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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by frankmoney(m): 10:04pm On Jul 02, 2020
No... Except the man has another source of livelihood ...maybe a business or something
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Amspecial: 10:04pm On Jul 02, 2020
grin
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by NDakota: 10:05pm On Jul 02, 2020
...Smiles
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Farki: 10:05pm On Jul 02, 2020
Depends on why.

Unemployed but searching?

Having side businesses?

Then go for it.

If not then don't bother.
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by 21cents: 10:05pm On Jul 02, 2020
lemme prepare, it's about to get real hot in here.

the fact is: I won't advise any lady to marry a jobless man. same as I'd never think of marrying a broke lady that doesn't know how to make her own money.

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Cladez(m): 10:05pm On Jul 02, 2020
It's a risk in sense of reality but if the guy has potentials to land a new job then it's a risk worth taking....

A marriage without a financial standing would surely crash...trust me on this one cheesy

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Respect55(m): 10:06pm On Jul 02, 2020
Does she has a job too or is it just a man thing again?
Is it right for a lady to get married when she doesn't have a job?

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by meobizy(f): 10:06pm On Jul 02, 2020
Yes, so both of them will continue the lineage of poverty. I don’t know why this topic makes front page every other quarter of the year here. Nairalanders love being in poverty and are naturally drawn to it.

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by mesa2002(m): 10:07pm On Jul 02, 2020
na love de chop
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by sonogo(m): 10:09pm On Jul 02, 2020
If the said lady has a job and can sustain the family why not, after all a man cab jobless woman also

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Kemimarch16(f): 10:09pm On Jul 02, 2020
Capital NO
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Nobody: 10:10pm On Jul 02, 2020
A man without any job should date instead grin
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Nwabundo38(f): 10:10pm On Jul 02, 2020
MajorOvakporaye:
any man who is jobless have no business with marriage.
Any woman too who is jobless or not into any business should not talk about marriage.
simple. Na so life be.
What about young girls that marry while in higher institution

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Samakus(m): 10:11pm On Jul 02, 2020
A man thinking about marriage in his state of unemployment HATES HIMSELF

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by AfroKnight: 10:12pm On Jul 02, 2020
Men, I hope you can see that the love which drives you to consider marriage is never enough. If you must marry, then marry with your eyes open. Never be caught in a situation where you would be unable to provide for your home or would depend on your wife financially. Never let it happen.

You are a man. If you must be vulnerable financially, be vulnerable to your male friends and family members only. E get why.

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by DEADALIVE: 10:12pm On Jul 02, 2020
There is no need of all these....money doesnt guarantee happiness in marriage....
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by val4sure(m): 10:16pm On Jul 02, 2020
The both gender should have something meaningful doing before thinking about marriage. As for me, I cant even think of getting married to a jobless, lazy ass woman.

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Deborahov(f): 10:16pm On Jul 02, 2020
At least the man should av something doing that he can pay bill wen ever he need to,wen a man is jobless.he also mean he is lazy.even if he is earning 1000 to 5000 per day.its something. Instead of brokenness

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jul 02, 2020
sexylassie2:
don't to listen to garbage. Dating is different from marriage.

A man without job that wants to marry is a foolish man and the religious books say we shouldn't associate ourselves with a foolish man.
But a jobless lady is permitted to marry a guy bah ?

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by starbuck(f): 10:16pm On Jul 02, 2020
Abort mission
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Phenomenal16(f): 10:17pm On Jul 02, 2020
Toks2008:
Well, the simple answer anybody will give is a resounding NO....but should a man marry a lady who has no job?... I guess that is a norm but wait for this...what if a lady marries a man with a job and then the man losses the job afterward?...will she leave him?.... Now you thinking...

Don't get it twisted...it makes no sense for any man to go into marriage without a job or a means of livelihood especially when a man’s potential is harder to see than the number of commas on his bank statement forgetting the fact that wealth acquisition is progressive, a continuum aided by hard work and determination...

I strongly believe that the reason why there is so much emphasis on a man's financial status as a criterion for marital suitability is because of the financial dependence mindset of many ladies on their men. In my opinion, when it comes to making money, there is no weaker sex hence I see nothing wrong with a lady who has a job or means of livelihood getting married to her man even if he has no job at that point in time...Job will always come and there is no guaranty that the one who has a job won't lose it.

A lady who finds it cool dating a man that has no job and happily performs wifely duties for him should not have issues with marrying the same man? Simply have a low key wedding and work hard together with him to build finances before making babies rather than allow yourself to be used as an intimacy gadget by the ''jobless guy''.


Ladies have equal opportunity to be financially independent just as the men and every lady must strive to be financially independent so that she can be with any man of her choice rather than marry a man simply because he is financially capable and also avoid using a job which can be there today and be gone tomorrow or financial status which is subject to change as a yardstick to being with any man.
...this thread is not worth my energy
The person below me might av sth to say
Nonsense n ingredients
Tueh

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by jericco1(m): 10:18pm On Jul 02, 2020
No na. Even as a man I cannot even think of marrying a lady when I am unemployed undecided

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by IVORY2009(m): 10:18pm On Jul 02, 2020
Mba
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 10:19pm On Jul 02, 2020
Biglittlelois:
You like to dish out unnecessary banters waiting for war of words from both genders, then sit on the fence, watching and smiling as it happens, without choosing a side or a clear cut message.



Are you also trying to insinuate that marrying a jobless man who can also have a job later, can't also loose the same job
lol
Op reminds me of bird watcher who threw grains at pigeons making them to grapple over each other

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by selfmadeboss: 10:19pm On Jul 02, 2020
Biglittlelois:
You like to dish out unnecessary banters waiting for war of words from both genders, then sit on the fence, watching and smiling as it happens, without choosing a side or a clear cut message.

Are you trying to say that it is better for a lady to marry a jobless man because he can get a job later, than marrying a man with a job who can also become jobless later?

Are you also trying to insinuate that marrying a jobless man who can also have a job later, can't also loose the same job
shut up and work for the money. u can work and spend on him too

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by hollah123: 10:22pm On Jul 02, 2020
Toks2008:
Well, the simple answer anybody will give is a resounding NO....but should a man marry a lady who has no job?... I guess that is a norm but wait for this...what if a lady marries a man with a job and then the man losses the job afterward?...will she leave him?.... Now you thinking...

Don't get it twisted...it makes no sense for any man to go into marriage without a job or a means of livelihood especially when a man’s potential is harder to see than the number of commas on his bank statement forgetting the fact that wealth acquisition is progressive, a continuum aided by hard work and determination...

I strongly believe that the reason why there is so much emphasis on a man's financial status as a criterion for marital suitability is because of the financial dependence mindset of many ladies on their men. In my opinion, when it comes to making money, there is no weaker sex hence I see nothing wrong with a lady who has a job or means of livelihood getting married to her man even if he has no job at that point in time...Job will always come and there is no guaranty that the one who has a job won't lose it.

A lady who finds it cool dating a man that has no job and happily performs wifely duties for him should not have issues with marrying the same man? Simply have a low key wedding and work hard together with him to build finances before making babies rather than allow yourself to be used as an intimacy gadget by the ''jobless guy''.


Ladies have equal opportunity to be financially independent just as the men and every lady must strive to be financially independent so that she can be with any man of her choice rather than marry a man simply because he is financially capable and also avoid using a job which can be there today and be gone tomorrow or financial status which is subject to change as a yardstick to being with any man.
I am sure u ain't d one that wrote this piece,it's obvious it was lifted from somewhere

n am also double sure the person who wrote it didn't write it for Nigerians
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by seanwilliam(m): 10:23pm On Jul 02, 2020
Normally u self no dey like yourself if money no dey your hand..


I'm hustling for myself, my parents and my children ..no cap
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Patosky4U: 10:23pm On Jul 02, 2020
eni4real:
A man without any job should date instead grin





But a Lady without a job can date a man Abi?

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by hollah123: 10:24pm On Jul 02, 2020
Ahmed0336:
Odikwa very riskyyyyyy.

I doubt any reasonable jobless guy will want to get himself into such mess!!! My question be say how dia pen*s dey take erect knowing fully well knowing that they are jobless?
don't mind d guy, even someone who has a job is scared of marriage not to talk of a jobless guy

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Purifiedsoul: 10:24pm On Jul 02, 2020
Mouth Action is better than No Job.


Think am.
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Nickymichy(m): 10:25pm On Jul 02, 2020
Hen...

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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Nairalanderz(m): 10:27pm On Jul 02, 2020
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