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Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by jurjes(f): 9:26am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Alwaysachick: Run!!!!!!! What did I say? Runnnn!!!! That man will eventually crush your self esteem and leave you constantly second guessing yourself as you constantly aim to please all his whims and caprices. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Manuel91(m): 9:28am On Jun 27, 2020 |
victorian: Victorian has said it all... He is a Dominant man, let's not use plenty English. A relationship is a give I give thingy, not a yes my Lord I don hear thing Relationship are times to learn and observe, not to rush into something you would regret or probably kill you someday. Una go fight and settle, smile and cry.. that's the joy of it all. Not being bossed/ordered around like Ekaite from Calabar. God would provide the right partner for us all o. You know what to do now I believe!! Alwaysachick 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by oshaosha2014(m): 9:29am On Jun 27, 2020 |
I see a regular SIMP here. Hope you are not leaving anything out of what your madam has told you to do today. Xisnin: |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by jiggyman(m): 9:37am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Alwaysachick: All men have ego. I sometimes override my gf but there are limit to everything. How can he possibly ask u to go to cv by 4pm?? Who u go meet there ? Sha be happy 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Nobody: 9:43am On Jun 27, 2020 |
apatheticme:OH MY GOD! Hey lil' girl! You got no clue of what you talkin' about! How did you know I'm a weed smoker? You smoke too?... |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by wilcox(m): 9:44am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Alwaysachick:Perhaps you were too fast to tell him that. Don’t expect an apology from him this time but you rather apologize. It’s just a matter mutual understanding. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Nobody: 9:44am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Alwaysachick:Genesis 3:16 To the woman he said, “I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will RULE OVER YOU .” A virtuous woman gives wise counsel |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Nobody: 9:46am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Xisnin: Everything you wrote showed you are a dominating man. And you believe some people want others to dominate them, so you don't mind dominating them. The check is: would you want another person to dominate you? You know the answer. And from your response here, it is clear who you are. By the way, go and read my response to you again, there was no insult there. What I can see is a dominating man in you who cannot bear another facing them. If I sit you down, I will clear that dominating ego in you with strong words cos dominating people like you talk anyhow. If I shake you, believe me, you will crawl into your shell. I swear. People like you don't have much to offer than to dominate. And that is what is killing Nigeria. You are beginning to irritate me seriously. Guy, you need to change. That someone wants to be dominated should not give you the go ahead to dominate the person. Rather, help the person to get over the abuse the person has passed through. I pray you get help soon; else, you will go down the Hitler and Stalin route. Obviously you need help to say you from yourself. Goodluck Mr. Females Dominator. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Maobichek: 9:51am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Alwaysachick:. You personally know your relationship with him more than everyone here, pls compare the "pros" and the "cons" and decide on what you want. I'm a man, I'm not overbearing and I abhor it with passion but one thing is certain; in every relationship, you must give up something (sacrifice) in order to make it work, thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by daprofo: 10:00am On Jun 27, 2020 |
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Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by petitejolie(f): 10:03am On Jun 27, 2020 |
U can’t take it means u can’t take it. There is nothing manly about being overbearing. We even have women that are overbearing too and Dey do dat to their partner who is easy going and act like mumu. So if u know u can’t be a mumu, ure meant for the sky cos overbearing partners wether man or woman won’t let their spouses fly high. They are very insecured. They should either marry their type or a very quiet and docile person 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by daprofo: 10:04am On Jun 27, 2020 |
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Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by sacajawea(m): 10:05am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Ramos16:What are you Saying? |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by ebukaka12(m): 10:06am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Alwaysachick:go watch 'Gabriels Inferno' too. It shows all what ya going through |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by combination123: 10:07am On Jun 27, 2020 |
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Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by combination123: 10:09am On Jun 27, 2020 |
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Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by cihofo: 10:23am On Jun 27, 2020 |
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Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by airminem(f): 10:31am On Jun 27, 2020 |
ITS CALLED A CHARACTER OF AN ALPHA MALE not "overbearin" Enjoy him and tell him how you would appeciate the relationship more Alwaysachick: |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by truthhurts2: 10:35am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Doesn't matter what I think, or @forgness or @combination 123 or @petitejolie for that matter. None of can possibly know how it feels to be in your position and none of us have to live with the consequences of your decision. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Nobody: 10:39am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Alwaysachick:That's a narcissist. He won't change. Not until he sees a reason to. Don't waste your time trying to change him. When you marry him, you can trust it will only get worse. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by NoToPile: 10:51am On Jun 27, 2020 |
How can he expect you to leave your house by 4pm to computer village which is 2hrs from your place and he doesn't see reason with you saying you will go the next day instead. The way you wrote 'I tried to pacify him' as if its an offence to prefer going at a more convenient time to change your laptop battery. If this one needs pacification what will you do when you offend him, wil you offer a sacrifice? You are seeing the red flags now at least he's not pretending you better do the needful. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by JoseRaji(m): 10:51am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Alwaysachick:You can't cope. Just end it now. Even if you both talk about it, and he agrees to change, you can't guarantee that he won't reset to default settings after marriage. Think about your long term happiness. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by BigDick70inch(m): 10:54am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Shaking my head for you in advance!! Now u ain't seeing the"DULL RED BUT A VERY BRIGHT RED LIGHT"and u still wana shock your head... Jux cos..the Lil girl in you keeps telling you dat u can change him hun?? Alwaysachick: 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by KORLAR(m): 10:57am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Alwaysachick: Don’t listen to those telling you to just leave him. He’s the ‘traditional’ African man who wants total submission. What you need to do is communicate your feelings with him and let him learn how his actions are affecting your relationship and affection to him. Let him know anytime he does his controlling thing and let him know how you feel about it and that you can’t continue with the relationship if he doesn’t change. After constant complaints and his failure to heed, feel free to leave him. Sure if he loves you, he’d be willing to change and make amends. Take care. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by ststyreal(f): 11:06am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Alwaysachick:My dear listen to me if you will... If you want to enjoy your life till God calls you home, run away from a domineering and controlling man because, they will end up frustrating and separating you from what ever you hold dear to you Including your family members of possible. I know what I am telling you because I am presently married and judging from my close pals experience, cut that guy off with all frankness, tell him you can't cope with his overbearing attitude. I am being Frank with you here and this is my honest advice to you but, if you go ahead and marry him and thinks he will change later, huhhh, my dear let me burst your bubble, it's going to get worst untill you end up miserable. Now you have the chance, let go of that man... Nobody should quote me Biko, cos this is my own honest opinion.... 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by frubben(m): 11:17am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Alwaysachick:its not is fault. Its konji |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Sarah20A(f): 11:25am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Don't start what you can't finish |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by EdmundDantes(m): 11:25am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Alwaysachick: You better exit this relationship. Na craze man I dey see so. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by EdmundDantes(m): 11:28am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Alwaysachick: In you mind you already know you have to exit this relationship. No need to bring it here. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Nobody: 11:33am On Jun 27, 2020 |
ethicallyright:Alwaysachick, do not do this! |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Nobody: 11:34am On Jun 27, 2020 |
EdmundDantes:Gaslighting. Alwaysachick, don't let it get to you. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Nobody: 11:35am On Jun 27, 2020 |
ethicallyright:Gbam |
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