fashionale:
Sex deprivation was the main reason I ran away from my ex fiancé, she always used it against me whenever we had a little issue that's even not insignificant. My wife doesn't used it against me and I'm happy with my marriage.
Dear ladies, stop using it against your husband's, it can only drive them away than bringing them to you.
My 2cents

Hmmmmmm, I'm currently what U went through. In my case, my fiancee is a virgin while I'm not.
Is a no sex relationship, we discssing earlier about sex and asked her what if she can't satisfy me sexually. D answer she gave me shocked me; that I can always go get outside. Me that has vow not to indulge in extra marital affairs oo.
Honestly, I'm reconsidering her.

Funkyswagzz:
Look b4 u leap my friend before u say I made a mistake getting married to her.. there are loads of women out there who are willing to give u sex anytime any day as far u keep her happy. Don't mind that guy he is the one who put himself in that mess.

How Please I will like to know, learn, understand and be convinced.

4ckz:


Now that's something. Could still be a great deal of problem though.

Of course it is. Do u realize how much constant cumming depletes a man??

joseph1832:
aptly put bro.

The man should be given a slight blame for not telling the family his reason for cheating when he was caught cheating.

Him dey reason say na shame, possibly because him wife report am when she found out.

When in reality it's perfectly justified, why keep a woman, feed, house, clothe, support the children if she would use her one satisfaction point in life against you.. one that gets worn out by age to make matters worse. Nonsense.

Any woman input will be appreciated, it seems all the commentors are men

Why won't a married man cheat!


Can't imagine me clinging to one pu**sy
For the rest of my life.


Even Ned Nwoko

Knew how traumatizing it's for a man.


Women should understand that it's not possible for a man to stay with one woman for the rest of his life

0rion:


THERE IS BIG LESSON FOR YOU TO LEARN FROM THAT NAUGHTY DISCUSSION.

MY ADVICE FOR YOU IS TO START DISCUSSING ABOUT SEX WITH YOUR FUTURE WIFE. THIS IS TO KNOW ABOUT HER SEX LIFE. IF SHES A VIRGIN DEFINITELY NOT GONNA HAVE ANY EXPERIENCE.

BUT ALWAYS ASK HER WHAT SHE LIKES TO DO AND TO BE DONE TO HER. DONT LET HER BE SHY. MAKE IT A SERIOUS DISCUSSION IF YOU DONT WANT TO CHEAT ON HER.

WE MEN JUST ALWAYS LIKE TO GO IN AND OUT . WOWEN ARE NOT LIKE THAT. EXCEPT ASHAWO

This is it, so many things to ask before marriage, and sex should be the most important, one would know if the other is compatible sexually or not, ask a lot of questions, a lot, and seive what one can and can't live with, and compromise where necessary,

For virgins, males should talk about what they like and ask if she is ok with it, to avoid stories that touch and cheating.

millionboi:
Hmmm

I had u say 3times a week,u will likely xperience d man's life xperience.

My neighbor own,him dey aboundon him wife and children go another city after flexin him go land.

Why am I having so hard at this.

@ the bolded, do you mean that 3 times is too much?

Probably best for everyone. The wife should not use sex to manupulate men when sex can be gotten everywhere.

100% True...in fact make i no talk

4ckz:


Some people had this mindset, got married yet faced the same problem.
Don't you know that most women do not deprive their guys of sex during courtship, yet the same women change after marriage.

goldensoul55:
Cheap excuse to cheat .


He should keep making excused untill he gets infected with HIV/AIDS in

Not blaming the wife here ok. Is that or be a slave.

Why the fvck is the man not chasing away the woman or marrying another one. At least that's what I ll do.

CanadaOrBust:


Of course it is. Do u realize how much constant cumming depletes a man??

Yes, you will loose so much energy, and your days would be full of laxity.

I have experienced this after having some marathon sessions through the night, it was rapidly followed by few days of unproductivity.

Ningen:


This is why the sexual compatibility should not be undermine or taken for granted when dating.

But we are told as christians not to indulge in sex before marriage.

What do we do about that??
Talking to your intended spouse alone does not guarantee sexual compatibility.

4ckz:


You think it's right that sex is a weapon and bargaining cheap in marriage?

My own is, I will never beg my wife for sex, impossible!
Once she starts it, I would let her be, but what comes after it, I will never feel guilty of.

Best comment so far, told my babe point blank to her face... I will never beg you for sex...yet I will give you the respect you deserve but you see sex....I will never ever beg for it. Most guys don't know that the day you beg your woman for sex is the day you have given the power to bargain with it but when you don't beg for it....she will have no option than to comply provided you don't cheat o

4ckz:


Yes, you will loose so much energy, and your days would be full of laxity.

I have experienced this after having some marathon sessions through the night, it was rapidly followed by few days of unproductivity.

Cumming depletes a man - scientifically proven, no doubt about it. A woman who insists u constantly cum in her is not doing u any favors

The guys on this forum are so dumb mehnn.

Guess what? Women don't care about you lots anymore. You are so bigoted, selfish and sexists. Once we have our kids, we are okay, we don't care about you, we don't care.

4ckz:


I don't think I can even bear 1 month without, like, I must be lashing my wife like thrice a week to say the least. I am much more scared that since my life is like this now, maybe cheating would be inevitable for me.

Lol you're in for a rude shock

Hmmm

Dididrumz:


But we are told as christians not to indulge in sex before marriage.

What do we do about that??
Talking to your intended spouse alone does not guarantee sexual compatibility.

U manage it. Your life should not be about sex

Who told the man that his wife is 100% loyal... A woman can cheat on u without u finding out, if u like be a monitoring lizard.

Men, professional victim players and experts at shifting blames.

Very soon I will go to a salon and come back with a thread on how some woman started ashewo lifestyle. Story for the gods...

akaahs:

Hmmmmmm, I'm currently what U went through. In my case, my fiancee is a virgin while I'm not.
Is a no sex relationship, we discssing earlier about sex and asked her what if she can't satisfy me sexually. D answer she gave me shocked me; that I can always go get outside. Me that has vow not to indulge in extra marital affairs oo.
Honestly, I'm reconsidering her.

One, she doesn’t love u. Two, this is the type of mindset most men would love

Any wife who uses sex as a weapon or bargaining chip should not cry too much when the husband looks outside. It’s just sex. He will come back. But you remember you pushed him away by weaponising your body.

I think it’s sheer wickedness to deprive a husband. If you want him to beg you for sex every time then let me announce to you that you are a qualified registered practising witch.

I don’t know why women think this is acceptable.

ModestGal:
This is why I tell girls to have something good that brings in money, get well educated, do things you are passionate about that brings you happiness.
Don't ever rely all your HAPPINESS on a man and don't ever MARRY a ugly man, infact, you can go check up his family to be sure that they are not too ugly there, because at the end of the day, your children matters most, and think of the joy that would come out of having pretty children, it would make you forget anything that their father would have done to hurt you and people would think you have a happy home since they will not hear you fight or shout, thats the secret of some happy women.

The truth is that what some men want is to keep women in sadness and for them to be happy about it. Its so obvious childbirth, pregnancy, is not an easy thing for women, but just for them to endure for 3months till you are very healthy after childbirth is a problem for them, meanwhile you endured for 9 months to bring child for both of you, and even endured labour pains.
Men are just too selfish, if you don't want to run into depression, please do what I have said.

Some husbands are so selfish that when they wrong you, you should happily still give them your body.
This thread is so full of rubbish talks picking on women, as a woman, you should please wise up.

I'm 100% against full housewives, 100% against women not getting a good education because some men could run you crazy, and if at that time you are nothing, it's possible you run mad. My friend who is a clinical psychologist once told me the highest number of his patients are women and most of the problems are caused by their husband's treatment.
If you are empowered as a woman, you will easily heal from such hurts and redirect your energy to something else like your children, your work when men misbehave, by that, your depression would be minimal. A word is enough for the wise

How many wives your great grandfather marry?

Why should it be different in our own time!


A man who cheats (even though, I don't term it cheats)
Is just been a man.
Why should you be uncomfortable with that?

4ckz

The True God is a God of Justice (Deutoronomy 32:4)

Will the true God make man and woman sexually incompatible? ((Genesis 18:25)

So what's the problem? This sex deprivation by wives is quite high in Nigeria. It is not high in Europe for instance. It's rarely mentioned in magazine, tabloids or blogs when the issue of marital friction occurs.

In Nigeria, it might be high due to the issue of female circumcision. This either reduces the urge for sex or makes it laborious and a chore. Women therefore do not have enough libido to match their husband's.

At times, it's the man's fault. Many men praise circumcision saying uncircumcised women can never be sexually satisfied but are now paying the price of a low wifey libido.

It is wise therefore to confirm if your wife is circumcised or not to begin with.

Mummy Morenike, come and view thread oh.

karo93:
Couples both male and female should learn to compromise and find a common ground. My body, My right, My choice... doesnt really help the marriage.....

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Geminita1:
The guys on this forum are so dumb mehnn.

Guess what? Women don't care about you lots anymore. You are so bigoted, selfish and sexists. Once we have our kids, we are okay, we don't care about you, we don't care.

Who is deceiving u... U or ur mentality... "take the red pill" my dear

femmoy:


here to read comments & probably learn but so far i think this the best comment so far 'u will not always get what u want' and 'self discipline'

but the woman should always get what she want abi

To slap you just dey hungry me

He who sleeps with ashawo is like a man drinking with a poisoned glass