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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by baralatie(m): 11:15pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by nanauju(f): 11:20pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
Why would a man with no source of income, no matter how little think of marriage. Do y'all think marriage is a joke or what |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Alaga2222(m): 11:21pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
sexylassie2: Stop saying nonsense. Are you high? Geerrraarraahhiiaaa 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by toprealman: 11:22pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
Wait let them free Hushpuppy and Woodberry......I guess they are 'gainfully employed" |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by oluwasegun007(m): 11:28pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
Just watch as the love go sour like 7 days egusi soup |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by shiwex: 11:29pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
Nope......same way a man should not marry a lady without job. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Toks2008(m): 11:33pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
mofedamijo: insightful. |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Nobody: 11:39pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
Egbon Toks, una welldone o A lady should rather marry someone with potential...else na suffer 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Nobody: 11:50pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
Airforce1: Lol I like that |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Sharatan(m): 11:53pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
Toks2008: 1 Like
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Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by tiswell(m): 11:55pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
Ahmed0336:na their pen*s dey erect pass |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by ravensckar(m): 12:15am On Jul 03, 2020 |
I think we're missing the point here! The OP is technically asking why is it wrong for a jobless man to contemplate marriage but not a big deal for a jobless lady to do so? Why the double standard? As far as I'm concerned, the first sign of a lady who is ready to marry is having a good job. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by benji93: 12:17am On Jul 03, 2020 |
Generally, when it comes to making money women and men are not at the same level, not for lack of ability, but lack of opportunities. You should understand them when they prefer men with some financial security. Men have more opportunities available to them. Some of the women owe their successes to their beauty and shape, once someone with better shape comes into the picture they may fall down the pecking order. Their access to financial wealth is not as secure or open as that of men. Besides for most relationships where the woman is joyful and the man is jobless, men usually become insecure. There's no way a jobless man will not think the lady is taking it somewhere. . Some may say, there are marriages in which the ladies are far more successful than the mean. True, but how many can you find in a given sample. And personally I would not advise a woman to marry a jobless man. she can try a relationship with a Jobless man, but marriage, emphatic No. Toks2008: 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by gwama: 12:28am On Jul 03, 2020 |
Yes, why not?? |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Yankee101: 12:29am On Jul 03, 2020 |
Why? She loves suffering or what? |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Nobody: 12:29am On Jul 03, 2020 |
How many time will they ask this question. I haf taya for this question. |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by JaffyJoe(m): 12:31am On Jul 03, 2020 |
I'm not going to blame any choice anyone makes on this matter. For me though, I became jobless after horrid experiences with two companies. Basically went back to square one. Dusted myself up and channeled energy to earning online. I don't have a white or blue collar 9-5 right now, yet, I make triple of what I earned in my previous work places today. I don't even leave my house doing these things. Some married brothers in the neighborhood be like "eeya God go do am", unknown to them that I have more savings and assets than they currently do. I say that to say this, financial freedom isn't about having a 9-5. Dame DASH 101. 3 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by femalecobra: 12:37am On Jul 03, 2020 |
If you are strongly led and even at that he should have something doing giving him small change to buy airtime at least for example. God could be instructing you directly to marry a jobless man sometimes because he sees the future. He may be the one to love you well and give you peace because you loved him when he was nothing in addition, You may be the one that would set him up as per give him capital and he would grow the largest business estate and make money that you could never have in your life. The important thing is that you have to be led to take such move of faith. It’s also possible he hammers big time and one company calls him. after the marriage. So for a jobless man, you would be marrying his PATTERN with faith not what you see at the moment. By pattern I mean, is he hardworking, does he have strong drive to achieve a certain calling and it’s Just condition that make crayfish bend for inside water OR is he the lazy type waiting for miracle. |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by chigoizie7(m): 1:18am On Jul 03, 2020 |
The question should be, should a lady without a job be talking about marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by mercyson(m): 1:26am On Jul 03, 2020 |
sincerely, without mincing words, YES. Two cannot walk together unless they agree. Another note here is, the man may be incapacitated to do certain things due to his jobless state check out this link for more... https://www.pentameloud.com/10-secrets-successful-families/ |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Happyguy201: 1:37am On Jul 03, 2020 |
Nairalanderz: Teach your family members first |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by chocboi78(m): 1:44am On Jul 03, 2020 |
What will they be eating? |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by olmoRoc: 1:48am On Jul 03, 2020 |
NO! |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by lighternote: 2:29am On Jul 03, 2020 |
Then once the wife is pregnant with pregnancy doldrums, you'll read on Facebook, "man killed pregnant laxy wife who doubles as feminist" Men are egoistic and no rational thinking man should venture into marriage without any source of income. The psychological impact could be devastating except for naturally lazy ones. |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by abdullkabar(m): 2:53am On Jul 03, 2020 |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by jaxxy(m): 3:14am On Jul 03, 2020 |
Biglittlelois: I think what he’s trying to say or insinuate as u call it is marry a man for more than just because he has a job or the type of job he does. Why? Cos a lady isn’t ment to be 100% dependent on a guy, bf or husband. A lady can and shud have a job too. So if the man suddenly has none she can stand as a support she was supposed and ment to be and not a total dependent. So he has a point. However a man without a job shud not be getting married right then cos the 1st responsibility is on him and the woman supports which is also important and good and irrespective of who is richer of the two. Toks2008 |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Nobody: 3:22am On Jul 03, 2020 |
sexylassie2:Oh feminism does not exist in that area. Ok 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by louiziana(m): 3:59am On Jul 03, 2020 |
Well, I won't call anybody myopic here and I don't encourage laziness but we should be more flexible while thinking. I personally know someone who learned trade in Onitsha and moved to Lagos when he was around 21, his highest qualification was SSCE. Business was not going well as expected so this same guy gambles playing whot and bet9ja, even asking me for a small loan to stake sometimes. One evening while drinking beer at a bar after bet9ja winning, he met a chubby lady at their shawarma spot and offered to pay for hers. She just smiled and said okay, my guy asked for her number and she did not give it to him but asked for his number instead, he thought he had lost as usual. His phone rang after midnight but to cut the story short, the lady just visited from America and she is a citizen, teaches primary school children in the U.S and holds a masters degree. She knows the financial capacity of my friend but decided to help him. She sent him a car within 6 months worth 2.5m after leaving for the U.S, came back to Nigeria some months later and sponsored their traditional wedding, bought him gold, nice clothes and stuffs. Today my guy is in Philadelphia working with the help of this same woman, they now have a son, my guy is talking about millions of naira now and still an SSCE holder. This woman spent her first 16 years in Nigeria before moving to yankee. Now imagine if she had the same mentality as a typical naija woman...Male or female, anyone can help or support each other, stop being selfish if you have the power and means to help someone. How many naija women with MSc fit marry SSCE holder for here? Most would say he is not in their social class. 8 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Maobichek: 4:17am On Jul 03, 2020 |
Biglittlelois:. War have started already oh! |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Maobichek: 4:18am On Jul 03, 2020 |
RedPhoenix:. Please calm down ok. |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Maobichek: 4:23am On Jul 03, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:. Why would you say a jobless woman cos our society don't frown at such; the society we found ourselves is ok with jobless women when it comes to marriage but no, no, no to a jobless man and ones you marry a woman, she becomes your responsibility, thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Marry A Man With No Job? by Maobichek: 4:28am On Jul 03, 2020 |
Toks2008:. Thank you for this thread, I want to have one-on-one chat with you, my mail is maobichek@yahoo.com. |
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