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If you finally decide not to marry her again because of this, pls send me her contact, I have a responsible man for her

Hello Bro, I admire your relationship but please correct this statement because only God made it possible or rather God used her. we should be careful the way we praise human that God brought our way. All glory goes to God Almighty.

"ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life"

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

she get sense pass you

[quote author=SarkinYarki post=92085993]Wow you are among the very few men that God blesses with a great woman ...listen to her and you will never have problems. ..if she says 500k then agree immediately .. [/quote
Waow

Story for the gods!

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

just talk about your self only bro in aspect of cheating okay...

Bros, i happy for you.

Where is this kind of woman? All I see is slay queens everywhere who have nothing to offer.

Swissheart:
My question is how come you were 27years on 04th July and you are 29years today? How are you growing?

do you believe all this tales by moonlight?

phyya:
I don't know why I don't think this story is true sha. You guys have been dating for three years. She was 21 the time she met you and she just gave you 2million naira? What was she into then abeg?

Me too,I'm intrested in what she's doing
Fake story as usual

LIE MUHAMMED cousin

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

Oga wetin dey you now ,nawa for u ooo ,haha you see a very good lady and advice u ,abeg do wetin she tell u joor ,come ask me story yapa ,,pardon the way I talk just be funny ,but to Frank she is a very good lady ,try and minimize the spending as she told you ,just buy her a gift worth like 100k as some1 advice earlier .

Your wife is wiser and more reasonable than you.

Listen to her.

ChiChilolo:
If she helped you spend the money now owu kwa giwa that would come here and be lambasting how women are materialistic chachacha. Now she's helping you manage and you want to explode your impulses... What do men want sef

This is not a case of what do men want, what we want is exactly what the lady of the op has done, is doing. So the question shd be what does the op want. Cos me sef i tire for am

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

When you were 27 she was 24 and now you are 29 she is still 24, does she not grow at all? You why know why I asked? https://www.nairaland.com/5970179

Please be moderate, marriage isn't dating. It comes with responsibility. Your Bae is my kind of Bae. They can sacrifice their lives for you but you owe them a single duty to luv them truly. Make sure you don't fail that.

Bros i think 500k is too small
My list goes as follows:-

Bride price including gift to the brides family 250,000
Drinks and Food 150,000
Canopies chairs/Event Center 100,000
Wedding gown and ring 70,000
Invitation / programme 25,000
Sourvenier 70000
Cake 20000

My suggestion, with 650,000 your marriage is good to go

Okay. We've heard. You have money. Congrats

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

mehn u lucky many of us only wish for wat u have already.girls like Ur fiancee still dey.biko give me tips hw u take do am to get such babe.my bro follow her advise wedding is jux a day.jux invite few pple for both d traditional Nd white wedding.( a low key wedding).or jux do low key traditional Nd go do blessing of d marriage for church.as for u giving her a wedding DT she deserve Nd she rejecting DT Nd concern about u being establish Nd also her.shows she a very matured lady (which is lacking in today's single ladies) .my advice is Wen u finish d building project Nd both of u are established den buy her a very good car like sienna or car of her choice as appreciation Nd wat Ur woman deserve.

lograr:
I thought you had a problem. Instead you are trying to become a problem

You know say some people are natural problem solvers so even if no problem they will create one so they can have something to solve

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

Wait OP, does she have a sister that behaves like her?

InSanety:
Tales by moonlight.

500k for wedding.

Where in Nigeria, be that?

How many people una wan invite?
Where una dey hold am?


Any decent hall in a decent state, fit cost 150k at the least, for 100 guests o. Except Na for backyard una dey hold am. Drinks go cost you nothing less than 70k, and this one na for 100 guests. 220k don go. If she dey rent wedding dress, 30k don comot at least, for better dress, you fit wear suit wey don tey for your hand, you need music? If you dey pay DJ, another 60k at least, food nko? At least another 150k for 100 guests. Photographer, just one don cost you nothing less than 30k, and no be correct photographer. We never mention souvenirs, but make we assume say that one no dey. We never talk printing invitations, by na Bulk SMA you go do, even that one, money dey am.


This budget fit only hold for States like Osun, Ebonyi and Kebbi. No even reason any South South State.

Na wetin make I know say na lie you set lie. No dey deceive all these kurukere boys for this site, sem go come dey look their babes one kain, because dem think say e get one imaginary babe wey dey like your own, wey go dash them 300k take build house, come feed them through coro.

Where your babe see license to open pharmacy inside this period at that? How much be her salary as nurse wey she dey get all this money? Which work she been dey do wey she raise 2 million before she meet you? She come even dash you the 2 million, her papa na Otedola? 24-year old girl purportedly

Na who no get sense go dey believe this lie

Let's be friend jare, you get too much sense

hmmm. in the midst of this coro things?

lograr:
I thought you had a problem. Instead you are trying to become a problem

I dey tell you.

Mypeople2:
Wait OP, does she have a sister that behaves like her?

I was about asking this question bro.

Chai! U are such a lucky dude bro

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

The only Tangible thing you can do for her now is to perfect the building documents in her name and present it to her as wedding present.

You are not a serious human being. Do you know that you have a daimond in your hand yet you can't see it, you are complaining. Don't let minor issue let you lose that woman. Better listen to her. Why are you spending 1m or more when you can spend less. Listen to her bro. Covid 19 has even given u an opportunity to spend less than 100k. Do d needful

Goldenrod1:
Na only 3 of them remain for this country


Hold her firm

I'm lucky to have ones out of them

you are one of luckiest man on earth, I don't know we still have girls like this in the modern time. my advice for you is that respect her decision, if you want to impressive her support her career by build or get big store for her to make her business grow. big Heineken for you, whalahi life no balance.

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

the only true appreciation is to give her all ur heart without a reservation and don't cheat on her,she would appreciate it more than any physical gift

Swissheart:
My question is how come you were 27years on 04th July and you are 29years today? How are you growing?

Savagery!
Happy birthday

Oboy are you for real or you are just joking ?Anyway,if what you have just typed is true and for real,I beg in you in the name of whatever God you are serving to keep that girl .Pls,Keep her and treat her well.Its not easy to get that type of girl nowadays and you might not even get her type till eternity ,so pls treat her well and keep her.