.

She's already seeing you like "maga ".


Guys, don't show love to Nigerian girls, they are evil and heartless.
Treat them like thrash and they. will love you more
I'm taking from experience.

Lol... You sound just like me, just that I'm extremely heartless when it comes to anything concerning the other gender. Nothing on planet earth can make me be in this guy's shoes, if you like be virgin Mary. I mean nothing

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by Mtncardseller(m): 6:32pm On Jun 20, 2020
You are big fool if you don't collect that phone back........ Honestly, I dey feel like ma just follow u go the girl house go collect the phone......no lady is worth spending alot on talk less of gift.......let me tell you this, any lady wey ask me for money, I tell dem to come over to my huz cuz I don't do transfer. The only money wey girl fit chop me no go pass I pay for ur drinks for beer if I carry go beer parlour, sometimes na #100 I dey give dem for bike money......if toto dey hungry u, enter sexuality section and meet we guys wey go give u confirm OT...order any babe u feel like banging.... Almost all this girls are into coded runs.... Don't let dem deceive with fake love.

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by MajorOvakporaye(f): 6:35pm On Jun 20, 2020
na mugu you be
you allow small girl dey chop your money yagayaga
Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by BlackSheep10: 6:36pm On Jun 20, 2020
hebenezher:


And what is my business if she sees me as immature!?
is her view about me supposed to affect me?

Guys please don't let this ladies talk you into this maturity nonsense. Why would a guy even say that he should be matured enough to let go the phone. such guys have had the ladies manipulative stamp and dna on them. All what they do will surely be manipulative with ladies gaining.

What if this is between guys would you ask OP to let go? most people here will even go as bar as saying OP destiny has been used cos a fellow man played game on him. Most would give him advice that only God can save the other guy but now that it involves a lady, that stamp on their brain is already working saying rubbish because they have been manipulated enough, their genes have mutated to always do everything in favour of the ladies ( not against any lady but always against motives/ manipulation.) and funny thing is they always think their decision is mature . If this was a guy to guy thing, you will have at least 70 abusive names tattoo on you.

OP has bleeped up already and he wants his phone back. This would have been so so good if the ownership of the receipt was in his name. If not the tables might turn against you. Please do this in public places and make sure you have proof that you bought her the phone( chats, calls, even record your conversation at the public place when talking Pre the phone stuffs and make your conversation detailed so you won't be killed by mob for alleged theft/ rape.

My 2 cents.

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by DigitB: 6:40pm On Jun 20, 2020
Advice from me a church boy.

Collect back your phone, without harming her physically.

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by ChristineC: 6:40pm On Jun 20, 2020
ehmmy11:



Very good if you have extra cash and the phone receipt is in your name and with you, walk to a close police station and reason with a jasi officer or if your paddies can connect you with an officer wen sabi ..you can get her invited to the station or arrested(illegal Sha) when you get there change story for her head that you sold the phone to her on credit and she refused to pay you since and you want your phone back show your receipt with ur name on it and relevant info after all no evidence you guys were dating and na arrangee with police... Collect your phone and feel better like a boss ..


Since she wanna be mad and smart show her say she be learner if story change ...call me bitter but i no send i hate manipulators ( you sef mess up but the deed is already done)
grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by biz1992: 6:43pm On Jun 20, 2020
ZaOzaRoom:
I bought an android phone of 15k for a r attention any longer, she wan die.

Forget the phone you bought her.

Go after other girls and keep banging.
She go cry come find you.

How did you do the recording bro?

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by friendl: 6:48pm On Jun 20, 2020
Oga just free her ,it is even too early buying her a phone ,...

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by TushiPree: 6:51pm On Jun 20, 2020
Simply ignore her. She will still come back. I can assure you of this.

When you love them, don't show it. In fact, treat them like scum. That's the only language ladies hear. Otherwise, they will use you.

You appear too needy to her. That's why she's treating you that way.

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by moscow406(m): 6:51pm On Jun 20, 2020
Texti65:


Chai cry
She's wicked o. How can she turn you down?. Women are heartless.
Dating someone is at one's discretion, buying things for someone likewise. She didn't put a gun to his head. Men should know spending doesn't automatically equate to love.
Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by umarshehu58(m): 6:51pm On Jun 20, 2020
You already made the mistake of getting her a phone. As for me, i will not collect it. Just let her be to avoid touching stories

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by toyotamuscle: 6:54pm On Jun 20, 2020
am so sorry for you.you are still learning how to give.but next time.even if you are a billionaire dont give wat u cant forget.even if its 100 naira.for me I give so much that my own brother fear that I might give away all I hv.but the truth is that I can live without wat ever I give anyone.i hv given a family man food stuff that one of my girlfriends cried for me to give her.do you no why I didn't give her those stuff?cos to me she didn't need it she only wanted it.but that man, when I went to his house and I saw his kids very fine kids drinking garri.infact it wasn't the man I gave those stuffs but the kids.

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by dammyzee1(m): 6:55pm On Jun 20, 2020
Wait oh, I hope u are not that guy that was boosting of buying a girl a smartphone, we don tell u make u no come open another thread dey cry oh. grin
Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by vioment: 7:00pm On Jun 20, 2020
Childish games. Give and collect back, even air dey change.

Guy grow up, everybody different.

If you wan play games with her, then do;

If not, assess your emotional loss and make changes - cut her out of your life, try mending the collabo with her through reasoning.

Remember no violence toward her, no rape; with all these one wey you wan go solo areas with hate/shameful anger for your mind so. Behave yourself.

If you want to still be childish, you can call olokpa when you can see she has it, proof it with your receipt. The serial number and other information from the store you bought it, can help you proof it.
Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by kokomilala(m): 7:01pm On Jun 20, 2020
You fell for her charm offensive. I don't know if she's really worth every ounce of effort you've expended on her.Naija girls don't deserve all this fuzz of efforts. You can help them purely on humane basis,but not helping them as partners.They aren't automobiles.
Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by Grateful02(m): 7:02pm On Jun 20, 2020
You already noticed it and you still went on? Well am thankful it's already ending in tears and more tears because your plan of getting the phone from her won't work.
Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by galaxy2020(m): 7:02pm On Jun 20, 2020
Your mumu don't do!

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by Westernlove: 7:02pm On Jun 20, 2020
Texti65:
Bro..
Like you said invite her over and collect your phone, use force if possible.

She's already seeing you like "maga ".


Guys, don't show love to Nigerian girls, they are evil and heartless.
Treat them like thrash and they. will love you more
I'm talking from experience.


It Is Finished......... grin grin grin

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by Mandela27: 7:11pm On Jun 20, 2020
Na wa o,girls wicked no be lie,but i cannot be in this guy's shoe sha-I mean after all the knowledge i don get here from both wise,smart and intelligent bad guys i go still fumble?Lol,no be me..no girl can put me in a tight corner when i know they got nothing to offer except pussy,even the one that got something to offer SHOULD NOT BE TREATED BETTER.
If u treat a girl well,one bad guy there is treating her like trash and believe me,she loves him like maaaad.SO u better be the bad guy,don't let emotions becloud ur brain....

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Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by Johnsown1(m): 7:16pm On Jun 20, 2020
humilitypays:
No girl can try such nonsense with me anyway, mere look at me or my personality won't allow her dare such cos if by mistake devil enter her and she tries it, I must collect it. I can even arrest her parents and family members in a framed up allegation of robbery and lock them up in Police cell for weeks and still collect my phone or car or any gift.



Girls only do that nonsense to broke boys, its a pity sha, let her try it with some guys, she won't live to use the phone self angry


Remember some men are armed robbers, kidnappers, ritualists, assassins, drug barons, smugglers, etc....u think every man is like u


Girls de take risk sha

All men doesn't have to be like me. For instance ur humility pays right while my own way stands.
Suru-egede is the dance of the spirit. Who no go;no go know.
You can run ur mouth like a mafians but when the forest mature don't scramble for safety. Because when a strong man is born in delta just know that a strong man is also waiting in katsina

By the way ain't the one crying for yal help , I think you should rephrase those lines to the OP.

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