lefulefu:
only when u marry an ex ashawo such will happen
truth of the matter is a woman who did runz in the past will still go back to such practice when things are not so rosy
but then some men insist that they can change a woman and when they marry such ladies who had such a past and she continues prostituting they now assume all women are ashawo

FreeSpirited:


Na people like you dey stab woman or commit suicide for finding out she's cheating..cos you build so much expectations on the sexual morality of a woman you think is unicorn. I just shake head...e go shock you...the wey e dey shock pastor wey catch hin wife for bed with his church member.

rs172:





Will they tell you, if they did

FreeSpirited:


Have you found the root cause of ya own problem despite being a saint that u are...Abi u no geh problem.

FreeSpirited:


Have you found the root cause of ya own problem despite being a saint that u are...Abi u no geh problem.

FreeSpirited:
Nobody plans to be broke, sometimes life and circumstances unplanned just happen.
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But for married men, the experience is not an easy one to manage as regard to being the breadwinner of the family and gaining the trust and respect of your wife.
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Women generally respond better to a financially bouyant and responsible husband. When you struggle to meet up with family expenses, it's a matter of time before your wife reacts and start giving attitude. Some women are understanding and will help out, but a financially tight men easily stress an hardworking woman which can be overwhelming for her.
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When the money is not coming from the main source, she may develop distrust, anger and depression, which in turn affects sex life and energy level at home. Little issue quickly leads to quarell and malice to the point that the wife might feel underappreciated or unloved.

Over time, the persistence of such situation will make her more vulnerable to advances from guys out there who are doing well and promising her some fun and passion she's lacking at home. This is reality. And even virtuous women do fall at this point just to find happiness away from home stress.
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I've seen this countless time even as a bachelor and it makes me get scared of my future marriage.
Talking from experience I've dated married women who happen to be in this situation, many of them feel bad, but they need that spark and passion from their man, which they eventually get outside.
I'm keeping an open mind, even when I'll marry, I believe such thing can happen. Men should make money to cater for the family, otherwise have in mind your faithful wife may start fucking around when money is not there. It even get easier with social media where they get tonnes of attention from Hot men everyday. Even wives of rich husband do fall, let alone the one of broke men.
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As I write, a very homely, beautiful, gentle and innocent looking housewife is having same issue that I'm now her emotional support. It's only time before we start fvcking cos we are already building sexual tension and preparing to meet. That's just life, there's nothing can be done about reality. Though it's sad.

Lordswazz:

You have a point though. Never in the history of humanity has there been a medium such as social media to put anyone in the center of their world. Anyone can upload anything, and, depending on the level of exposure the post gets, will receive so much attention that was never obtainable before regardless of their marital status. Attention, like a drug, is addictive. It releases that dopamine that makes you feel special and wanted.

In the past, exes were more of a male thing because majority of females didn't do this dating game much. Even if they did, this much sex unmarried girls have today wasn't part of it. It was mostly brief dating, marriage, and then sex.

Back then, virginity in unmarried 20yr olds was common; now, it is rare. Everyone's ex is just a WhatsApp chat/Instagram/Twitter DM away, so faithfulness is far harder now.

It's also easier for women now than ever before. Back then, an unhappy married woman (whether due to lack of attention or financial lack in the home) had to bottle it up or weep silently. Now, she can upload a raunchy picture online and get male attention almost at an instant. So, you definitely have a point. However, like everything, there are exceptions.

sylve11:
Women don suffer for men hands....

Kccheechy:
I'm not a saint o, but I'm not so stupid to sacrifice my destiny on the altar of pleasure. Everyone has got problems but I'm so sure my problems are not the ones Whose solution will require fasting/prayers and deliverance or spiritual cleansing from when I get into destiny wrecking things like sleeping with another man's wife.. Luckily for me the answers to my problems are not far fetched.

okoroemeka:
I don't know why the excessive obsession about pussy, will you lock your wife pussy because she married you or do you think a beautiful flower is for one insects,

Kccheechy:
This opinion of yours is not only preposterous, it is the wackest and dumbest opinion I have heard concerning married people who cheat. It also Shows that you are just trying to justify your sleeping with another man's wife. Most times, we are the architect of our downfall. You are taking pride in sleeping with another man's wife not knowing you are creating an avalanche of problems that you may not come out from. Problems that your children will partake in if caution is not taken. If the husband of the woman you are bedding finds out and decides to punish you by killing you or rendering you useless through diabolical means now people who will see you then will start to pity you, not knowing the reason behind the fate that befell you.

Oladeji245:
nonsense and stupid post from an idiot without morals

FreeSpirited:

You are mad talking about morality when I'm giving you fact. Olodo

Oladeji245:

na ur stupvid mother bleeping around dey mad

ogbeni loo waa bikuu sii daanu joo
werey

FreeSpirited:

Ti moba gbe e sepe, ooni sorire laiye tio wa.omo ale olodo jatijati. iya e oloorun asewo lo n ba wi...Apa oshi. If you can't comprehend simple English...why not get lost and die

lefulefu:
its like u dont know many pastors marry ex runz women.these women will claim to have accepted christ and being born again but many of them still have lovers even wen married.no be only d woman wey stand for road dey wait for customer be ashawo...there are corporate ashawos these days so know the type of woman u with.if the woman u dey with believes that its the duty of the man to be giving her money while she spends then probability dey say such a woman might be a runz woman.wen u no get money again she will go outside to spread leg and collect money from other men.no be every woman get the stomach to do such.u think its easy lying on ur back and different men with different body odour be mounting u and spilling their sperm inside u .na woman wey sabi such racket dey do am.dats why they always say an ashawo can never be retired but tired .its only wen ur wife was in the street in the past she will go back to it when u broke.others will prefer to manage or set up a biz.

FreeSpirited:


You guys don't read and understand...you are talking about ya mom of analog generation...I'm talking about this digital age of social media...where your wives can meet people on Facebook, Instagram, Tinder, Twitter, whatsap group even without living her house. Dey there ...Is that not what ladies do nowadays.... consuming social media from morning till night. One was even video calling at midnight while children are asleep, and hobby in another room..so what are u talking abt. it's not about being judgement...... I'm only stating the obvious reality but Nigerians are so foolish with their lack of critical thinking

Pharaoh4rin:


You're blaming this generation of ladies, meanwhile as an acclaimed & informed mudaphuka, u cannot control ur fragile feeling thereby phucking a married woman at ds yong age! If a wife of a broke-ass husband gives u a greenlight, why don't you support her with a token of cash or advice? U can change something in her no matter how little.

Pharaoh4rin:


You're blaming this generation of ladies, meanwhile as an acclaimed & informed mudaphuka, u cannot control ur fragile feeling thereby phucking a married woman at ds yong age! If a wife of a broke-ass husband gives u a greenlight, why don't you support her with a token of cash or advice? U can change something in her no matter how little.

FreeSpirited:

FreeSpirited:


That you don't sleep with a married woman doesn't mean someone won't sleep with yours in future. Life is not 1+1...it's not straight forward. Now, can u say it's cos ladies generally date older men including married men, that that is why younger gals do sleep with their husband? Don't we see a woman who was a virgin when she married yet, younger slay queen are sleeping with her husband? Oga go and sleep with ya nursery schl logic

Nackzy:
Not all faithful wives will, dose it mean your mum can Bleep other men if your dad is broke,,not vex ooo naa jst follow up question

Ladikwa:

What you sow you must reap, it will end in tears.

FreeSpirited:


This is the most sensible comment to this post. It's really hard for Nigerians to think critically cos of their dumbness, as I was surprised most people who commented couldn't make reasonable argument apart from yapping about destiny and adultery.

FreeSpirited:


Grow up

MiddleDimension:


this is the biggest lie that has been peddled for years!
even if the man is well behaved, ones he is broke, he ceases being attractive to women and
if they are already married, then she begins to regret being with him. this has got nothing to do with
a man him exhibiting behaviours that are bad. the mere fact things are not working for him is enough
to make the lady disrespect and regret ever being with him. it is very much like when a woman loses
her beauty, and the man is doing very well, then it becomes difficult for him to stay with her. him not
being faithful to her has got nothing to do with what she did or did not do wrong, it is just the issue with the psychology
of men. in the same way, when a man is not doing well, he loses every bit of attraction to the wife. it has got nothing to do with what he is doing well or not doing well. it is just a thing with the psychology of the woman.
people who deny this are only willing to say that women do not have their own version of innate behaviour.

so you can see that the forces of sexual selection as explained by Charles Darwin is so great, not even your all powerful god can break it through the church wedding you do.

only men and women of great character can rise above the natural forces that shaped us.

FreeSpirited:


I will try..but sometimes hey

I will try..but sometimes they want fun too