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Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by emmanuelewumi(m): 10:06am On Jul 23, 2020
angelfallz:
Please where did you learn the statement that is in that quote?
That is statement is shocking!
Enhance wealth creation?.... my God!!!
Different strokes for different folks.

Value is relative.
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by angelfallz(m): 10:07am On Jul 23, 2020
emmanuelewumi:
Marriage is a business to the ladies and men should view it from that point of view

Men should support and encourage the wealth creation abilities of their wives


I have my investments, my wife has her investments, we also have investments that are jointly owned by us
Wow. All i can say is, your marriage beliefs are totally business driven. Anyway do what works best for you. But be careful no matter what we do in this life, there are consequences.

Also, marriage is only a business to ladies that view marriage as a business.
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by emmanuelewumi(m): 10:19am On Jul 23, 2020
angelfallz:
Wow. All i can say is, your marriage beliefs are totally business driven. Anyway do what works best for you. But be careful no matter what we do in this life, there are consequences.

Also, marriage is only a business to ladies that view marriage as a business.
It is a business that should enhance the overall productivity, profitability and wealth of the team and that of the partners. Reason why it is very important to scrutinize the people you invite to join your team, their competencies, values they can add and the comparative advantages, which will enhance the continuity, sustainability and long term profitability of the business. It is when these are considered that you can continue to have dividends.


I will never advise a lady to date a man that can't add value to her, same way a guy should not date a lady that can't add value to him


Different strokes for different folks.
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by ibkonekt(m): 10:22am On Jul 23, 2020
emmanuelewumi:
Karma is a ruthless bitch, same way some egoistic Nigerian guys who claimed they are Alpha males fvcked bitches in the US for decades and decided to come to Nigeria to shop for virgins in their villages when they wanted to get married because they could not get any in the US.
Too bad their virgin wives are now making life so unbeatable for these guys, some lost all they worked for. They trained their virgin wives to become registered nurses so as to live off them, but it turned out to be investments without returns.
The frustration and bitterness, now made some of this egoistic Nigerian men kill and maim their wives, not considering the great bodies and wonderful veejays they held in high esteem.
In Investment value should increase and appreciate with time,
Are you saying the alpha male should have married the sluts he was bedding in the usa rather than a virgin. It makes no sense there is more value in a virgin body wise.
You may want to claim that he should seek companionship and connection etc….and I would say such can be gotten in a young virgin as well….so which narrows down your narrative of a man being with an unbearable woman to just the man choosing poorly. Behavoiur is not unique to virginity, HOWEVER if a man is to choose then the best option is virgin and well behaved.
Besides the scenario you painted (about 97%) is much more prevalent with old wh0re. this is usually a wh0re trait
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by angelfallz(m): 10:22am On Jul 23, 2020
Athemisia:
Don't mind @Ubunja... just they yan opata... young ladies don't know what they want... they feel because they are young they will always get another better guy... unlike older ladies who have learnt their lessons and now understand what they want
This exact thing you said here is exactly what Rollo Tomassi spoke about in his book, The Rational Male; Positive Masculinity.
Where he spoke about how the BETA male would willingly accept a woman that has prostituted herself during her peak Sexual Market Value years; early to mid 20s. Believing that the said woman has finally learnt her lessons and now accepts him as the good man that has been there for her all along.

WOW!! ROLLO TOMASSI WHEREVER YOU ARE, YOU'RE AN ORACLE!!
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by emmanuelewumi(m): 10:24am On Jul 23, 2020
ibkonekt:
Are you saying the alpha male should have married the sluts he was bedding in the usa rather than a virgin. It makes no sense there is more value in a virgin body wise.
You may want to claim that he should seek companionship and connection etc….and I would say such can be gotten in a young virgin as well….so which narrows down your narrative of a man being with an unbearable woman to just the man choosing poorly. Behavoiur is not unique to virginity, HOWEVER if a man is to choose then the best option is virgin and well behaved.
Besides the scenario you painted (about 97%) is much more prevalent with old wh0re. this is usually a wh0re trait
Never, they should NOT marry them ooo.

Only wrote about that ruthless bitch called Karma
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by angelfallz(m): 10:26am On Jul 23, 2020
ubunja:
if they were as important to you as you claim they are, you wouldn't base them on a woman, someone who can wake up the next morning with a change of emotions. Ask Jeff Bezos how that worked out for him.
That is one of the flaws in his thinking. I wanted to point out to him, that if he truly was that business oriented, he would have looked for partnerships and good business opportunities to invest in. Dangote, Otedola etc did not base wealth creation on women. i realised the guy is too far gone to reason with, so i kept it to myself
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by RealEzee(m): 10:29am On Jul 23, 2020
emmanuelewumi:
Karma is a ruthless bitch, same way some egoistic Nigerian guys who claimed they are Alpha males fvcked bitches in the US for decades and decided to come to Nigeria to shop for virgins in their villages when they wanted to get married because they could not get any in the US.

Too bad their virgin wives are now making life so unbeatable for these guys, some lost all they worked for. They trained their virgin wives to become registered nurses so as to live off them, but it turned out to be investments without returns.

The frustration and bitterness, now made some of this egoistic Nigerian men kill and maim their wives, not considering the great bodies and wonderful veejays they held in high esteem.


In Investment value should increase and appreciate with time,
no be lie bro, this one too dey oo.
Sha make everyone dey ok Las Las, at times environment sef dey cos problem, over here some of them will humble themselves, I mean babes, while guys be forming alphas, but when the playing field is changed to outside Naija hmmm... Those babes turn alpha ooo lol, strip the guy ex alpha of all his red pills grin.
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by ibkonekt(m): 10:31am On Jul 23, 2020
emmanuelewumi:
Never, they should NOT marry them ooo.

Only wrote about that ruthless bitch called Karma
well if a man wronged a woman then karma can hold, but if the man always told the ladies that he bedded that he just wants a fling or friends with benefit....karma cannot hold. anyway my point is karma can only hold when a promise is broken and deceit has been done from one person to the other. if this did not occur with a guy despite bedding multiple women karma will not hold..but if he did promise a girl marriage just to sleep with her virgin or not then karma will hold..eitherway this karma topic is about deception and doing evil to someone else not virginity and sleeping around.
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by emmanuelewumi(m): 10:31am On Jul 23, 2020
angelfallz:
That is one of the flaws in his thinking. I wanted to point out to him, that if he truly was that business oriented, he would have looked for partnerships and good business opportunities to invest in. Dangote, Otedola etc did not base wealth creation on women. i realised the guy is too far gone to reason with, so i kept it to myself
Otedola married from his social class, currently Dangote is a bachelor. Alhaji is married to his businesses.
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by angelfallz(m): 10:32am On Jul 23, 2020
ubunja:
coming from a married man that's hilarious
i just hope that nobody is sleeping with his wife.
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by Karlifate:
Jeff Bezos was having an affair with Lauren Sanchez, before his divorce with McKenzie.
He should not be used as an example in this case.
ubunja:
if they were as important to you as you claim they are, you wouldn't base them on a woman, someone who can wake up the next morning with a change of emotions. Ask Jeff Bezos how that worked out for him.
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by emmanuelewumi(m): 10:34am On Jul 23, 2020
ibkonekt:
well if a man wronged a woman then karma can hold, but if the man always told the ladies that he bedded that he just wants a fling or friends with benefit....karma cannot hold. anyway my point is karma can only hold when a promise is broken and deceit has been done from one person to the other. if this did not occur with a guy despite bedding multiple women karma will not hold..but if he did promise a girl marriage just to sleep with her virgin or not then karma will hold..eitherway this karma topic is about deception and doing evil to someone else not virginity and sleeping around.
The karma could be from the numerous virgins he cajoled and he failed to marry them. Mainwhile those virgins agreed to bed him because of his assurance of marriage.

Wetin I sabi sef
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by emmanuelewumi(m): 10:35am On Jul 23, 2020
Karlifate:
Jeff Bezos was having an affair with Lauren Sanchez before his divorce with McKenzie.
He should not be used as an example in this case.
His wife was even considerate not like average American women, that would have gotten half of his wealth
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by ibkonekt(m): 10:36am On Jul 23, 2020
emmanuelewumi:
The karma could be from the numerous virgins he cajoled and he failed to marry them. Mainwhile those virgins agreed to bed him because of his assurance of marriage.

Wetin I sabi sef
this is correct, and i agree that such a guy should be messed up for his deceit, but it is dependent on an IF scenario though....however no argument here.
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by ibkonekt(m): 10:40am On Jul 23, 2020
ubunja:
if they were as important to you as you claim they are, you wouldn't base them on a woman, someone who can wake up the next morning with a change of emotions. Ask Jeff Bezos how that worked out for him.
Jeff Bezos should have follwed in leonardo dicaprio footsteps....now he lost 38billion dollars
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by Karlifate:
emmanuelewumi:
His wife was even considerate not like average American women, that would have gotten half of his wealth
Right...
She only took 38B Dollars, out of over 150B Dollars.
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by emmanuelewumi(m):
RealEzee:
no be lie bro, this one too dey oo.
Sha make everyone dey ok Las Las, at times environment sef dey cos problem, over here some of them will humble themselves, I mean babes, while guys be forming alphas, but when the playing field is changed to outside Naija hmmm... Those babes turn alpha ooo lol, strip the guy ex alpha of all his red pills grin.
Red pill is good.

Men should use it to be street wise, to be rational, protect their purse, build wealth, defend their wealth, be prepared for surprises, develop their emotions, have a back up and be resourceful
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by emmanuelewumi(m): 10:45am On Jul 23, 2020
ibkonekt:
Jeff Bezos should have follwed in leonardo dicaprio footsteps....now he lost 38billion dollars
The law favours women, even in Lagos 70% of the judges are women.

Men should be rational by protecting themselves with all the necessary legal protections.
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by ibkonekt(m): 10:49am On Jul 23, 2020
emmanuelewumi:
The law favours women, even in Lagos 70% of the judges are women.

Men should be rational by protecting themselves with all the necessary legal protections.
yeah, the redpill is the wakeup call for those that wish to listen....for those that dont listen....well they deserve whatever comes.....the system and society is rigged for men to lose
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by angelfallz(m): 10:49am On Jul 23, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Comes with d job.
Wow
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by angelfallz(m): 10:53am On Jul 23, 2020
emmanuelewumi:
It is a business that should enhance the overall productivity, profitability and wealth of the team and that of the partners. Reason why it is very important to scrutinize the people you invite to join your team, their competencies, values they can add and the comparative advantages, which will enhance the continuity, sustainability and long term profitability of the business. It is when these are considered that you can continue to have dividends.


I will never advise a lady to date a man that can't add value to her, same way a guy should not date a lady that can't add value to him


Different strokes for different folks.
you're OYO
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by angelfallz(m): 10:54am On Jul 23, 2020
emmanuelewumi:
Otedola married from his social class, currently Dangote is a bachelor. Alhaji is married to his businesses.
You're OYO
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by emmanuelewumi(m): 10:54am On Jul 23, 2020
ibkonekt:
yeah, the redpill is the wakeup call for those that wish to listen....for those that dont listen....well they deserve whatever comes.....the system and society is rigged for men to lose
You now see reason why the people you invite to join your team, must possess certain qualities, values, competencies, comparative advantages etc, so that one can build a winning team. The credentials of the person who will join the team must go beyond mere great bodies and sweet veejays

Even while building the team you need to use your head
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by RealEzee(m): 10:56am On Jul 23, 2020
emmanuelewumi:
Red pill is good.

Men should use it to be street wise, to be ational, protect their purse, build wealth, defend their wealth, be prepared for surprises, develop their emotions, have a back up and be resourceful
Gbam
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by Athemisia: 11:28am On Jul 23, 2020
angelfallz:
This exact thing you said here is exactly what Rollo Tomassi spoke about in his book, The Rational Male; Positive Masculinity.
Where he spoke about how the BETA male would willingly accept a woman that has prostituted herself during her peak Sexual Market Value years; early to mid 20s. Believing that the said woman has finally learnt her lessons and now accepts him as the good man that has been there for her all along.

WOW!! ROLLO TOMASSI WHEREVER YOU ARE, YOU'RE AN ORACLE!!
Very funny... as if the "good male" in question has not also been having sex all those years as well....

it's very funny how people who are not perfect keep looking for perfection....
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by emmanuelewumi(m): 11:39am On Jul 23, 2020
We have different types of ways men think when they are with ladies or pursuing the opposite sex

We have those who think with their hearts, those who think with their d,cks,and those who think with their heads.
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by ubunja(m): 2:09pm On Jul 23, 2020
Karlifate:
Jeff Bezos was having an affair with Lauren Sanchez before his divorce with McKenzie.
He should not be used as an example in this case.
doesn't matter. In the US even if its the woman having an affair STILL a man loses. And what billionaire is not allowed to cheat? At a certain point your money can buy you anything. That wife is just a sore loser cause she looks like shet now and bezos saw a younger prettier girl.
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by ubunja(m): 2:13pm On Jul 23, 2020
angelfallz:
i just hope that nobody is sleeping with his wife.
lol don't give him nightmares now. These guys don't have any idea how much women love that D.

Bleep your wife like a hoe. Or else gateman gets it
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by Ifeoluwav(f): 2:16pm On Jul 23, 2020
ibkonekt:
let me ask you if a woman tells her people that she has a man that wants to marry her...the first question they will ask is "WHAT DOES HE DO" aka how much does he have...can he provide for you and protect you...these are the things men are valued for....nobody will ever ask if he is a virgin....these questions dont even come up when a virgin girl wants to marry a man.
now for a man to say he wants to marry a woman the first question is "HOW DOES SHE LOOK" aka is she young, is she fertile, is her vagina top quality...women are always valued for their beauty and fertility first and foremost. other attributes are secondary.
in essence a man that is able to bed many girls (not street wh0res) is wanted by many women because of herd mentality, women think if genevieve wants him then he must be a catch...you get the idea....but a woman that has slept around will never ever be wanted by any man no matter the amount of money that she has. that is why she will never tell you the true number of men that she has slept with in her lifetime
this is the reality of life. a man is a hunter and he will attempt to bed as many women as he can, it is the woman's job to tell him that the only way he can get sex is to marry and protect her.
women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gate keepers of marriage and commitment. we each set the standards here.
This is just an excuse for men to be sleeping around. There is no excuse for that.
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by ubunja(m): 2:19pm On Jul 23, 2020
angelfallz:
That is one of the flaws in his thinking. I wanted to point out to him, that if he truly was that business oriented, he would have looked for partnerships and good business opportunities to invest in. Dangote, Otedola etc did not base wealth creation on women. i realised the guy is too far gone to reason with, so i kept it to myself
knowing what i know about women I wouldn't be so confident in my wife the way he's confident in his wife. Female nature is just something else.
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by Ifeoluwav(f): 2:24pm On Jul 23, 2020
ibkonekt:
exactly so if women are free to wh0re around when they want...high value men are wising up to not marry the sluts again....women caused the redpill to flourish by their actions. despite the bible telling us to marry only virgins, men did not think well then...but now...we are breaking the matrix and cleansing the ignorance...i feel sorry for wh0res in the near future.
So men are free to sleep around, but women aren't free? hun. Women keep learning that kind of lifestyle from such men, so if men don't want whores as wives they should stop sleeping with every lady they see because they are encouraging a sluty lifestyle in women. If you can't hold yourselves don't expect women to hold themselves.
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