Before we started dating, we did less chatting cos we see each other more..

But during this whole lockdown of a thing, I realized she doesn't even know how to flow well in chats

That's not even my problem, my problem is that she keeps complaining I don't chat with her well, I don't communicate with her.. Bla bla..

But what would i say to someone that replies with monosyllabic words.. Even when I try to crack a joke, she just sends laughing emojis, if I try to start up a reasonable conversation.. All she replies is with "hmmm.. Yeah", "well", "true" etc

And she keeps chatting me up

NB: I've talked to her about this
Since I talked to her about it, she has been saying.. Ehn, I prefer to chat with "those I think are in my level"

I don't even know what to do to her

You are worst than this girlfriend of yours.how can a full grown man be gossiping shamelessly on nairaland without remorse

That your last statement though.. "prefer to chat with those on my level" as how . I no get hoo

Start using lackadaisical words...e.g,"u mean am,eyah and u chat me I chat u"

Your GF after reading this
One pointed at u, the other to the people who dnt support her

it is in her. you can't do anything to change that. it is either u go with the flow or you quit.

pls check my signature for your flight bookings

Some people problem na money and some people problem na woman

girl or boy the moment u start to be writing boring stuff like:" yeah ,kk,fine",I just stop immediately cause I no fit stress myself on top matter wey no they feed me

Anuoluwa1234:
That your last statement though.. "prefer to chat with those on my level" as how . I no get hoo

She said I think she's not in my level, that I prefer flowing well with the Ladies I think are in my level

donbachi:
Start using lackadaisical words...e.g,"u mean am,eyah and u chat me I chat u"

Exactly, I started doing that..
But na complain wan kee me

lindywane:
it is in her. you can't do anything to change that. it is either u go with the flow or you quit.

pls check my signature for your flight bookings

Alright thanks..

haydeey:

Exactly, I started doing that.. But na complain wan kee me

she aint serious.

meobizy:
Since you’re on the Internet, find other more interesting females to fill the gap. Chat with your girl from time to time. You’re already doing something right if not she would have blocked you a long time ago. All these “hmm”, “right“ and “k” females used to bother me a lot as a young man. Now I leave them in their lane. Anytime they want to chat, na them know — I will entertain them well, but they are not my number one options for intellectual yarns. I have guys and other more exposed females in my chat list for that.

Thank you o
There are more than enough people on the internet to chat with..
Her replies doesn't bother..
My issue is her coming to complain to me that I don't chat well, meanwhile. Tis her fault

cruxgemmata:
Your GF after reading this
One pointed at u, the other to the people who dnt support her

Nahh.. She won't see this

haydeey:


Thank you o
There are more than enough people on the internet to chat with..
Her replies doesn't bother..
My issue is her coming to complain to me that I don't chat well, meanwhile. Tis her fault

One of the cons of dating a Naija babe.

nickvanilla:


One of the cons of dating a Naija babe.

You get babe for us? Make I switch

its simple...wen online, jus find the sets of people that chats and flows well and try to delay her replies or start chatting d same way she's doing and if she complains jus tell her you are busy or its network problems.

haydeey:


You get babe for us? Make I switch

Lol. Do I come across as a love-vendor? Face your wahala bro

There are babes like that that doesn't honestly know how to keep conversation even with a guy they are genuinely interested in. Yh, it happens

If you are sure you ain't doing it intentionally, make you sef no dey too chat her for greeting except you've got a vital message to pass across to her. Try calling her instead if you fares better in talking. Anything to sha build the bond of your relationship if you indeed love.

And ignore her complaints too, overtime, she will adjust

Every Naija babe things... They don't knw how to keep a conversation

I prefer verbal communication over text to some people, I guess she might be in that category.

Some guys will blame it on Nigeria girls, well.

Start calling then. She’s not a chatty type. Another way is to ask open ended questions. Not questions she can say yes or no to. E.g how was your day should be replaced with tell me how your day went.

supercase1:
You are worst than this girlfriend of yours.how can a full grown man be gossiping shamelessly on nairaland without remorse

I don't gist on phone, i only use it to know whatsupp. If i miss u, i visit u. SIMPLE!

I can maybe manage video call. But I will always prefer physical conversation.

This generation problems sef too much

haydeey:

Exactly, I started doing that.. But na complain wan kee me

cant u call, must it b chattin

merieam16:
cant u call, must it b chattin

lolz, u want her to waste his airtime...for me i may nt beable to tolerate her.
i cant even hope to try an hour call with dis kain person..
baba ur babe is dull, dunce, person, dumbass, forlore, forlese, forlorn, olodo, i-ti, etc

merieam16:
cant u call, must it b chattin

lolz, u want her to waste his airtime...for me i may nt beable to tolerate her.
i cant even hope to try an hour call with dis kain person..
baba ur babe is dull, unintelligent, wreck, dunce, person, dumbass, forlore, forlese, forlorn, olodo, i-ti, etc

Ugaboy:
lolz, u want her to waste his airtime...for me i may nt beable to tolerate her.
i cant even hope to try an hour call with dis kain person..
baba ur babe is dull, unintelligent, wreck, dunce, person, dumbass, forlore, forlese, forlorn, olodo, i-ti, etc

lolz, calm down naw

merieam16:
lolz, calm down naw

lolz, he came to look for names for his babe

Op... Let me share what helps me
Google "conversation starters", and try to copy some of the examples there, and paste after fine tuning it in yours words. If you try like 20 of them and e no work, Google "funny conversation starter". If it still doesn't work, you two might just not be syncing together. It's best you both call it off before it's too late