Alexaonfleek:
Lie

The Bible clearly states that a man who cannot provide for his family is the one who is worse than an infidel,not a lady who desires a man to take care of her.

Ariza:
On Nairaland....

[s]Toks: Dear Guys, avoid ladies with entitlement mentality

Guys: "You made sense" avoid them! " If only they will listen" "Nigerians girls have entitlement issues" "I can't date an entitled girl" "I dump her once I see the sign" .......

Off Nairaland..

Guy: Hi babe.
Girl: No answer
Guy: babe what have I done wrong? What's up
Girl: Aren't you suppose to sub for me?
Guy: Oh babe ,! I'm sorry, I've forgotten your sub will end soon. Lemme do that now
Girl: Do it quick
Guy: Done, seen it... I'm so sorry.
Girl: I've seen it, Thanks
Guy: Now that you are happy, when will I see you?
Girl:


Upon your rants here, that's the reality of many Nigerian guys[/s]...

Alexaonfleek:
Lie

The Bible clearly states that a man who cannot provide for his family is the one who is worse than an infidel,not a lady who desires a man to take care of her.

ednut1:
bible was written in ancient times. Women did not use to work then. Primarily house wives. Bible belongs to the past not present

ibkonekt:


https://twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1017046198526459905

ibkonekt:

true....see what the bible says about a man taking a bride.......And he shall take a wife in her virginity. A widow, or a divorced woman, or a woman who has been defiled, or a prostitute, these he shall not marry. But he shall take as his wife a virgin of his own people.

so if you are not a virgin, then you should not be a wife in the first place.

HeavenlyCherub:



I tell you.

When a lot of these men think of success they think ceo, dangote, managers. One can be successful if they manage well the salary they receive from a regular job and investing it. The problem is a lot of people these days rush to buy car before establishing the wealth. Manage what you have to the best of your ability and you will be comfortable/successful.

God made no mistake when he said be equally yoked. This should apply in every sense of the word. Faith, Drive, Goals, Mutual respect, Attraction. That way you have a PARTNER! Not a leech, lazy person and disrespectful companion.

I enjoy reading your work Toks. Thank you for also not being biased because you cover both perspectives.

blinkz4real:
All of you re agreeing to this because you re all poor or if you re not poor then you have a poor mindset jst priviledge to have it. if you can't pay her bills pls free this girls for other guys to date and don't go about complaining about girls just go and hustle more or better still find your spec.

I wonder the type of men society is raising up this days just shying away from taking care of the women they claim 2 love in d name of its just a relationship.

Pls stop all this bashing of women its poverty that is disturbing you but you don't want 2 accept it. Women re suppose 2 be well treated and pampered because the re not wired to suffer. Have you checked out how the were first created? From a mans Rib(what does that mean 2 you?)


If you can shadow her responsibility pls do but if its beyond you go and work harder so that you won't be complaining she has entitlement mentality. You can call me a simp but real men handle their woman's needs.

lastclaire4:


The truth is I am a fan of Reno but please dont listen to him when it comes to love. People from Reno's place dont have respect for their women and their men are typically lazy. It is the woman that works for the men. If you doubt me go delta and see. Go to places like Warri, sapele and see how these women suffer.

rockstarB:
I think it has become more of a cultural thing than the real entitlement itself. Upbringing, society and culture adds to this as well.

Alexaonfleek:
Lie

The Bible clearly states that a man who cannot provide for his family is the one who is worse than an infidel,not a lady who desires a man to take care of her.

Ariza:
Yeah right All guys are Alpha on Nl.

blinkz4real:
All of you re agreeing to this because you re all poor or if you re not poor then you have a poor mindset jst priviledge to have it. if you can't pay her bills pls free this girls for other guys to date and don't go about complaining about girls just go and hustle more or better still find your spec.

I wonder the type of men society is raising up this days just shying away from taking care of the women they claim 2 love in d name of its just a relationship.

Pls stop all this bashing of women its poverty that is disturbing you but you don't want 2 accept it. Women re suppose 2 be well treated and pampered because the re not wired to suffer. Have you checked out how the were first created? From a mans Rib(what does that mean 2 you?)


If you can shadow her responsibility pls do but if its beyond you go and work harder so that you won't be complaining she has entitlement mentality. You can call me a simp but real men handle their woman's needs.

HeavenlyCherub:


This is what I have said a million times. But the fact you desire a successful man is a problem to a lot of broke men. What’s the problem, I’m successful I can do it on my own. Why is it a problem for me to desire a successful man. Automatically you are labeled a leech and a gold digger by the men on Nairaland

Toks2008:
Whilst it is very sacrosanct for a guy to avoid stinginess towards a lady he deeply desires, I strongly believe that It is perfectly normal for any lady to want to be with a guy who can provide but not for her needs but for his family and until she becomes part of his family she has no right whatsoever to make demands except what the guy chooses to give to her.

Many ladies are quick to say... "I can't be with a man who can not take care of me, I can't suffer from any man''... and I tend to ponder over this statement...'' does it mean their ability to make wealth is dependent on a man or are they destined to suffer without a man fending for them?''...

In My opinion, the entitlement mentality is an easy bondage every woman must avoid at all costs. It breeds redundancy and loss of self-worth... It makes them look like leech only in search of a host to feed on. .. gives them a deluded self-belief and inflated sense of importance and in most cases makes them easy prey for sexual predators and men with Satanic motives.

I want ladies reading this to understand this homemade truth... YOU don't need any "well to do" man in your life before you can survive or make wealth regardless of your background, ... It is a silly mindset. You can make insane wealth all by yourself and this should be the paramount focus so that meeting a man ''who can take care of you'' will only be a plus and not a hustle...

Hope this makes sense.

SweetCunt97:
Do not offend me! That one is valid naw, abi I come make one guy dey offend me anyhow?


Men should drop this their entitlement to pvssy too. I know una argument go be say na the woman enjoy pass but then must you all be focused on the coochie?

You'll hear stupid talk about sex showing love.. Bullshiit

bolaayenimo:
All ladies have entitlement mentality

jaycerichh:
FAMILY, that's the keyword, not after wasting my seeds(sperm) and still give you money upadan, it's not done, that's why the Bible said family not a Girl, let that sink, I can see you're all over this thread with your emotions triggered, only God knows why.

NockMedia:
Well written. I can't fault ladies for preferring to settle down with a wealthy man or a man with the potential to be successful in life.

Now, ladies are innately wired to seek out mates with the ability to provide for 'her' and 'her' future offsprings. It is a natural phenomenon and every lady is guilty of this. No matter how hard some ladies try to deny this fact or sugar coat it.

The fact still remains this - Women want to be taken care of financially, materially e.t.c.

As a young man, it would be quite smart on your part to choose the best lady out of the lot when you decide to settle down without lowering your standards. Go for the best. Never settle for less. Humans are innately self-centered, regardless of the sex. Every Human.

Alexaonfleek:
Lol
Read up my posts on this thread,did I disagree with the op?
I only disagreed with what mr ednut said about the infidel stuff.
And I still insist on the fact that there's nothing wrong with a lady who desires a man that can care for her.
Na from relationship the caring go start.

Alexaonfleek:
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LMAO!!!!
You didn't even read the whole chapter to know it was only PRIESTS the Bible was referring to!When you're ready to open your mushroom church,come and tell me so that I will find virgin wife for you.
A virgin that has never kissed or hugged any guy in her entire life

bolaayenimo:
All ladies have entitlement mentality

ibkonekt:


hahahaha....if a woman is not a virgin she is not fit to be a wife....she should just settle for being a mistress.
if she really wants to marry then she should confess to her spouse and let him cover her shame of wh0redom

Exodus 22:16-17
“If a man seduces a virgin who is not betrothed and lies with her, he shall give the bride-price for her and make her his wife. If her father utterly refuses to give her to him, he shall pay money equal to the bride-price for virgins.

Deuteronomy 22:13-21
“If any man takes a wife and goes in to her and then hates her and accuses her of misconduct and brings a bad name upon her, saying, ‘I took this woman, and when I came near her, I did not find in her evidence of virginity,’ then the father of the young woman and her mother shall take and bring out the evidence of her virginity to the elders of the city in the gate. And the father of the young woman shall say to the elders, ‘I gave my daughter to this man to marry, and he hates her; and behold, he has accused her of misconduct, saying, “I did not find in your daughter evidence of virginity.” And yet this is the evidence of my daughter's virginity.’ And they shall spread the cloak before the elders of the city. .

Deuteronomy 22:20-21
But if the thing is true, that evidence of virginity was not found in the young woman, then they shall bring out the young woman to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she has done an outrageous thing in Israel by whoring in her father's house. So you shall purge the evil from your midst.

Esther 2:2
Then the king's young men who attended him said, “Let beautiful young virgins be sought out for the king.

Leviticus 21:14
A widow, or a divorced woman, or a woman who has been defiled, or a prostitute, these he shall not marry. But he shall take as his wife a virgin of his own people

Ezekiel 44:22
They shall not marry a widow or a divorced woman, but only virgins of the offspring of the house of Israel, or a widow who is the widow of a priest.

Leviticus 21:13
And he shall take a wife in her virginity.

Exodus 22:16
“If a man seduces a virgin who is not betrothed and lies with her, he shall give the bride-price for her and make her his wife.

Lilymatty:
What is wrong with this poster sef, so u mean if we get a financially buoyant man, we shouldn't go for it because it's selfish of us? . Haven't ladies suffered enough from the hands of men! No ladies are bound to be with broke guys. Yeye

jaycerichh:
If she earns it, Great.