Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old she is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary, we have been dating for the past 3 years ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat(almost completed) and also buy a nice car. all this was possible because she was in my life. she assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really be the best thing that has happened to me. we both has never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life during the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustain me Although and never complained.

she later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. she is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserve it.

so because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

since we have been dating she has never ask me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain

Cut the fund for the wedding has she has suggested and buy her a car as wedding gift. That should be worth something

SUPERPACK:
You better start saving the money as she told you, you must be a lucky man. The marriage ceremony is just a day and shouldn't be your concern at all, just remember that you have children on the way that need the money. Just buy her a nice gift and spend even #100,000 on the wedding sef, who dat one epp.

she get sisters, I for like do racket with am, her type is rare.... Please value her the same way she value's you, don't hurt. You are lucky

Kiddogarcia:
What do you want again, give me that 500k,make I use boost my agbo business

Is 500k not too much to boost Agbo business

Alwaysachick:




I tot they said women like this do not exist. Its like op wants to break up, he is looking for an excuse....a silly one.

Even if she cheat on me I am not ready to break up

JOACHINpedro:

You must be a detective

if you check properly you will see that I open this account more than 5 years ago so I might not take the date of a thing serious

Ninobraw:
if you check properly you will see that I open this account more than 5 years ago so I might not take the date of a thing serious

I hope you know she was referring to your previous post. Unless you have time machine

Goldenrod1:
Na only 3 of them remain for this country


Hold her firm

Me, the girl and one girl like that wey never leave heaven

Ninobraw:


Is 500k not too much to boost Agbo business

is there any capital too much to start or boost a business?

You are not supposed to be here in the first place, young man go back home drink no more.

Obviously you’re going through hard times..
I can tell from your comment.
Take it easy bro.
Dont be your own problem.
Cheers

Gideoniteprime4:
afa you fall my hand
instead of you to work hard so that you can give her 5 million
what does she want to use 300k to do??



















































mumu
300k that you will use to add significant thing to your life is what u gave a woman that is not even your wife
and to top it all

SHE REJECTED IT!!!

Goldenrod1:
Na only 3 of them remain for this country


Hold her firm

The first is already a grandmother and the second is probably a mother by now so this dude is having the last one.

The only thing you can do for such a lady is to be totally faithful and never cheat on her.

beezyblaze:
Obviously you’re going through hard times..
I can tell from your comment.
Take it easy bro.
Dont be your own problem.
Cheers

Mumu
Even my hard times is the equivalent of your point of suicide
Monkeys be acting foolish cus they have the chance of using an itel a33
''cheers''

Liesssss



Liesssss



Liiiieesssssssss

I don't know why I don't think this story is true sha. You guys have been dating for three years. She was 21 the time she met you and she just gave you 2million naira? What was she into then abeg?

OP, sorry is that girl naija born and bred?? Which tribe pls

paulolee:
na wah o

Paul why do you think everyone is a motherfuking hypocrite

Swissheart:
My question is how come you were 27years on 04th July and you are 29years today? How are you growing?

Geometrically

Why I nor believe this story?

Humanoid01:
Which kind wahala be this? The only thing I have to say is you have created an avenue for ladies on this forum to bash men.

How?
Why?
Where? What's there in this story to bash?

A guy loves his girlfriend and wants to cherish her. Why would women bash men over this?

Or do you mean women will compare, thus putting unnecessary stress on the men folk?

Only if you know wetin God give you.
The remaining 500k save it and add money to it and get a nice car

Sixfeetbelle:


How?
Why?
Where? What's there in this story to bash?

A guy loves his girlfriend and wants to cherish her. Why would women bash men over this?

Or do you mean women will compare, thus putting unnecessary stress on the men folk?

Here's a little task:

Checkout the post of the lady on this thread at 3:36 pm yesterday. That's exactly what I meant.

Humanoid01:

Here's a little task:

Checkout the post of the lady on this thread at 3:36 pm yesterday. That's exactly what I meant.

Okay.

Gideoniteprime4:
afa you fall my hand
instead of you to work hard so that you can give her 5 million
what does she want to use 300k to do??



















































mumu
300k that you will use to add significant thing to your life is what u gave a woman that is not even your wife
and to top it all

SHE REJECTED IT!!!

u are the BIGGEST MUMU! Read to understand, not to argue, or judge.

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old she is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary, we have been dating for the past 3 years ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat(almost completed) and also buy a nice car. all this was possible because she was in my life. she assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really be the best thing that has happened to me. we both has never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life during the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustain me Although and never complained.

she later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. she is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserve it.

so because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

since we have been dating she has never ask me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain

Oga! Stop thinking like a toddler. Is wedding a form of compensation? Is it an investment? You have a woman reasoning properly like a man should and you are reasoning like many women do. You better sit up and man up. You will do right by her if you invest properly in your future and build a good life together. Not a wedding.
Since you have been attending weddings, have you ever walked up to the celebrants to thank them for the food and everything? I guess not. So why would you want to waste money on an event that would last five hours when you aren't a rich person?

Give yourselves a good life. That's all she wants.

Gideoniteprime4:
afa you fall my hand
instead of you to work hard so that you can give her 5 million
what does she want to use 300k to do??



















































mumu
300k that you will use to add significant thing to your life is what u gave a woman that is not even your wife
and to top it all

SHE REJECTED IT!!!

Your brain must be leaking, don't you read the part Op said she gave him #2m? You need help

Why do people love lying unnecessarily

Gideoniteprime4:

Mumu
Even my hard times is the equivalent of your point of suicide
Monkeys be acting foolish cus they have the chance of using an itel a33
''cheers''

Lol...
If you need help ask.

Swissheart:
My question is how come you were 27years on 04th July and you are 29years today? How are you growing?

Oya off your mic... No loud am

Hmm this guy u dey grow fast ooh ,from 27 to 29 under the same month

Don't tell me is that nurse u had unprotected sex with and u are afraid she might get pregnant.... nurses don't get pregnant only if they want to get pregnant.....but wait a minute are u sure this ur babe nah Nigeria girl.... please do she has younger sisters that reason like her....pls I need her number help a brother

Bia why are you this bitter with him na? He is not the cause of your poverty na

Gideoniteprime4:

Mumu
Even my hard times is the equivalent of your point of suicide
Monkeys be acting foolish cus they have the chance of using an itel a33
''cheers''