ovcwality:

I used to see some white men with black women too in their profile pics when am reading comments on Facebook

Zinibanks why are you always looking for BAW but always complaining on each topic about them

Now lastly, I just finished watching a short clip on espn and I saw about three BAW with their husbands, didn't know their divorce rate or whatever you people are arguing about is this high

ZINIBANKS:
Firstly what is BAW

ovcwality:

Na here I see am too, it seems to be black American women (BAW) right?
Back to my question, why are you always stalking black American women?

Terryishere:


There are 20 million black American men in this country and you want to compare a few celebrities with them, does this make any sense to you?

Blackmoran:
How will a black america woman get married? They have this ghetto mentality, most of them don't look feminine in character which is a turn off to most guys, 80pecent of blacks at age 18 -22 are already single mothers out of wedlock tell me any sensible man that want that baggage. 70 percent of black American woman lives on government welfare and alimony, black america women sees marriage as business hence they get into marriage after a year they ask for divorce, hence free access to there partner wealth, opportunity to child support and so on... In summary most of them are full of baggage, black america women don't like a nice guy, rather they prefer the drug dealer, the gang leader and so on.... I won't blame them totally, its a cultural problem that as a whole black Americans both sexes have a part to play... It is only in the black community when you graduate from college nothing happens, but when you just get out of jail your friends and family will throw a welcome party for you.....

Blackmoran:
this is not about Hollywood, go and check the statistics and make your research.. 1 which race has the highest single mothers... 2 which race depends on government welfare most... 3 which race has the highest divorce rate... When you done get back to me...

Blackmoran:
How will a black america woman get married? They have this ghetto mentality, most of them don't look feminine in character which is a turn off to most guys, 80pecent of blacks at age 18 -22 are already single mothers out of wedlock tell me any sensible man that want that baggage. 70 percent of black American woman lives on government welfare and alimony, black america women sees marriage as business hence they get into marriage after a year they ask for divorce, hence free access to there partner wealth, opportunity to child support and so on... In summary most of them are full of baggage, black america women don't like a nice guy, rather they prefer the drug dealer, the gang leader and so on.... I won't blame them totally, its a cultural problem that as a whole black Americans both sexes have a part to play... It is only in the black community when you graduate from college nothing happens, but when you just get out of jail your friends and family will throw a welcome party for you.....

CanadaOrBust:


Almost all Americans are children/ descendants of immigrants. Any woman born and raised in US is a BAW regardless of forefathers’ immigration status. Obama is fully a BAM despite having an immigrant father

w1n5t0n:
But why is it that, unlike other minorities, most baby mamas are AA? It's not scarcity of black men, it's that the black women don't want marriage for reasons like
- the govt welfare mentioned above
- the bad advice from their mothers
- obsession with scholastic achievement

Compare with Hispanic and Asians. They maintain a close-knit family structure. How can BAW value marriage when aunties and cousins don't have stable relationships?

chigoizie7:



If you had read my other comments on this very thread, you will see where I mentioned something like, “ those who didn’t grow or have fathers will never know the importance of one”. It applies to those who do not have good homes. Those who do not have that family orientation. An average AA doesn’t value the family settings where fathers and mothers work together for the betterment of their kids. They always take the easy ways out, most of the men are always willing to be good fathers, but the sassy ness,loud mouthed ness and other vices of an AA wouldn’t let them. An AA woman is vindictive in nature. Now I know that the society made them that way, it’s a vicious cycle. But it is high time they start asking themselves questions so as to solve their problems.




Now I will tell you. A man (drunkard) had twins( boys). One became a drunkard just like the father, the other vowed never to be like the father. Now these are two people faced with the same situation but acted differently.

The AA woman should have learnt by now that they are partly one of the bigger problems of the AA in general.

Terryishere:


#1 By your logic of a black American woman being BAW would include the 70% of.black Americans this topic is about i.e. Africans, Caribbeans,.Hispanics. So the 70% of single black women in the states includes Africans/Nigerians.

#2 Obama is not a full black man, that's impossible, a white woman can't give birth to a black child, he's biracial. Stop trying to replace black people with mixed race people.

Terryishere:


All three of your reasons are wrong especially #3 To find out the root cause of mass incarceration for black Americans Google the 13th Amendment in the US Constitution, you will then understand systemic racism.

chigoizie7:


Lol, you are 100% correct. You had an idea of how damaged most of them are, majority are very ungrateful. They expect you to take all the shits they dole out but wouldn’t take the little you have. The welfare system favors them very well.

But you know one thing?, most of them derive joy and happiness whoring around. So when they get the divorce compensation, they start jumping from one dick to another fighting over men. But all these boils down to lack of morals, because they do not have that parental upbringing, it’s either she is raised by a single mother who also was raised without a father figure, most of them while being raised by a single mom who goes about jumping from one boyfriend to another, bringing different men home at different times, they saw it as a norm, they just can’t help it.

That is why I said that that family orientation is the best thing to ever happen to anyone. If you still have your parents living together, be grateful. And you as a young man, always make sure that you marry someone who has a very high respect and regards to the marriage institution and family values. You do not know what we enjoy as core Africans. South Africa is towing that same route as well. But it is worst in America.


An average AA woman is damaged, morally, psychologically and otherwise.

Terryishere:


You don't have to show me a picture of Adam Clayton Powell, I know my history. Adam Clayton Powell was a man of mixed heritage who live doing the time of Jim Crow and the ONE drop of black blood made you black rule, not a law but a rule to keep the white race pure.

That doesn't exist anymore, saying he was a black man is the same as saying Mariah Carey is a black woman which she is not. That's why they have biracial or other on the US census now.

It takes 2 white parents to make a white child just as it takes 2 black parents to make a.black child

Philosopher1979:


ALL THE THREE REASONS ARE RIGHT.
BESIDES YOY ARE ONLY CONFIRMING THE THURD REASON
IN FACT IT ALSO AFFECTS THE MEN AS MOST BLACK AMERICAN MEN GREW UP WITHOUT A FATHER AND THEY ALSO END UP IN JAIL

luvbane:


Is it crack that you smoke? Please do your history, real history. Better yet come to America. That is absolutely untrue. Black men are convicted disproportionately but no most black men don’t end up in jail.

Even with African American women being the most educated group in the country there is still a wage gap. Black men still remain higher earners usually. Stop watching rap videos and hood movies. All the men that I know are educated with high earnings.

Stop the madness and perpetuating white superiority. You’d be surprised at what we are taught about Nigeria. Not the truth about colonialism and white greed that keeps the majority of citizens deeply impoverished. I’m talking about the same stereotypes you’re perpetuating...

MarjieJ98354:
You are the funniest of the dumb motherfuckers!!!!!

My dear you are lucky to be a Nigerian woman. But Nigerian females are gradually becoming like AA women. Slowly but surely.

luvbane:
Your comprehension is way off. Women have been and still are paid less than men across the board. That has nothing to do with employment numbers it has everything to do with sexism...

I was slightly amused by your fascination with being the bearer of all these untruths but that has worn off. I won’t waste more time interacting with someone who low key has an inferiority complex with black people in America, otherwise you wouldn’t be such a hater. Hater as in jealous, you know jealously like the white people that you uphold feel every time they see our melanated faces. We’re just amazing and dope, despite all the disadvantages historically and today.

You are foul. Just like every black man in America is not destined for jail or a deadbeat, I know every Nigerian male is not a yahoo boy, woman beater or womanizer. Every black woman is not ghetto, a baby momma or unfeminine, and Nigerian ladies are not all gold digging ashawos, bleaching their skin or selling their babies....

I’m done exchanging with you.

chigoizie7:


These are just few compared to millions of AA people who are still broken because they lacked that father figure in their lives. Many people define success differently. Now check most of those rappers that had kids and see if they are not if not all in their kids lives? Most people that turned out well, saw the importance, they knew how broken they were, and they vowed to make and make things right. Go and check their success stories, they suffered and then vowed never to allow their own kids go through what they passed through.

But out of the millions of AA these are just but few.


Like I said earlier. A man ( drunkard)gave birth twins, one grew up to be like the father, the other grew up and vowed never to be a drunk like the father. Two people faced with same situations but acted differently. It’s in human nature. One learnt a lesson from the father, while the other continued because he saw what the dad did as a normal thing any other person would be doing.

khia:


You have said it all, no more explanation needed, besides he has already admitted to being a coon in a prior post. His inferiority is very high.

MarjieJ98354:
Twins usually emulate each other. Good twin and bad twin are a rare trait.

Ok i go yarn.

The reason is not a simple one but a multifaceted one. Many factors come into play when it comes to finding out the reason. The reasons are cultural, socioeconomic, historical, personal, and societal.

Cultural: In the AA community, having a kid outside wedlock is a normal thing. It is even encouraged because kids are able to increase your socioeconomic status. The more kids you have, the more money you get on your tax returns, also the more you are able to get improved welfare packages. So a man is needed only to reproduce and not necessary to raise kids. If a man is present in the home and is earning income to take care of the kids, the lady may not be able to access the welfare package.

Socioeconomic: Like I said above, if you are a single mother, you are in a better position to access welfare packages due to your kids. The society looks upon you as a victim and this affords you access to many welfare benefits, such as free childcare, free daycare, free healthcare, free housing, free food, etc. The government will provide all that for you just for being a single mother so you don't need any man. You only need the occasional dick to calm your loins but not for keepsies.

Historical: Historically, black in America were not allowed to marry or cohabit. The slavery era did this to them and hence that practice has been passed down till today. Also the introduction of the welfare system ensured that women who had men present in the house could not access welfare benefits. Hence men are not needed by the women.

Societal: In the African American community, many men between 18 to 45 are dead or in prison serving long sentences. Therefore there are about 3-4 females to every 1 male. This uneven distribution makes it hard to have a man as your own. And even when you do, other females are waiting to snatch him from you. Furthermore, the few good black men there are tend to pick women from other races (white, Latino, Asian, Samoan, etc women) because he doesn't want the drama of black women. And this furthermore reduces the picking for AA women.

Personal: Because of the unstable nature of African American relationship Dynamics, some women or men in the African American community may choose to remain single.


Also other factors that can come into play are family Dynamics in which a lady is likely not to have a permanent partner because her mother and grandmother never had stable partners. So this becomes her norm and is an acceptable way of life.

Also no other races date black women in America. So they they have limited choices in men when it comes to the relationship pool. They only have black men to look up to.


Hope this helps.