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pDudd:
Ok i go yarn.

The reason is not a simple one but a multifaceted one. Many factors come into play when it comes to finding out the reason. The reasons are cultural, socioeconomic, historical, personal, and societal.

Cultural: In the AA community, having a kid outside wedlock is a normal thing. It is even encouraged because kids are able to increase your socioeconomic status. The more kids you have, the more money you get on your tax returns, also the more you are able to get improved welfare packages. So a man is needed only to reproduce and not necessary to raise kids. If a man is present in the home and is earning income to take care of the kids, the lady may not be able to access the welfare package.

Socioeconomic: Like I said above, if you are a single mother, you are in a better position to access welfare packages due to your kids. The society looks upon you as a victim and this affords you access to many welfare benefits, such as free childcare, free daycare, free healthcare, free housing, free food, etc. The government will provide all that for you just for being a single mother so you don't need any man. You only need the occasional dick to calm your loins but not for keepsies.

Historical: Historically, black in America were not allowed to marry or cohabit. The slavery era did this to them and hence that practice has been passed down till today. Also the introduction of the welfare system ensured that women who had men present in the house could not access welfare benefits. Hence men are not needed by the women.

Societal: In the African American community, many men between 18 to 45 are dead or in prison serving long sentences. Therefore there are about 3-4 females to every 1 male. This uneven distribution makes it hard to have a man as your own. And even when you do, other females are waiting to snatch him from you. Furthermore, the few good black men there are tend to pick women from other races (white, Latino, Asian, Samoan, etc women) because he doesn't want the drama of black women. And this furthermore reduces the picking for AA women.

Personal: Because of the unstable nature of African American relationship Dynamics, some women or men in the African American community may choose to remain single.


Also other factors that can come into play are family Dynamics in which a lady is likely not to have a permanent partner because her mother and grandmother never had stable partners. So this becomes her norm and is an acceptable way of life.

Also no other races date black women in America. So they they have limited choices in men when it comes to the relationship pool. They only have black men to look up to.


Hope this helps.

How I wish I can give you 5O likes you explained everything well pleased that's why I mentioned you earlier what a pity to the black Americans I feel for them and the funniest thing is they're already used to it when chatting with them you will notice they act like a man and a woman at the same time that is they feel they don't need any man

They are being brainwashed. And the funny thing is that our ladies in Africa are emulating them and their lifestyle. We do not know the importance of family. Or the importance of fathers to the child and the society at large.


No one is perfect. The US government brought out programs to destroy the entire African heritage which is family.

You will not understand this until you live amongst whites and then being a black that mingles with blacks, you will understand that white males are one set of worst husbands and fathers but the family and their whites ladies tries to keep it together.


No matter what you do, make sure that you carry family as a number 1 priority. A child without a father wouldn’t know the importance of being a father, as such he becomes irresponsible. A man that can’t manage a home, can he manage a company?
Keep the blacks down by all means. Once a black woman hits the court for divorce, they grant her that and impose a child support on the man.and even tell you that you can only see your child once a month. And the stupid black girls will be jubilating, but I do not blame them too. They never had families themselves. But when white couples approaches court for divorce, marriage counseling is advised, therapists are advised. So that they can save that child and that family culture.

pDudd:
Ok i go yarn.

The reason is not a simple one but a multifaceted one. Many factors come into play when it comes to finding out the reason. The reasons are cultural, socioeconomic, historical, personal, and societal.

Cultural: In the AA community, having a kid outside wedlock is a normal thing. It is even encouraged because kids are able to increase your socioeconomic status. The more kids you have, the more money you get on your tax returns, also the more you are able to get improved welfare packages. So a man is needed only to reproduce and not necessary to raise kids. If a man is present in the home and is earning income to take care of the kids, the lady may not be able to access the welfare package.

Socioeconomic: Like I said above, if you are a single mother, you are in a better position to access welfare packages due to your kids. The society looks upon you as a victim and this affords you access to many welfare benefits, such as free childcare, free daycare, free healthcare, free housing, free food, etc. The government will provide all that for you just for being a single mother so you don't need any man. You only need the occasional dick to calm your loins but not for keepsies.

Historical: Historically, black in America were not allowed to marry or cohabit. The slavery era did this to them and hence that practice has been passed down till today. Also the introduction of the welfare system ensured that women who had men present in the house could not access welfare benefits. Hence men are not needed by the women.

Societal: In the African American community, many men between 18 to 45 are dead or in prison serving long sentences. Therefore there are about 3-4 females to every 1 male. This uneven distribution makes it hard to have a man as your own. And even when you do, other females are waiting to snatch him from you. Furthermore, the few good black men there are tend to pick women from other races (white, Latino, Asian, Samoan, etc women) because he doesn't want the drama of black women. And this furthermore reduces the picking for AA women.

Personal: Because of the unstable nature of African American relationship Dynamics, some women or men in the African American community may choose to remain single.


Also other factors that can come into play are family Dynamics in which a lady is likely not to have a permanent partner because her mother and grandmother never had stable partners. So this becomes her norm and is an acceptable way of life.

Also no other races date black women in America. So they they have limited choices in men when it comes to the relationship pool. They only have black men to look up to.


Hope this helps.

Please can you tell me why other races would not want to marry an AA woman but will always rush AA man?

chigoizie7:
They are being brainwashed. And the funny thing is that our ladies in Africa are emulating them and their lifestyle. We do not know the importance of family. Or the importance of fathers to the child and the society at large.


No one is perfect. The US government brought out programs to destroy the entire African heritage which is family.

You will not understand this until you live amongst whites and then being a black that mingles with blacks, you will understand that white males are one set of worst husbands and fathers but the family and their whites ladies tries to keep it together.


No matter what you do, make sure that you carry family as a number 1 priority. A child without a father wouldn’t know the importance of being a father, as such he becomes irresponsible. A man that can’t manage a home, can he manage a company?
Keep the blacks down by all means. Once a black woman hits the court for divorce, they grant her that and impose a child support on the man.and even tell you that you can only see your child once a month. And the stupid black girls will be jubilating, but I do not blame them too. They never had families themselves. But when white couples approaches court for divorce, marriage counseling is advised, therapists are advised. So that they can save that child and that family culture.

A child without a father won't know the importance of being a father shakes my niggar you speak factorlogy ✌️

Terryishere:
How do you know they are black American and not African, Caribbean or Hispanic?

Accent

Terryishere:
Actually they are and they will tell you they are but some are afraid to approach black women for fear of rejection.

Actually there is a lot of f***king going on between them. They just don’t marry

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Whoever owns that account scammed me. Ladies beware. I am still waiting for my wig since March

Thanks 4 sharing

pDudd:
Ok i go yarn.

The reason is not a simple one but a multifaceted one. Many factors come into play when it comes to finding out the reason. The reasons are cultural, socioeconomic, historical, personal, and societal.

Cultural: In the AA community, having a kid outside wedlock is a normal thing. It is even encouraged because kids are able to increase your socioeconomic status. The more kids you have, the more money you get on your tax returns, also the more you are able to get improved welfare packages. So a man is needed only to reproduce and not necessary to raise kids. If a man is present in the home and is earning income to take care of the kids, the lady may not be able to access the welfare package.

Socioeconomic: Like I said above, if you are a single mother, you are in a better position to access welfare packages due to your kids. The society looks upon you as a victim and this affords you access to many welfare benefits, such as free childcare, free daycare, free healthcare, free housing, free food, etc. The government will provide all that for you just for being a single mother so you don't need any man. You only need the occasional dick to calm your loins but not for keepsies.

Historical: Historically, black in America were not allowed to marry or cohabit. The slavery era did this to them and hence that practice has been passed down till today. Also the introduction of the welfare system ensured that women who had men present in the house could not access welfare benefits. Hence men are not needed by the women.

Societal: In the African American community, many men between 18 to 45 are dead or in prison serving long sentences. Therefore there are about 3-4 females to every 1 male. This uneven distribution makes it hard to have a man as your own. And even when you do, other females are waiting to snatch him from you. Furthermore, the few good black men there are tend to pick women from other races (white, Latino, Asian, Samoan, etc women) because he doesn't want the drama of black women. And this furthermore reduces the picking for AA women.

Personal: Because of the unstable nature of African American relationship Dynamics, some women or men in the African American community may choose to remain single.


Also other factors that can come into play are family Dynamics in which a lady is likely not to have a permanent partner because her mother and grandmother never had stable partners. So this becomes her norm and is an acceptable way of life.

Also no other races date black women in America. So they they have limited choices in men when it comes to the relationship pool. They only have black men to look up to.


Hope this helps.

I didn’t see this. Very erudite write-up and I find myself aggreeing to almost all your points. Except, how do u explain that some periods in the past it was not like this - most married and had stable families.

Stephenmoka4:
I heard some black women are less feminine there or have short temper or ghetto is.

Half truth but almost true base on my personal experience, am here in the state and can identify with this statement

ZINIBANKS:
How I wish I can give you 5O likes you explained everything well pleased that's why I mentioned you earlier what a pity to the black Americans I feel for them and the funniest thing is they're already used to it when chatting with them you will notice they act like a man and a woman at the same time that is they feel they don't need any man

Am here in the state, they always says that they don't need a man to survive, there's always welfare support for them and they seems to be the worst mother on earth to me.

This is based on my personal experience.
No one should quote me ooo

Terryishere:
Actually they are and they will tell you they are but some are afraid to approach black women for fear of rejection.

do u have an American or British accent?

EbenezerTriumph:
do u have an American or British accent?

I'm American, what do you think?

CanadaOrBust:
Actually there is a lot of f***king going on between them. They just don’t marry

So you say with your proof being Xvideos yet you still haven't answered my question.

How do you know they are black Americans and not Africans, Caribbeans, or Hispanics?

CanadaOrBust:
Accent

You can't tell by their accent in a country as diverse as the US. They could be children of immigrants who were born and raised here and they would have an American accent.

Try again.

CanadaOrBust:
Even if it is 100%, one thing is for sure:
PROPORTIONATELY, SUCCESSFUL BLACK MEN marry outside their race more than anyone else, BY FAR!

That's absolutely false and the lie was started by CNN. A correct study was done and proven that most successful, educated black American men(not Nigerian American men, that's quite a different story) are married to successful, educated black American women.

The problem with people like you is you are unable to separate the celebrities from the general public. Actually most Black American celebrities are married to other blacks as well.

baralatie:
it is your mouth jot another person's

What?

kunle75:
Am here in the state, they always says that they don't need a man to survive, there's always welfare support for them and they seems to be the worst mother on earth to me.

This is based on my personal experience.
No one should quote me ooo

You must live in the ghetto.

chigoizie7:
They are being brainwashed. And the funny thing is that our ladies in Africa are emulating them and their lifestyle. We do not know the importance of family. Or the importance of fathers to the child and the society at large.


No one is perfect. The US government brought out programs to destroy the entire African heritage which is family.

You will not understand this until you live amongst whites and then being a black that mingles with blacks, you will understand that white males are one set of worst husbands and fathers but the family and their whites ladies tries to keep it together.


No matter what you do, make sure that you carry family as a number 1 priority. A child without a father wouldn’t know the importance of being a father, as such he becomes irresponsible. A man that can’t manage a home, can he manage a company?
Keep the blacks down by all means. Once a black woman hits the court for divorce, they grant her that and impose a child support on the man.and even tell you that you can only see your child once a month. And the stupid black girls will be jubilating, but I do not blame them too. They never had families themselves. But when white couples approaches court for divorce, marriage counseling is advised, therapists are advised. So that they can save that child and that family culture.

You know this is untrue, the number 1 filers for divorce are whites. They don't try to hold the family together that's why there are so many stepfathers and stepmothers amongst them. Nobody receives more spousal and child support than the American white woman.

baralatie:
there is nothing logical here.
the question is why are black American women single
there are a thousand reasons which are responsible
1.disposition towards marriage
2.inability to get a black american male of choice
3.cost and implications associated with living in a capitalist American society
4. financial considerations
5.social and cultural considerations
6.religious considerations
7.legal considerations
8.place of residence
9.level of commitment
10.rate of infidelity
and so on.

blaming Christopher Columbus is out of it

What does Christopher Columbus, a person who never made it to North America has to do with this?

pDudd:
Ok i go yarn.

The reason is not a simple one but a multifaceted one. Many factors come into play when it comes to finding out the reason. The reasons are cultural, socioeconomic, historical, personal, and societal.

Cultural: In the AA community, having a kid outside wedlock is a normal thing. It is even encouraged because kids are able to increase your socioeconomic status. The more kids you have, the more money you get on your tax returns, also the more you are able to get improved welfare packages. So a man is needed only to reproduce and not necessary to raise kids. If a man is present in the home and is earning income to take care of the kids, the lady may not be able to access the welfare package.

Socioeconomic: Like I said above, if you are a single mother, you are in a better position to access welfare packages due to your kids. The society looks upon you as a victim and this affords you access to many welfare benefits, such as free childcare, free daycare, free healthcare, free housing, free food, etc. The government will provide all that for you just for being a single mother so you don't need any man. You only need the occasional dick to calm your loins but not for keepsies.

Historical: Historically, black in America were not allowed to marry or cohabit. The slavery era did this to them and hence that practice has been passed down till today. Also the introduction of the welfare system ensured that women who had men present in the house could not access welfare benefits. Hence men are not needed by the women.

Societal: In the African American community, many men between 18 to 45 are dead or in prison serving long sentences. Therefore there are about 3-4 females to every 1 male. This uneven distribution makes it hard to have a man as your own. And even when you do, other females are waiting to snatch him from you. Furthermore, the few good black men there are tend to pick women from other races (white, Latino, Asian, Samoan, etc women) because he doesn't want the drama of black women. And this furthermore reduces the picking for AA women.

Personal: Because of the unstable nature of African American relationship Dynamics, some women or men in the African American community may choose to remain single.


Also other factors that can come into play are family Dynamics in which a lady is likely not to have a permanent partner because her mother and grandmother never had stable partners. So this becomes her norm and is an acceptable way of life.

Also no other races date black women in America. So they they have limited choices in men when it comes to the relationship pool. They only have black men to look up to.


Hope this helps.

You must think the black community is made up of one class. You are so wrong about your write-up.

pDudd:
Yes. You're very right.

That's not what you wrote in that lying crappy post.

pDudd:
Actually it's the other way round. White men are not attracted to black women.

How do you know what white men are attracted to?

kunle75:
Am here in the state, they always says that they don't need a man to survive, there's always welfare support for them and they seems to be the worst mother on earth to me.

This is based on my personal experience.
No one should quote me ooo

If you don't mind sharing your experience so others can learn from it

Terryishere:
Most successful black American men (not Nigerian American) are married to black American women.

Hell no
Kobe Bryant married a white woman
Kanye west also married a white woman
Offset also and many more when they're successful they don't marry from their race again

This is a lie, and it's racist propaganda whites have been peddling since the late 90s.

Whites are sociopaths and mentally r*tarded. Part of the reason they push this propaganda is to get all these beautiful black women to marry ugly a** whites and have their ugly children. They want black women to degrade themselves by having s*x with white men, and they want to commit genocide through race mixing (see South America).

They also do this because while black men will sleep with any woman (like all men), and even marry her (mostly for green cards when she's not black), the vast majority of black women don't find nonblack men attractive. They figure they won the battle against men since they see a fair amount of bm/ww pairings even though most black men are with black women. White people are d*mb.

Nonblack men are inferior. Usually only black women with mental health issues, or looking for a green card, will entertain the idea of dating a nonblack. This infuriates whites because whites are degenerate r*tards who cannot accept when a woman doesn't want them in general, but they really go crazy when black people don't want them. They're delusional and believe their own racist propaganda. They lose it when they feel they've "lost control" of black sexuality or other thinking. They think they influence that. That's how psychotic they are. It genuinely bothers them to know a black person only desires another black person.

These are a race of people who also think black people owe them attention in general. Their crazy jumps out whenever their fantasy meets reality.

VULCAN:
You knock a book that you haven't even read.

Sigh.

There's a word that describes such behaviour but I won't mention it.

Maybe Black American women are single cos they can't afford $6 to read a book to find out why they are single.

the book looks like gaslighting to me. Probably written by an incel

Terryishere:
You must think the black community is made up of one class. You are so wrong about your write-up.

He's actually right, but he forgets to add how colorism is worse for black women, the darker their skinshade.

Also black American men are not protective of of their women. They only see them as breeding mares to produce more dark black men. They don't see them as good enough to marry but light bright and white is. Although the attitude of black women is not helping.

DrFunmisticGlow:
He's actually right, but he forgets to add how colorism is worse for black women, the darker their skinshade.

Also black American men are not protective of of their women. They only see them as breeding mares to produce more dark black men. They don't see them as good enough to marry but light bright and white is. Although the attitude of black women is not helping.

You are lying, what do you know about what black American men feel and think. You don't know anything about us.

There are only 2 reasons why a woman will be single...
1. She's a thot and no reasonable guy actually wants to hold her down. She's only good for sex and partying. Otherwise not worth marrying.

2. Women today have an exaggerated sense of entitlement and unrealistic expectations from men. They keep saying I want a man that has this and that...yet in reality such men are very scarce. So they spend most of their youthful years wasting away in that pursuit for the perfect guy.

ZINIBANKS:
Hell no
Kobe Bryant married a white woman
Kanye west also married a white woman
Offset also and many more when they're successful they don't marry from their race again

There are 20 million black American men in this country and you want to compare a few celebrities with them, does this make any sense to you?

Terryishere:
There are 20 million black American men in this country and you want to compare a few celebrities with them, do this make any sense at all to you?

So you didn't read where I said and many more you don't know it I'll explain there are many but I mentioned few of them ok