E be like say u no get sense.

She has not given you go ahead to date her coz she doesn't want double dating and here you are talking about marriage.

u don already fast forward your ideas when you never even enter relationship with her.

Continue, it will end in tears

did she tell u how she bleeped 7 guys at once? damn

@ op, you're thinking ahead of time. It's good and bad at the same time.

Relationship wahala, if she makes you happy, then forget about her past and move on with her, but please do not lead her on if you know you can't get past her past deeds

HeavenlyCherub:


With the help of God. True love conquers all

Leave “true love” abeg. There are somethings you rather not know. He should just breakup.

sylve11:
@ op, you're thinking ahead of time. It's good and bad at the same time.

Lmao! OP is a forecaster.

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The story seems complicated.....

Never start what you won't finish.

Since ignorance is bliss, go and find a different nice lady whose sexual history you don't know. Simple.

Since you won't know the new girl's mileage... you'll be at peace

But OP, for all I know you too have mileage, and you will still play away match... so why the double standard?

If you marry her, it will end in tears

Hope u aren't one of those niggas that have spoiled many girls and now want a virgin for a wife?

If so, who will marry those ones u spoiled?


Everyone got a past. What is past is in past tense, deal with the presence and worry less about the future!


Happy Married Life in advance!!

@Op have you discussed with her about her lifestyle and your intentions for her?
There just might be something you're seeing in the lady that others can't. Funny how life treats genuine lover boys attimes.

Just walk away

You'll always bring it up verbally or none verbally when you quarrel

That's one of the reasons the Bible says the marriage bed is undefiled (better to marry as virgins)

Nairaland has a lot of kids. Smh

SIR0:
There's a girl in my neighborhood who I can refer to as my home sister. We're so close. We share feelings, advice & keep nothing from one another, our love life inclusive.

She has had quite a number of relationships and got disappointed in all. I've had one relationship too.

There was a time I told her about my feelings towards her & she said she would have loved to accept my proposal but she couldn't handle double-dating. Well, I felt okay having let her know my feelings. I understood her decision & I don't think I was ready to be kept as a spare tyre, too. We moved on with our friendship.

We talked both clean and dirty stuff. She would even tell me anytime she felt Hot & needed to see her boyfriend for sex. In short, we are now having mixed feelings for one another. It could no longer be hidden on her face, too.

As a lady, she's expecting me to make the first advance. Making the move is not my problem but the thoughts of some dirty talks we've had together. The most worrying part was a time she got drunk with her friend at a birthday party & she mistakenly called one of her Ex-bfs (who she loved most) over & he took advantage of the moment to have his way with her again. Though she claimed she was not sure if something really happened between them but she noticed she had no pant on when she woke up in the morning, blablabla. To me, the guy is not that reliable as he is into drinking & smoking. She appears too innocent to be dating such a guy & I gave my advice. She might not really disclose all that transpired at the birthday party. I kept thinking the guy could have recorded the act, knowing well that she's stark drunk. What if our relationship leads to marriage & the guy begins threatening her with sex-tape or he leaks any sex tape involving her, how would I go about it? Aside her other sex life, this is most worrisome of all.

My thinking/guess may be wrong, yet I do not want to be caught unaware, to avoid stories that touch later. This is a dilemma for me. I truly love her but my happiness matters a lot.

Don't hesitate to advise a brother.
Kindly overlook any grammatical blunders.

Thanks

Leave her alone. Woman no finish for this life

HeavenlyCherub:


With the help of God. True love conquers all

there's nothing like true love. it only exists in telemundo.

help of God you say?? God didn't send her to be loose before marriage. enough said.

It's better for you to just walk away if you cannot look beyond the past

wisper2jah:
I reserve my comment till it gets to the front page

It has gotten to the front page now.

Oya we need your comments

tega2luv:
Advising from experience, most mistakes we niggas do is that we are sometime too committed knowing about the past of our lovers and if shes honest enough to tell you the truth it starts hurting us and we start judging them whenever they make little mistake in the relationship, I once told my ex gf that her past life is of no interest to me but the present and future and she was open to me and told me severally her stories with guys in the past at a point i asked myself weda this babe still get womb sef, i went ahead out of curiosity to ask her like how many guys have dated her before me she should not lie and she told me excluding me it's around 12 guys, my fellow niaralanders that's the day everything changed bcux I keep wondering those are the numbers of guys when don knack this kpekus when she date oo , how about the ones when she no date when still chop clean mouth, my brother from that moment onwards I begin get double mind and whenever shes not with me I hardly believe anything she tells me bcux I now see her as loosed...to cut long stories short, if you cannot deals with the past of your lover never bother yourself digging what will eventually destroy you, focus on her and forget her past but since you cannot deal with it already kindly let her go in peace, this life no balance at all.

What's about ladies you don't ask about their past and they willingly disclose everything to you making you feel they were not the problem but their previous partners

tega2luv:
Advising from experience, most mistakes we niggas do is that we are sometime too committed knowing about the past of our lovers and if shes honest enough to tell you the truth it starts hurting us and we start judging them whenever they make little mistake in the relationship, I once told my ex gf that her past life is of no interest to me but the present and future and she was open to me and told me severally her stories with guys in the past at a point i asked myself weda this babe still get womb sef, i went ahead out of curiosity to ask her like how many guys have dated her before me she should not lie and she told me excluding me it's around 12 guys, my fellow niaralanders that's the day everything changed bcux I keep wondering those are the numbers of guys when don knack this kpekus when she date oo , how about the ones when she no date when still chop clean mouth, my brother from that moment onwards I begin get double mind and whenever shes not with me I hardly believe anything she tells me bcux I now see her as loosed...to cut long stories short, if you cannot deals with the past of your lover never bother yourself digging what will eventually destroy you, focus on her and forget her past but since you cannot deal with it already kindly let her go in peace, this life no balance at all.

12 X 3 =?

Ur problem with d babe no be say her ex fit get her nude..ur real problem be say her ex just lash her Nd d girl deh lash anyhow..for her to call one of her ex just to cure CONJI mean say body de sweet her well well..

Yankee101:
Just walk away

You'll always bring it up verbally or none verbally when you quarrel

That's one of the reasons the Bible says the marriage bed is undefiled (better to marry as virgins)

thank you very much.

those that don't heed to the words of God should accept whatever comes their way.

stay chaste and leave the bed undefiled but no, Dem dey share their poosay upandan to the tune of a dozen men.- low-key Ashawo. and them go still dey talk say true love conquers all

Send me your phone number let me advice you

czarr:
Let me be honest with you, even though you marry her, one day when you guys have a very bad argument she'll call the guy and he'll take advantage of your situation, if she misses him sef she'll create drama and chaos for an excuse to have space to visit him (she'll come back to you though, because guys like that won't keep her trust me)

He has imprinted on her and there is nothing you can do about it, rid yourself of emotions they are not useful to a man, wear a garment of self respect...that girl is not for you, you need a girl you'd imprint and groom for yourself if not you'd always take second place in her heart..... you may not even be her 4th choice.

Feelings blind you from the truth, purge yourself of feelings so you won't be distracted from your purpose pursuing another man's property....let me ask you this why didn't she call you when she was drunk.....you think she is stupid, she called him on purpose because she wanted him to Fvck her, so I assure you he didn't take advantage of her.

He is the typical bad boy who smokes and drinks but wouldn't commit to her....DON'T SET YOURSELF UP.

wow!

HeavenlyCherub:


With the help of God. True love conquers all

which kind true love? On top 12 dicks plus atleast 4 unofficial dicks X 5 times a month. . X 12


Check the answer below

lbo people are extraordinary people, what a people! what a race,, A race that takes pride in domination, A race that take delight in domination, Dishonesty and cheating are in their blood, No matter how high the personality.

Where ever they go, they want to be the head, they only want to rule, and not to be rule , people with vaulting ambition, whose virtue is lost to wealth.

people whose aim is to colonise any land they set their feet, people whose plan is to force to slavery any race they come across, people who claim to be hard working than other races around the world

when Southern Cameroon was part of Nigeria, lbos were everywhere in the Cameroon, they took control of everything there, the native were regarded as stupid, and were pushed from towns to hamlets.

when the people had their freedom, lbos were told to quit at once, they were kicked out without delay, they were told to go back to their homes, stubborn ones were forced to go.

The people took over their affairs proved their wisdom to lbo race, they managed their affairs with success, they enjoyed in booms of wealth.

when lbos were in Northern Nigeria, the natives were nothing to them, Hausas and fulanis were victimised, Tivs and others were taken as fools, they were pushed out from gainful field.

Their ambition was set on ruling the country, to make other tribes in the federation remain firmly under lbo domination, they conspired and killed Nigeria leaders from other ethics group in the federation, lbo leaders remained in fortification.

On 15th January 1966, their wicked plan was put into action, General lronsi assumed power, and ruled federal Nigeria, lbo people rejoiced everywhere on their achievement of taking over the power.

They mocked Northerners in market squares, They humiliated, scorned and laughed at them, " where is Surdauna your leader" they asked, Thev Lion of the North is death, they laughed, full power is now in our hands, they bragged.


Northerners with tears and anger revolted, they would either live or die with their fathersz they would never live to bear the insult, lbos must at once quit their region, they took the irrevocable decision, to force lbos out of their region.

The people were then able to live, freely in their native lands, free from insults and domination, free from this wandering race of confusion.

On the 29th July 1966, sections of Nigeria army revolted, they kidnapped General lronsi, an lbo leader, as reprisal to lbos vicious acts to the events of January 1966.

July events brought suspension of the federal republic of Nigeria, the country remained without a leader, Three days elapse without a statement, Oh! what a pity was to federal Nigeria.

Praters were on all over the country, Christians and Moslems prayed on together, O! God, have mercy on your people, our country is now in terrible confusion, send us someone to save our nation.

Our father in Heaven with merciful eyes saw with pity the afflicted nation, answered with speed the fervent prayers, He sent out a man to save our country, in YAKUBU GOWON, a chosen saviour.

Drunk + mistakenly dialed ex-boyfriend (the one she loved so much) who 'took' advantage of her?

How convenient.

Sometimes, ignorance is bliss.

First if all am not a smoker and I hate smoking but don't just judge because someone is smoking u think he/she is not realiable... second of all the girl feels free with you..that she thinks she can tell you anything ... having this tought now shows u can't handle it..as a relationship...it's better u guys stay friends...that is just my taught