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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Nairaboi(m): 8:43pm On Jul 16, 2020
Karlifate:
When a man is prudent, they call him stingy just to collect his money & mock him later.
"What have you done, that no one has done before?!"
Some men/guys will be familiar with this question.
I can relate vividly with the comment of yours about "what have you done". Imagine paying an Ex girlfriend's room, giving her monthly stipends and even feeding her daily ( she was in my house for 3 months before I got her a place), not forgetting the numerous plates of Nkwobi, and daily two bottles of Origin daily because I hang out on a daily basis. She even broke my 32 inches Samsung LED during her stay in my place.
When Gbege set first question was "what have you done for me"?
I weak Sha, but I laughed out loud and went out for some booze. Las Las, the Same ungrateful, insolent, and myopic lady has been trying to reach me on all "area codes" for the past 4 years appealing that she don't know what came over her, and that she she is "new and good person" and we should get back together.
Me, I just dey laff because all feelings have been lost.
N.B: During the said period my two siblings were on monthly pay, plus my mumsy virtually got anything she asked from me and I could provide.
WOMEN!!! Fear dem

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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by n1ky(f): 8:45pm On Jul 16, 2020
As a woman does not deserve a money from a guy...... Yes very true....then a woman should not turn herself to housemaid by dating a guy just by cooking for him, washing his clothes.... you are not his house maid dear.

Ladies work for your money and dont look up to them for money when you can work for your money and please don't turn to housemaid for a man jor

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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jul 16, 2020
It's funny how some men boys hide their stingy nature under the guise that they don't want to waste their money on a good for nothing girl.

Let their fellow guy visit them now or stay for a week in their house, body go dey scratch them.

Funny people, always making up excuses for their lower self-nature.

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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jul 16, 2020
Liposure:
the way you talk sometimes. One would think you are a self centred independent feminist
Shuu nah phrase long like this? Lol... That means you have not been following my posts well enough.

As for Marriage, I'm not against but it's not a do or die thing either.
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by n1ky(f): 8:51pm On Jul 16, 2020
MrBrownJay1:
just like ladies can date who they desire, men also should stay away from goldigging good for nothing women.

there is nothing wrong with a stingy man, and people should stop trying to make them look like there is something wrong with them. if a man earns money, he has all the right to decide how to spend his money. NOBODY (especially broke women) has any right to demand that he spends HIS money the way some deluded stranger deems fit.

as the proud chairman of the NL "money dont grow on trees" club, i can assure you, if a woman has the audacity to call anybody stingy, then simply reply to her:" biitch, since you think that money grows on trees, then why dont you spend YOUR money... and shut your dirty mouth, instead of thinking that MY money is "your" money"

the best way for a man to be broke is by wasting his money trying to impress good for nothing women that havent worked a day in their lives and dont know the VALUE of money.





As a woman does not deserve a money from a guy...... Yes
very true....then a woman should not turn herself to
housemaid by dating a guy just by cooking for him, washing
his clothes.... you are not his house maid dear.
Ladies work for your money and dont look up to them for
money when you can work for your money and please don't
turn to housemaid for a man jor

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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by trutht828: 8:52pm On Jul 16, 2020
uboma:



You are right on B).

However I feel that a stingy man is a no no.

What is bad is when the lady has the entitlement mentality and feels that the man must spend on her no matter what.


A man cannot be in a relationship and not spend money on calling her, taking her out occasionally for dinner or drinks, buy a small gift e.t.c

However a woman should not tell the man how to spend his money. She should not depend on him like he caused her birth. Women with the entitlement mentality are not my friends.

Any hanty that said the guy is stingy for not buying gifts should also be asked whether she had ever bought him any gift before.
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Benwallt(m): 8:52pm On Jul 16, 2020
Guys avoid stingy girls. Let's avoid ourselves.

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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Karlifate: 8:54pm On Jul 16, 2020
Nairaboi:

I can relate vividly with the comment of yours about "what have you done". Imagine paying an Ex girlfriend's room, giving her monthly stipends and even feeding her daily ( she was in my house for 3 months before I got her a place), not forgetting the numerous plates of Nkwobi, and daily two bottles of Origin daily because I hang out on a daily basis. She even broke my 32 inches Samsung LED during her stay in my place.
When Gbege set first question was "what have you done for me"?
I weak Sha, but I laughed out loud and went out for some booze. Las Las, the Sam ungrateful, insolent, and myopic lady has been trying to reach me on all "area codes" for the past 4 years appealing that she don't know what came over her, and that she she is "new and good person" and we should get back together.
Me, I just dey laff because all feelings have been lost.
N.B: During the said period my two siblings were on monthly pay, plus my mumsy virtually got anything she asked from me and I could provide.
WOMEN!!! Fear dem

Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by prettyGabby(f): 8:55pm On Jul 16, 2020
I don't need a guy's money, that's why i always tell women to work for themselves and don't depend on men for money

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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Keji1012(m): 8:55pm On Jul 16, 2020
*Some women are not sensitive enough to know when something is going wrong in the life of their men until they stop getting money from him like they used to. Those women intuition are controlled by money. These set of women are the most dangerous women to live with. This is why most men died silently without their women knowing the true cause of their death. Presently some husbands are depressed and some live with HBP and their wives aren't aware because they are still bringing money home. Some of these men have dipped their hands into terrible things that are killing them silently just to please their wives. Hmmmm!*

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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by dangoteinlaw: 8:56pm On Jul 16, 2020
My mom was naturally very very stingy and I inherited that from her. Believe me if ut were this generation she wouldn’t have met a nice free giving man like my dad. Ladies have really suffered in my hands lol. To start with I don’t even talk to girls with cheap tecno and infinix phones. Once i flash ur no and u bring out less than Samsung or iphone that’s the end.

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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Liposure: 9:00pm On Jul 16, 2020
I rather give like the poor widow in the bible than give like a pharisee. Its not my duty to give to any girl.
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Toks2008(m): 9:05pm On Jul 16, 2020
Openbusiness4:
dunt cum nia my moni, i wee skrrrraaapapassssscrrrratchhhhh yuuu ಠ_ಠ
[img]https://media1./images/d6b0701c44672702133d1b8cc26c0daa/tenor.gif?itemid=4987644[/img]

Craze guy... Oh my
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Nobody: 9:07pm On Jul 16, 2020
Iceyjays:
Broke girls like petyprincess and that one that have filtered her life Filterlander(queenslander)

Yehpaa u know dem finish
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Liposure: 9:10pm On Jul 16, 2020
Ariza:
Shuu nah phrase long like this? Lol... That means you have not been following my posts well enough.

As for Marriage, I'm not against but it's not a do or die thing either.
maybe i misjudged you. One luv
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by trutht828: 9:15pm On Jul 16, 2020
n1ky:
As a woman does not deserve a money from a guy...... Yes very true....then a woman should not turn herself to housemaid by dating a guy just by cooking for him, washing his clothes.... you are not his house maid dear.

Ladies work for your money and dont look up to them for money when you can work for your money and please don't turn to housemaid for a man jor

Yeah. Let everybody stay on their lane. If you can't give, then don't expect to get.

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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Toks2008(m): 9:16pm On Jul 16, 2020
uboma:



You are right on B).

However I feel that a stingy man is a no no.

What is bad is when the lady has the entitlement mentality and feels that the man must spend on her no matter what.


A man cannot be in a relationship and not spend money on calling her, taking her out occasionally for dinner or drinks, buy a small gift e.t.c

However a woman should not tell the man how to spend his money. She should not depend on him like he caused her birth. Women with the entitlement mentality are not my friends.

You just paraphrased my thread. Thanks for this.

Most of the olodo guys making comments only read the title and started yelping like a wounded banchee.
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jul 16, 2020
Ishilove:

You made too much sense. grin

To all my extremely stingy boyfriends: JasonJidenna, Izzou, J111333, Joseph1832, Truth234, this is a wake up call for all of you to sit up. angry
Na your stinginess? Biko allow me to stingy in peace.

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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Nobody: 9:22pm On Jul 16, 2020
pocohantas:


What of J111333? grin
Baiibe, have I not promised you a Dubai Cotonou vacation? grin
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Openbusiness4: 9:26pm On Jul 16, 2020
Alexaonfleek:
Like you would even accept it if I give u money
wen i sight your name "onfleek", cum sight ur keyboard "irresistible charm", me have know already dat u be OBO grin buuutttttt, no tink am oh, a man like me, ah would rather work 10 days a week an 40 days a month to earn peanuts dan to kiss yo royal princess ass for big mulla. I can only fall for u if...... lipsrsealed
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by blesoh(f): 9:34pm On Jul 16, 2020
Nairaland guys, your food is ready
Let me get my popcorn and watch this match cheesy

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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by pocohantas(f): 9:37pm On Jul 16, 2020
J111333:
Baiibe, have I not promised you a Dubai Cotonou vacation? grin

You really need to do better in this Q3. Stingy man!!! undecided
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by DimIsaac10(m): 9:38pm On Jul 16, 2020
So you want father Christmas
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Prodigee: 9:39pm On Jul 16, 2020
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n1ky:
As a woman does not deserve a money from a guy...... Yes very true....then a woman should not turn herself to housemaid by dating a guy just by cooking for him, washing his clothes.... you are not his house maid dear.

Ladies work for your money and dont look up to them for money when you can work for your money and please don't turn to housemaid for a man jor
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Nooil:
It's funny how some men hide their stingy nature under the guise that they don't want to waste their money on a good for nothing girl.

Let their fellow guy visit them now or stay for a week in their house, body go dey scratch them.

Funny people, always making up excuses for their lower self-nature.
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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by joseph1832(m): 9:42pm On Jul 16, 2020
Ishilove:

angry
Why so serious. grin cheesy
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Alexaonfleek: 9:44pm On Jul 16, 2020
Toks2008:


You just paraphrased my thread. Thanks for this.

Most of the olodo guys making comments only read the title and started yelping like a wounded banchee.
Nice thread op.
Stingy guys are very annoying to date,and most of the guys bashing you will not even want their sisters to date a stingy guy.
You can imagine visiting your bf and he can't even out of politeness offer you water to drink.
Or you get him a gift for Christmas and the only thing he does for you on your birthday is to send WhatsApp message.
Speaking from experience....

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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Alexaonfleek: 9:50pm On Jul 16, 2020
Openbusiness4:
wen i sight your name "onfleek", cum sight ur keyboard "irresistible charm", me have know already dat u be OBO grin buuutttttt, no tink am oh, a man like me, ah would rather work 10 days a week an 40 days a month to earn peanuts dan to kiss yo royal princess ass for big mulla. I can only fall for u if...... lipsrsealed
LMAO!!!!
OBO kwa grin

You see...
A good number of guys(not all) won't like to accept money from a girl....maybe just the occasional gift.
And yet,most guys go about calling girls stingy.
The question really shouldn't be 'Ladies,what do you have to offer your man'
The question should be 'Men,what do you really want from your girl'

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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Nobody: 9:51pm On Jul 16, 2020
pocohantas:


You really need to do better in this Q3. Stingy man!!! undecided
Ishilove can you see what you've caused?
Walahi, no heaven for you on the last day. cry

Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Kingzjayzee: 9:54pm On Jul 16, 2020
MrBrownJay1:
just like ladies can date who they desire, men also should stay away from goldigging good for nothing women.

there is nothing wrong with a stingy man, and people should stop trying to make them look like there is something wrong with them. if a man earns money, he has all the right to decide how to spend his money. NOBODY (especially broke women) has any right to demand that he spends HIS money the way some deluded stranger deems fit.

as the proud chairman of the NL "money dont grow on trees" club, i can assure you, if a woman has the audacity to call anybody stingy, then simply reply to her:" biitch, since you think that money grows on trees, then why dont you spend YOUR money... and shut your dirty mouth, instead of thinking that MY money is "your" money"

the best way for a man to be broke is by wasting his money trying to impress good for nothing women that havent worked a day in their lives and dont know the VALUE of money.
u get point
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Nobody: 9:55pm On Jul 16, 2020
Liposure:
maybe i misjudged you. One luv
Probably... Lol it's okay.
Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Ishilove: 9:56pm On Jul 16, 2020
pocohantas:


What of J111333? grin
That one carry PHD honours for stinginess and iberibeism. angry

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Re: Dear Ladies, Please Avoid Stingy Guys. by Ishilove: 9:57pm On Jul 16, 2020
Twoclans:



Hold him tight dear ,you can drop all the others like hot potatoes cheesy grin
My darling, I got me a gold of a man. wink

I like this your meme o cheesy

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