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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Clothingonline9(m): 9:33pm On Jul 18, 2020
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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by ibkonekt(m): 9:33pm On Jul 18, 2020
Ariza:
On Nairaland....

Toks: Dear Guys, avoid ladies with entitlement mentality

Guys: "You made sense" avoid them! " If only they will listen" "Nigerians girls have entitlement issues" "I can't date an entitled girl" "I dump her once I see the sign" .......

Off Nairaland..

Guy: Hi babe.
Girl: No answer
Guy: babe what have I done wrong? What's up
Girl: Aren't you suppose to sub for me?
Guy: Oh babe ,! I'm sorry, I've forgotten your sub will end soon. Lemme do that now
Girl: Do it quick
Guy: Done, seen it... I'm so sorry.
Girl: I've seen it, Thanks
Guy: Now that you are happy, when will I see you?
Girl:


Upon your rants here, that's the reality of many Nigerian guys... grin
Life of a Simp.....most guys have simp mentality

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Toks2008(m): 9:33pm On Jul 18, 2020
ibkonekt:

hmmmm so now you decide to write about it from the man's point of view....lets see how many women will jump in and comment this time.

I actually wrote this first.
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by abbatoir(m): 9:35pm On Jul 18, 2020
iyke926:

We are focused on the pvssy because men are genetically programmed to fvck the pvssy in all directions. I mean to fvck it laterally, perpendicularly, vertically, horizontally

Nigga
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Nobody: 9:35pm On Jul 18, 2020
ibkonekt:

Life of a Simp.....most guys have simp mentality
Yeah right All guys are Alpha on Nl. grin

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by ibkonekt(m): 9:35pm On Jul 18, 2020
Toks2008:


I actually wrote this first.
okay....respect on that
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Nobody: 9:37pm On Jul 18, 2020
Goalnaldo:
lol bad girl grin I like your vibes. I'm not a hypocrite so should I shoot my shot? smiley
Lol I hope your shot no go catch WHALE grin
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by SeriouslySense(m): 9:39pm On Jul 18, 2020
jajaja
geez18:
word! if only they'll listen.
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by od501: 9:39pm On Jul 18, 2020
IbrahimSkiba:
angry



Repeated Topics all the fucking damn time.

All in the bid to stay relevant on Nairaland.

This blog keeps promoting hate againts women.

There's no day that will past, that they won't push one topic that promotes hate against a woman to the front page.


Anything to make them mock and laugh the female gender.

BUNCH OF USELESS SHAMELESS TASTELESS BROKE SETS OF BASTARDS.

IM DONE WITH THIS BLOG.

afterall we ain't getting paid for reading news and posting comments here.


Haba hanti lol.... Why u come carry the matter for head like this nh... I get your point though, But at the same time it is still very true. This is a norm mothers has passed over newer generation, and it is not right.
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Goalnaldo(m): 9:43pm On Jul 18, 2020
ibkonekt:

https://mobile.twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1232037526065602565
I mean the other one he said something about courtesy.
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by HeavenlyCherub(f): 9:43pm On Jul 18, 2020
Toks2008:
Whilst it is very sacrosanct for a guy to avoid stinginess towards a lady he deeply desires, I strongly believe that It is perfectly normal for any lady to want to be with a guy who can provide but not for her needs but for his family and until she becomes part of his family she has no right whatsoever to make demands except what the guy chooses to give to her.

Many ladies are quick to say... "I can't be with a man who can not take care of me, I can't suffer from any man''... and I tend to ponder over this statement...'' does it mean their ability to make wealth is dependent on a man or are they destined to suffer without a man fending for them?''...

In My opinion, the entitlement mentality is an easy bondage every woman must avoid at all costs. It breeds redundancy and loss of self-worth... It makes them look like leech only in search of a host to feed on. .. gives them a deluded self-belief and inflated sense of importance and in most cases makes them easy prey for sexual predators and men with Satanic motives.

I want ladies reading this to understand this homemade truth... YOU don't need any "well to do" man in your life before you can survive or make wealth regardless of your background, ... It is a silly mindset. You can make insane wealth all by yourself and this should be the paramount focus so that meeting a man ''who can take care of you'' will only be a plus and not a hustle...

Hope this makes sense.

This is what I have said a million times. But the fact you desire a successful man is a problem to a lot of broke men. What’s the problem, I’m successful I can do it on my own. Why is it a problem for me to desire a successful man. Automatically you are labeled a leech and a gold digger by the men on Nairaland

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by ibkonekt(m): 9:43pm On Jul 18, 2020
Ariza:
Yeah right All guys are Alpha on Nl. grin
i agree...not to derail you but all women form financially independent feminist too online.....so i guess we are all hypocrites

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by HeavenlyCherub(f): 9:45pm On Jul 18, 2020
Toks2008:


A lady must first strive to achieve financial independence before any other thing and not make searching for a man to take care of her the priority...That is the point.

And note that a lady having that innate desire to be with a man that can take care of her is way different from a lady with an entitlement mentality...the former will not make demands but will support the man to reach his goals whilst the latter will outrightly make demands cos she strongly believes she is entitled.

I will say it again. You are very one of the only few men on earth that think like you do.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Goalnaldo(m): 9:46pm On Jul 18, 2020
Ariza:
Lol I hope your shot no go catch WHALE grin
why you said that or you are entangled? smiley
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by ibkonekt(m): 9:47pm On Jul 18, 2020
Goalnaldo:
I mean the other one he said something about courtesy.

https://twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1017046198526459905

Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jul 18, 2020
ibkonekt:

i agree...not to derail you but all women form financially independent feminist too online.....so i guess we are all hypocrites
This would have been a fair point but I don't see women claim what they are not as guys do here. So...? It's still kind of unbalanced... Lol
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Goalnaldo(m): 9:48pm On Jul 18, 2020
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by ibkonekt(m): 9:51pm On Jul 18, 2020
Ariza:
This would have been a fair point but I don't see women claim what they are not as guys do here. So...? It's still kind of unbalanced... Lol
the % of women that do this is 95%, its usually hard to see a solution if you are part of the problem. women are far worse in this falsehood. it is female nature to be dependent on men and they always exercise it

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by davien(m): 9:51pm On Jul 18, 2020
Treat her like a celebrity and she'll treat you like a fan.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by ibkonekt(m): 9:52pm On Jul 18, 2020
Goalnaldo:
you too much. May you marry a good woman.
your head correct bros, them oil am for you wella
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Nobody: 9:52pm On Jul 18, 2020
ibkonekt:

the % of women that do this is 95%, its usually hard to see a solution if you are part of the problem
Enough said......Let's get this topic done. wink
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by ibkonekt(m): 9:53pm On Jul 18, 2020
davien:
Treat her like a celebrity and she'll treat you like a fan.
redpill nuggets....daily dose

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Toks2008(m): 9:53pm On Jul 18, 2020
HeavenlyCherub:


This is what I have said a million times. But the fact you desire a successful man is a problem to a lot of broke men. What’s the problem, I’m successful I can do it on my own. Why is it a problem for me to desire a successful man. Automatically you are labeled a leech and a gold digger by the men on Nairaland

LOL... Many nairaland males are boys still been fed by their parents. Only very few are men.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by ibkonekt(m): 9:55pm On Jul 18, 2020
Ariza:
Enough said......Let's get this topic done. wink
agreed
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by ibkonekt(m): 10:01pm On Jul 18, 2020
HeavenlyCherub:


This is what I have said a million times. But the fact you desire a successful man is a problem to a lot of broke men. What’s the problem, I’m successful I can do it on my own. Why is it a problem for me to desire a successful man. Automatically you are labeled a leech and a gold digger by the men on Nairaland

there is no problem here, this is female nature. this is hypergamy, women only date up. men know that women are attracted to 6feettall, 6 figure income, 6 inch manhood (mark of the beast). the point is a woman always desires a man that is above her financially, intellectually and in all ways. this is normal and healthy and is good.

the problem is this demand comes with responsibilities because nothing in life is free. if you want a high value man then he also has his demands that you must meet. so men dont really care about a womans wealth. we care about her sexual history, her beauty, her youth, her child bearing ability...these are the innate things that men desire first and foremost.

so to be fair the balance would be you can demand the highest value man as a woman if you are in your highest peak fertility as a woman. successful tall rich intelligent man and young pretty virgin loyal woman

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by HeavenlyCherub(f): 10:08pm On Jul 18, 2020
Toks2008:


LOL... Many nairaland males are boys still been fed by their parents. Only very few are men.


I tell you.

When a lot of these men think of success they think ceo, dangote, managers. One can be successful if they manage well the salary they receive from a regular job and investing it. The problem is a lot of people these days rush to buy car before establishing the wealth. Manage what you have to the best of your ability and you will be comfortable/successful.

God made no mistake when he said be equally yoked. This should apply in every sense of the word. Faith, Drive, Goals, Mutual respect, Attraction. That way you have a PARTNER! Not a leech, lazy person and disrespectful companion.

I enjoy reading your work Toks. Thank you for also not being biased because you cover both perspectives.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by WHITELIGHTER: 10:15pm On Jul 18, 2020
These days they all have such mentality...and it annoys me

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Hollasmall: 10:20pm On Jul 18, 2020
sylve11:
All right o.cool
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by ibkonekt(m): 10:20pm On Jul 18, 2020
WHITELIGHTER:
These days they all have such mentality...and it annoys me
yeah most of them are like that, yet they are the ones that come online to shout financial freedom i dont need a man. #broke-girls-geng

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Alexaonfleek: 10:21pm On Jul 18, 2020
ednut1:
They are worse than infidels. Avoid them
Lie

The Bible clearly states that a man who cannot provide for his family is the one who is worse than an infidel,not a lady who desires a man to take care of her.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Liposure: 10:22pm On Jul 18, 2020
Ariza:
Lol I hope your shot no go catch WHALE grin
let me shoot my shot. am a sniper

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