ibkonekt:


hahahaha....if a woman is not a virgin she is not fit to be a wife....she should just settle for being a mistress.
if she really wants to marry then she should confess to her spouse and let him cover her shame of wh0redom

Exodus 22:16-17
“If a man seduces a virgin who is not betrothed and lies with her, he shall give the bride-price for her and make her his wife. If her father utterly refuses to give her to him, he shall pay money equal to the bride-price for virgins.

Deuteronomy 22:13-21
“If any man takes a wife and goes in to her and then hates her and accuses her of misconduct and brings a bad name upon her, saying, ‘I took this woman, and when I came near her, I did not find in her evidence of virginity,’ then the father of the young woman and her mother shall take and bring out the evidence of her virginity to the elders of the city in the gate. And the father of the young woman shall say to the elders, ‘I gave my daughter to this man to marry, and he hates her; and behold, he has accused her of misconduct, saying, “I did not find in your daughter evidence of virginity.” And yet this is the evidence of my daughter's virginity.’ And they shall spread the cloak before the elders of the city. .

Deuteronomy 22:20-21
But if the thing is true, that evidence of virginity was not found in the young woman, then they shall bring out the young woman to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she has done an outrageous thing in Israel by whoring in her father's house. So you shall purge the evil from your midst.

Esther 2:2
Then the king's young men who attended him said, “Let beautiful young virgins be sought out for the king.

Leviticus 21:14
A widow, or a divorced woman, or a woman who has been defiled, or a prostitute, these he shall not marry. But he shall take as his wife a virgin of his own people

Ezekiel 44:22
They shall not marry a widow or a divorced woman, but only virgins of the offspring of the house of Israel, or a widow who is the widow of a priest.

Leviticus 21:13
And he shall take a wife in her virginity.

[/b]Exodus 22:16
“If a man seduces a virgin who is not betrothed and lies with her, he shall give the bride-price for her and make her his wife.[b]

oga,you sef no even dey read wetin you dey post!!!
If you've disvirgined any girl,you better start looking for her and start gathering money for bride price.

Anyways,since virginity is your criteria for a good woman,your choice.
It doesn't change the fact that you'll have to provide for your family.
I don't even know why you got triggered by my initial post

blinkz4real:
All of you re agreeing to this because you re all poor or if you re not poor then you have a poor mindset jst priviledge to have it. if you can't pay her bills pls free this girls for other guys to date and don't go about complaining about girls just go and hustle more or better still find your spec.

I wonder the type of men society is raising up this days just shying away from taking care of the women they claim 2 love in d name of its just a relationship.

Pls stop all this bashing of women its poverty that is disturbing you but you don't want 2 accept it. Women re suppose 2 be well treated and pampered because the re not wired to suffer. Have you checked out how the were first created? From a mans Rib(what does that mean 2 you?)


If you can shadow her responsibility pls do but if its beyond you go and work harder so that you won't be complaining she has entitlement mentality. You can call me a simp but real men handle their woman's needs.

so it is men that are wired to suffer or what....i hope you did not use hard drugs before talking

they dont have poor mindset, they are just avoiding damaged goods women. why should a man spend money on a wh0re after giving her virtue to a random man. you are the one being entitled by demanding a man must pay your bills, broke-girls-gang. i saw you say if you cant pay her bills free her....sounds like a prostitute talking...just saying.
women have been brainwashed by feminism and music thinking men owe them and must cater to them when they have nothing of value to chase after...notice the main reason men talk to women is because they want to FVCK them, and 99% of women have given that to 769men already hosting multiple DNA samples. the only valuable woman is one that resisted this kept her beauty youth and fertility then i will spend all my 500million naira to marry her.

men are not bashing women, we are trying to make them better, since their fathers and society has refused to hold them accountable and to any standards....men have said they will not marry Wh0res again. only young virgins should be treated like queens while non virgins are to be used by multiple men for use and dump. they are the ones that decided to sleep around like hyenas

nobody wants to shadow a Wh0RE, maybe except she confesses to her spouse then he will cover her shame.....otherwise they are just garden tools to till the floor with

Alexaonfleek:
oga,you sef no even dey read wetin you dey post!!!
If you've disvirgined any girl,you better start looking for her and start gathering money for bride price.

Anyways,since virginity is your criteria for a good woman,your choice.
It doesn't change the fact that you'll have to provide for your family.
I don't even know why you got triggered by my initial post

i responded because you were one sided.
i have not disvirgined. if i see a virgin i will probably take her serious and marry.
i never said a man should not provide...i said a man should provide only for virgins. because u stated the "worse than infidel quote". so if you are not a virgin you should not be provided for.
virginity is the bible choice not my choice....you saw how many times bible mentioned it...that was the basis of your initial post...so go figure.
i dont know why you are defending wh0redom so fiercely

Toks2008:
Whilst it is very sacrosanct for a guy to avoid stinginess towards a lady he deeply desires, I strongly believe that It is perfectly normal for any lady to want to be with a guy who can provide but not for her needs but for his family and until she becomes part of his family she has no right whatsoever to make demands except what the guy chooses to give to her.

Many ladies are quick to say... "I can't be with a man who can not take care of me, I can't suffer from any man''... and I tend to ponder over this statement...'' does it mean their ability to make wealth is dependent on a man or are they destined to suffer without a man fending for them?''...

In My opinion, the entitlement mentality is an easy bondage every woman must avoid at all costs. It breeds redundancy and loss of self-worth... It makes them look like leech only in search of a host to feed on. .. gives them a deluded self-belief and inflated sense of importance and in most cases makes them easy prey for sexual predators and men with Satanic motives.

I want ladies reading this to understand this homemade truth... YOU don't need any "well to do" man in your life before you can survive or make wealth regardless of your background, ... It is a silly mindset. You can make insane wealth all by yourself and this should be the paramount focus so that meeting a man ''who can take care of you'' will only be a plus and not a hustle...

Hope this makes sense.

Self entitlement is one major ugly trait ingrained in the DNA of the average 9ja girl..but I have learnt to deal with them when I see such nonsense displayed..

ibkonekt:


i responded because you were one sided.
i have not disvirgined. if i see a virgin i will probably take her serious and marry.
i never said a man should not provide...i said a man should provide only for virgins. because u stated the "worse than infidel quote". so if you are not a virgin you should not be provided for.
virginity is the bible choice not my choice....you saw how many times bible mentioned it...that was the basis of your initial post...so go figure.
i dont know why you are defending wh0redom so fiercely

Oga,you're the one defending wh0redom here.
Same Bible admonishes that you shouldn't have sex before marriage,so you're not entirely pure too.
And seriously 'nonvirgins should not be provided for?'
I'm done with this back and forth with you.
Goodnight.

Alexaonfleek:

Oga,you're the one defending wh0redom here.
Same Bible admonishes that you shouldn't have sex before marriage,so you're not entirely pure too.
And seriously 'nonvirgins should not be provided for?'
I'm done with this back and forth with you.
Goodnight.

look here lady, you seem confused. i know i am not pure. i never claimed to be.
its women that DEMAND resources from men and i said only virgins can demand that.
a non-virgin must confess to her spouse and have her shame covered, or else she is a worthless wh0re of babylon.
if you like write you are done 1 million times, as long as you spread mis-information and promote female whoredom. class will be put in session to clear your indoctrinated and corrupted mind.
sweet dreams

ibkonekt:


there is no problem here, this is female nature. this is hypergamy, women only date up. men know that women are attracted to 6feettall, 6 figure income, 6 inch manhood (mark of the beast). the point is a woman always desires a man that is above her financially, intellectually and in all ways. this is normal and healthy and is good.

the problem is this demand comes with responsibilities because nothing in life is free. if you want a high value man then he also has his demands that you must meet. so men dont really care about a womans wealth. we care about her sexual history, her beauty, her youth, her child bearing ability...these are the innate things that men desire first and foremost.

so to be fair the balance would be you can demand the highest value man as a woman if you are in your highest peak fertility as a woman. successful tall rich intelligent man and young pretty virgin loyal woman

Only one thing stood out to me. This virgin requirement. Is the guy also a virgin?

Noted

HeavenlyCherub:


Only one thing stood out to me. This virgin requirement. Is the guy also a virgin?

NO...and the reason why is because men and women are different in wants and needs.
it sounds misogynistic but thats the real truth.
infact depending on his value in society the more high quality women he has bedded the more attractive he is to other women because women have herd mentality, they see other high quality girls wanted their man and they think if she wanted him then i should want him too....take note i am referring to proper girls not Street WH0RES

daddymummy:
That is what i use to say.

Is it fair that there are 2 genders in this world(males and females) but females are carrying themselves as if they are higher than males sexually?

That is why they place demands on men when it comes to relationship.

It is this sexual superiority mentality that makes them do so.

Why should it be so?

Men have their sex organs and females also have their own.

One gender needs another to be satisfied

What then makes a woman to feel her sex organs is more important than that of men?

Do they not go to toilet and also urinate using their sex organs?

They even discharge more impurities via their sex organs(like menses and other impurities) more than males.

But they(females) carry themselves so arrogantly that they are superior to males.

They believe a man must pay to have them,a man must spend to have them.

A man is the one that will behave well in order to have them.

But women believe they need not behave well.

Is it fair to the male gender that they must behave properly/excellently in his interaction with females but a woman does not need to behave

properly towards a man ?

That is why if a man does not behave properly while interacting with females,the females will say the man is behaving like a woman.Can you imagine that.

She treats you anyhow/badly but she does not expect you to treat her anyhow/badly.



So to treat others anyhow is only the right of women,abi?

A man must always respect and treat a woman well but a woman can act anyhow?

If a man stands up for his right against a woman,they say he is not man enough(or is acting like a woman),but if a woman stands up for her right

against a man,everybody will applaud and support her

Why?

Na true you talk my brother

HeavenlyCherub:


Only one thing stood out to me. This virgin requirement. Is the guy also a virgin?

The guy is spending His own money on His body, it's his money we are talking about here. He that pays the Piper dictate the tone.

Freeeanijor:
The guy is spending His own money on His body, it's his money we are talking about here. He that pays the Piper dictate the tone.

That is why it’s important for a woman to have their own money. Ladies on the blog. If you depend on a man they will buy you and treat you like meat.

ibkonekt:


NO...and the reason why is because men and women are different in wants and needs.
it sounds misogynistic but thats the real truth.
infact depending on his value in society the more women he has bedded the more attractive he is to other women

Ok

HeavenlyCherub:


That is why it’s important for a woman to have their own money. Ladies on the blog. If you depend on a man they will buy you and treat you like meat.

You owe your kind a duty to preach the gospel of value to them. Let them bring value to the bargaining table. That would be awesome, what do you think?
Proverbs 31:10-31
10 Who can find a capable wife? Her value is far more than that of corals. 11 Her husband trusts her from his heart, And he lacks nothing of value.12 She rewards him with good, not bad, All the days of her life.
13 She obtains wool and linen; She delights to work with her hands. 14 She is like the ships of a merchant, Bringing her food in from afar. 15 She also rises while it is still night, Providing food for her household And portions for her female servants 16 She sets her mind on a field and buys it; She plants a vineyard from her own labors. 17 She prepares herself for hard work, And she strengthens her arms. 18 She sees that her trading is profitable; Her lamp does not go out at night. 19 Her hands seize the distaff,And her hands take hold of the spindle. 20 She extends her palm to the lowly one,And she opens her hands to the poor. 21 She does not worry about her household because of the snow, For her whole household is clothed in warm garments. 22 She makes her own bed covers.Her clothing is of linen and purple wool. 23 Her husband is well-known in the city gates,Where he sits among the elders of the land. 24 She makes and sells linen garmentsAnd supplies belts to the merchants. 25 She is clothed with strength and splendor, And she looks to the future with confidence. 26 She opens her mouth in wisdom; The law of kindness is on her tongue. 27 She watches over the activity of her household, And the bread of laziness she does not eat. 28 Her children rise up and declare her happy; Her husband rises up and praises her. 29 There are many capable women, But you—you surpass them all. 30 Charm may be false, and beauty may be fleeting, But the woman who fears God will be praised. 31 Give her the reward for what she does, And let her works praise her in the city gate.

Proverbs 30:15-16 The leeches have two daughters that cry, “Give! Give!”There are three things that do not get satisfied,Four that never say, “Enough!” 16 —The Grave and a barren womb,A land that is deprived of water,And fire that never says, “Enough!”

SweetCunt97:
Do not offend me! That one is valid naw, abi I come make one guy dey offend me anyhow?


Men should drop this their entitlement to pvssy too. I know una argument go be say na the woman enjoy pass but then must you all be focused on the coochie?

You'll hear stupid talk about sex showing love.. Bullshiit

we are entitled to that pus5y and we deserve it. No pus5y no relationship.

HeavenlyCherub:


This is what I have said a million times. But the fact you desire a successful man is a problem to a lot of broke men. What’s the problem, I’m successful I can do it on my own. Why is it a problem for me to desire a successful man. Automatically you are labeled a leech and a gold digger by the men on Nairaland

Wrong!!!

At least, I didn't say it was bad to desire a successful man. People have priorities. You keep missing the point I tried on the other thread to pass on to you.

Your attitude was the major issue. You made it seem like you did broke men a favour by dating them. You may have been born into wealth but you weren't born successful. The fact that you termed men who disagreed with your mindset broke(not even stingy like the other thread) says a lot about your own character too.

At least 5 of the men who countered you on the other thread are millionaires that I'm aware of. One worked in a multinational oil company for fuq sakes.

luminouz:



Wrong!!!

At least, I didn't say it was bad to desire a successful man. People have priorities. You keep missing the point I tried on the other thread to pass on to you.

Your attitude was the major issue. You made it seem like you did broke men a favour by dating them. You may have been born into wealth but you weren't born successful. The fact that you termed men who disagreed with your mindset broke(not even stingy like the other thread) says a lot about your own character too.

At least 5 of the men who countered you on the other thread are millionaires that I'm aware of. One worked in a multinational oil company for fuq sakes.

Ok

HeavenlyCherub:


Ok

take care

honestly no matter how many women howl online, the reality is that they dont want to do the hard and dangerous jobs that will bring money, MOST WOMEN ARE NOT WILLING TO BRING FINANCES TO THE TABLE.. once a woman faces challenges her options are usually in this order.

1. sell her body for sex....women can argue all they want girls that don,t need to do prostitution are making excuses just to earn cheap money because they dont want to hustle and do some menial jobs while at school or while waiting for a bigger job. they prefer prostitution

2. look for a rich man to marry...this is just female hypergamy, a woman waste money on useless vanity, puts herself in debt and starts looking for a millionaire to offset her bills.

3. look for the easiest job to make ends meet....look for jobs that wont stress them e.g HR JOBS, personal assistant jobs...but jobs like oil rigs, bricklayer, and hard labour jobs. they will avoid like a plague.

4. if all fails then she would do the hard job and actually make money....this is when she actually wakes up and does something for herself only after 1,2,3 has failed her

so before a woman can get to number 4, she has probably gotten damaged mentally beyond repair...still the outcome is for a better woman in society but worse for a relationship

True Talk

i am laughing...

i just had a funny experience some days back..

one of my funny lady friends called me for money...

like me I don't give ladies free money oo.., money that I suffer for..under this harsh economic climate!!

do u know that this lady asked for X naira, so based on compassion I decided that I will send her X/2 naira...

guess wat.. she started threatening me.. that if I cant send her the X naira.. i should just forget, dis dat dat dat etc...
Omo see me see wahala..., for my own money that I worked for..? not that she just delivered any services like Bleep, advise, cooking, companionship, supplying goods, laptop etc..

i had to tell straight up... girl.. u can go and hang urself for all that I care.. am not giving u any 1kobo from my legal hard earned money.., I dropped the call.. blocked her line asap..

what a nonsense.. as if her father gave me money to keep for her...

Well, economy is tough. Good paying jobs a few for anyone, even worse for women.

Why guys can do labourer, yahoo and so on girls do not.

The easiest way out is getting from guys. Not all ladies get a good, wealthy guy to marry right away. So many must manage those with change in their pocket.

If a lady is lazy, has no drive, has no plans to better herself, only wants to grab as much as she can, please let her be. Nothing you do will ever be enough for her. Because she cannot supplement your assistance with her own proper earning. Eternal leech.

It is a big social issue. It appears a man is only good enough because of his money. A woman only has her body to offer in exchange. A very bizarre kind of bazaar. Trade by barter even.

Ultimately it diminishes the dignity of both genders.

Of course despite the prevalence of the above, some people, of both genders still have a healthier approach to relationship. We need far more of those.

rockstarB:
I think it has become more of a cultural thing than the real entitlement itself. Upbringing, society and culture adds to this as well.

It is call dowry

ibkonekt:


they dont have poor mindset, they are just avoiding damaged goods women. why should a man spend money on a wh0re after giving her virtue to a random man. you are the one being entitled by demanding a man should pay your bills, broke-girls-gang. i saw you say if you cant pay her bills free her....sounds like a prostitute talking...just saying.
women have been brainwashed by feminism and music thinking men owe them and must cater to them when they have nothing of value to chase after...notice the main reason men talk to women is because they want to FVCK them, and 99% of women have given that to 769men already hosting multiple DNA samples. the only valuable woman is one that resisted this kept her beauty youth and fertility then i will spend all my 500million naira to marry her.

men are not bashing women, we are trying to make them better, since their fathers and society has refused to hold them accountable and to any standards....men have said they will not marry Wh0res anddain. only young virgins should be treated like queens while non virgins are to be used by multiple men for use and dump. they are the ones that decided to sleep around like hyenas

nobody wants to shadow a Wh0RE, maybe except she confesses to her spouse then he will cover her shame.....otherwise they are just garden tools to till the floor with

When men keep raping babies,ladies and animals for where dem wan see virgin catch, apart from Deceiving dem like satan to sleep with dem.....oga are you and the female members of your family virgins or you are insanely looking for one in another family when you aren't one

Women should learn to work to help the man times have changed

favinvest:
i am laughing...

i just had a funny experience some days back..

one of my funny lady friends called me for money...

like me I don't give ladies free money oo.., money that I suffer for..under this harsh economic climate!!

do u know that this lady asked for X naira, so based on compassion I decided that I will send her X/2 naira...

guess wat.. she started threatening me.. that if I cant send her the X naira.. i should just forget, dis dat dat dat etc...
Omo see me see wahala..., for my own money that I worked for..? not that she just delivered any services like Bleep, advise, cooking, companionship, supplying goods, laptop etc..

i had to tell straight up... girl.. u can go and hang urself for all that I care.. am not giving u any 1kobo from my legal hard earned money.., I dropped the call.. blocked her line asap..

what a nonsense.. as if her father gave me money to keep for her...

maybe u gave her the impression that your whole life centers around her hence the threats when u didnt send her the complete money.babe wey go issue u threats na d type wey don see u finish completly.Its wiser wen a girl behaves like that to u then u cut off from her.That blocking was a wise choice.If to say as she threaten u then u come send her the money she ask for na insults she for dey insult u next time.but for her to resort to threats she don already see u finish.

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ashewoboy:
awon feminist will not like this.


awon alpha males will like this.

Feminist believe they can stand on their own so you are wrong with this comment. They will definitely like this post

sharone21:



When men keep raping babies,ladies and animals for where dem wan see virgin catch, apart from Deceiving dem like satan to sleep with dem.....oga are you and the female members of your family virgins or you are insanely looking for one in another family when you aren't one

this defence is full is hole.
first of all. i do not encourage rape....rape is evil and bad, let us just get that clear now
1.yeah there is rape...this is true. but % of women raped that are virgins are less maybe 1% the others being raped are all Wh0res of babylon...are you going to say you are not aware of excessive high number of girls that are into prostitution...online, on the streets...rape my foot they are all Dirty Wh0res. virgins are rarely raped, so that argument is just a slut trying to mix her dirty blood among the pure bloods in order to try save face. i say again once a woman was defiled out of wedlock then she carries a shame. if she continues in this behaviour then she is a wh0re of babylon.

you say they deceive girls....hmmmm..well, according to man's law
1. if the girl being deceived is underage and the man above 18 then yes you are correct, such a man should be dealt with in the worst punishment available.
2. if they are both underage there is no crime on either...they are both fools then...even though the woman stands to lose more. so maybe she was more gullible
3. if the girl is above 18 and the man is above 18, no crime is committed....nobody is being deceived....the woman chose by her own will and developed senses to give her virtue to a random stranger..you understand the meaning of choice...right...she decided to be a wh0re. maybe society deceived her or peer pressure, it still stands that it was her foolishness that made hr lose her virtue and become filthy.
why are you concerned about my family virginity... ...you are so afraid to deal with someone one on one even on a faceless forum that you have to use emotional blackmail and call family to it.. ...listen ill mannered wench, you will do yourself good to stop sleeping around and change your ways society will lead you astray.

the woman is the gatekeeper of sex, the man is the gatekeeper of relationship and marriage. sleeping around is a woman's fault

ibkonekt:


this defence is full is hole.
first of all. i do not encourage rape....rape is evil and bad, let us just get that clear now
1.yeah there is rape...this is true. but % of women raped that are virgins are less maybe 1% the others being raped are all Wh0res of babylon...are you going to say you are not aware of excessive high number of girls that are into prostitution...online, on the streets...rape my foot they are all Dirty Wh0res. virgins are rarely raped, so that argument is just a slut trying to mix her dirty blood among the pure bloods in order to try save face. i say again once a woman was defiled out of wedlock then she carries a shame. if she continues in this behaviour then she is a wh0re of babylon.

you say they deceive girls....hmmmm..well, according to man's law
1. if the girl being deceived is underage and the man above 18 then yes you are correct, such a man should be dealt with in the worst punishment available.
2. if they are both underage there is no crime on either...they are both fools then...even though the woman stands to lose more. so maybe she was more gullible
3. if the girl is above 18 and the man is above 18, no crime is committed....nobody is being deceived....the woman chose by her own will and developed senses to give her virtue to a random stranger..you understand the meaning of choice...right...she decided to be a wh0re. maybe society deceived her or peer pressure, it still stands that it was her foolishness that made hr lose her virtue and become filthy.
why are you concerned about my family virginity... ...you are so afraid to deal with someone one on one even on a faceless forum that you have to use emotional blackmail and call family to it.. ...listen ill mannered wench, you will do yourself good to stop sleeping around and change your ways society will lead you astray.

the woman is the gatekeeper of sex, the man is the gatekeeper of relationship and marriage. sleeping around is a woman's fault

This is wrong number......sorry I'm not like your family members that cherish sleeping around with entitlement mentality...... Not that you are half as rich as ned nwoko to truly deserve a priceless virgin.

davien:
Treat her like a celebrity and she'll treat you like a fan.

True